₦airaland Forum

Sirmwill:
Someone who knew her(was her roommate in uni) was telling me about how intelligent and Very hardworking she(Elohor) was. She described how innovative and smart thinking this lady was, this is made evident in the fact that she is the founder of GROW network and Digital Creator Chic

The most painful part is the fact that she could have been saved if Nigeria did not happen To her! 😑.Fromthe whole of Ilorin having no MRI to Hospitals being on strike to being carried to and fro LAUTECH till she gave up the ghost

It is just sooo sad

Why carrying her to and fro? What happened to changing her hospital and stay at the new one with the needed facilities?

The US sanctions that will spare Nigerian Christians? The one that will affect our leaders the same way it will not affect the masses? Let me laugh small

2mch:
Some of these children were birthed by mad women on the streets or people with serious psychiatric issue. They will always show what’s in them. It’s genetic. Also abandonment from birth creates severe trauma once a child is separated from the mother too early. That’s why a lot of adoptees have issues outside of the genetic factor.

You aunt could also not be a good parent. Regardless of him being abusive, if you adopt, you have to make extra effort with the child especially if rude family members disclose they are adopted too early. They usually change and become difficult.

You are so ignorant and still don't realise it. Shame even dey catch me for you

Racheal45:
Nairaland people are funny but real
I was having a plan to adopt a child with what you said I don change plans
Do they actually know if the mother is mad
That is very correct
Mad people children na orphanage dem mostly Dey end up waiting for adoption

Being mad is an illness, mental illness. It has nothing to do with hereditary or genetics. Your adopted or biological kids will turn out the way you raised them.

Yorubastardz:
My aunt who was barren adopted a boy in 2002

Fast forward to 2025 last June.
This boy turned my aunt life upside down

He Insults her like mad. Disrespect her in front of visitors. Scold at her

This got me thinking if Adoption is worth it
Because the boy clearly don't feel connection

And during some of their outburst
He will curse her and her family.. Omo

After seeing this same pattern in 3 families
I have concluded ADOPTION IS A NO NO!!!!

It is all about how your sister raised and pampered him while growing up, don't blame adoption. We've seen many cases where biological children murdered their own parents

LibertyRep:
Accidents happen anywhere. Planes have collided during training, cars have collided etc.
Why should this be a news? Oh! It's the US

Story

Fayos1:
Oh. Such accidents are quite common though.

Yeah! Give us two examples

Amotolongbo:
she had the interview long before this second pregnancy, about 2-3years ago.
Please stop that bolded part “abortion was never an option”. Abortion is an option when it is a threat to the life of the mother.

I was supposed to put question mark because, that's exactly my point too. That abortion should have been looked into

narite:
Those men na mumu man, how a woman go block your access to your children. I think they themselves are not ready for children wahala, dem just Dey use that as excuse.

The day my uncle caught his wife cheating, na the very day he sent her packing and took their one and only son away from he, never seeing the boy again. The woman died about 2 years later, possibly from shame, guilt, depression. Left me shocked and sad cause she is someone I really liked. The cheating aside, She is a good woman.

When she was alive and now that she's dead, I don't really know her. But men here siding with that man is pissing me off. It doesn't have to be gender war every time now.
Though, I know some women here too that always side with their gender no matter what

Moveittothem:
Oh, Trump knows me? That's a rare privilege.

You are slow

bobogogo:
If the apc govt can recruit international terrorists, what stops them from lying and carrying out false flag operation?

When Christians are killed, it is real or at least, we should all believe it. But when Muslims communities suffer the same fate, we should doubt it or outright disbelief. You're doing well.

Tendd:
The story might sound appealing to the church members or we,the gullible believers of retributive justice but it might not be true. His family might have to live with the shame which they didn't know anything about.

What exactly is your point?

osazsky:
and after helping them he recognized one of the rubbers and they killed him via strangulation. [/b] ..if only d dead could speak..they knew he would have the keys to the place they had to kidnaped him ,brought him inside the church so that he could open the burglary were the instrument were kept after he opened it they had to kill him ..pastor then decided to use this poor man's death to gain popularity that whoever steals from his chc would die next Sunday chc don full out of fear

Do you know what you are saying? Can you read and understand at all? The report says electrocution, the witnesses heard crackle sound and a fall. You're ranting on and on about strangulation and writing nollywood fantasy of what supposedly happened.
Is pastor the witness or the one who determined that it was electrocution or the one who announced his death. You need to borrow sense

At least, the police job is made easier and church members already have partial answer which might be satisfactory to them.

Lukuluku was a huge star back in the day who featured in almost all Yoruba movies at the time. May be they used stress off him

Is Remi not a Christian herself? Why would anyone think whatever comes out of her mouth was going to be cover up? Close to 200 people killed in Kwara State,, are they Christians?

classicfrank4u:
Which kind country be this

Imagine! In the same locality where all of them know one another even their villages are not the same. How could protecting a kid suddenly and unexpectedly lead to lynching and killing?

brain54:
Sometimes listen to what people have to say...


Irrespective of the prior impressions you have about them or whether they sound off

Besides kemi has been proven to be right on many occasions even though it sounded like she was talking rubbish.


Even a mad man has his day when he says something sensible.

You don't know or haven't confirmed the details of what she is saying now yet her mouth is loose and her brain needs factory reset?

Listen and don't judge!

Lol. You actually would love to make sense out of a madman's rants . A woman in Nigeria keeping venomous snakes as pets? Then she concluded that it was spiritual

Amotolongbo:
Hope you considered the part where she claimed that she was raped when she had the first pregnancy?

No, I didn't. When I listened to her interview, all what she said was this was her second and that she lost the first one.

Who knows if this second one was the same story?

And abortion was never an option. She didn't claim that sha, what she said was that she was in a relationship

angelboy01:
Oga rest from this talk.

May be you should.

Na woman suppose dey follow me yarn this.

This is your problem, men vs women.

If you get issue with your papa, go and settle with him and if you can't, carry the hatred to grave. Na una wahala be that. Bye.

You're the one sounding like you have issue with your mother now because you refused to look at this issue objectively like I'm doing.

angelboy01:
The question you should ask yourself is that did any of what the man said is true?

Any of it could be true but any of it could be a lie too.

People like you who carry woman for head usually get the most burnt.

Carry woman for head because I picked holes in his story? My position is about humanity and dignity while yours and other men is about men supporting fellow man. That's clearly wrong. That man lacks dignity and no man should support what he did.
For me, it is even about how he neglected his own kids all these years.

How can someone who resides and work in the UK to be coming to Nigerian court to fight for custody?

Fight? Court? No! All what he had to do was to let the kid see him trying his best to be present in their lives. Make himself visible, felt, seen.

He Probably wanted the best for his kids to even settle in the UK

No, he didn't want the best for them because of his hatred for their mother. He only turned up now that the person he hated has died. Must he take the kids away before he can take care of them?

but the woman's infidelity and selfishness made her deny her kids good life.

One. What made you think that they're not having good life? All Nigerians must be in UK or USA before they can be said to have good life even if they are working like slaves, right? You need to change your mentality. If the kids want him now in their lives, they have opportunity now.

Abi you didn't read where he said he met her with a well known musician in a hotel with towel tied. That man is still alive and why hasn't he come out to debunk it?

The report said he himself has remarried. Is it only him that deserves happiness and free to do what he likes?

Moveittothem:
It's no longer Hitler?

He's in competition with Hitler.

God bless President Trump forever.

Despite depicting you as ape? This inferiority complex and asslicking knows no limit

SpaceX:
Obama is the sickest and most disgusting human being, he destroyed America, the hate for Trump is a fuel to propelled him to accomplish more for America. The world is blessed to have Trump.

Have you taken your medication?

God1000:
Donald trump will go down in history as the worst human being to ever exist on the surface of this planet

American voters made a terrible mistake allowing this man to come back the second second time after rejecting him four years earlier, just because his opponent is a black woman. Majority of them are regretting their decision now

angelboy01:
And I can't blindly support a woman too, not even my own mother.

The woman is already dead, she can't say what happened. I only picked holes in the man's claims. He had a voice when the woman was alive, what happened to that voice at the time?
He just remembered now to speak up, right? We saw how people cried out whenever their ex tried to block them from having access access to the kids

betbaron:
There's nothing wrong with this.
He was only trying to help out.

I wish she's your sister in this case may be you would have used your sense

angelboy01:
Sebi na man him be, and na man you sef be. When woman starts to dey manipulate am e go remember his father. And you wey be man dey support woman. E go clear for your eyes.

This is where we defer my friend. I can't blindly support this man just because I'm a man!
Even he's the only one stating his side of the story, there are still many loopholes in his story. And the woman is even no more to counter him. That man just woke up

Amotolongbo:
The pregnancy wasn’t her first, so where is the baby?
This is the second pregnancy but where are the baby and the mother?

I think these are rhetorical questions.

“If that pregnancy is what she wanted”?

Yes. First time might be considered a mistake but the second time meant desire

For someone like Ajara, pregnancy is suicidal

She either didn't know or didn't agree. Many of her fans on social media are even defending her decision to get pregnant, saying that she deserved to be a mother too.

If someone wants suicide, would you kill the person because he wants suicide?

Except that in this case, she and the man who impregnated her didn't see it as suicide attempt

Obviously she is not mentally efficient and capable enough to solely decide going and handling pregnancy, the reason she has to be properly guided by experts (gynaecologists, physiotherapists and psychologists), if she decided taking the risk of pregnancy, under very close monitoring so they can act fast if there is any threat to her life or the baby.

It is not mental case but that of her physical appearance and her state of health. She lacked proper education and knowledge too to guide her

angelboy01:
When I saw the boys anger in the pic it made me to realize how a woman's venom can be so lethal that a son would beat up his father in public.

He wasn't brought up well. If you as a man is being brought up by a woman never believe their tales.

You saw the boy's anger and you automatically saw a woman's venom. You saw the boy's anger but you didn't see abandonment, right?

Porksupplyib:
You don't Know how powerful a mother's influence is? She must have been singing the story of neglect and dejection into their hearing as they grew up. It is the only thing they will ever believe.

Singing? Like they didn't witness, live and see it, right?
The man remarried but the woman didn't.
The woman refused to bring the kids to UK but he didn't think of visiting them in Nigeria?
He had various media to voice out all these years when the woman was alive, he didn't. He had to wait until when the woman couldn't defend herself.
I'm glad that the kids didn't betray their mother.

BlocksNG:
This is just the beginning, by the time Trump is done with them, $1 will be equal to 5 billion rial.

Iran has been under US sanctions probably before you were born and Iran still managed to be technologically advanced than any other country in the middle East. Now, Trump has done all what he could to Iran, economically. The madman is now threatening countries like China, Russia Turkey doing business with Iran with his usual ineffective weapon, tariff 🤣🤣.

2mch:
Trump is cooking for everybody, but the day everybody decide to cook for Trump, e no go fit chop am.

He's likely to spend the rest of his life in prison. There is too many criminal allegations hanging around his neck