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Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Atolu01: 10:17pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
I thought marriage was for weak "men". Confused things. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Christmasdon(m): 10:18pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
MY BROTHER JUST WAIT A LITTLE, DELAY THE MARRIAGE PROPOSALS AND WAIT YOU WILL SEE THAT MATURITY AND SENSES WILL FALL ON YOU. MATURITY MY BROTHER IS WHAT YOU NEED. NOTHING HAS HAPPENED AND YOU ALREADY SHOUTING. MATURITY WILL MAKE YOU SLAP YOURSELF WHEN YOU REMEMBER. YOU HAVE BEEN CLOUDED NOT TO SEE. JUST CALM DOWN, PURSUE ACADEMICS THA MORE , SENSES OF THANKFULLY I DID NOT MARRY THAT GIRL. MY BROTHER SAVE YOUR LIFE. DO NOT MARRY HER IS WHAT I'M SAYING. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Mariangeles(f): 10:19pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Mandem12: Are you sure you'd be able to handle the consequence(s) if you decide to go ahead with your plan? 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Neroiam(m): 10:19pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
So ..if everyone from the same village are related, it means everyone from the same state are related na.. Also everyone from the same country.... Wtf am i even saying seff, we're all related. From Adam. Since the "we're all related" fact has been established, Op, ask your parents why they married?? Op, your hand clap? As in , you get money? ...I no sure.. If pepper rest where u dey, u go know say this kine stupid tradition na rubbish. Hustle o.. Make dem no tell u who u go marry and who not to marry! 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by 4xplore: 10:20pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
In my church i cant count the no of couples who went against tradition and their family's personal interest yet remain happily married to this day. Infact my friend's Dad wrote our church not to join his son with his girlfriend (now wife) with threats. Today they are still happily married with a son. The moral of the story is this- Once God is involved, tradition and everything else does not matter. 72Morale: 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Mandem12: 10:21pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Davepal:Please how did you go about it? What did you do next? Did you break up with her? If yes how? I really don't want to hurt her. I still want to keep in touch with her forever.. I love her so much |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Juniorangel(m): 10:22pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Some people are still suffering today for the incest the committed without knowing and you that is aware of it ur punishment will be more than double if u commit it. If you doubt ask around and see the state of the people that commited incest or their children. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by AWFCNAIJA: 10:23pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
72Morale: This is a lie... Too long told that it has led many into unhappy unions and marriages devoid of love. Love is and will continue to be the bed and sustaining rock of any marital Union till the end of time. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Mrbenny001: 10:24pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
You mean you don't have any elderly person, maybe spiritual or any councillor that you can meet especially some one you knows she respect, oga you need someone that will seat her down , |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Ay04z(m): 10:24pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Wetin consign me. Op go on ur knees and pray. Leave emotions... 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Nobody: 10:24pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Reelmii:exuberance 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by bhest(m): 10:26pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
adioolayi:My friend, keep quiet cause you don't even know the story of Samson and Delilah that you refrenced. Your advice is noid and void. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Nobody: 10:27pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
pocohantas:Wizzy |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by 4xplore: 10:27pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
I concur. AWFCNAIJA: 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by CsRockefeller(m): 10:27pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
If we check now, you have had sex with her. Even our illiterate great grand father's and mothers are more sensible and rational than us with all our supposed knowledge and information. Oga walk out before the unthinkable happens. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Neroiam(m): 10:27pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
adioolayi: Laye.. The age of Methuselah is nothing compared to the wisdom of Solomon.. I no need climb stool seff, i go see pass that elder wey sitdon for ground... Mtcheew nonsense tradition 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by PuZZyNegro: 10:28pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Mandem12: Truth is, you cannot marry that girl and it will be stupid of you to elope with her. YOU WILL SURELY REGRET IT. This is mostly common with villages that are very small where each family are related one way or the other. My village is like that whereas the neighboring village and in fact, many other villages in my town can marry within themselves. If you do stay in the village, you will notice and feel that oneness among all your village people that makes it impossible for them to marry. Don't let westernization ruin your life 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by CsRockefeller(m): 10:28pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
If we check now, you have had sex with her. Even our illiterate great grand father's and mothers are more sensible and rational than us with all our supposed knowledge and information. Oga walk out before the unthinkable happens. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by idonhammer: 10:29pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
A very rich friend of mine from imo state made that same mistake few years ago by ignoring his parents warning not to marry a girl from the same village,do you know what the guy is doing now? He is a mad man at owerri ebeiri market. As at 1996 ,this guy has two big cosmetics shops in orlu market. He was the first guy to buy Toyota Fj cruiser in orlu market and later bought Honda Element.Now everything is gone.He is a mad man now because he committed an abomination by marrying a girl that is related to him by blood.i feel pained because this guy paid my flight ticket when I traveled to Spain in 1997,but there is no way I can help because the crase don enter market level.So for your own good, leave that girl and look for another wife to marry.after all there are so many fishes in the river.if you fail to listen to your parents and marry that girl,your own don finish be dat. Mandem12: 6 Likes 1 Share
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Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by ghettochild4u(m): 10:30pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Justdogood:Wait oooo.. How did the children of Adam increase? |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by STRENGTHesq(m): 10:30pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Unless you are ready to bear the brunt of the consequences of your actions,eg: death of your kids in infancy,unexplainable hardship etc. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by PuZZyNegro: 10:31pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Neroiam: Before a tradition is set, there's a reason for that. These are mainly small villages where each person is related in one way or the other 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by seunak2016: 10:32pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
sacx:so because he's OK at 25yr means he's a Yahoo boy or could be yahoo boy...isalright |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Neroiam(m): 10:32pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Mandem12: Wait o ...OP ..let me get this clear!! ...did your father say you're related to her by blood ..or is it just because you're from the same village ? 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by chloride6: 10:33pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
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Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by nnaeyes6: 10:33pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
The issue is not that she us from ur village. Everyone marries from his or her village. The issue is that u were not listening to what ur father was saying. He meant "the girl is from ur blood lineage which is popularly called IKWU. And no one marries his Or her IKWU. It is a taboo, unless it is done unknowingly. Ask ur dad again which IKWU u come from and let him be specific in mentioning it. Inquire from the girl's family if they are the same (note: some people's village ikwu is link to fatther and some are linked to the mother. Therefore, if ur father tells u and ur ikwu are the same, please kindly leave her but if they are not same, go ahead and marry her. However, if they are not the same and ur father doesn't want u to marry her, inquire more, maybe she could be ur lost step sister. Thanks 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by klax(m): 10:34pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
72Morale: You have given him the best advise let him be talking about stupid love. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Swealy: 10:37pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
This one pass me But just pray to God to lead you Sha Everything will be okay |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Mandem12: 10:37pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
idonhammer:Thank you so much for this. I appreciate 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Mandem12: 10:38pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Neroiam:He said people from the same village don't marry each other because they're related somehow |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Neroiam(m): 10:40pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
PuZZyNegro: If they can't trace their lineages and conclude they're related, let them get married, God will bless their union not tradition. 2 Likes |
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