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mizzthang: Like I give............

think u won't be overly concerned abt it, if truelly u don't

trolley: Lotta b¡tches come online to act like they the shit, when they aint even farted yet. B¡tch even if you are on fire l still won`t piss on you.

Strangely, his got a point *scratches head*

trolley: why don`t you practice safe sex and go fvck yourself

damn, thats just cold

Pastor Olu T: smile, now I can see I have so many explanations to do 'cos of the folks I am dealing with.

The first thing u need to know that there are different worlds ( the spiritual n the physical), and there is a veil separating the two worlds. Now all u know is this physical world, bt the mistake many make is trying to explain the spiritual world with the limited physical world.

Now if u are yet to even grasp this physical how can u even understand the way the spiritual works? Read this John 3:11-12 maybe u would understand my point?

Seems ur already inclined with this other wor8ld of urs, do u mind sharing or better still explain to us how it is or works

Pastor Olu T: Dont u get the point I am making? If ur mind can only grasp what u know now n the info ur five senses can give u (invariable what is i this sphere), then why ask such question?

So in a way u don't believe God exist cus ur mind can't grasp it right

aManFromMars: Well, their Saviour re-incarnated in a sense. First he was God, then God-man, then dead-God-man, then risen-God-man.

Hey, let's not be disrespectful, everyone is indeed entitled to believe what he wants too

Obasgilbert: And how was i insultive?.... mtcheeew.. my point is "how do u expect us to know when we weren't made then?...

E be like say na my body u wan show ur e-fighting skills.

what?

Pastor Olu T: It applies in the sense that ur little mind cant grasp where u was before birth, what gave u the impression that u were or were not somewhere before birth?

well its simple, if the sperm that was meant to bring me to life was directed at another ova, then I'd never had exist

aManFromMars: Nowhere. Before he was born, he was nothing. A physical body had to be formed before he could become the being he is today.


Does the same apply to God?

help me ask am o

Pastor Olu T: Can u also answer this, where were u before u came to this world?

Well before my parents went down low, I never existed, hope that answers ur question, now answer mine

Obasgilbert: I.diot.... ask seun where e dey before he create Nairaland

dude, grow up, what does insult resolve here

please can someone answer this question for me

mizzthang: Single and ready to mingle as long as the available are willing to play on an uneven field.... I sabi ojoro well well!

well then, how abt u give me audience, wud really love a chat, my pin 750f8dca

Are u really single miss, speaking from ur profile pix that is

donroxy: It is simply because of Trauma .

U have lived a solitary live as a kid or Youth Or you have been despised which made you to reclined to yourself and work things out on your own without feeling the need for Other's intervention !!


U are suffering from ''Early Rejection Syndrome'' and your chemistry has resolved ''NO one can fill YOU BUT Yourself'' therefore,U don't feel like needing anybody to get there !


U need a Psycho to retract your mentality and its InBuilt Chemistry back to Normalcy all the same U can't do it alone unless U are with peeps that love U for real e.g GF,mum,dad,bro or sis ............ Without peeps that love you by your side, PsychoTheraphy won't work On you, the best that would happened is ''Trauma Management'' which is Temporary Solution and Not Permanent !

The processes shall begin with evaluating certain issues in your History .... BlahBlahBlah !


What is your status in life ? Are U satisfied ?

How easily do U bored yourself ?

How much do You need to be with People ?

Do U think they respect,regard and really wanna be with you too ?

Do U think You are loved for real ?

Op, how many times do U Masturbate in a Day ? ........... Do U feel fulfilled afterward ? ....

Do U feel Insecured ?


Those questions when properly evaluated can resolve your issues and return your life back to Normalcy !

hmmm, quite an interesting view, thanx for ur piece, wud look up to it

[quote author=Efemena_xy]Sometimes in life, when we go through unpleasant experiences, we subconsciously try to avoid getting hurt next time. Different people react in different ways. Some try to mentally block out the entire episode, some on the other hand 'harden' their hearts.

I think you fall into the latter category. You don't want to be hurt again so you've built a defensive wall around your heart and this manifests itself in an 'I don't care' attitude. For the moment, what you're doing is having your physical needs met by these girls but emotionally, you've still got scars that are yet to heal - and until they heal completely, you won't be able to feel 'love' like you did when you were younger.

Again, reiterating my earlier advice to you - give yourself time to heal. You can't force this. One thing though. You say you're over your ex but you're still in touch with her? How come?

Have you considered cutting off all ties / forms of communication with her? I know you'll probably say you being able to discuss amicably with her is proof that you're totally over her - but why do you need that proof?

Cut her off and if after doing that, you don't feel any guilt / yearning to hear her voice on the phone or receive any text messages from her...basically, if you still feel indifferent - then yes, you're well and truly over her. I'm suggesting you do this because until you've done it, you'll never completely let go of your past. Don't let your past hold your future happiness to ransom.

In the meantime, be sure to practise safe sex.

It is well.[/quote]thanx alot

[quote author=i-smoke-weed]Hmmm . . . Spiritual wife tinzz

@op : YOU ARE FINISHED !

GBAM!

Huffin & puffin[/quote]Lols, let's hook up, drop ur digits

Safe it with me

[quote author=Efemena_xy]^^ My post's been edited. Read the additional bits and respond.[/quote]Love ur reasoning, well we were young, I wud say 20 or 21 so abt 5 or 6years ago, and yes when am done with the whole lusting over in girls I tend to feel absolutely nothing for them, the need for them seizes to exist.

and pertaining me loving my ex, no I don't think thats true cus I don't, there is indeed a large hole in me, I pray to feel it cus deep inside me I feel alone, empty, u get me now aii

its no big deal, am BTW 25-27, and no I don't love her anymore BT we still speak

[quote author=Efemena_xy]Explain the bolded bit.

If you want specific advice, try to be a bit more specific about your issue rather than generalising - else you'll get a generalised response.[/quote]Well, what happened BTW us was something I never thought possible, she got preg and we were quite young, so the family had to step in and find a solution if u know what I mean, BT that event changed me, made me cold, I lost every reason to feel, well that's that, can't go further

[quote author=Efemena_xy]True love isn't forced.

There's nothing you can do except be yourself and let it happen naturally.[/quote]Your right but how would I ever find such true love when am devoid of emotions, I've met girls, a lot of them, the desire to be with them heighten at the thought of lusting over them, but as soon as the thought fades away, so does the need for them, I go back to being who I am

I want to be able to handle a relationship like everybody else, not keep faking emotions that are not there, I want to feel the care and importance of a woman, a lover, a romantic affair, I can't keep living this way, what is wring with me and how can I live for love?

Hello everyone

I've had this issue for as long as I can remember, it started after an unfortunate event took place BTW a girl and I

we were young and careless and we got hooked, the family got involved and took care if the issue, but ever since then, I've bin trying to feel a sense of emotion and I fail at each trial, what is wrong with me, pls help

Love is like every other emotion; something I can't truly understand because I just can't feel it. But like every other emotion, except sorrow,I'm good at faking it, giving the response I know is correct despite not feeling it

I want to be able to handle a relationship like everybody else, not keep faking emotions that are not there, I want to feel the care and importance of a woman, a lover, a romantic affair, I can't keep living this way, what is wring with me and how can I live for love?

Omo people like to RATE for here o, well Check my pix for my profile sha, maybe I try too

wheesin: op if u are in ilorin lets Androidically hookup...we can share our stuffs...dis is my launcher

what games do u have, am in ilorin, garage to be exact

let's see urs

please lets see the launcher your using and the effects that makes it great, am using TFS launcher, love it cus of its easy accessibility, check it out

guy u too ugly joor, forget yarns, them swear for u ni, try find frog kiss make the swear commit sharp sharp o

pls guys is there no fairly use for this phone

Domwiz4all: I bought my own fairly used N2500 i can sell it 4u N2000 if interested.

guy serious nw. I wan know, which one be 2000?

abeg this phone fairly used for alaba na wetin? I mean tecno f7