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hiawathia1981:
I will ask you too, why cant I say "hey"
But my guy will say "sup"
I told him that sup= hey

hiawathia1981:
Respect your elders! Me included. How old are you anyway?

Mobilia:
LOOOLL!!!

Mobilia:
Well...as confident as I am in loving to cook, I am a little hesitant with making Nigerian food.
I am currently working on perfecting "egusi" and "ogbono" soups because they are extremely popular, can be made in larger quantities and is tasty if made correctly.
I know people would be happy with that as a meal.
It's very difficult to also find the ingredients that the soups require because the stores simply don't sell anything that's needed.
The nearest store for me would have to be in the state of Georgia....(Atlanta specifically).

Mobilia:
Thank you young man.....

hiawathia1981:
Everything is well.
I imagine she is at church, we are both at a 5-6 hr time difference beind you. She said she would be back later in the day.

hiawathia1981:
Oh, ok. Enjoy your rest day.

mhisbliss:
Somebody get her energy drink so she can have strenght to upload the photos please, i smell attention seeking

hiawathia1981:
No. Im working today. You?

hiawathia1981:
Martino, sup?

Mobilia:
Yep..he was. Let me see if I translated this correctly? I think you said, "Is that so?" Am I a winner?

khiaa:
Learn what?

emelda86:
Lol... lekwam I'kpom shoe

emelda86:
Na so ooo....naija & fraud be like onugbu soup & ogiri

gypsey:
It's because they are Nigerians and nigerians are crooks.

gypsey:
Rubbish i paid with my visa card numerous times and no problems. they must have suspected the individual.

khiaa:
Yes, I did luv, dreamed about you as well'.

gypsey:
So what the fuvk is that supposed to prove?

gypsey:
Errr.. i don't think so

gypsey:
my chicken was a witch too, so i killed it. now it's inside my pot of chicken stew.

gypsey:
170 k? i would have done the job for cheaper or even free!

Martin0:
Another Perspective: How Most Men Approach Getting to Know Women (And What Their True Intentions Are)

This post stems from some constructive criticism I’ve received from a few of the women in my life that have come across this being that it is too one-sided, not taking into account the woman’s perspective on relationships. And I completely agree with them. A long time ago, I decided that I would consciously not let my ego get in the way of receiving good quality feedback, to keep an open mind; which admittedly isn’t always the easiest thing to do. So please, while reading this post, I urge you to do the same. Try not to get defensive, try not to get offended, just read with an open-mind and allow for some time to digest the information; to do some self-reflection on the subject.

I will start by saying that the vast majority of guys I talk to about women, or even observe talking to women, come off as creeps or at the very least have an obvious agenda. Ironically, the vast majority of these men are not creeps; they are genuinely good people that just don’t know how to approach having a meaningful
conversation with someone of the opposite sex, even though in reality that is all they are longing for. If you disagree, thinking that most men always do have an agenda, that all they want is to have sex with you, think about things from this perspective. Have you ever had sex with someone when there was no emotional
connection what so ever? I will admit that I have, and it was the most unsatisfying experience of my life. Sex without emotion is simply an action, like walking down the street to pick up the mail when you aren’t expecting to get anything but junk mail; there isn’t much joy in doing mindless chores…

Anyway, back to the subject at hand, how most guys give girls the wrong impression, even when their heart is in the right place (whether they realize it or not).

What men should STOP doing when it comes to women:

1. Thinking sex is the “end all be all”

2. Going out with the intent of “needing to get laid”

3. Thinking about sex (or anything else) while striking up a conversation

4. Bragging about how much money you make, what you have, or anything else most women do not care about


What men should START doing more of when it comes to women:

1. Thinking about what you want in a girl and in a relationship

2. Listening to what women are saying and responding to it

3. Focusing more on how you two relate, if things are clicking or not, etc

4. Engaging in conversation and exuding confidence and clarity in your responses without being arrogant or cocky

5. Thinking about things from the other person’s perspective

The inability to see things from someone else’s perspective isn’t just an issue for guys seeking out love and companionship, its something that people struggle with in general; in other words, being accepting and open-minded when someone has a different opinion, regardless of the subject at hand. If you start living your life with an open-mind, without getting defensive when things don’t go your way, you would be surprised by how much you can learn from people of different backgrounds and life experiences. Some of the most riveting conversations I have had with people stem from a disagreement or difference of opinion.

papoudaupolos:
How do you know.

papoudaupolos:
He looks 18 but that thing look 37. Hope he's not sick?

QueenSuccubus:

18 ke

What is he hiding under his joggers? 2months old puppy abi?

Mobilia:
A famous chef turned traveling/correspondent who had a hit show on CNN, called "Parts Unknown"...where he visited several different countries and learned about their cultures.
He had just visited Lagos in September/October 2017.

Oyindidi:
Not only in marriage

lefulefu:
DULUTH approach? Wetin e be?

lefulefu:
i don read am
d guy just a taste of his own medicine
d wayi see it...a number of nigerian men get married to women they dont love
if u love ur wife u wont hv the mind to turn her to punching bag and provoke her to violence.some just feel its time to get married and just get married.there"s no how u can live in harmony with someone u dont like.

Oyindidi:
My brother, everybody dey vex for naija. Na to avoid wahala sure pass for this country we dey.

No dey beat/maltreat your love ones, the person may want to fight back. Even angel go want fight back one day.