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lilwetdick:
many confused boys with personality disorders praising themselves for their inability to communicate and form relationships with their fellow human

well that's how you see it but please how do you cope with forcing yourself or trying to convince people who don't value you in their lives??

Chukapage:
"immature" because they refused asslicking bitches ?? Or because they refused being treated like TRASH by confused girls ?? your reverse Manipulation is wack! Try again!

I wonder ooo

Chukapage:
you just couldn't wrap your head round a guy not giving a f**k . ?.All guys pass true that young foolish phase of doing shit for pussy but it's only some guys that grow pass that phase few though and the funny thing is most of the time these types of guys end up doing good in life because the focus all their energy in adding value to themselves and when you know your worth and the value you bring trust me YOU WON'T ALLOW ANYBODY TREAT YOU LIKE SHIT!

This few lines has really inspired me.

Lonelypacifist6:
Don't you girls do it too, Don't you cut off guys who don't give in to your whims and caprices? So what's immature about that? If something doesn't go your way you girls just like putting it off is immature or bad, masters at reverse psychology.

I wonder, some girls ve thousands on guys chating them on their contact, once they discover you re not a maga and ll not pay that's the end.

PharoahIII:
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I never knew that I had a second me somewhere in this world...na wa o this op has just described me even more than i would have done myself...if I may ask, did you used to visit brothels, or perhaps still do, for therein your (or our) problem may lie?

No i don't.

[quote author=Beeron post=84683871]Never call it quit or break up with a girl you desire due to unfavourable situationship. Ghosting is allowed but NEVER tell her you breaking up!......there is every chance of you still hitting that p ussy as long as you haven't officially declared a break up. CLICK on my username to view the latest CHEAP Benz on sale.[/quote
Your head get plenty engine oil.

[quote author=lilwetdick post=84681944]in as much that you try to act like a someone who knows what he his doing, in your mind, you know you are a loser

you are controlled by your emotions instead of your brain[/quoteBeing controlled by emotions makes one a looser, i don't agree with you please

lilwetdick:
it is neither pride, anger or intolerance but rather the mentality of losers, another stuff is that you have low self esteem and also an introvert, you look like a guy that can beat up a girl for saying NO

you delete a girl number then after regrets and start looking for ways to get her number, even the girl that gives you sex, even though you have deleted her number, you know in your mind that you are looking for ways to get the number back.

as i have written before, you are just run by emotions, you do not see the big picture, you are very impulsive, you do not think before you act.

Ok thanks, i really want to work on myself, how can one work on this or get out of this??
I just clocked 27 and hoping to settle down soonest, like how do you keep up or keep following a woman who does not want you or who gives you attitude for a very long time?

mrcalcufast:
wow!I thought I was the only one with this sort of attitude!
Four or five years ago,I saw it as an achievement if I ever got to bang any babe,even most niggaz in my hood saw it as if they had mined gold each time they got to hit a pussy,I could go any length to make sure I bang any lady.I am not a church goer,but there was a time I had a deeper life babe in my hood who got mad ass,and killer curves, almost everynig*a wanted to smash her in my hood, each time she was approached,she would invite the person to any ongoing program in her church,this attitude pissed lots of niggas off in my hood,they had to start avoiding her like a plague, after I learnt about her theatrics,I went to her,as usual,she invited me to an ongoing program at her church,I had to oblige(NB: prior to the day I approached this bitch,nigga hasn't been in church in over 8years ).
That was how I started attending this lady's church,she would call me each time she wanted to leave for church,and we would meet at the junction,she even told me to avoid sitting with my niggas if i really wanted her,I could no longer sit with niggaz in the hood in the open due to the fear of this my deeper life's holy Mary cutting off our newly established relationship.
This sh*t continued for over 5months,I could no longer flex with niggaz at our usual spots or any open place, except if we got to flex in a secluded spot.The day I finally got to smash this babe, before going in,I had thought I was going to swim in a shallow pool,omor,I found myself in the middle of Mediterranean Sea(this bi*ch had told me before now that she's had sex just once),as if that wasn't enough, after about five thrust,the odour of a rotten sardine filled the room,I just paused,smiled,and told her I needed to get something,I went outside and took some herbal concortions,my JT was already rock solid,I got inside and banged this biatch like I was auditioning for a role in the porn industry,her pussy went dry,I kept pounding hard,each time I felt the urge to come,I would remember the numerous stuffs this biatch denied me with my niggas,the cum would cease immediately.To cut the long story short,that was the last time I got to bang this biatch,even if she still wanted us to bang after then,the Sunday of the same week I had banged her,she called to ask if I was ready for church,I rained some amadioha invoked curses on her,she had to end the call,that was the last time the bitch called.
These days,if I walked up to any biatch and request for her number,and she attempts to give the number,I would simply tell her not to drop the number if she knew she would act funny if I call her,the serious and matured ones will drop,the immature and unserious ones will hiss and walk away.infact,once we start getting along,but I'm the one who calls and chat you up at all times,I would just cut off the ties.I used to have this same feeling you are having now,but I later got to know that those times I would do anything to get into a lady's pants,I had no self worth,and no value then,now I'm a man of high value and self worth.
In jayz's voice'if you having gurl problems,I feel bad for you son,I got 99problems but a bitch ain't one'.
Don't mind the long epistle bro,this is the best way I feel I could express myself.Ciao!

;Dlaughing and rolling on the floor here

BiggyB242:
I thought I'm the only one with this problem. I'm trying to stop bro, funny thing is if you play with these girls a little bit they will eventually say yes. I know these things but my pride wouldn't just let me. I tell them "I don't keep female friends"

Yes, we become lonely and try to get the number we once deleted and it makes you look like a fool. I have deleted and retrieved numbers so many times. Most guys around me are the type that even theirs Exs still keep contact because they are so playful. I'm learning from them.

Funny thing I'm good looking with good dress sense, well educated yet I'm still single. I can't just be patient with any girl.

Patient is the key to any girl's heart.

We ve the same story, i can't even keep an ex because one attitude of hers ll so piss me off, I'm also well educated, good looking. That patience is just not easy, i can't endure a lady playing me like that or making me feel stupidity.

SWORD419:
Ua not alone, like the poster above me said it self respect, our type of atittude attracts only serious girls

God bless you jare

I'm a cool guy, tall, dark skinned and i thank God to some extent am good looking, i can't stand attitude from some girls and i think this has cost me alot of relationships and friendship.

The moment a girl say no to my love proposal, I feel bad and hurt that sometimes i delete their numbers, i can't keep female friends because the moment they visit, i feel the urge to ve sex with them, am an introvert that does not really know how to play with a girl like a maga, i do it average.

I'm still managing life so i only hang out once in a while. This attitude of most times leave me bored and lonely that to some extent i start looking for numbers of the ladies i deleted to call them again and try my luck. For example if i meet a lady and we get talking, i expect her to call me too atleast once in a while or even flash, chat me up and i shouldn't be the one following her around. Again it shouldn't be the usual hi, yes, ok, k replies/conversation from her.

I really wonder how do some guys keep asking a lady out for months, then get fried zoned and they re cool with it and cope fine? I find it impossible, especially when a lady feel i can't do without her or she's doing me a favour, i just dump and delete her to clear her doubts. This pride and anger has cost me alot and i don't know how to work on it, a babe am close to who always give me good sex came the other day and refused to allow me touch her, i got angry when she left and deleted her number, sometimes i get so angry i say annoying insultive things to get this girls upset then i go bacj and apologize.

The other day a lady begged me money, i broke up with her because she started avoing me when i said i don't ve, I've deleted her number and retrieved it more than four times because the thought of the good sex we had keep coming into my mind, is this normal and how do i work on myself to be a bit patient?
Is this anger, pride, low self esteem, being childish or Intolerance?
Mature advice please.

What is Op saying exactly, Vocabulary 0%

Trcn or whatever scamming poor teachers to generate money, this country is a scam.

jeff1607:
lol, you said it all bro but there are still good ones here in Nigeria

All those girls forming feminists here re very arrogant and proud, they ll hardly ask u for money, if you can deal with the pride and arrogance and be enjoying her good, if you can't deal with it i advise don't go near them

Whether it cause bald hair or not, just quit that rubbish, it's very addictive and can destroy your life. Don't let it get to a point where it ll cause u harm that re irreversible like Erectile dysfunction and others.

Op just tell me, how mucu per night?

SeunDobo:
My Guy you are not stingy ,infact that's how I behave but the part I hate most is that when lady's come greet you ...no dey give #300 it's so rediculos..if na your tie tie girlfriend it's good but new girl or female friend trying to give her atleast 500 naira ..if you are broke ..but If you get money make ham 1k shikena

Doing sometime for ladies is not scammed unless if you fool yourself and you let Dem take advantage of you ..

For example if you meet a lady that you get along with very well ..you can still sprend very little money on her like 2 or 3k so you study her and after this Moni ..make advance to her about sex and if she don't angry dump her ass hole girl plenty bros ireeee ooo

;DOk sir, the last woman i gave or spent 2/3k we were in a relationship and she deserve it, but all this slay queens, if i spend pass 1k chai.. You re too fine be that, infact consider yourself lucky.

NevetsIbot:
Big man.. you'd say in your area.... Everything related to food is so cheap here.. fish, meat, ponmo, pepper and tomato especially.... My first time going to the market had me surprised....

Where I stay a nice plate of goat meat pepper soup and Catfish peer soup is just #400....

Same here, i live in the Northern part of the country and things re cheaper here.

ednut1:
even those that work still bill. A girl on 200k will be asking for uber money or hair money

A gold digger will always be a gold digger even when she earns million, there's no contentment, she see collecting extra from guys as a side hustle.

Attention

tolugar:
My no 1 rule of engagement

Bill me and see me no more.

Even sub or airtime.

Dear op

Repeat after me

I can’t date a broke girl. X3

Same here bro

Op about to commit murder, why terminate life that you cannot give, please if you re really serious you should desist from it else the spirit of the dead baby ll not forgive you, think of the health risks involved, what if you loose your w***, what if you loose your life or what if something goes wrong?
Please take care of the pregnancy, i wish you safe delivery.

jeff1607:
Bro go for the feminists, they won't ask or make demands at least pride won't let them

I tried one, she don't ask truly but she's got pride and very arrogant

Divinelady:
. 100perfume,200malt and 200 hotspot....ogbeni what's your problem?

Babes nothing, i don't ve free money to spend on pussies, mind you what u girls don't know is a guy can spend any thing to get into your pants, but you see real niggas like us.... We no send u, we both enjoy the Bleep so why should it be like am your Daddy the moment we start dating or like am owing u money.

Ebonygirl1:
Nope...just broke

Sorry Auntie ;Dam not broke, i just know how to spend my money wisely. If working a legit job to catter for myself, take care of responsibilities (siblings, parents) is broke, then auntie dangote, give me your no and name your prize for one night & see how ll pay u double and shine that your wide congo
Sugar daddies don finish this type.

I'm an average graduate still managing and hustling for a better job, my salary is 45-50k. I stay alone & pay my bills plus other responsibilities.

I've been into failed relationships in the past from my woman cheating, fucking around or being a gold digger. Lately i started having trust issues and as am typing right now I've only toy gfs or flings with no feelings attached, i only call them when i need to charge my battery, i ll
make them laugh and be like when ll u come see me now, then somehow they come and we arrange each other & that's all, annoying part is most of this girls Bleep around & i find out, my problem is am too smart that i find out easily if a woman is fucking around. hence i can't say i want to settle with any of this girls for a serious relationship, i really want to live a responsible life, ve my own woman but irresponsible girls everywhere.

Lately one i just started dating a lady i so much adore, after spending our first day and night together, she got home next day and called to ask for 3k, i told her honestly i don't ve that cash at the moment but maybe nextweek, since that day she started avoiding me & infact she has refused to see me since then.

The irony of the whole thing is i spend more than this on my guy friends & feel it's normal but giving a woman money is like being dupe, i gave a lady who came to my place yesterday 300naira for transport fare because from her place to mind is just 100naira, the eye she looked at me but this dude don't give a Bleep ;Dmind you she's fucking a guy who's my neighbor but we both pretended not to know.
I've lost so many relationship because of money because i feel am about to be duped, i only had few serious relationship in the past and i spend on average, because they deserve it and also spend on me as well.

The moment a lady ask me for money, airtime for sub that's the end, i don't care if u re testing me because if i ask lady to come sleep with me as a test am sure she ll not oblige.
Infact a lady came to myhouse last weekend and i subtracted all the money i spent entertaining her from what i intended to give her for tfare. (malt-200naira, snacks-200, she used data for over 30mins through hotspot- 200naira, she used my perfume 100naira..her change is remaining 300naira so i gave her 300naira while she was leaving). She got home and started giving me attitude.

Infact one of my ex we ve been really chating well and getting along but the day i saw please send me money, that's the last time we chatted since July this year.
Wait guys am i really stingy

Texty:
Relationship is not all about sex. If a guy really loves a girl, before sex comes in, it takes time. There will be this mutual feeling

Blatant lie!!!

NarnieSnyper:
Bro, you are right. I really once loved a lady but after some months apart(distance), I think she lost the sex vibe between us. I tried few times to initiate it but she was always trying to avoid it. I thought she was having it else where but she swore she wasn't. I didn't believe her though, I just told her "I love you but if there's no sex here, I don't think it will work. Off to the next girl". She got angry and started crying, telling me I value sex more than the relationship. I simply asked her why she didn't think about it before denying me sex, since she felt I have no right to have her Cookies, I told her she has no right to stop me from seeking it else where.

Truthfully, sex holds more than 50% of a relationship.

I agree with you and this is one of the challenge am going through presently, most of the girls i meet and want to date can bleep anything, they Bleep around and am a very observant and smart person, i ll definitely find out and dumb their ass and move to the next lady.
Seems all this love love love is just an illusion, it doesn't exist, it only exist in movies, books & in our imagination.

Martinez39:
>> Romantic love is nonexistent. It's an illusion that exists only in the minds of men.
>> All girls are like that. They all fvck around and are all about the money. You are just a utility they would value until you can no longer provide.
>> Cut off the relationship and stop making women your priority. Focus on your goals. Romantic relationship is a scam and a pure waste of time.
>> No girl is special, irreplaceable, indispensable, or the best thing to happen since slice bread. Once they misbehave, dump them immediately.

Sincerely, you should start thinking smart and be bold. Stop running away from harsh truth.

You ve nailed and said it all, but how long will we continue to dump, dump this one and the next is worse.