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BdorianGray:
Matinez what da heck are you saying- that lady is simply using you as spare tyre..If u don't know... Can u imagine, she doesn't know what may happen in future.. Well, I wonder what kinda lady wld be stupid enough to tell a Guy that...and what kinda Guy wld give an ear to that...
Am not saying u ain't smart oh! But this ur Tory get bow leg...

OK do you have anything else to add to this which you just typed?

gypsey:
let me ask you something do you believe in God?

dammmm I asked first

gypsey:
He and his Jesus are crooks!

I wanna ask you something ooo,, do u believe in God?

XhosaNostra:
How do you handle them?

honestly this is solemnly for just me

we have over 500 viewers observing here not everything I can say to you not especially this you just asked!

coolestofall:
Bro sm things just cnt gb explained, it has 2 b experienced.

ok

XhosaNostra:
I honestly don't know. I go wherever the mood takes me

ladies like you I have a way of handling your type especially when you try to be smart, I gave my ex total freedom to have fun in fact one time she was always watching out on me thinking I have some cool bitches around my corner

hay remember she's south African

kimbraa:
And what if he's been living off her? None of you hypocritical beings has been objective here. Is it normal or acceptable to double date? How would you feel if you realise your girlfriend has been using you? Well, there's a thin-line between sanity and insanity. He Brought this upon himself so doesn't deserve pity whatsoever. This is one of the reasons I don't give relationships my all 'cause some guys are dogs in disguise.

dammm see i ve seen numerous ladies double dating and when I ask they say in case of fall out, one time I met one girl I think she's 40 now, I met her at a hotel in Lagos, I approached her and we became friends, she told me last year to put her in my heart and I was like "dammm" but you have a guy and she said yes but she doesn't know what may happen in the feature.

but within my heart I place her platonically, I don't know what she based me into.

then again she not some cheap bitch an entrepreneur she is.

basically I believe most ladies have some secret side men only few stay very very committed to one man one preek

marvin906:
am yet to experience love

soonest you will.

Chikita66:
Love is you pleasing another being at your own detriment.

hmm ok

gypsey:
when we read a maid kills her madam's child next time some Idiots will come here and label the innocent maid a witch!

rubbish, there is nothing called witch

XhosaNostra:
That's wassup!


*gangsta limp*

you will do that too

bonjelow:
Thanks so much for your reply, but what heard is that it is compulsory one must be present every Thursday for CDS, also heard it involves thumbprinting, don't know how to go about this?

it is highly impossible because my friend had to return because of these same compulsory act.

secondly I will say u should go to the state and continue there.

well the boy is to be distributed as heolosho, secondly that girl should be checked medically she's a violent type and again I guess she most have contributed to those properties hence she fears nothing.

[quote author=gypsey post=65895886]Na so na! [/quote yes o

gypsey:
This is what happens when people tell people to go and Hug transformer, this guy took it serious..

abi

Love. What the hell is love? We try so hard to make sense of it, to understand it, to grasp it between our fingertips and hold it in our palms. We want, so desperately, to label it. To box it up. To put it on a shelf that we can easily pull from when we’re ready. To feel comfortable and steady and grounded as we free fall into another person.

But love, I’ve learned, is undefinable.

Try as we might, we can’t quite pinpoint exactly what it means to love someone, to know what that word means or how it feels or becomes tangible in our lives. When we think of ‘love’ we think of butterflies. We think of the first moments in meeting someone, the way our heart jumps out of our chests, or the weakness that happens in our knees. When we think of ‘love’ we think of kisses. Of fleeting, beautiful moments. Of bliss.

But love isn’t just those initial moments.

And perhaps it’s not even those moments at all.
When we look at our relationships, are we ‘in love’ in the beginning? Or are we just wrapped up in the attention we have from someone else? Are we drawn to their souls, or their physical bodies? Are we in love with their spirits, or the way they make us feel?

Because love is not just a feeling—love is an action, a manifestation of emotion, a choice, a moment of faith where we decide, with all of our selves, to be with and for that person no matter what.

For some reason, we’ve told ourselves that love is beautiful, is easy. That when we meet ‘the right’ person, they’ll fall into us so gently, so beautifully. That when we learn who we’re meant to be with everything will fall into place, like puzzle pieces finding their matches, like simplicity.

But real love is complicated. Real love is messy. Real love is decisions and actions and thoughts and emotions, and continually learning who someone is and how that someone can fit into the chaos of our lives.

Real love is knowing all the ways this world, this person, and you are imperfect—but believing in the fact that you will make a beautiful relationship, regardless of everything that says you won’t.

Love isn’t simply a feeling. It isn’t simply two hands intertwined, or two bodies coming together in lust. It isn’t being with someone who makes you laugh, or smiling as you go on dates, or kissing the lips of someone who you’ve learned to appreciate as someone even closer than family.

Love isn’t just moments that you remember, spots on a timeline in your life. Love isn’t the person whom you feel the most comfortable around. Love isn’t even finding your ‘home.’

It’s pushing, day after day, to keep that ‘home’ feeling over time and through obstacles. It’s conflicting and confusing and a whole lot of change as you both grow, together and separate.
Love is actually challenge. It’s meeting someone who pushes you to be greater, bigger, brighter than you were before. It’s finding someone who you see fighting battles with, and for. It’s discovering that your life was incredibly full before, but falling into them has made it even more complete somehow.

Love is imagining another person’s arm around your shoulders as you grow old. It’s seeing parties and weddings and anniversaries with them by your side. It’s family, maybe even children, sprinkled around you. It’s the thought of ‘forever,’ as hard as that is to actually visualize.

But love is also all the challenges that come with those things—the messiness, the confusion, the fear, the failure, the faults you will both carry forward and learn to battle in a relationship with one another.

Love is not just a feeling. It is a choice, a decision, an action, a movement. A movement towards another, despite what stands in your way. Despite all the ways the world will tell you to give up or walk away. Despite all the things that will try to break you down, break you apart.
Love is a movement towards one another, despite the impermanence of this world.

Love is saying that in this temporary life, you will choose to believe, choose to give one another your everything, choose to be one another’s, against all

greiboy:
I didn't get what you are trying to say bro

OK good thing u don't.

XhosaNostra:
Hahaha. You must be cute

hia and also poor too, so what your kinda type

greiboy:
Bro stop reading romantic novels

chai what does it feel like classifying into maybe u hmmmm #juveniles #

JONNYSPUTE:
You know all this and you are still single and searching.

hahahahah gullible

EzeDictator:
A Woman Will Never Open Up. The Heart Of A Woman Is An Ocean Of Deep secrets...


Did A Woman Tell You That She Wants Men Who Care? Well, I Guess She Told You So...

But You Are Not To Believe Her Bro. Because They Always End Up With The Ones who Dont Care...

this is not true

XhosaNostra:
You peep through doors?

yeah because the ladies around are just too much and they greet too much ,i just have to peep before going out, while I was with my parents it was part of me,

I remember one time my mother started her noise in my house for my neighbours to see she's around and because she knew quite well I don't like neighbours seeing me.

XhosaNostra:
Who?

the lady in that video

QueenSuccubus:


She shud step her game up ..I will send her some hybrid bitter gourd

Locally grown..At least with its unique shapes she will enjoy to the fullest & after she can make a soup

dammmmm well experience they say is the best teacher

XhosaNostra:
Lol, that's interesting. I wouldn't be able to survive there. I like to have people around, I just don't like to interact sometimes. Their conversations with each other is my way of interacting. I people watch & eavesdrop a lot

she's acting just like me,

THINGS WOMEN WANT IN A RELATIONSHIP
Women want partners that care.

Women don’t want perfect partners; they want men who are striving to be their best selves.
She doesn’t necessarily want someone who has every step of his life pre-planned, but she wants someone with drive and with goals.

She doesn’t necessarily want someone who cries every day, but she does want someone who has the courage to cry in front of her when he needs to.

She doesn’t necessarily want someone who stays in therapy for his entire life, but she does want someone who has the courage to face his own emotional demons.

So put in the work. End the stalemate. Decide that you want to be in the kind of relationship that most people don’t have and you want to put in the effort necessary to become that kind of man.

The women of the world are waiting for us. And they want us to step up just as badly as we want them to open up.

QueenSuccubus:

U have the hairy balls to come up with all these type of shiit based on the girls u see on twitter? Ur world is in cyber & NOT in reality...WAKE UP.

Each female has the right to choose what kind of life she want. At least we achieved something in our lives. We dont have to depend everything to our man..As i always say, MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYBODY.


And by the way if ur the last man standing on this earth, I better commit suicide...With that picture on ur dp? I wont think twice.

dammm ayam JeeeZzz faint

biacan:
Goodmorning

morning how far na, how was ur night