people, do you believe in soulmates? is there anything really like soul mate? what if you are committed and you suddenly meet someone else seemed to have more connection to you? will you categorize this person as your soul mate? what would you do to treat this soulmate? how many soulmates can a person have? should the spouse be the soulmate? if not, why?

thank you, first.

I agree with Seun, leave both of them because they both are NOT your type.

Get a new lover who is single and is your type, which will make your life easier, I know it's kind of cold to say this way. I've experienced a similar situation a few months ago. I decided to take a break from the love-hunting job. I travelled a bit to US and Canada. When I get back to Taiwan, I found myself totally having no feeling for those people and back to my normal life.

So, TAKE A BREAK!

i don't support divorce but do support it sometimes, it depends.

when 2 people get together, it's like forming a business partnership relationship. there is certain dos and don'ts in order to keep the partnership last forever and "make profits." if both parties cannot fulfill the obligation to make it work. liquidation is necessary to disolve this relationship.

sorry to discuss this topic in a business point of view. my opinion is, when you find the marriage is not right for you or for the other half, if you can solve the problems, then solve them, if not, then stop wasting each other's time and move on. for the later situation, divorce is the best choice for each other to form a better partnership with someone else and make constructive profit for themselves and their lives.

i think no matter where you are, you gotta know the market for sure.

just think of the basic marketing 4Ps: product, price, promotion and place(distribution)

ask yourself, who are your targets? baby? youth? young/old women or men? what kind of strategies are you gonna use? who are your potential competitors? your business mission? vission?

it sounds like a cliche but do make a full business plan with detailed "what if" senario like a flow chart, you will know exactly what you need to do while doing these preparations before you really start the business.

good luck!

i think ilovepda is a girl, are you, ilovepda?

i was reading her/his posts as well. interesting stories, though. either she/he is a fiction writer doing some research, or she/he is sharing the id with her/his friends for those people have similar problems, or she/he is really fooling us

anyways, it's my first time on this site and it's an interesting fact to discuss.