culf:



Thank God I didn't talk directly to you because I know where it will lead. I saw a comment I like and I chose to acknowledge it and reply her. Nothing stop you from ignoring my lame and "my mentality".
MR RIch man, if you like go and train your kids in moon, I don't blo**dy care, I only wish you success and goodluck. Finally Sir, save this as one day, one day, you'll surely remember this conversation. Have a good day Mr rich mindset Sir.

Lol, you didn't talk to me directly but you're talking about me oga!! It's obvious you couldn't talk to me directly cos you yourself know say wetin you wan talk no follow. Nothing is going to happen one day one day as you've said, your statement just proves that you're likely to become a deadbeat or you're one already sef, you're merely defending your kind

culf:



oil dey your head. For this reply, i'm following you.

I pray this does not affect him tomorrow. There is this family Where their father, wanted contesting election back then, it was trouble, thanks to God and the man's brothers (cousins from the mother side), the people said no that the man is not from there, I'm talking of a place the man's father married from, got lands, settled, birth all his kids including the man, brought his siblings and they use there as their home town, with the bit of influence they have and what they brought to all that side, the people are still rejecting them.

I wish him well.

This is lame. I know what I'm getting myself into, I don't have plans or intentions to contest in any election nor do I have any interest in family properties, na poor person or person with poverty mindset dey follow family fight for properties, i'm not looking for any recognition from any village, when you get money, people go recognize you normally. I just want peace! When i die, make dem carry me go cemetery, Life's not hard, na we dey try complicate am with the kind if restrictions wey we dey put ourselves.

My kids are also not going to be raised here with this your mentality, so this does not affect me in any way.

LadyRosa2:

Leave the school documents as it is.
You will always attach your Change of Name affidavit to your documents.Unfortunately, Nigeria is so messed up that what they don't understand becomes illegal.So you must deal with this, the good news is your offsprings will not.

Oh thanks a lot, but can i use the new name for Masters? or PGD?

LadyRosa2:

As for the bank, you can visit them and take the necessary steps which will require your affidavit, but my guy, even me sef have submitted my documents, including marriage certificate for more than 3 yrs now and my banks stl uses my old name.

It's really annoying, I've been to the bank, officially changed the name, they even confirmed that the new name is what's on their system, so i just don't know why this is happening. I've been thinking of going to close all the accounts and reopen them with the new name

Justbehave:
Maddic..t meaning madness. I'm not suprised

act like your username for a change, you'd regain your lost brain cells

Stevenbright:


Ok, she didn't get this point. She thought you taking your mum's maiden name (her father's name)

In this, since you took your mum's name, there is no issue other than you are starting a new paternal lineage, starting with you.

yea, just my mom's name

Acidosis:



You mean the name of the father of your mother? I hope he wasn't a deadbeat too?

no, just the name of my mom and a random male name to reduce plenty talk

Intergrated:
madman you don't know the meaning of generational name I wonder the kind of useless children wen dey graduate this days. Your father useless does it mean your forefathers were useless. Mention me till infinity guy u no get sense finish.

na forefathers born me? wetin your generational name don do for you?? and see me here thinking this uselessness ended with my deadbeat, i nor know say you follow. na people like you dey wan die on top family land, i sure say you never even comot your papa house laidis.

Intergrated:
epic . Or your wife's father's name.

association of deadbeats don come again

i kuku get una strength

Stevenbright:


What she is saying is it has to be done with the consent of your mum's family since you are about taking their family name as your surname. Otherwise, if you just do it on your own without due process, they can deny you and your nuclear family in the nearest future when it is most important.

I didn't take their family name, i took my mother's name. deny me as in how?? deed has already been done sha

Also since I'm currently in my final year in the university, I don't know how possible it is to change my name in school, I can't enquire now cos we're on holidays. I just want to know if anyone has successfully changed their name in school too and process it took.

After so many back and forths, i finally took the long awaited step to officially change my surname and I've never been prouder since i did. I usually beam with joy whenever I'm writing my name on any official form I'm filling ahh!

The only issue I'm faced with right now is the inconsistency in my bank account names on different bank platforms, i don't know if any one has also expérienced this, some bank platforms sometimes still display my old name whilst people are making transfers to me and that makes them wonder if the account is actually mine, I don't know why that's happening cos I've officially changed the name on all of them, BVN, NIN inclusive. I've called the CCs of all my banks and they don't seem to know what to do. Is there any fix for this?

CBR100:


no go suffer yourself.......accommodation rent is too much in all those countries.......the amount u go rent 2 bedroom flat in akoka-yaba Lagos is the same u go pay in a very bushy village ......

most of there low-middle class live in hut and slums

I'm not planning to relocate permanently sha, it's just stay for like 6 months to learn french