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If you don't have a sister that disgrace you and your family name, give God the glory everyday forever.

This generation of women, most are without shame and self respect.

Men have learnt never to commit, na your pussy go collect waiting nor good till you near menopause.

Men knows the right ones to wife when the time and person is available.

Thank God of the universe for not having a sister in this life.

I heard opposite of your conviction about them.


They're very hard working woman with passionate hustling spirit.

You might meet the wrong one sent to you by your village people.


Take it as life experience and move on with better hope for better opportunities and life.

So the girl don't even have any thing she bought on her own?

She still get mind break up with her father boyfriend?


She thought the guy was a simp but forgot in every action there is equal and opposite reaction.

Men are getting wiser, can't lose on every side to a woman.

Only narcissists that doesn't take no for an answer.

Rejection is part of life when it comes to relationship or dating. Never take rejection too far but compliment and protection.


When a woman tells me no, it's always protection for me.

Every woman can never accept or like you for who you are. Know this and have peace.

Life is market place, the legacy you left behind speaks even when you are gone.


Live a life of positive legacy with God grace.


That's why as a man, never live for validation and approval of people.

A wise man can never date or be in any relationship with an orphan with parents.




The worst is entitlement girlfriend. Your peace is gone until you walk away.

The guy should face his life, he has done a lot to reconcile but the forgiveness is now in his father’s hands to do.


Make money as a man and never depend on family inheritance.

Only narcissist don’t take no for as an answer without revenge.

Do the crime do the time in maximum, the guy nor get sense.


Every rejection is always protection when you can comprehend.

Do the crime do the time in maximum.


Freedom is always priority, no matter the anger.


May his soul Rest In Peace.

Power belongs to the people in democracy not government cos the people determines who governs them.


The universe knows everyone share of food when sitting at the karma restaurant.


It’s always free without payment.

When you sell your brother, the buyer can never trust you after buying him.

Trust, respect and loyalty is earned with dignity and integrity.


GEJ is a legend.

When the going gets tough, the tough keep going.

Mind is the foundation of success in life not by crowd.

Without education, the rest is possible but the foundation will never resist critical storms of test for elevation.

Education is the development of mind, passing or learning of knowledge and character for the betterment of life in general not just about wealth.


Education is always a priority


There are different levels of education and certificates is just one of them.

Education is never a scam

Men without self awareness will learn the hard way and heal with time and wisdom.


Women are the ones to be disturbing you and all that’s important is building your life positively with wealth through the grace of God.

Your attention,

Your money,

Your availability “ access “ are your life energy. Protect them with ruthless boundaries and humility.

Keep your standard of the truth if you are innocent.


Give them the money equivalent for the card, then start looking for a better job cos your supervisor is against you.


Till when you get a new place of work, make sure you vet everything plug in your office or space to avoid another set up like this.

That your supervisor nor clean, he go soon Bleep you up big time with his conclusion without evidence.

Nothing new under the sun!!!!!!!


Only a simp will accept a child without DNA test for prove, especially the first pregnancy during relationship with girlfriend.


In all you do as a man, test every child that comes to life from relationship or marriage.

It's dignified to know the truth from the beginning without assumption.


DNA is 150k, you deserve not to slave your prime, sweat, blood and resources for kids that you will definitely discover not us in the future.

Better discover today, heal and start your real family with self awareness and happiness.

Gunners for life!!!!!!!!


Arsenal till infinity.

Lovelink1991:
The question is Do you think he will be able to stop wike in Ikwere LGA in 2027

When the going gets tough the tough keep going. He is man with balls.

Samantha125:
Don't worry, I don't plan on acting on the crush, as long as he stays in his lane, I stay in mine, and we only meet during special occasions, I believe we'll be just fine.

With time, the crush will eventually fade away... I just don't understand why would someone in his or her late 40s or 50s with grown children would still want to get married and expect his or her grown children or niblings to be forming new sibling or cousin relationships with their grown step children... Our cousins and siblings should only be those that we grew up with or grew up knowing about.

You are always special to your husband and family. Keep that light shining!!!!!!!


Yea time heals and as you said with time you guys will be fine.


Don’t blame your uncle for his life choice to marry now cos this might be the wife he has been waiting for ever since.

Lovelink1991:
This guy has always be an anti-Wike since he left office as governor to be the FCT minister. He is ever ready to chase wike from river state

That’s the solution and way out. There’s is always time for justice.

Samantha125:
We're not biologically related, he's my uncle's step-son that was recently introduced into the family when he married his mother... Even so, in my tribe, it is culturally allowed to date and get married from your maternal uncle's house.

When my uncle's mates were getting married in their prime years, he was busy womanizing, now that he's tired and has decided to settle down, I'm now expected to be cousins with my spec, it shall never be well with that old man called my uncle... My husband is a wonderful man and he doesn't deserve any of this.

Kill that lust in your mind with immediate alacrity!!!!!!!!

It’s not going to worth it as you think, life is all about choice but some choices are always going to hurt us at the end with regrets.

Your husband deserves better and you know it deeply in your heart.

Don’t act with emotions but with empathy, clarity and self respect to your immediate family.

Look within with dignity and you guys will be fine as just cousins.


Life is all about choice and integrity is what we do rightly when no one is watching.

May the souls of the dead Rest In Peace!!!!!!!!


Them still carry am give police? He will be alive in jail enjoying life without freedom.

This is just the beginning, what goes around comes around with interest.

Empty vessel make the loudest noise, true power is silent.


Narcissism is full of bitterness and empty power built on sand.

Power is transient, what goes around usually comes around.


All it takes is time and patience the truth shall prevail without hesitation.

This is just the beginning of revelations.

Samantha125:
I get your point, but this is still nothing compared to being attracted to the cousin that you only just recently met and he happens to be the only family member working and living in the same province as you.

As a result, your parents expect you guys to have a close cousin relationship, be buddies, and have each other's backs like your other cousins that you grew up with... It shall never be well with my uncle for marrying late in life.

I understand better now, all you need is self control and never let your guard down cos he’s your cousin and blood.


Blood is thicker than water, you guys are family.

Samantha125:
With a work bestie, it's not that much of a big deal because you have an option to change jobs and cut the person out of life permanently, unlike when you have a secret crush on your cousin because you're literally stuck with the person for the rest of your life since he or she is a family member.

Only if there was a medication to specifically stop married people from being attracted to any other people except their spouses.

To your last paragraph, attraction is always natural and there’s nothing both genders can do about it.


The mind is the foundation of negative or positive thinking. Negative thoughts grows when nurtured with lust, without self respect, dignity and respect for the institution of marriage and family.


Not allowing negative access with ruthless boundaries is the only solution and that’s discipline. There will never be medication and there’s nothing wrong to crush on strangers, colleagues and cousins.



Another man’s wife is no go area for men with wisdom and a wise man can never have personal closure with any married woman be it at work or family.

Fidelity is never negotiable with firm boundaries.


It’s always foolishness for a man to be a bestie to another man’s wife and a woman to be bestie to another woman’s husband.


“The only approved bestie to a woman is her husband and to a man his wife “

Even the Bible said two shall become one when married.

Life is all about choice, nobody damage anybody but choices have consequences either positive or negative at the end of the decision.


Everything comes from within and it's usually free without payment. Bitterness and happiness is free infinitely.

Those that are bitter refuse to learn the lessons of their choice and mistake but wish to revenge on the next person to feel alive and they damage themselves more without clarity.

Never in life try to make unhappy person happy cos you will be drained of your own happiness with their bitterness unknowly.

Help bitter or damage people from far without closure.

sammirano:
Una no know pass financial struggles in this country, these girls were battling mental disturbance beyond your comprehension. RIP girls

Not interested in your emotional history bro, you left were i said mental disorders but only comprehend my financial motivation for legitimate hustlers.

Read to comprehend or ask for clarification when you don't.

Never quote me out of your own misunderstanding of my post. You can post your RIP without quoting me.

psalmsjob:
You sarted you comment well one would think but ended it poorly,

Everything in life is not about material things. Those maybe are your own definition of what could depress someone but clearly these girls didn't commit suicide because they felt they will never be able to buy AMG 350 63 tomorrow because they Re trekking today no but they lost a mother tragically and there's no having another mother like her ever since and unfortunately felt dieing same way their mother died can give them closure or reunite them with her.

I usually do not have any rip to wish anyone who dies by suicide. No matter the issue,suicide is not an option ever.....you just die for nothing if you kill yourself.

You misunderstood the AMG part, for people generally grinding legitimately to better their life. Who don't have today can be in abundance tomorrow.

My post wasn't just on the topic alone, the comprehension is clear enough.

May their souls rest in peace, God be with their grieving father this hard time.


No matter the storm, never give up on yourself, dreams and God.

There's is always a beautiful light at the end of the tunnel after the storms of life.

There's is no dignity and solution in suicide no matter the mental disorders, pains and fear.

Who trek today fit buy AMG 350 63 tomorrow, day break every where clear just keep grinding legitimately.

Life is sweet and beautiful with hope and faith in God.

Na who them catch be thief, no single girl sexually active bleep one dick at a particular time. Only 2% out of 100 does cos it's natural.

They don't put their eggs in one basket, no matter how discipline and sweet she pretend.

Have discovered this long time ago, never you commit and let them be the ones disturbing you for commitment and marriage that's what they value.

Move on man, a broken relationship is better than a failed marriage.

Never in life as a man forget cheating, forgive and ghost her completely forever without bitterness but for dignity.


" My girlfriend, my girlfriend na scam cos most times na our girlfriend.

" My boyfriend, my boyfriend na scam most times na their boyfriend.

Na when woman you never marry they your place na be your turn. That's why I bleep them without commitment every given time am available for good match and they always come for more without hesitation.

Man you are a king, kings don't share their women knowingly and walk away with dignity with immediate alacrity.

Finidi G is the Nigeria legend.

Evaress:
Keep been strong and keep fighting. Find anything to hold on to. Whatever can make you happy no matter small.

Writing books is the only thing keeping me sane now. Although i'm not making any money from it and i wish i did.

Evaress,

Be the strong woman that you are without attaching your happiness to book written alone.


Generate your happiness from positive aspects of your life cos worries change nothing it only add to it negatively. There's is no perfect human being , you were created by God for a unique purpose only you can fulfill on earth.

You are the best of your kind and always remember you are special to yourself and God.

Never live your life for the validation of people, there's always a reason for life storms with lessons to learn.

There's is a set day of permanent victory by God.

Thank you for encouraging others to be strong, everyone is important and useful.

God bless you for the strength and encouragement.

In all you do, always put your situation under condition and never allow your situation put you under condition cos that's the depressing not usually devil.

The mind is the foundation of life. when the going gets tough, the tough keep going without giving up.

Never give up on yourself, dreams and God.

Always be happy cos happiness is freeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee and infinite.