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ScotHarvath:
For those saying maybe she pays the bills, she doesn’t. I have a nine to five and at least 2 other jobs that pay me well, each month rake in at least 400k depending on the month.


I don’t club, I am not materialistic so I rarely buy clothes, I don’t drink although I smoke. 94% of my earnings is spent on my home, taking care of my family.


Talking about leadership, how else do you want to lead a woman.

I have told her countless time to start reading, stop waking up late, start waking up early to plan your day, learn new skills, stop speaking pidgin, and do away with unnecessary friends. After a few weeks or days we are back to square one. There was a time I even called the brother to help talk to her about her attitude all to no avail.

She won't change her attitude, we know people like that. It is possible that she doesn't love you anymore but just decide to stay due to the financial gain she's benefiting from you. At least, you are feeding her and taking care of the house. You have to man up and take decisions that show you are the boss.
Why can't you threaten her with separation and watch what comes out of it?

ScotHarvath:
She said she is tired and wants to go and if I wouldn’t fight for us, I should let her go.

She's threatening you and blackmailing you emotionally. She has your button in the meantime

What have I been doing these past years?

It just hit me this morning that I might really have to let her go, if she comes back fine, if not; God knows best.

If I was the monster and beast she has been calling me for years, she won’t have stuck around till now.

You are still emotionally attached to her. She should keep pushing you until you too don't feel anything for her anymore. Na dat time she go know.

cococandy:
OP could have divorced since.

I’m a supporter of divorce especially when such deep bitterness seems to be between them. Instead he chose to come here to recruit women haters into his campaign of calumny.

I guess he's still exploring possible solutions before it gets to that point. And there is nothing about few rants until one is finally fed up

Kaycee9242:
Noise maker you go soon collect, you underate the power of an incumbent governor

Governor is as powerless as as local government chairman. He doesn't control police, military or NSCDC.

Bobloco:
Why is he calling on Tinubu to intervene?

Does Tinubu have the power to elongate his tenure beyond what the law provides? 

Nwanosike is taking this too personally. He should respect himself and go home, or, better still, relocate to Abuja. Maybe just maybe Wike might make him AMAC council chairman since he wants to remain a local government chairman for life.

Your gov Fubara is handicapped and powerless, that's why you guys turned to emergency adviser instead of dealing with the chairman who refused to obey your order

DamnnNiggarr:


I know it will be a woman that will write this.
So, tell us reasons why husbands cheat on their wives, if there's any.

Instead of cheating in the marriage, why not walk away if you can't condone his/her shortcomings anymore.

Walking away is not that easy

sacajawea:
Get something to do with your life...
What a stūpid Article.

We suppose don pass all this level by now, abi?

It is a good topic. Take your problem away from this thread

hurryup123:
Rivers state is hot as we speak
But fubara is in charge

Say No To godfatherism

That's why peace is eluding them. Mr Nobody became a governor through godfatherism but he immediately started shouting "no to godfatherism" after he got hold of power. Lol.

cococandy:
What made him become a woman?

And why is womanhood attributed to loss of respect?
Yall are saying the quiet part out loud. Because to you women haters, being a woman means being a lesser human and that’s why it’s disrespectful to be seen as or compared to a woman

Gtfoh

And there are no men that respect their wives? A man shouldn't voice out if his wife is becoming antagonist or showing attitude in the house? If I treat you right, if I play my part, shouldn't I expect you to do the same or I shouldn't complain when you don't?
Any partner who's tired of marriage should walk out of it instead of making life hard for the other partner in the name of woke or whatever

slivertongue:
They are actually soft, if they decide to confront them non of the hoodlums will dare govt

Soft? Didn't you read the govt saying one of the hoodlums was shot dead by his fellows? Lol . That's task force killing one of the Residents during their overzealousness and I believe that that's what led to that crisis

Stargangz:
Probably deal gone wrong, she might have extort d guy so tey d guy never see her pant, girls stop collecting money from guys if u no go gree make he knack u, no be every guys be maga, some guys no get joy o

Many innocent girls have been raped to death in the past. One was even killed right inside the church in Benin city during covid-19. Stop justifying barbaric criminal deeds most especially when you don't have facts. Stop!!

Task forces are always too excessive in the discharge of their duty. The reason is that they are always after extortion

IboHausaYoruba:
Wow! And some people are against paying tithes. It can only be the result of combination of fasting, prayer and tithes that opened the door . This miracle is beyond ordinary. God of Oyedepo and Adeboye at work.

Lol. All these for that small boy

DeLaRue:
They are only hiding behind the court order to find a soft landing.

The last price increases pushed many subscribers over the edge and they stopped the subscription.

Many used to subscribe just out of habit even when they rarely watch TV.

That's stopping now.

You got it. Something else forced them to revert the fees not the court order

Fryx:
My mum was an extremely good woman. She lost her husband early (not her fault, just that my dad has strong contender). She lost her life soon after.

But none of we children are ever helpless. We enjoy the good they have done.

There is karma. Your problem is the lack of knowledge. You believe too much in superstitions, it fvcked you up, so you are currently making efforts to break free.

If you refuse to atone for your sin during your life time, it is because you are wise enough to cheat destiny (the will of man is strong enough and can always prevent you from paying for your crimes)

But you will come back to this world in a different form. And even if you eventually overcome your misery, you must first pay the price of your previous foolishness.

Why do you think good people suffer? Because they are doing something wrong.

You are delusional

emperor4love:
na y most of una no de go far in life plus set backs and not progressing, hope u see the tradition that was done on Reginald Daniel,even if ned die tomorrow nd de did not do some sacrifice nd some rite,if u sleep with de banny,u go believe say e de happen....let me clear u bro ,in my town any banny way dem marry com sleep outside, omo u as a lady will run mad ASAP den de werey way sex u,is mot left behind, even the hubby if he is aware that his wife does such nd keep mouth shut,himself go collect, oga jazz dey forget online trolling

Dem don carry this one for go-go tey tey!!

SenecaTheYonger:
That would only be painful if OP hasn’t had sec with her before. But OP disvirgined her and has had the pussy at its newest form. He’s probably hit more than 100 times. He’s probably explored every angle or her pussy so it’s nothing new

When one partner calls a relationship off, the other partner who might still be in love is the real loser. Op is a loser here even if he had fvcked her 1000 times.

StreetFight:
Nonsensical nonsense. They were born by irresponsible never do well parents.

My immediate younger brother had a terrible measles when he was young. One of his legs got bad, and he has been walking with walking stick since then.

For over 15 years now, he has been a Charterd Insurer and Chartered Pension Administrator. He has worked and is still working in the biggest Insurance companies in the country. He is not breaking stones nor cutting fire wood.

Stop glorifying failed parenting

This is the problem with you people. Where did you see me glorifying anything, whether positive or negative in my comment? I think you should work on your comprehending ability.
BTW: concerning your brother; some parents are illiterates and poor, not every child is born on the same level of opportunity.

I have seen one breaking stones with big hammer for survival and another one using an axe to split firewoods for people just to survive.

Akwamkpuruamu:
Afọnjas on da beat

You know that those are your people's handiwork, no be dia first time though. We will mention you again when they're arrested which they will

house10studios:
Na so the person get money? How dem wan take collect that ransom n not get caught soo

Evans was asking for 1 million dollars back then, this same Nigeria.

Risingblue008:
Faouni?

They have d money

Lg sole importer and disyributors of

LG
HISENSE
MAXI

Ahhhhh!!!

They got the mega-box

If u see tje way lebannes dem for the office dey 4ky our girls ehhh
U go tire
As in our girls kpekus na guilter for dem

Lol. I'm sure they're paying wella wella

RandomFellow:
They'll be caught! Greed is a major reason these guys are caught, and these ones have taken their greed to a whole new level! $1.5m? That's over 2 billion naira! They'll be caught, and soon!

They're following the footsteps of their idol, Evans

eepeepook:
Once kidnapping enters Lagos, Naija economy don hear am. Many of these foreign nationals are experts in their fields. Once they disappear due to fear, the industry they’re crucial to will crash from African mismanagement. I’ve seen this happen time without number in my field.

Have you forgotten that they do try it once in a while. But they would disappear again once they realised that the atmosphere wasn't convenient for them

Good

Mitsurugi:
It doesn't. Never said it did. But it's been said that wisdom is profitable. Some women knew who they married before they did. You are married to a violent man and yet you will want to go toe to toe with him even verbally assaulting him. Do you think every man out there is mature, patient and willing to walk away? Her reaction to her lawyer is proof that she isn't very smart. That is my submission. But she doesn't deserve the loss, no one does.

Don't walk away. The alternative is to spend the rest of your life or significant part of your life prison. That's if you are not found guilty of murder .
Like this one now. He's already smelling prison term but the victim lawyer is the one standing between him and the prison

Mitsurugi:
Don't be an idiot. I'm a lawyer and this plays out in the magistrate courts all the time. Right in my presence. It's the fault of Nairaland when men of straw can mouth off against their betters.

You must be a terrible quack lawyer and your certificate should be queried if you are parading yourself with one! You want to reconcile your client who's a victim with her abuser and you are still doing that behind her back? The abuser that you're supposed to even advise her to stay away from for the rest of her life! And she took your picture for evidence and the next thing for you was to go haywire? What are you hiding from if what you are doing is to favour your client? Did your employer even know that that's what you are doing?

Mitsurugi:
The lawyer works for the state. One of their responsibilities is to foster peace and settle parties. Even judges do that suo motu depending on the case. From the article it's not hard to see who the wahala came from in the marriage.

Mumu is your name. Her job is to ensure justice for the victim. If reconciliation was what the victim wanted, she wouldn't have involved the lawyer. And if she changes her mind in the middle of the case, she would have still been the one to inform her lawyer that she doesn't want prosecution anymore but reconciliation.
This is not assault and battery only but involuntary double murders. Are you this stupiidd or the said lawyer is your family member?

Exceed15:
Hello stop spewing what u don't know. How can someone just take your picture in the public without your consent?

People don't need your consent before taking your pictures or videos in public. Even IGP once said that citizens can record the police activities in the public.
You have also seen how the police are being recorded on camera in USA and elsewhere.
You equally saw how Aregbe was recorded at a dinner abroad with camera in his face when he was a minister of interior or whatever. I think you guys need to try and know what your rights are. Or, are you telling me that you can't record someone vandalising public properties, someone beating his kid mercilessly in public, someone defeacating in public or your lawyer talking to the suspect behind your back as in this case? Sometimes, I wonder the level of IQ of some of you guys

Mitsurugi:
Did you miss where the lawyer was also trying to mediate

Mediate on whose behalf or order? Is that her job or part of her job? Use your naturally given common sense now!

abi you think lawyers are born trouble makers?

Lol. She's being paid to do a specific job which is for her client to get justice. Not to facilitate how a murderer will reconcile with his victim. Hehe!

GanagiBitrus:
You couldn't have gotten a better judgement from this 1-minute clip than those medics present on the pitch.

Was that because I have eye problem or I haven't been seeing how injured players are carried out of the pitch? I'm not even talking about the strange wheel cart they used but the terrible speed everyone was concerned about.

That match was tension soaked, & there was perceived delay tactics by that player.

Tension soaked and delay tactics? Lol. Was that because the referee didn't have the stopwatch or it wasn't functioning well? You guys just make Nigeria and the rest of us look weired to the outside world with your unreasonable excuses to justify bad practices

So under the circumstances, nothing wrong. Moreover his injury appeared like a cramp.

Just hear yourself, nothing wrong! Even if he falls off?

Praying4Nigeria:
Can we stomach some bitter truth if we tell ourselves? It is very shocking to see that it is the Yorubas that love eating Tomatoes/Pepper most that have left their Food Destiny into the hand of Northerners. That is why they are the ones Crying "Ebi n pa won o!"
I'm Yoruba but I'm so angry about this!
Why are Yorubas not holding their Governors accountable for not massively putting the monthly Allocations into Encouraging/Developing Farming as their Northern Counterparts have done over there Years?!!! Why can't Yorubas plant what they Eat?! Who is mentally enslaving them and preventing them from doing what truly wise Tribes do?! Who do una Yorubas this thing sef?!

Northerners don't ship tomatoes and peppers to your region? This is new