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I have known this girl for a while now, 7 years, we have never had sex because we rarely see see each other. The last time we almost had sex was when I invited her down to my base, South South Nigeria, but it didn't happen because I didn't insist much. Should I say we are dating? I think I shouldn't because I have not tasted her.I do sleep with other girls but I have not just slept with her. Right now, she is doing her housemanship in far away north and we still have this mirage that we are dating. After a while, I stopped calling as usual and just relaxed only for me to call one day, she just told me the I deserve to move on. I was shocked and I asked what happened only for her to say she has been sleeping with a colleague and she missed her period and was thinking she has taken in. She advised me to move on that I deserve a better person.
I have tried letting her go but I just get so emotional about her. I later made up with her and told her that I have forgiven her. And I advised her to stop seeing this guy and she said yes. I have not been able to travel down to Northern Nigeria to see her because of the distance. I am hoping she would respect herself and stay safe but I have a feeling that the guy is still"servicing" her. At times I feel bad, like I should just let go since she is far away but I still feel she is passing out by February next year maybe I should be patient. I really want to marry her but I am just scared that she is still fucking that guy. I know how hard it is for a guy to let go a "free chop". I was once like that in my nysc days, I mean I had " free chop" too. Someone please advise me whether to move on or not. Distance is really a bastard!