Sorry you have a hole and enemy as lover and friend,
I was once a victim,my friend sleep with my girl and i walk into the house,she pretended like she was an angel.
i could smell the damn room stinks , when i asked my so called friend denied but she was nervous and had to narrate the love affair have been on for some months, hahaha

Its always diffcult when they have kids,there is gonna be a disability mentally or otherwise,
I think separation is the nearest solution[color=#550000][/color]