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Hormonal change – two words which can bring significant change to an individuals’ life. Once hormonal change is brought into discussion, most people would correlate it to women. These days however, women as well as men experience hormonal change.

Menopause is the normal and natural stage in a woman’s life when her menstruation and ovulation ceases that signifies end to her reproductive years. On the other hand, andropause is a term for male menopause. Since a man does not undergo menstruation and ovulation, the reason behind for male experiencing menopause is to prepare them for second adulthood. Andropause signifies the end for men’s first adulthood. 

Men with menopause manifest symptoms that include irritability, sweating, memory problems, concentration difficulties, and hot flushing.

Other common complaints of men with menopause consist of low sex drive, hair loss, fatigue, generalized pains, and body shape changes as they tend to become more rounded and less brawny.

Women who enter their forties may begin to experience menopause. Other women starts menopause at age fifty, some even begin at sixty. Men, on the other hand, may start to undergo andropause as early as thirty-five or it can be as late as sixty-five.

While female menopause is a start for women to feel unconstructive sentiments and other pessimistic emotions, most experts believe that andropause brings positive change.

A man will go through a crucial change once he enters the andropause stage. There is inevitable change in psychological, social, interpersonal and even the spiritual aspect. Andropause denotes “the end of the beginning.”

According to research, there are a lot of benefits a man can obtain once andropause is experienced. 

Maturity is the essential benefit of man in going through male menopause. Men on their first adulthood usually focus on doing. However this time as they enter the second adulthood, they are more focused with “the being,” or “the self.” 

Career-wise, they are more inclined to accomplish their job because of “love of work” instead of going to work because it is necessary. On social relationship, men tend to look at other men as acquaintances. During first adulthood, men interact with other men as contenders. 

A man’s personal relationship also matures. He is more focused with developing happiness and intimacy with his partner. Andropause may indicate a stop in brain-draining “battle of the sexes” which may be an indication that he can give way and make his partner win on some discussion. Ego and pride are left behind. It is transformed to in-depth understanding and patience. 

Men also gains maturity in a sexual relationship. Second adulthood focuses more on being sexually fulfilled compared to concentrating on different sexual performances which usually takes place during first adulthood. 

Menopause is a period in life where an individual may start to feel incomplete. Others may accordingly react to what their body dictates. Good or bad – whatever menopause may create in one’s life, you are still the one who owns your mind, body and heart. If andropause brings you more benefit, then you are of the lucky few.

Otherwise, if it creates struggles in your life then it is time to acknowledge the need for help. Primarily, you need to recognize that you are undergoing change and then let your significant other know about it. Point out the necessary things they must do to help you cross the line.

If things seem unbearable after exhausting all possible help within your fence, then it is time to seek help from an expert.
A successful walk in the journey of male menopause boils down to one important thing, having good attitude.   


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How would you like the ability to check in on your house,
wherever you are, from your cell phone or computer?

Video Surveillance.

In the United States alone, the FBI has calculated that a burglary occurs every 8 seconds and that three out of four homes will be burglarized within the next 20 years. In Nigeria your guess is good as mine.

There's no reason to wait until it happens to you. Video surveillance systems were originally designed to offer the ultimate in security for banks, airports and casinos. Recent technological advances have made them inexpensive and simple enough to be installed and used at home. In my guide, I will show you how to accomplish this Yourself

Possible Uses.

Surveillance or Spy Cameras have many purposes:
- to prevent theft,
- to watch employees,
- to catch cheating spouses,
- for covert operations,
- or simply to monitor a nanny or house maid when you're not at home.

In addition, if you have infants or young children at home, a camera that you can view on your cell phone will help you keep a vigilant eye on them while you're away, any time, both night and day.
For Step by Step Guide on How you can do this yourself, contact this email:  infoproductbiz@yahoo.com or simply call Mark on 2348023342859

In the past, many have often wondered how they can keep check on things at home while they were on a trip or vacation – hundreds of thousands of miles away.  These days however, keeping tabs on your home while you’re away is quite possible.  With the Internet and today’s technology – you can keep watch on your home no matter how far away you may be.

Although the technology may sound a bit out there at first, this day and age it certainly isn’t out of reach.  The hardware used for surveillance is inexpensive these days, and ready to use all over the world.  All it takes is someone with a bit of common sense and the curiosity to try new and exciting technology.

To use these types of equipment, you’ll need a reliable connection the Internet.  The Internet is the heart and soul of distance surveillance equipment, enabling you to keep a check on your home from hundreds of thousands of miles away.  If you are planning to invest in an Internet powered surveillance system, you should first make sure that you can get a high speed Internet connection to your home.  Dial-up isn’t recommended, as the speeds are far to slow to broadcast video.

There are two solutions that you can choose from, each one varying in features and complexity.  The first solution utilizes a personal computer.  Several home surveillance cameras are connected together to a system that will survey their areas and record what they see at either a set rate per second, or going by movement they detect.  Depending on the system you get, you may or may not be able to adjust these settings.

The computer will play back the video via the monitor, and record the video to the HDD, or hard disk drive.  You’ll need to connect the computer to the Internet through an ISP (Internet Service Provider), in order to watch the video from a distance.  To watch the video while you are away from home you will need to log into the computer with a unique username and password.  You can log in at any time, and to operate the computer or watch the video images that the computer surveillance system has recorded.

The other solution you have available is much easier.  Normally, this solution is used to check on a home through a single surveillance camera.  Setting things up this way will allow you to use a single camera through your IP (Internet Protocol) address.  By setting it up through your IP, all you need to do is check on things is to link directly to your IP.  Once you have brought up your IP address, you can see live views through the camera.  This method works similar to a webcam, in the sense that it streams video around the clock.

No matter which solution you choose, both are somewhat easy to use.  Of course the second solution is much easier to use and setup, although it does have it’s downsides as well.  Both have great things to offer you as well, including the ability to log in at any time.  You can check video any time you wish, even chance your preferences based on what you need.

Anytime you need to monitor your home from far away, home surveillance and the Internet is all you need.  The Internet is a common commodity these days, capable of doing far more than anyone ever thought possible.  By investing in a surveillance system that utilizes the Internet – you’ll be able to keep a watchful eye on your home from wherever the road takes you.


My name is Irabor Mark, I have put in 33 years as a chief technologist with the College of Medicine, University of Ibadan.
I will answer any question in the area of "Home/Business Security Systems"  and close circuit television systems (CCTV)

Questions can be sent through my email address: infoproductbiz@yahoo.com or call 08023342859

In the past, many have often wondered how they can keep check on things at home while they were on a trip or vacation – hundreds of thousands of miles away. These days however, keeping tabs on your home while you’re away is quite possible. With the Internet and today’s technology – you can keep watch on your home no matter how far away you may be.

Although the technology may sound a bit out there at first, this day and age it certainly isn’t out of reach. The hardware used for surveillance is inexpensive these days, and ready to use all over the world. All it takes is someone with a bit of common sense and the curiosity to try new and exciting technology.

To use these types of equipment, you’ll need a reliable connection the Internet. The Internet is the heart and soul of distance surveillance equipment, enabling you to keep a check on your home from hundreds of thousands of miles away. If you are planning to invest in an Internet powered surveillance system, you should first make sure that you can get a high speed Internet connection to your home. Dial-up isn’t recommended, as the speeds are far to slow to broadcast video.

There are two solutions that you can choose from, each one varying in features and complexity. The first solution utilizes a personal computer. Several home surveillance cameras are connected together to a system that will survey their areas and record what they see at either a set rate per second, or going by movement they detect. Depending on the system you get, you may or may not be able to adjust these settings.

The computer will play back the video via the monitor, and record the video to the HDD, or hard disk drive. You’ll need to connect the computer to the Internet through an ISP (Internet Service Provider), in order to watch the video from a distance. To watch the video while you are away from home you will need to log into the computer with a unique username and password. You can log in at any time, and to operate the computer or watch the video images that the computer surveillance system has recorded.

The other solution you have available is much easier. Normally, this solution is used to check on a home through a single surveillance camera. Setting things up this way will allow you to use a single camera through your IP (Internet Protocol) address. By setting it up through your IP, all you need to do is check on things is to link directly to your IP. Once you have brought up your IP address, you can see live views through the camera. This method works similar to a webcam, in the sense that it streams video around the clock.

No matter which solution you choose, both are somewhat easy to use. Of course the second solution is much easier to use and setup, although it does have it’s downsides as well. Both have great things to offer you as well, including the ability to log in at any time. You can check video any time you wish, even chance your preferences based on what you need.

Anytime you need to monitor your home from far away, home surveillance and the Internet is all you need. The Internet is a common commodity these days, capable of doing far more than anyone ever thought possible. By investing in a surveillance system that utilizes the Internet – you’ll be able to keep a watchful eye on your home from wherever the road takes you.

Burglary takes place every minute around the  world. It therefore become imperative that every home must be secured within
our limit.  The best security is the one that is done through communication technology.

There are various security systems available to us today, thanks to communication technology.

If you are interested in protecting your home with a surveillance system, you should first grasp the concepts of the technology.  There are several home surveillance systems to choose from, make it in your best interest to learn all you can.  Most aren’t hard to install or monitor - providing you have the right guide to assist you.

Closed circuit television and several other types of electronic devices are much more common these days, and easier to operate than ever before.  They are also more affordable as well, and becoming more and more popular with home owners everywhere.  The basics behind closed circuit systems lets you know that the signals the camera picks up aren’t broadcast through the air, but instead sent directly to the monitor, which can be observed from virtually anywhere - at anytime.

Therefore, you should always strive to learn as much as you can about the terms and subjects of home surveillance.  It’s actually easier than you may think, as long as you keep it simple.  Once you have built the foundation, you’ll find it easier to learn more. 

Next, I will talk on another topic, "The Internent and Home surveillance.

My name is Irabor Mark, I have put in 33 years as a chief technologist with the College of Medicine, University of Ibadan.
I will answer any question in the area of "Home/Business Security Systems"  and close circuit television systems (CCTV)

Questions can be sent through my email address: infoproductbiz@yahoo.com or call 08023342859

To women, men are embodiment of strength, protection and stability. However, there is a side to the guy in your life that you may not be aware of. We often think it is a woman’s prerogative to get upset, have crying jags and feel blue.

Women blame many things on the hormonal changes they go through and this is true to a large extent. Because we go through life seldom seeing or expecting to see signs of men’s issues being brought into the open. We often find it hard to deal with the reality that men too have problems and issues of their own.

Male menopause may seem like a huge joke but the men going through it are not laughing. There is a very large male population the world over who go through male menopause each year. Men like their female counterparts do experience hormone imbalances that affect mood swings, sexuality and physical well being.

Men can become emotionally stressed, demonstrating signs of worry, indecisiveness, irritability and depression. Physically they feel fatigues, gain weight, lose sleep and experience short term memory loss. Some degree of erectile dysfunction is a very real possibility and threat to a man. The sexual symptoms exhibited may include fear of sexual failure and a reduced libido.

You may hear of close friends suddenly seeking younger partners – the sole reason is they feel a burning desire to prove themselves. If male menopause which is similar to another round of puberty is not treated, it can end up destroying your marriage. You and your partner need to seek help to address men’s issues of identity, dependence, sexuality, and independence.

While much research and study has gone into male menopause over the years and treatments abound, they tend to focus only on the sexual aspects of the problem. Irritable male syndrome manifests itself in irritability, frustration, anger, anxiety and hypersensitivity. It starts out in a very mild way and quickly escalates to a very serious state. Help is available and you should not delay get the help you need.

Male depression is another destructive problem and should be treated effectively. While a woman will binge on ice cream and chocolate, weep enough to flood the place and generally mope all day, a guy will hold it in until he explodes into anger, alcoholism, drug abuse, womanizing and other self destructive ways.
Reaching out for help is one of the most difficult things for a guy to do but with the love of a good woman to back him, it can be done.

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To have a blissful relationship there must be Mutual respect and passion for each other. The Tips to a blissful relationship are highlighted below:

Communication:
There must be an effective communication between both partners, what ever may be bothering any of them must be expressed and discussed.
When you keep things to yourself, be it sex, finances and other worries, the secret will only fester and create resentment.  Talk it out, discuss it and find solution.
A problem shared is a problem half solved.
When you keep it to yourself it can be like cancer and if it continues to go unresolved it can eat away the relationship.

Compatibility:
For serious relationship you need someone with a similar outlook and goals.
It is imperative that they must be compatible without which even communication, trust, respect, etc will not be able to hold it together.  It will eventually fall apart at some point.

Sex:
Sex is another factor that plays a major role in any relationship.  I am not talking about Lust, I am talking about sex life that brings you closer, that you both enjoy and that is dynamic.  Any relationship that has an amazing sex life must last.  Even though relationship is not all about sex, it certainly does play a major role. If sex is absent in a relationship it will not last.

Trust:
In other to be intimate, to share the deepest, most vulnerable parts of yourselves, there has to be trust. It is as simple as that.  You cannot love whom you do not trust.

Boundaries:
You have to let the other person know where they begin and where you end.  Do not assume they know everything you are thinking and expect them to react accordingly and do not expect them to like everything you like.
You must remember that they are a separate person, just like you are a separate person.
Respect each other’s boundaries because you cannot be attracted to something that is not outside yourself.

Satisfaction:
Satisfy each others needs and do not be ashamed to have your needs satisfied.
Everyone has needs and if those needs are not being met whether sexual or emotional, then there is problem and it has to be addressed. If they are being met then you have a strong relationship.




Togetherness:
Spend quality time together always.  Be like good friends. The yardstick to measure good relationship is the urge to be together all the time. When one of is away is like part of you is missing. You can spend all days with each other without getting bored.
If you find someone you love spending time with, especially time that is not connected to sex, then you have found yourself a lover.

Investment:
Do not be too invested in them.  Do not make the other person your life. Have other things aside from your significant, others that you are into and enjoy, hobbies, other friends etc. Everything in life must be balanced.  If you make the other person your whole world, then that will put too much pressure and stress on the relationship and essentially any little thing they do will have a huge effect on you because you have literally have nothing else.

The whole syndrome of women who do not give their men enough space to hang out with the boys, fix motorcycles, do sport, end up biting women in the end because they end up narrowing their partners life experiences to only them.
This put too much pressure on them and ultimately leads to resentment and collapse

Men who pamper their women so much and do not have any hobby but their girlfriend  are doing the same thing to themselves.  A relationship should be a part of your life, it should not be your life.

Excitement:
Relationship should not be allowed to go stale, keeping things fun is a must but does not have to be lavish vacation.  Keep it fun and light hearted.  The heavy moment will come on their own, because life never allows you your ups without the downs.
But when it is not down remember to stay up and keep things fun.

Caring:
You have to care about the other person and they have to care about you, if this is not there then you are only playing games and it is not for real.

Acceptance:
You have to accept the other person as they are, if not then it over.  You cannot change other people and even if you could, it is not your right and it makes the relationship uneven. You have to accept other people as they are.

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Are you married? If you are, you likely love your husband. With that said, love isn’t always enough to keep a relationship going strong. Intimacy is very important to having a strong, happy, and healthy relationship.

How is your life in the bedroom? Do you think that your sex and intimacy can be improved? If so, you may be nervous about discussing the subject with your husband. After all, your husband may wrongly get the impression that they don’t satisfy you anymore. If you are interested in improving your intimacy with your husband, there are still a number of other, different approaches that you can take. A few of these approaches are touched on below.

1 – Date

If you and your husband have been married for a while, there is a good chance that you haven’t gone out on a date in a while. Many married couples get to a point in their relationship that is commonly called “the comfort zone.” This zone is not one that you want to be in, as your relationship may feel more like a friendship. To prevent this from happening, ask your husband out on a date.

Although many wives believe that their husbands should do the date asking, you sometimes have to take hold of the situation yourself. Now may be one of those times. Choose an activity that is romantic, such as a romantic comedy for a movie or a nice restaurant. This can help to spark a little bit of romance and passion in your relationship, which may lead to better and closer intimacy at home.

2 – Show Romantic Gestures

When it comes to “wowing,” in a relationship, women sometimes think that men should do it. You will also want to “wow,” your husband, like you did the first time that you met. One of the easiest ways to do so is by performing a number of romantic gestures. When out shopping with your husband, grab their hand and hold it. When walking by them in the house, give them a quick kiss. Sending a love note to work with them is another romantic gesture that you may want to try.

3 – Be Sexy and Seductive

If your marriage enters into the above mentioned comfort zone, sex and intimacy may seem like a thing of the past. If you do have sex, it may seem more like a responsibly, a chore, or even work. To help reduce these feelings, be sexy and seductive. Do not wait for your husband to initiate sex and do not ask if your husband is up for it first, just get right down to business. Strip for your husband or simply just remove their clothes. Snuggle next to them on the couch and just start massaging their whole body. You may be surprised just how easy and effective it is to be sexy and seductive.

4 – Be Spontaneous

As it was previously stated, do not ask your husband if he wants to have sex and do not wait for him to start. Instead, take matters into your own hands. Whether you start with a little bit of pre-intimacy or jump right into the intercourse, do so. Your husband should like the surprise. Also, remember that being spontaneous involves having sex at different times of the day, as well as in different locations of the house.

5 – Offer to Experiment In the Bedroom

To improve sex and intimacy it is important to know that a change can do you good. You may want to suggest to your husband that you experiment in the bedroom or take them up on their suggestion to do so. Remember that experimenting in the bedroom doesn’t have to mean getting an additional sex partner or doing something that makes you feel uncomfortable. A new sex position may be just what your relationship needs.

As you can see, there are a number of easy ways that you can go about improving your intimacy with your husband. So what are you waiting for? Get started today.

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There is nothing wrong with your husband, do you expect him to continue doing it 2 or 3 times for the rest of his life? Come to think of it,
are you the same as the time when you both first met? On your part what have you done so far to spice things up?.

The biggest mistake couples make is to believe that intimacy begins and ends in the bedroom.
Sexual intercourse is not the only form of love making.

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