Copy copy! Ladies are always copying the experiences of others. They measure their standards by what others say or do. That is why you drive men into treating you badly.

If a man watches porn, he learns porn-tricks. When you listen to your peers as a lady, you learn things that don't apply to you. Don't forget, your organ is not positioned the same way as the person you listen to, neither is the size and depth equal (if you think your organ's position, size and depth doesn't matter when it comes to pleasure, ask the Chinese. They have literature on the type of women suitable for pleasure according to the seasons of the year). At the end of the day, both parties have bad experiences.

Why do you hide what pleases you from your man? Is it because he's going to brand you as "spoiled"?

I heard one lady say, "I won't show my man what makes me tick. Let him find out for himself." I think that is an unfortunate stand to take. You're sure to get: "Wham, bang, thank you ma'am". Communication in a relationship, especially when it comes to sex is KEY!

Please Google "PERIMENOPAUSE" and read as much as you can about it. It is the onset of Menopause in women - generally from 35 years going, caused by hormones. Guys, if your gf or wife becomes a talkative suddenly, becomes argumentative suddenly and begins to nag over issues that you deem "unnecessary" suddenly, kindly know that her hormones are shifting south.

Learn about these changes and treat her right.

Read: 66 Peri menopause / Menopause Symptoms you may experience which may help some ladies: https://patient.info/forums/discuss/66-peri-menopause-menopause-symptoms-you-may-experience-which-may-help-some-ladies-271903