₦airaland Forum

Okupevi1985:
This could be what he is suffering from and I don't their is solution to it.

Depending on the causes for individuals. Some may have solution while others may not. But the most important thing is for the individual not to stay quiet, the person should speak up and try his best before giving up

searchlight:
They will remind us how Peter made their father born them foolish when he was governor of Anambra state.

That’s history for you . He should have done better when he was given the mandate. Instead, the rivers in his state were littered with corpse of murdered youths who were summarily executed and extra judiciary killed by the security agents under his watch.

fastseo:

Where is Atiku
When it's time for presidential primary election he will fly in then share money to delegate, then contest for president then when u lose he ran to dubai to chill

Nazgul:
If anybody told me that Buhari would be better than any of the presidential candidates I would have told him that his delusional. Cos in 2015 during the early years of Buhari's administration, even though it took him over 3 months to select his cabinet, Nigeria didn't have it this bad...things were still normal.

But as usual, ronu miscreants how have no idea where their next meal ticket is coming from would attack him for pointing out the obvious facts about Tinubu's administration.

Obi is incapable of writing that piece above, I can bet it with my left ball.

Laple0541:
And how is that your headache? Aproko!

He's family! You know what that means, right?

Ammmy:
An what's your business with that? That's how u people put unnecessary pressure on people and make them take wrong decisions. Why not face your life and let him face his? Is marriage a must?

"Mind your business" mentality that wouldn't allow you guys to be aware of the challenges that a member of your family, a friend, a colleague or a neighbour is facing.

Testiebobo:
#i dont understand why a 43yrs old man who is rich and healthy refuses to get married not even single-but searching. Not to talk of having children#
I'hv waiting for the day he will call my family to lagos to come and eat jollof and poundo yam. And celebrate with him.
What could be the delay is it his
#behaviour#
#fear#
#familybattle#
#superEagles#(sarcastly)

He could be suffering from erectile disfunction or outright impotency. There are few men suffering from this and the challenge wouldn't allow them to marry or have kids. That's a fact and reality.

royalwax2:

Sim Fubara knew that this battle has entered another level since the day Magnus Abe sqashed his Beef with Wike.
Now he knows he has no other choice than to use his Executive powers fully to crush any bagger loyal to that obio-akpor tout. Those defected APC lawmakers seized to be lawmakers after their inappropriate defection & can't do sh1t. Any LGA chairman wey do anyhow go see anyhow too.

Let's see how it goes.

Which law states that? I guess that's Fubara law . A governor in Nigeria is as powerless as the government at the center wants him to be. If they decide his fate this evening, he will be in court tomorrow morning trying to reclaim his mandate . I hope he won't find this out the hard way

Agugbadin:
Thieves who want to stay when their tenor expires

Their tenure has not expired. So, what make them thieves?

ogubolokento:
He lied civil servants has been assured of getting their salaries from today because JAAC has been done .

You are saying totally different thing. May be you should go back and read the news again

Sonoyom:
You dey call governor little man?

Na thvnder go fire you and your family.

Is he not a little man? A baby boy for that matter. No him fault, na Wike's fault wey impose toddler on the state.

Maxymilliano:
But it's still early in the month of May, did he bother to find out if allocation has been released by the Government at the Central or just want to paint the government in bad light as usual ?

Mumu. When other states and their local governments have used April allocations to settle April bills including salaries of civil servants and politicians

samomoli:
This girl made just one single mistake. Renounce, get back home to your family and continue with your previous religion. Now see what has befallen her. Religion to black man is a curse. God punish everyone involved in boko haram

When she refused to do what was asked of her, ignorant people like her were hailing her online, calling her heroine. I was like what the fvck? Say the damn thing, get your freedom and go back to your faith! Some people said it is hypocrisy to do that. Who didn't know that she was forced to say it? Ignorant people

These people may claim that dem no dey marry multiple wives but dem dey born pass people wey marry multiple wives

Babalola0920:
What's this..
In a sane society the lady should be treated the same.

You read us commenting about the lady and what should and not happen to her? We're only talking about the guy and his remarkable recovery here, you can focus on the punishment for the girl. Thanks

Jostoman:
have said it before that God brought in APC in 2015 to punish nigerians for not appreciating what what we have that time.

It wasn't like his predecessors in PDP were doing a fantastic job. So, nothing to appreciate at the time unless you don't know what you are saying.

TOPCRUISE:
Those nomandic fulani herdsmen may be part of the plan to confuse investigation. Just saying.

Lol. Because all your life, you have been brainwashed that Fulani herdsmen are the only ones kidnapping people. They're immuned from being kidnapped, right?

900 million naira . All these illiterate criminals sef

Housing:
Those whose marriage is not more than 5years may envy because at that stage marriage do go through survival test but those with over a decade can never envy you but only pity your uninformed opinion.

As marriage shouldn't be rushed please reconsider your decision not to marry nor get child because you will not be fit forever.

Good marriage will change you for better, you will understands selflessness, sacrifice, compromise, self-respect, discipline, self restraint, empathy and leadership.

There are things that are now done by my children now that I which I had more of them.

Loneliness and depression do catch up with age.

But in all you do pray for God's guidance and favour.

Leave him, loneliness in old age is waiting for him in the future. Kids are not even the ones who will keep our company in old age because they too will have scattered in different directions pursuing their life goals and setting up their own families. Your wife, your husband is the only person that will be left with you if long life permits

VinnyBaba:
Lol,
Just find a Good Girl when Understand you and Accept you for Who you are.

And do what exactly? Be together and just Bleep? Have kids for him and discard her? Stay together for how long? Till they both reach 50? 60? Or 70 years? You guys are simply funny

Ameduedwin:
Before been a corper you must be a graduate, so before been married you must have passed through bachelor hold, so while envy what you have passed through?

My perspective too, exactly. But some married too early while some missed this flexing (due to shyness or holy holy) period. Those are the ones who can regret

Odidigboigbo:
What's the difference between marrying and dating a right partner? Apart from raising Children, there is nothing special in marriage

Marriage and children, two different things. Op hasn't spoken against raising children outside of marriage because one can still raise children without marrying.
Marriage is more than raising children. Marry the right person and you already got yourself a life partner. Even these children will leave you one day to go and start their own families. That tells you that marriage shouldn't be about popping and raising kids. It should primarily be about securing yourself a life partner

babat001:
Dem no envy bachelor nah hin dem dey drag our gf with us.. spending their lives savings 🤣🤣🤣🤣

We're not spending our life savings on side chicks, just little percentage of our income. And that doesn't mean marriage no sweet us but just to keep tasting varieties. All these add flavour to your marriage

Honestey:
As things stand yes o. In fact I'm envying my bachelor days now. No any wahala , if they have removed subsidy before I married I fit remain single till further notice but I don hook

Subsidy removal hooked your throat too?
I was just looking at some masses who were shouting subsidy cabal at the time, now they know better.

laivwire:
Hopefully. Depends on how much brain damage he's sufferred due to asphyxiation.

He's eating independently and talking, that's why they tagged it remarkable, all within a month.

TheGift:
I enjoyed my singlehood until I was ready for marriage. Now I am enjoying my marriage, cos my Wife is truly my partner and friend.

I do not envy my single or married friends who do not have someone they can share thier lives with in an intimate and meaningful way- beyond sex.


God has blessed me with his goodness and a peaceful/ fruitful home.

Thank you. They don't know beautiful packages that come with marriage and marrying the right partner. Even the sex aspect, it is steady and not that you would be struggling each time you need sex

peteromenihu:
Yes we do. That journey was the worst mistake of my life.

No, we don't. Sorry that you married the wrong person. Next time, do your homework throughly

Odidigboigbo:
70% of married men wish they didn't marry at the time they married

Yeah 70% of married men who didn't get to enjoy their bachelorhood. Some married too early, some married late but still didn't flex when they were bachelors. Not married men who flex and later get bored of bachelorhood

Melagros:
COMRADES are speechless at this hilarious topic
Some married men envy the bachelors as a result of regret
While some married men don't, they face their challenges secretly

May be they enjoy their marriages secretly

Sonnobax15:

Omoh,I go like to marry but the kind cinema wey I dey watch for married people lives these days,I dey scare

Troubled marriages (minority) make it to the news, peaceful and thriving marriages (majority) stay quiet and out of the news. Look at the right corner

mablie:
@Emboldened

Spoken like a typical married man

Una wayo too much

I no want

Bachelorhood till i'm six feet in the ground

He spoke like someone who married the wrong person. Are you of the same opinion about father's marriage to your mother? I'm just trying to understand you, may be I can get a hint.

fykes:
Are you effing kidding boy? You got no clue... I thought I was balling until I married and had my son.

Known no better life than watching that tiny bundle of joy...no better love than watching your wife give birth...

Dude if you marry your wife/ best friend, you are truly blessed...I can't speak on marrying wrongly cos I didn't.

But please 🙏 trust God for a woman who is a wife indeed...aint nothing any single human man or woman got on you.

Don't mind him. When he's finally get married which he will, he will come back to tell us what he has been missing all these years

DoWhatThouWilt:
Recently, I have been noticing subtle hints of envy from my colleagues at work who are married just from the statements they make.

For example, they usually try to belittle me with statements like You're still a small boy, you don put woman for house? whenever we are having non heated argument over a topic that doesn't even concern marriage in anyway.

That's not envy, they're putting you in your place where you belong.
Enjoy your bachelorhood while it lasts, most men get tired of it in the long run. Yours can't be an exception unless you are using your bachelorhood to cover something up or running away from responsibilities that come with marriage