I have known this girl for a while now, 7 years, we have never had sex because we rarely see see each other. The last time we almost had sex was when I invited her down to my base, South South Nigeria, but it didn't happen because I didn't insist much. Should I say we are dating? I think I shouldn't because I have not tasted her.I do sleep with other girls but I have not just slept with her. Right now, she is doing her housemanship in far away north and we still have this mirage that we are dating. After a while, I stopped calling as usual and just relaxed only for me to call one day, she just told me the I deserve to move on. I was shocked and I asked what happened only for her to say she has been sleeping with a colleague and she missed her period and was thinking she has taken in. She advised me to move on that I deserve a better person.
I have tried letting her go but I just get so emotional about her. I later made up with her and told her that I have forgiven her. And I advised her to stop seeing this guy and she said yes. I have not been able to travel down to Northern Nigeria to see her because of the distance. I am hoping she would respect herself and stay safe but I have a feeling that the guy is still"servicing" her. At times I feel bad, like I should just let go since she is far away but I still feel she is passing out by February next year maybe I should be patient. I really want to marry her but I am just scared that she is still fucking that guy. I know how hard it is for a guy to let go a "free chop". I was once like that in my nysc days, I mean I had " free chop" too. Someone please advise me whether to move on or not. Distance is really a bastard!

You said you do sleep with other ladies, asin you've been sleeping around and yet had the guts to complain and shiver that your supposed babe is sleeping with another guy.

Are you normal atall?

Oya, kneel down wherever you are and give yourself a hard knock.

Massivedick:
I have known this girl for a while now, 7 years, we have never had sex because we rarely see see each other. The last time we almost had sex was when I invited her down to my base, South South Nigeria, but it didn't happen because I didn't insist much. Should I say we are dating? I think I shouldn't because I have not tasted her.I do sleep with other girls but I have not just slept with her. Right now, she is doing her housemanship in far away north and we still have this mirage that we are dating. After a while, I stopped calling as usual and just relaxed only for me to call one day, she just told me the I deserve to move on. I was shocked and I asked what happened only for her to say she has been sleeping with a colleague and she missed her period and was thinking she has taken in. She advised me to move on that I deserve a better person.
I have tried letting her go but I just get so emotional about her. I later made up with her and told her that I have forgiven her. And I advised her to stop seeing this guy and she said yes. I have not been able to travel down to Northern Nigeria to see her because of the distance. I am hoping she would respect herself and stay safe but I have a feeling that the guy is still"servicing" her. At times I feel bad, like I should just let go since she is far away but I still feel she is passing out by February next year maybe I should be patient. I really want to marry her but I am just scared that she is still fucking that guy. I know how hard it is for a guy to let go a "free chop". I was once like that in my nysc days, I mean I had " free chop" too. Someone please advise me whether to move on or not. Distance is really a bastard!

You can't trust someone you see daily, not to talk of someone you rarely see. My Advice for you is to move on and find someone closer to you.

So many weak fools out der. Dagidagi

ednut1:
So many weak fools out der. Dagidagi

Please, no insults. Thanks.

Let me imagine something first.
So if I stand now and this op stands beside me.
People will say "see two men standing".


Not knowing that what they are seeing is a man and a half man weakling standing.


Just one question.
Who do you like this?

BOWOTO:


You can't trust someone you see daily, not to talk of someone you rarely see. My Advice for you is to move on and find someone closer to you.

Thanks. I still feel everyone does cheat. But I was thrilled that she told me. To be very honest, I withdrew my attention and she even said she feels I don't care or don't take her serious. In addition, I was shocked too that it was just a colleague she had sex with, I mean not even a suitor that asked for her hand in marriage. I mean it means that she is a "loose" girl.

donstan18:
You said you do sleep with other ladies, asin you've been sleeping around and yet had the guts to complain and shiver that your supposed babe is sleeping with another guy.

Are you normal atall?

Oya, kneel down wherever you are and give yourself a hard knock.

Bro, I meant girls I have dated and because of the distance.

Massivedick:

Please, no insults. Thanks.

my brother is that an insult? sebi insult is when say You Are Very Useless na

Massivedick:

Please, no insults. Thanks.

u fuk around and u calling her a loose gal. U both are fools. 90% of gals during nysc/housemanship fuk colleagues. No be today

You mentioned that " you can't really say that you guys are dating"; so what's the headache about??

Massivedick:

Thanks. I still feel everyone does cheat. But I was thrilled that she told me. To be very honest, I withdrew my attention and she even said she feels I don't care or don't take her serious. In addition, I was shocked too that it was just a colleague she had sex with, I mean not even a suitor that asked for her hand in marriage. I mean it means that she is a "loose" girl.

A woman's mind is very complex, they often do things we cant even understand. In every relationship, always have control of your emotions, or-else it would crash. Having control of your emotions enables you to make the right decision when the need rises.

AND NEVER EVER TRUST A WOMAN.

ednut1:
u fuk around and u calling her a loose gal. U both are fools. 90% of gals during nysc/housemanship fuk colleagues. No be today

Try and make your points without using derogatory words. I am here for solutions not bullying. Thank you.

What is paining you is the fact that you haven't Rig her election. Try mark register then sign out.

honestly this whole write up doesn't make sense and i refuse to waste my time trying to make sense of it

damtan:
You mentioned that " you can't really say that you guys are dating"; so what's the headache about??

The headache is that I am disappointed that I thought I found the one, never knew she is like the others. Perhaps she shouldn't have told me anything. Some say since she told me, I should forgive and continue with her but I feel she is still fucking that guy. I just have the feeling.

Adebowhales:
What is paining you is the fact that you haven't Rig her election. Try mark register then sign out.

Hahahahahaha. How long will I keep Rigging and signing out?

samysmoothfresh:
honestly this whole write up doesn't make sense and i refuse to waste my time trying to make sense of it

Bro, sorry for typing something that doesn't make sense. It is this senseless something that doesn't allow me rest ooo. That is why I am here for solutions.

Massivedick:

Try and make your points without using derogatory words. I am here for solutions not bullying. Thank you.

solution is u move on. What happend to d baby

alexistaiwo:
Let me imagine something first.
So if I stand now and this op stands beside me.
People will say "see two men standing".


Not knowing that what they are seeing is a man and a half man weakling standing.


Just one question.
Who do you like this?

Hahahahahaha. Bro, it is a difficult one, apart from the cheating thing, she is a nice person and we are great friends.

ednut1:
solution is u move on. What happend to d baby

She wasn't really pregnant. It was just her fear. That even made her to open up.

don't move on.. wait until your massive dick sinks like the titanic ship in her pussy before you move on... abi you no know say that her colleague fit be one aboki and you know say some aboki dicks no dey smile

anyway... don't mind me... felt like being naughty...

Massivedick:

Please, no insults. Thanks.

See distance relationships ain't easy. You are digging other girls ryt? See eh whenever your heart tell you the guy is servicing her just know her legs are spread eagle or balanced on his burglary proof receiving it anyhow.

You can choose to wait though if u truly love her but I just think you are like this because you've not tasted her and your ego won't let u rest.

alexistaiwo:
Let me imagine something first.
So if I stand now and this op stands beside me.
People will say "see two men standing".


Not knowing that what they are seeing is a man and a half man weakling standing.


Just one question.
Who do you like this?

You don break my rib with laughter

Massivedick:

She wasn't really pregnant. It was just her fear. That even made her to open up.

Yimu. I'm sure she flushed it. You are so green.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Yimu. I'm sure she flushed it. You are so green.

I can't tell.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
See distance relationships ain't easy. You are digging other girls ryt? See eh whenever your heart tell you the guy is servicing her just know her legs are spread eagle or balanced on his burglary proof receiving it anyhow.

You can choose to wait though if u truly love her but I just think you are like this because you've not tasted her and your ego won't let u rest.

Hahahahahaha. I can't tell anymore. I guess I will just have sex with her and move on.

SmellingAnus:
don't move on.. wait until your massive dick sinks like the titanic ship in her pussy before you move on... abi you no know say that her colleague fit be one aboki and you know say some aboki dicks no dey smile

anyway... don't mind me... felt like being naughty...

Even if I do, how are my sure I won't meet another one that is worse than her? Women are unpredictable. They say the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know.

BOWOTO:


A woman's mind is very complex, they often do things we cant even understand. In every relationship, always have control of your emotions, or-else it would crash. Having control of your emotions enables you to make the right decision when the need rises.

AND NEVER EVER TRUST A WOMAN.

why r u turning dis issue against d woman Mr. Didn't u read where he admitted fcckin around? It's high time u guys cut our ladies some slack. Stop attacking dem every time

This your name get as it be oh!

Massivedick:

The headache is that I am disappointed that I thought I found the one, never knew she is like the others. Perhaps she shouldn't have told me anything. Some say since she told me, I should forgive and continue with her but I feel she is still fucking that guy. I just have the feeling.

Trust is just as important as love is in a relationship. You admitted to doing same thing to girls, please think carefully before you do something you'll regret.

Both of you are just deceiving yourselves.

You are both in an distance unserious open relationship.