₦airaland Forum

watchindelta:
lol u tear dat bottle down. I can see it

Na wa for u ooo

JONNYSPUTE:
@Martin0, in as much as I don't roll with you,This your thread is very wonderful and I must commend you for it. You nailed it. Thanks.

I greet you, your boy is always loyal. thanks!

ubunja:
martin, honest to god, are you getting pvssy for being a good guy to these women?

see i don't practice such with any lady who I don't love.

highqueen:
I know,I didn't make a mistake by saying that you are as useless and p in psychology. ..

hahahahah I swear u get mouth o girl, hmmmm I dey suspect this moniker oooo

ubunja:
martin0 isnt a disgrace but i never seen any girl offer him pvssy. so why should i bother?

bia u dey find my mouth abi OK ooo

gypsey:
well.. as long as they are paying me rent they can carry on with their crooked business

who follow theif Waka Na thief ooo

XhosaNostra:
Lol, that's nice. How many languages can you speak?

eh speak ko
see am not fluent on any, I just pick the easy once just to show am aware simple

watchindelta:
. Sure bros. Today na sunday me self jst dy chilax here too. No lele

Na so ooo abeg make we sidon dine ee

XhosaNostra:
Lol @ "akere". Where did you learn that?

my Botswana friend always speak their language to me whenever am chatting with her coz according to her she wants me to learn.

RadicallyBlunt:
I'm yet to see a proud person who admits that he or she is proud. I've never seen one. Everybody claims to be humble. And when u tell a proud person that he or she is proud, they never agree and ur friendship ends. Indeed pride is a darkness in d mind even d owner can't see.

gbam even me sef I may not agree if I was told am proud, but then again it a deadly disease that most be treated with immediate pressure.

XhosaNostra:
Yeah, I guess I should consider myself blessed

akere

watchindelta:
bros i dy oh. Hw ur end

we just dey chilax o

gypsey:
crooked pastor!

hahahahahah u get dem for your house o remember,stop collecting their money then

XhosaNostra:
I'm currently in a long-term relationship lol. So I can't be that bad if someone can tolerate me for this long In fact, all my relationships have gone on for years (2 years at the least). I don't have any relationship lasting only for a couple of months Same thing with my friendships. Some of my friends I've known all my life & some I've known for over a decade.

yaaaaaaa good record

watchindelta:
I believe in God but not Nigeria churches. All Fraud

Na wa for you oo were you Run go ar nor even hear from u again, Na so abi since last year.

Na wa ooo

Chikita66:
Men drown in their ego as they thirst for love.

bia abeg I don't get the fucvk u mean

XhosaNostra:
Yeah, it's one step at a time, Marty. Real change doesn't happen overnight. Thanks

gbam just keep doing your thing and have in mind of your aim.

have u ever be into any forms of relationship before now.

OboOlora:
Op, it’s a sin if u have been ‘thoughtfully’ masturbating and ejaculating

Aja aja aja ma ma ma so you nor fit use another example ba

XhosaNostra:
I'm a very proud person, but I'm getting better at some of the traits as I mature as an individual. For some time in a long distant past, I used to be so dismissive, you couldn't convince me of anything. My mother even had a nickname for me, because if you tell me not to do anything, I wanted to know "why?". She called me "Ms What-will-happen". I just couldn't take another person's opinion as fact or accepted it blindly. I'm still struggling with that though because in the core of me, I don't believe anybody has the right to tell me anything, especially about the choices I make. It's my life. If I make mistakes, they're mine & they have no impact on YOUR life. Mind your business. I become extremely obstinate & confrontational when someone tries to tell me what I should do or should not be doing etc. I just don't like it. But I am improving because I can now at least admit fault. Before I had a blindspot to my own shortcomings. I believed I'm perfect. Any negative behaviour was justified- "You did that so I will do this". And I didn't care if my behaviour was hurtful or not either. I still have a problem with empathy though. If I have never been in a situation, I have a hard time sympathizing with it or feel the "appropriate" emotions for it. But I'm trying. Rome was not build in a day.

honestly was so moved to quote you back, never wanted to.

but like you said I believe you are a very good and a kinda lady that willing to.

In every circumstance, problems there is a way out.

you can do it, just be strong and keep your step counting step after step till you get to your point.

My view on how to treat women...


Don't compare your wife to other women. You don't know what their husbands are going through.



. NEVER expose your wife's weakness to your family or friends or run to them whenever you have issues. Problems are best solved between you and your woman.



. Don't think you are man so you can use intimidation, shout or violence to communicate your moods. Agreesive men don't make a happy home.



Speak gently and calmly to your wife. Never raise your voice at her, it demeans her and shows you think she is stupid.


. Do your responsibilities as man...don't leave every to your woman.



. Never blame your wife if she doesn't take care of the home everyday. She is swamped with house work and helping you raise the kids.


Don't be wasteful spending money on drinks, friends and extended family. The wife and children are your first responsibility.


. Sex is also important to women. Her pleasure should be considered before your own.


Never compare your wife to your ex-girlfriends. If you loved them so much why didn't you marry them instead of your wife.


Never shout down your wife or challenge her in front of the children. The children are watching. They won't listen and obey her too.


Tell your wife she's beautiful even if you know she's looking normal. Women love compliment.


Don't forget that women also want attention and someone to share their thoughts with. Never be too busy .

.Treat your wife like a queen. Buy her gifts, take her shopping and once in a while, cook for her.


Please don't forget your these anniversary dates. Wedding ,engagement,the first time you kissed. I beg you. These dates mean a lot to women. (Don't ask me why). I also don't know.


. Your mother should not have the final say in your marriage. You married your wife, not you and your mother. Let her talk in her own husband's house.


.There are 5 days each month that you have to say "I'm sorry", "yes baby" and "I love you" more than 7 times a day. That's when she's menstruating.

PRIDE is a relationship killer! It will take your friendships, your marriage, and any other relationship you value, and tear them up into shreds. In its wake, pride will leave behind hurt, bitterness, destruction, and pain. Not a pretty picture, is it?


A common sign of pride is the refusal to say “I’m sorry.” The inability to apologize can appear for two reasons. First, a prideful person may not be able to see they are wrong. Second, a prideful person might not be willing to admit fault even when they know it is there. Either way, the words “I’m sorry” are never heard or if they are, they are quickly followed by “but you….”


Pride makes people defensive when criticized. Criticism is not always bad. Proverbs 15:31 says, “If you listen to constructive criticism, you will be at home among the wise.“ Likewise, Proverbs 25:12 says, “To one who listens, valid criticism is like a gold earring or other gold jewelry.” However, if you’re full of pride, criticism strikes an ugly chord, and your immediate response is to get defensive.


Pride makes a person self-centered, wrapped up in thoughts of their own comfort, own well-being, own opinions, and own points of view - often dismissing or excluding others (including their spouse) in the process. Not a communicative, healthy, growing marriage there.


Pride says we deserve to do our own thing and go our own way. Marriage demands that we sacrifice our individual dreams and desires for the sake of the relationship. It requires us to submit our wills to one another in order for the union to flourish. Pride convinces us that sacrifice is below us and submission is unnecessary.


When pride is present, intimacy is absent. A couple can be full of pride or they can have a healthy marriage, but they cannot have both. A wise couple will recognize the agony of pride and will do everything in their power to eradicate from themselves and their relationship.

#FoodForThought

QueenSuccubus:

Do u have something big? Who NOSE? U might go viral too

no I don't have big tinz
smally is bae

biacan

biacan:
And that was how he killed Nuella's career with this thing called marriage.......smh

hi

shaybebaby:
I give up.

oh I be think say ur bullet nor dey finish ooo

QueenSuccubus:

Kanye West Tech N9ne Joyner Lucas Eminem French Montana T.I Young MA Meek Mill Future Busta Rhymes Nicki Minaj Andre 3000

abeg do you have (all tha way up) by French Montana?

revontuli:
Lizards are harmless, they won't attract snakes. Rats and mice attract snakes.
Lizards eat pests like mosquitoes.
It's a bad idea to feed the pigeons, you feed them at city squares and parks, nowhere near home. They will shit everywhere!
Mongoose kill and eat the snakes. Indians were feeding them in their garden to get rid of the cobras. I don't know if the African mongoose are good at killing snakes, you gotta research info about them.

hmmmm I dey learn o

QueenSuccubus:


Nobody NOSE how he got that one..

o boy chai that man most be a good security guard, am sure nose is at work
just imagine nose made him go viral

revontuli:
LMAO
Power of Nairaland: I'm a white foreigner from Finland, never been to Nigeria and knew next to nothing about Nigeria before I discovered Nairaland and I'm laughing at this remark after spending a few days of surfing here.

If you marry an urban Fulani lady, your offspring won't be herdsmen. Find one from Lagos!

abeg u go need to learn our pidgin o

shaybebaby:
Yes fart brain, I own a copy of the software by IBM.

But please do say how you can state with certainty the ops intention?

Make it quick because you are boring me senseless with your ineptitude and general stupidity.

hmmmmm

shaybebaby:
@greiboy,

This is what you wrote.

Stockholm syndrome arises when strong emotional is develop between two persons where one person intermittently harasses, beats, threatens, abuses, or intimidates the other. ref Wikipedia

I am sure you saw harassment and beating etc in the illustrations of Stockholm syndrome
right

Violence

A behavior involving physical force intended to hurt, damage, or kill someone or something.


With special emphasis on physical, which I debunked. Not only are you dull, you lie too.

Na wa o your bullet nor dey finish shuuuu chai see night vigil ooooo

kimbraa:
The boy done run sef. Silly thing that couldn't get LAW and was given ISD.

ha na wa o