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 Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Martin0(m): 6:19pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Mobilia:oh OK, like you allow him do what he has In mind! And hmm wait you allow him what  This ur dad, I wonder what he looks like and how he speaks  |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Martin0(m): 6:16pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Mobilia:exactly! oh very simple question to answer! Well because you not gullible or crook either... At least I can bet my ass you not going to lie any day anytime... Then again like I said I have plans /motives too |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Martin0(m): 5:29pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Mobilia:well well, such is life for you.... come oo, I dey get yansh pain now oo, been seating my ass on the floor for sometime now, need to lay down on my bed.... so what your next question |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Martin0(m): 5:26pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Mobilia:very very true... I have one question to ask, but I can't ask you that now.... |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Martin0(m): 5:15pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Mobilia:so did you helped this guy who was honest to you |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Martin0(m): 5:13pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Mobilia:nice! you have spoken very well more sense fall on you jare 1 Like |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Martin0(m): 5:11pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Mobilia:oh it no new thing to me, sometimes when I get to meet new ladies especially foreigners, they always sound this warning note to me I just simply tell them why I want to be friends with her, very simple. .. Then again scamming have really eaten up majority of African youths precisely Nigerians.. But am trying my best to see how I can help my friends who are directly involved or indirectly involved... See I would have been a scarmer too, but then again it choice... life is to short to waste it... I just hope when my plans are concluded, definitely I will directly get them involved in it.. Just hoping sha majority of my female friends have been scammed...Well now you have been educated as a result of, maybe you have been scammed too.. |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Martin0(m): 4:59pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Mobilia:you are welcome more questions coming |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Martin0(m): 4:57pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Mobilia: It all decisions, at the moment i don't have such plan, but I can havw it in some days time... The mind changes you know, but to be sincere everybody loves to |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Martin0(m): 4:52pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Mobilia:oh yeah, listening maybe Green paper, or something 1 Like |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Martin0(m): 4:52pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Mobilia:See everybody are on packaging here, most especially my people, every living person here is on packaging, which means fake self You don't expect me to be my real self when they are deceiving people. So I do same to them. .. |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Martin0(m): 4:49pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Mobilia:if you say so I have, Just one, oh OK got two of them, one of them is based in your country at the moment |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Martin0(m): 4:49pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Mobilia:My motives is totally out of the world. Trust me you gonna fail , well OK, am trying to build on a solid friendship on Nairaland, for a reason, so I basically try to be On some few threads to see how I can pick friends there and also try to see if they can relate with me ....But my motives are just basically for ,hmm please I can't tell you that here, sorry |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Martin0(m): 4:42pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Mobilia:if you say so well I have male Nairalander just one who I can say we kinda close. |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Martin0(m): 4:32pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Mobilia:just did |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Martin0(m): 4:30pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Mobilia:I have been bad in this form since I was a kid! I will always come back to hurt you if you lie to me, no one tell me or lie to me and goes free, not even my sisters, brothers ,cousins, uncle's, late grandfather, late grandmother .and unties, not even nairalanders who I follow, I always tell them... some few ladies on my list got problems with me and I hurt them back, to them it sounds like betrayer, but to me it not because I will always tell you from the day we became friends. this is just how or precisely how bad I am. when it comes to good, ummm that should be left for you, I can only accept to tell you the bad parts of me, which I just did, precisely one of them. |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Martin0(m): 4:30pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Mobilia:hahahahah hahahahah hahahahah this got my laughing, well precisely |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Martin0(m): 4:29pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Mobilia:don't worry am around |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Martin0(m): 4:20pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Mobilia:Am right here |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Martin0(m): 4:18pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Mobilia:honestly, I most be sincere to you here, I don't tell people about myself, not even my parents who gave birth to me . In a world were I can't tell you about the bad parts of my life! and I just go on telling you goodies about me. That I consider "an act of deceived " so I will advice, the best place to know about me and who really I am is, "reality " 1 Like |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Martin0(m): 4:13pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Mobilia:oh OK, keep asking 1 Like |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Martin0(m): 4:06pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Mobilia:for me, wasn't confused of anything either! The conversation was you know!splendid ,learnt alot, much more about understanding! Sometimes there is always a mix factor, but all same, I enjoyed it . |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Martin0(m): 3:58pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Mobilia:ummm, am patiently waiting |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Martin0(m): 3:25pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Mobilia:No problem mabilia! you welcome |
| Romance › The Virtues Of Marriage!!! by Martin0(op): 8:01am On Jun 12, 2018 |
Looking back over the past year is one of my favorite traditions. I get to remember the ups and downs, the growth that occurred, and see what themes continually show up. This is the first year that I’ve applied this to my professional life, probably because it’s the first full year I’ve had as a hmmmmmmm you don't need to this sweetie In looking back over the past year, I’ve seen an emphasis on 5 different virtues about marriage.1. Choosing marriage is choosing to give up control of your life. I cannot emphasize this virtue any stronger: Marriage will cost you your life. If you value your own authority, singleness, or ego more than that of others, do not get married. Choosing marriage will require you to give up control of your life. You will make decisions that will affect at least two people (more later when you have kids), and this is a very difficult change from that of a single life. It might be the best gift ever given to a single person, and it’s the costliest. In a very real way, marriage is much like salvation. In accepting God’s plan and will for your life, you are setting aside your own to be submissive his his plan. This means that you’re an active participant in his plan, but your life is not about your happiness. Marriage is about giving up of ones life for the sake of the other, which translates to a giving up of control. “You complete me,” might be one of the most famous lines in the movie Jerry Maguire, and it might be the most misleading. Marriage will offer you the unique and unparalleled opportunity to grow. Marriage will not fill you, rather it will make you more aware of your emptiness and need for God, and only God. Unfortunately there is no real way that Hollywood /Nollywood can show more than an infatuated love. So we don’t get a real picture as to what mature, longstanding love looks like. Instead we get a glimpse of the joy and warm fuzzy love that we all want to have. There’s nothing wrong with this, but it’s not a lasting version of love. 2. Couples that protect pain from happening are preventing intimacy (connections) from developing. Its no secret that people don’t like pain. It’s also no secret that being in a close relationship is an inevitable date with pain. The challenge is viewing pain as though it is a gift, not the plague. Pain is not fun, but neither is numbness. I don’t know about you, but when I leave the dentist after getting a shot of Novocain, I cannot wait for it to wear off. The feeling of not controlling half of my face is miserable (not to mention the inability to know when I’m drooling). We were not made to be numb, we were made to feel. Pain shapes our lives either in our acceptance of it or our refusal to experience it. Creating a space for pain to be a welcomed guest in your marriage will serve you well. This is the task of every marriage: To create and develop a philosophy of dealing with pain. You will raise the next generation of people based on how you and your spouse engage each other in times of pain. 3. Marriage is a muscle: Use it or lose it. Marriage takes work, and will not naturally grow on it’s own. It takes consistent time and energy much like your muscles. If you were to sit all day every day for a year, you would notice a significant amount of atrophy in your body. Your inability to function after that year of sitting would likely take you a more painful and greater amount of recovery to return to your previous abilities (if ever at all). Once you have lost muscle mass, it is very difficult to get it back. Your months and years of dating and courtship are very much like a daily trip to the gym. You’re exercising the muscles of the relationship that cause it to grow. When you get married, continue your visits to the gym (literally and metaphorically). Read books together, attend marriage workshops, go on dates, spend intentional time together, take trips. Do all of these things regularly and your marriage will not atrophy. 4. One plus one equals three: Becoming one, requires two. One of the more nuanced challenges of marriage is to become one together, but remain distinctly individual in the process. It will take both husband and wife bringing 100% each to the marriage to make the relationship work. This is not a 50-50% proposition, it’s a 100-100% arrangement. Only bringing 50% of yourself to the table means you’re not being fully you in the relationship. When a husband or wife begin to lose their individuality, marriage problems will soon follow. Being an individual is not the same as being single, rather it’s being an individual who maintains their autonomy while being 100% committed to the growth and health of the other person for the sake of the marriage. This is the goal of marriage, to tend to and care for the spiritual and emotional health in our spouse. We have the best chance of doing this when we are operating out of our fully unique and individual lives. 5. Marriage is Redemptive. I know no other way to describe marriage more simply than its capacity to enact redemption in life. This comes in unimaginable ways as past wounds, hurts, fears, and resentments are all confronted with the woman of our dreams. Surrendering ones life to another is hard, yes, but it is also glorious. I believe this is the hope that beckons us to get married in the first place. We might not know this is what we are signing up for, but the spirit in us all moves us towards a need for being saved from ourselves. Marriage offers us just that: An opportunity to be saved from ourselves.
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| Foreign Affairs › Re: foreigners chillout joint. by Martin0(m): 7:13am On Jun 12, 2018 |
Mobilia:go, and check urself |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: foreigners chillout joint. by Martin0(m): 7:10am On Jun 12, 2018 |
hiawathia1981:hia, na wa ooo, I already answered, |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: foreigners chillout joint. by Martin0(m): 7:00am On Jun 12, 2018 |
Mobilia: |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: foreigners chillout joint. by Martin0(m): 9:12pm On Jun 11, 2018 |
Mobilia:I don already answer you na |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: foreigners chillout joint. by Martin0(m): 9:10pm On Jun 11, 2018 |
Mobilia:oh you welcome once again 1 Like |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: foreigners chillout joint. by Martin0(m): 8:47pm On Jun 11, 2018 |
Mobilia:OK, no wahala 1 Like |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: foreigners chillout joint. by Martin0(m): 8:41pm On Jun 11, 2018 |
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