₦airaland Forum

Na only mumu go follow this fellow mumu of a woman advice.


Them nor they tell blind man say rain they fall, him go feel am.

streetsoldier1:
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Where dem dey do am ₦120k?

I know how many emails have got cos I told the truth is 120k

streetsoldier1:
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Where dem dey do am ₦120k?

My brother investigate yourself, nor be me go scattered marriages for Nairaland.

Nor just let them take advantage of you cos of desperation to do it.

My peace and mental health is important to me.

Have a nice day

writeprof:
Where is DNA Test 120k Somebody told me he gave 1.2m to a family for DNA test for 4 children

That's day light robbery man that's all I will tell you

No DNA

No Name.

You see women most of them are devil themselves.

Till today nobody knew the discussion between Eve and the devil.


Devil attacked everything concerning Job but left his wife cos they are both equall.


I pity men that train kids without DNA test!!!!!!!!

DNA is just 120k.

Sorry for the simp family and loved ones!!!!!!!!

This one just die for nothing cos of trusting and marrying an OS as a wife.


No DNA

No Name.

I so much wonder how a man will put his name down for a child he has not confirmed to be his. Never allow any woman gaslight you never to do DNA test on your kids out of trust as a wise and responsible father.

DNA is just 120k.

No RIP for the man.

Amotolongbo:
Serving God and attending church are different things. Going to church is just a social activity like going to school, club, amusement park etc. Serving God is making sure that your neighbours live in peace and harmony and giving to the needy

Na Holy Spirit reveal this one to you, that’s just the fact of life.

Love one another, you can never claim to be light and still hate in you your heart. That means your darkness is infinity.

Narcissist wife

MamaFryo:
Sowore just shot himself in the foot, and I doubt if he will recover from this politically.

Did you just say you refused to prostrate for the throne of the Ooni of Ife simply because the current Ooni made you wait for him in his palace for 3 hours before he came out to attend to you? You are a disgrace to your family. Sowore, I used to like your boldness, but with reservations, because I believe that you and Peter Obi's frequent fights with the current administration are driven by selfishness and not for Nigeria's benefit. If not, both of you wouldn't be seeing Nigeria's ship sinking and still be fighting to maintain a fraudulent togetherness.

Is it with this same arrogance that you're planning to rule Nigeria as president? Why is it that everyone is becoming crazy by the day? Why is it that no one is respecting the thrones of our fathers anymore? I really don't blame you. Democracy, designed by the British for us, is meant to mock our culture and traditions, and the foreign religion is meant to erase our identity.

So someone like Omoyele Sowore can insult the throne of the Ooni of Ife and come out to proudly say it. Can he say that about the late queen of England or any other king over there? Can he do that in the palace of the Sultan of Sokoto? This is exactly what we're talking about. Yoruba kings need to brace up, stop following Fulani and politicians, stop attending every event, and get back their dignity.

A throne you preserve is respected with values more than a throne you take out every other weekend.

By the way, as much as we're trying to wake up our kings, Omoyele Sowore or any other person has no right to speak arrogantly to the throne of our forefathers.

Just like what I said when people called it humility for the Ooni to almost prostrate for former President Obasanjo and others, it will have consequences, because everybody now stands the chance to disrespect Yoruba heritage, something they can't try with Fulani, let alone in Saudi Arabia.

Respect is reciprocal, nobody is God to anyone.

He's brave and courageous to express his grievances before the Ooni without any form of insult.

Respect a child and he will honor you forever.

We earn true respect in life through integrity and dignity not through force.

How wish he was respected as a son, no one will tell him to the needful.

A true child will show you how he feels when you disrespect him after giving you maximum honor.

Life is short, there is too much to know and life is no life without knowledge.

In life we learn through two possible means:

Through our personal experiences , ready to heal, forgive but not forgotten to gets to the divine destination of life.
This is usually the best option anyway.

OR

We learn through other people's life experiences , some never healed, neither forgive nor forgot and still at the cross road of losing their destination of life. It takes true courage and determination for them to arrive at their destiny.
This is usually for the ones that lack self love and self believe.

Big honest Question to answer alone in conscience cos you know your wife better than us all.

Will she do thesame for you if the ball was truly in her box to play?

If the answer is positive, you alone and God should make the final decision.

Anyway in both cases there's something to learn about life and God will always see us through our choice's cos life is all about choice.


Wish you and your family good luck.

My brother life is all about choice!!!!!!!

The choice to make is already in your heart but just want validation to go ahead.

When someone you care about decide to walk away, never hesitate to let them go. Your happiness and mental health should be your priority.
You experiencing the highest form of Beta frequency and it's dangerous to your mental health.

Silence and deprivation of right is the loudest means of communication if only you hear it loud enough.


You done involve family, no positive results.

Men should as always marry with clarity.


Wish you luck.

willexyaho:
Sometimes, what looks like the “slow fade” from the outside is not always manipulation. Sometimes, it is not cruelty. Sometimes, it is not even intentional. Sometimes, it is simply a soul going through something it does not yet have the strength to explain.

There are moments when a person becomes quiet, not because they stopped caring, but because they are overwhelmed by storms they cannot put into words. Life can press on someone so heavily that even the things they love begin to feel like responsibilities they are afraid of failing. It becomes difficult to show up fully when you are barely holding yourself together inside.

At that point, it is not always about engineering someone’s exhaustion. Sometimes, it is about emotional survival. Sometimes, they withdraw not to punish you, but to protect you from parts of them they do not understand. Sometimes, they become inconsistent because they themselves feel unstable. And sometimes, their silence is not rejection, it is confusion, fatigue, fear, or quiet healing.

This is where emotional maturity speaks gently within you and says,

abeg, make this relationship dey one place for now.

Not as surrender. Not as denial. But as wisdom. Wisdom to recognize that not every distance is abandonment. Not every silence is manipulation. Not every reduced presence is lack of love.

It is the decision to stop forcing clarity where someone has none to give. It is choosing peace over pressure. It is allowing space without immediately translating it into betrayal. It is understanding that some people do not leave loudly, they simply retreat inward to find themselves again.

And sometimes, the strongest thing you can do is not to chase, not to accuse, not to assume the worst, but to remain calm, grounded, and patient with reality. To let things rest. To let emotions settle. To let truth reveal itself without force.

Because not every fading moment is the end. Some are pauses. Some are internal battles. Some are chapters of healing that have nothing to do with you, and everything to do with the silent wars they are fighting within themselves.

You passed through the dark night of your soul to understand this. You've cross the threshold for good.

You are a king of an empire.


We need more awareness cos 90% still not understand the calling of the soul and purpose of being created.

kiddaz:
If you love yourself and your recent positioning you will avoid them. Trust me they are not coming because they suddenly realized you are the love of their lives, you and I know what and why they are waltzing back. I know you might be thinking it's time you get your pound of flesh back i.e. revenge but again that will do you no good brother. The same way you are plotting is how they have already plotted out the game plan with all the possible outcomes (and knacking you is top on their list) so just know they are very ready too and some might even go diabolical.

What I'm saying is avoid them. If na knacking dey hungry you to make you backslide, remember the ones you never knack naim still plenty pass so get to it if that's your definition of enjoyment. Going back because of sex is f**lsh and childish when sex is very easy to get from new fresh bannies. She/ they will even think less of you

A lady that has shown you for once that she's your enemy please believe them don't try to prove anything to anybody. You will most likely regret this second journey. Move on and keep moving to brighter things... If you like listen to useless advice.

You are the angel in human God sent to him!!!!!!!

Na to finish you na be their plan, be like you never understand storms come to take away the wrong people who are sabotaging our destination of purpose in life.

God help you remove them , you won go eat with long spoon.

Outgrow those babes, you guys are no longer in thesame class.

Show them how classy you are in your next level.


In life wherever you say good night never go back there to say Good evening.
An ex for a reason and forever.


When you do them, six months time you realize the difference in your spirit of productivity and success.

Wish you good luck.

peleson1:
Manknowthyself..
Are you an elect?

God is the foundation of my life.

Have a great evening

Fiscus105:
Abi o, even if you walking naked, God looks at heart and not the body.

The same God that warned his children not to dress like jazzebel. Hope you know the meaning of jazzebel?

You don't even look at angle, that she can make believer fall. Abi, because you are born again, your manhood will refuse to react, if you see naked of women?

You people will proof black to be white.

My brother people and culture are different.
That doesn’t mean she will always expose herself to church after accepting Christ.

Nobody is perfect in life, judge not.

SpencerForbes:
What are you saying 🤦‍♂️ have you ever experienced when a baby is born? Does that baby care about if he’s dressed or not? Secondly, the rich man in the Bible was told to follow God immediately.

If you’re genuinely born again, you won’t care what you’re putting on but what is in your heart. Even the Adam you’re talking about didn’t hide because they were remorseful but they hid because they knew what they didn’t know before.

A person led by the Holy Spirit won’t care if his clothes are dirty but all he seeks is the presence of God. Did the Bible say Paul went home after repentance? He went straight to a prophet not his house or he couldn’t pray in his house😏

It’s better she’s her true self there. Now it’s left for the priest to direct her and teach her the way of God. If the priest is active, he’ll convince her then after that if she keeps repeating it, then maybe she’s doing it consciously or she’s used to it.

God looks at the heart not the clothes my brother. I agree with you!!!!!!!

You fit cover everything make your heart nor they please with God.
Never judge anyone na only God know who they truly serve am in truth and spirit.

I go use the owner of the school perfect my boxing training, so that him go use the teacher start he own training.

Then remove my son from the school.

I will gladly wait for any reaction that follows with all responsibility.

I can never do that to anyone child, so never try that with mine.

Nonsense!!!!!!!!

God they merciful shall, this man suppose collect heavy knock for head and die immediately.

The true God is inside you in spirit and soul not through one fake pastor or bishop.


Access God yourself through the holy spirit in you.

Fake pastor!!!!!!!!

We4all:
This must be quite impressive to those who are obsessed with paper qualifications. I'm also amused how you think that because your brothers have excelled academically, they are clean.

A greater number of male professionals who are excelling in their career today were once cultists during their university days. You and I know what cultists do, right?

Should I even begin to mention successful surgeons who have been nabbed as organ harvesters, abortionists, or drug users? Or perhaps, I should talk about bankers who are coded fraudsters.

And footballers.... It is a known fact that footballers of Nigerian origin have a penchant for using charms to excel. We all know how malevolent some of these herbalists are. Let me not even go there.

The bottom line is, you can bag all the degrees in the world and still be up to no good. That you and your brothers are doing well career wise doesn't prove any shit that you are saints.

The men killing women for rituals everyday, and the boys involved in cultism is what you should worry about, and not some random chic sniffing cigar out of youthful exuberance.

Hahahaha

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LoL

Tobaola:
does smoking matters many smoke and quited if it's I won't stop the marriage smoking better by far than hook up

Her vibes is of completely OS check my input again and understand my point.

Have a great day

We4all:
Tell me, if you have to choose between this girl and the boys that are killing girls for rituals, who will you go for?

You don't have sisters, but I'm sure you have brothers that are up to no good. 😏😏😏

LoL

I see projection in your post!!!!!!!

I am the fifth born of my family, we are professional in our field. My papa and mama take time train us no tout among us.

I am an electrical electronics engineer, i have medical doctor ( surgeon consultant)
Pharm D with big pharmacy
PHD in Bio chemistry
A banker
One footballer abroad and a zoologist.

My brother nor use your own relate my family. Carry your cross , life na how you lay am in the morning.

Have a great day

Princeton92:
Lol are you a lawyer? 😂

No an Electrical Electronics Engineer.

Elect/Elect

Some people get mind o!!!!!!!

Person they hustle to make money for soft and beautiful life why some they use the money prepare their own grave by themselves.

Thank God he realizes on time before it's too late.

That guy is smart and wise!!!!!!!

That na complete OS vibes, os yesterday is os today and forever.

Na only break she take cos of marriage. It really gives me peace of mind not having a single sister when I see some ladies reduce their blood line or family.

See the kind disgrace this one brought to her generation!!!!!!!!


Better continue to wait than to wife this type.

Long live the Oba of Bini

Long live the Oba of Bini


Long live the Oba of Bini.

This is encouraging for men, more awareness is needed for DNA test.

Any woman that feels threatened about it is a potential suspect and can't be trusted.

DNA testing must come to reality and there men never allow any fake woman tell you about trust.


No DNA

No Name.
It's all about due diligence

God bless you @Dpsychologist.

Arsenal just they give me joy this evening.

No matter the challenges, this na arsenal season.

alobright17:
a typical brainwashed African Christian always hiding behind oh you don’t get the message even though there’s no message talk less of getting it .

The message I should understand is your Jesus according a whiteman’s story created a problem and then sent himself to solve the same problem he created and the white man told you that’s him Jesus showing love .

Is only you that understand that creating a mess and cleaning the mess is called love . SMH

LoL
Hahahaha

No energy


Hahaha hahaha

Dzzzz:
Oh my God🤔This is a SIMP situation bro..Do you need babalawo to tell you the girl don’t want or like you anymore!!..Guy you get big problem..

Maybe he they wait make Jesus come From heaven to tell am the truth.


Better ghost that girl by walking away with dignity and respect.

Never allow anyone put you under pressure to marry, not even your family.

Your mental health and happiness should be your priority.