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That’s the reality of life and generation we are now not from ages back!!!!!!!!

Men are raise to build value every day from birth, they were born without value of empathy from the society.

When there’s a storm in a man’s life , the society expects him to use his knowledge and experience within his capacity to evolve without any solution.

Some will mock him
Some will judge him for wrong investment
Some will walk away
Some will stay for few minutes, hours, days, weeks, years and infinity.
Some will smear your reputation

But real men never give up cos that’s pruning stage of the storm.

Only real men actually stay alive to the end while dead to see the light at the end of the tunnel.

When the going get tough, the tough keep going to the cross line. It’s all about timing, always remember Gods time is the best and never give up on yourself and God.

God never fail those that believe in him with guts. no matter the storm , always be calm and be still.

Stillness in the midst of storms is the key to success.

In a nutshell, women are born with value and gets empathy from the society in every storm of life.


The society will never mock a woman
The society will never judge a woman
The society will never smear a woman reputation except her values and prime was wasted with the clarity and conviction of hook up with poor decisions of life.


Outside that, some go with clarity and conviction of hook up to get themselves out of life’s storms and most doing so destroy the blueprints of their soul.

Na only God fit save you nor be your Toto as you think, when you do that, you have limit the blueprints of your destiny.

A real woman will stay still with the clarity and conviction of God’s time is the best and work in obedience with God through the storm to the cross line.

A real woman is happy and completely safe with her life and value for her life time.

Women always get helps and helped during storms from the society and God. men must evolve with God.

Men need to build first with clarity and conviction of their blueprints with God, before even thinking of women in their life’s.

Happy birthday, more blessings and happiness to you madam.

SamuraiXXX:
Rubbish figures that someone just plucked out of thin air

All information are receive important till it proves otherwise.

Correct or not there is a message attached to the numbers for most men to wake up with clarity.

The moral society is almost gone today because the head of most families lose their masculinity to the wife.

Even a real woman will resent you for loosing masculinity to her cos she wants a man that will be dad to her kids not just father.

Sonnobax15:

Na scarcity mindset dey make some men to mumu for bannies. If not,as a young man who's doing well for himself,na woman go dey beg to offer d0ggy for you .

Even me wey still dey manage my life small small,na only God know how many bannies I dey see dey run at this stage of my life. Cuz I've come to understand that many of them will only bring you destruction if you aren't wise.

Oil they your head, you be king.

Goo0dHardDick:
You have said it all. It's about clarity!

Any man thinking being masculine is about being toxic and arrogant is nothing but a phoo. Such men lacks understanding and probably filled with hatred and resentment for women. I hope they heal soon

Your level of clarity is vibrating strongly. You are a king

No matter the information most without clarity will always lose their masculinity to women.

It takes clarity not emotions to really understand women to some extent cos they too complex to completely understand.


In a nutshell, life is all about choice and women only value men with masculinity but not toxic.

Magnetic010:
can you wife also have one side nigga if she place you and the kids on a pedestal?

Where i come from, when a woman does that she goes to her father's house with immediate alacrity.



This is my choice and not priority forever. The last time i checked it was my life and have the clarity to live the Choice of life i want to glorify God through his grace and mercy.

In a nutshell, marriage is better in fidelity and integrity to protect the sacred values of it purpose.


Men need to be real and authentic with the little man in them asking questions about the logic and program of the world.

Love yourself more than the world and generation!!!!!!!!

No woman can ever exploit you till you meet the right one for you.

All men needs is selflove not expecting someone to love you for validation and approval.

Jesus Christ said love others the way you love yourself. So why won't you get hurt loving someone else above yourself.


Woman when go marry me go need courage and patience to understand me as husband.

Peace is all i get when I see some girls disgracing their family dignity with pride and senselessness.

Oluwa thank you for not having a sister.

Grant my wish of four boys dear universe.

Dtruthspeaker:
Sorry, brother to tell you the sharp Truth, you are not going to get mercy from God for you have already purposed in your heart to commit adultery. And adultery is one of the capital offences that cannot be forgiven. So you are not doing anything different from those who are unfaithful. Having a side thing is over far from the way of overcoming,

Love thyself bro, men who commit adultery are no different from those who put sniper in Fanta and drink it with barbecue fish

Men all i see is you are living a sinless life of perfection in every aspect of life.

My blue print of life is unique and different from yours as yours also unique to you.

The grace and mercy for my life is totally different from yours.
That's why life is all about choice and happiness through the inner soul in you and that's your intuition of information concerning your destiny.

Every one gat his life to live just discover the blue print of your soul purpose in life.

One side chick is a must and that's decipline.

Dtruthspeaker:
You know even if half side chick, you have broken the integrity/fidelity part of your declaration

You right brother but God mercy will overcome that cos my family is above her in every aspect of life.

God knows am not perfect.

Marriage is sacred and partners must bring integrity and fidelity to the table forever in their home cos that's the priority for peaceful and happy family.

Haven’t said that, in my personal opinion and choice of life.

I must get only one side chick after enough due diligence but must and will place and put my personal family "wife and kids" in pedestal above her. I will be kind to her as real authentic man but she can't ever access or know my family.

Then keep it as life oxygen secret from my wife forever and that's decipline in real case.

Thank God I don’t have a sister, this sister they bring disgrace to the family name and dignity.

Life is all about choice, why bringing your choice to the internet to disgrace your entire family and generation.

Not just setting boundaries but adhering to the standard forever is the actual strength of a man.

Never go below your standards of choice of life no matter whoever is involved.


As a man, always remember your mental health and happiness is your priority of life.

No DNA

No Name.

That's priority for true successful marriage.

Not only because of cheating, but for clarification to inheritance.

Wherever you said good night, don't ever go back there to say good evening.

Learn to have self respect and dignity.

Life is all about choice!!!!!!!

His life and choice deserves respect.

He was polite enough to say No and thank you but she still dropped it.

There's no embarrassing moment here.
We should learn to respect people choice of life and decision cos he never asked for it.

I love Ronaldo,
I love messi,
I love ishowspeed.

We have to appreciate and respect people choice of life.

God is so merciful!!!!!!!!

Na thunder go fire that fake pastor and those girls nor go ever marry for allowing the man to that with them.

Na only mumu man go marry wife when pastor go they nack with am.

No need to do that anyway!!!!!!!!

What most women are doing to men abroad, when you hear stories to marry self na to first prove T network transmission line formula.

That's why every father has to bond with the kids, not just paying bills. Spend time with them from everyday and no woman can make them hate you.

I don't believe in juju, the connection is dead and the children will have many kids when the time comes.

Oracleee:
As much as I don't support the man, the ones saying all sort should take a walk in his shoes. It's easy to judge sitting in the Pew. Just pray you don't see the other side of a lady. They will turn even your loyal dog against you.



A friend who hated is father for been irresponsible found out at 28 the man was deliberately ostracised by their mother even though he paid their school fees throughout primary and secondary unknown to him. Dude hates is mum for denying him that fatherly love now. But it's 28yrs of absence already.


Dear men, if a lady starts with this body language, find another lady and start a another family. Women are good and evil.

I can see your vibration frequency is strong and healthy.
Na king you be man.

I am not a woman neither a doctor but any well brain woman with capital can frozen some of her eggs for future purpose when she's above 40 without husband.


Marriage is never a do or die thing, i have seen good women, beautiful and well respectful without husband.

This life nor balance as people think, the important thing is the priority of your mental health and happiness.

Never allow societal validation of not married destroy your mental health and happiness cos that's depressing and can lead to wrong decision.

My little advice is save up some eggs for your husband cos he's coming.. delay most times happen for the best of your kind.

Them done they talk for video say 5k can buy their suffering!!!!!!!!

Another say 15k buy her own suffering for another 4 years.


Me na cape Verde i dey see like this, make i go understand their culture and people for a month.

When I like their culture and women, na to plan relocation ASAP. Business can be running here and more business in cape Verde.

God bless Nigeria and Edo state.

Life is all about choice!!!!!!!

South Africa still on still men go hustle.

Marry Esan woman, na time go tell you the results!!!!!!!


Congratulations to them.

Oracleee:
I was expecting the emotional outburst.


Weldone.

Respect, no emotion around here only clarity.

Oracleee:
As per Na government born the boy. Issue I have with most Nigerians is the fact that they're emotional creatures who doesn't think logically but emotionally.


Tell me why Government should empower the mother and put him on full scholarship. Just a reason

I am not obligated to you for any explanation and never mention me again.

Learn the difference between emotions and empathy.

Nothing like biological mother in life!!!!!!!!

Government should empower the woman, put the boy on full scholarship till graduation.

The boy deserves the best he can get after everything he suffered.

Make them charge the husband and wife without conscience, love and empathy to court for punishment so others can learn.



Life is always sweet and beautiful with kids living with his or her mother.

Their children will always suffer it in the nearest future, nothing can ever change that.

The husband and wife without conscience, love and empathy.

Never underestimate the power of God, his faithfulness is infinite and all we need is authority over satanic power through believing.


God is real but be wise to see beyond religious scammers in wolf as pastors.
Most of them are the satan on earth.

Be wise

cr7lomo:
So having G guard is success in ur eyes ...lol...black man and their way of reasoning...lol .. Tonto
and Regina did more than this

LOL


You don’t deserve my time and energy, only people with happiness for others when they win does. I don’t deal with bitterness out of envy.

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