Makavelli25:
Same shit happening to me. Am in love with my stepsis
We are planning to run away

Seriously? Do your parents know about it? What did they say

SweetCunt97:
Do u know what incest means? The op and the lady surely has different surnames and I'm sure it's probably a kinsmen something

Surname differs but the surname has a single sentence holding the name. For eg chukwunonso, chukwuebuka

konkerall:
Someone is here looking for advice on how to continue to indulge in incest and taboo and in the name of fucking love.

Fool at 25. Go and marry your job if you have one cos obviously you ain't matured for marriage yet.
You should do more of flower boys things during wedding to gain more experience.
Nwa mkpi(small he-goat).
U need like 25 more years of experience literally you need to regrow up.

Thanks so much, I think I need this to spank sense into my brain. I'll always revert to this. Thanks

nnaeyes6:
The issue is not that she us from ur village. Everyone marries from his or her village. The issue is that u were not listening to what ur father was saying. He meant "the girl is from ur blood lineage which is popularly called IKWU. And no one marries his Or her IKWU. It is a taboo, unless it is done unknowingly. Ask ur dad again which IKWU u come from and let him be specific in mentioning it. Inquire from the girl's family if they are the same (note: some people's village ikwu is link to fatther and some are linked to the mother.
Therefore, if ur father tells u and ur ikwu are the same, please kindly leave her but if they are not same, go ahead and marry her. However, if they are not the same and ur father doesn't want u to marry her, inquire more, maybe she could be ur lost step sister.
Thanks

I don't know about that. Just that they said we're siblings since we're from the same village.

Neroiam:



Wait o ...OP ..let me get this clear!! ...did your father say you're related to her by blood ..or is it just because you're from the same village ?

He said people from the same village don't marry each other because they're related somehow

idonhammer:
A very rich friend of mine from imo state made that same mistake few years ago by ignoring his parents warning not to marry a girl from the same village,do you know what the guy is doing now? He is a mad man at owerri ebeiri market. As at 1996 ,this guy has two big cosmetics shops in orlu market. He was the first guy to buy Toyota Fj cruiser in orlu market and later bought Honda Element.Now everything is gone.He is a mad man now because he committed an abomination by marrying a girl that is related to him by blood.i feel pained because this guy paid my flight ticket when I traveled to Spain in 1997,but there is no way I can help because the crase don enter market level.So for your own good, leave that girl and look for another wife to marry.after all there are so many fishes in the river.if you fail to listen to your parents and marry that girl,your own don finish be dat.

Thank you so much for this. I appreciate

Davepal:
Ask your father very well. Which clan does she come from ? If you guys are of the same clan, then it's advisable not to marry her.

Every community in Igbo land has a clan. A community might be up to 4 to 5 clans, more or less. Clan is a lineage of the same family spread within villages of the same community.

I had similar experience, but i was discourage by the girl's mother.

Please how did you go about it? What did you do next? Did you break up with her? If yes how? I really don't want to hurt her. I still want to keep in touch with her forever.. I love her so much

Mathiasa:
U dated for 4yrs and u never asked her where she's from abi? What exactly were u guys always discoursing all this while?
Abeg I don't believe this story.

I knew we were from the same village but didn't know about the tradition

I had to open a new account for this, pardon me for Punctuation errors. I have to go straight to the point so as not to bore you... My story goes thus

I'm a young man of 25. I met this very beautiful girl, aged 23 now, we've dated 4 years now. She's so humble, the love grew out of nowhere. She does everything a woman would do for a man and I do everything a man will do for a woman.

I found myself not doing anything without her and she cannot do anything without involving me, we actually love each other very much.

She started pestering me to have a blood oath with her because she was scared I would leave her. I laughed it off cos I knew I wouldn't cheat on her, she is everything I wanted in a woman.

Trouble started when I brought her home to meet my parents, I was actually happy that I had found my wife...

When she left, my father asked me where she was from, and I told him and my father told me I can't marry her because she was from the same village with me and thereby related by blood thereby marrying her is an abomination that she was my sister so to say and said our kinsmen would not be Involved if I insist on marrying her... I felt my world crumbling down like a pack of cards...

I told my girl and she was like, it's an old tradition and nobody will dictate to her who she would marry and she loves me and there was no going back...

As a man, I thought about it and wanted to let her go because I wouldn't want the stigma to be on us and my unborn kids... I showed her some attitude to make her hate me but she didn't, rather she would rather beg me not to leave her even when I'm at fault. I feel bad anytime I do anything to hurt her feelings...

Now, I actually want to get her pregnant and damn the consequences, do a court wedding if the need arises and relocate with her out from our state and start a new life elsewhere...

Another mind is telling me to let her go so we can move on with our lives, or even be a fugitive for her... I however know she will hurt herself if I leave her... I'm very confused about everything, I seriously need help... Why is Igbo tradition this way? I found love with this girl, now everything is about to be stripped away from me, just like that... I seriously need an advice please...

I love this girl so much and she make me happy


Please move this to front page so I can hear from others please...