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Hey NLers.

Please I just want good advices from the house. I'm presently working and my salary is N145k/mth, I live in a 2bdrm flat&I pay 350k/yr(I had 2 cos my yunga ones are presently wit me), I want to take a loan to get a car within the range of 700-800k. The questn M askin is: Is it wise to do thiscan I succeed in meeting my responsibilities on this salary scale, Constructive comments wuld be appriciated.

Thanks for ur opinion madam, I really enjoy your posts on NL

chaircover:
You dont have to if you dont want to but I will advise that you do. Food & housekeeping money is different from "buy something nice for yourself" money.

Little things like this go a long way in relationships. It shows that you care about her well being and her issues, no matter how little are of your concern.

When I come back from the salon my husband gives me money for my hair. Its not that I cant afford ot make my own hair but I appreciate the fact that he does it; after all who else has the right to pay for it & touch the hair & when I complain about him messing it up he jokingly beats his chest and says I paid for it   

On the few times he drives my car, he always fills my tank with petrol and takes it to the car wash. I work and can afford to fill my tank myself but Its little loving gestures like this that make me love him more.

When I go to Nigeria on business, he always puts some money in an envelope and hands it over to me at the airport; its not that I dont have my own spending money but he does it because he is my husband and I reallly really appreciate it. It is little things like this that makes him stand out; I know that someone has my back and the truth of the matter is that many time the money gets recycled back into the family & hair money can easily turn into ice cream money for the kids when the ice cream van comes round but I really dont mind.

so poster, it doesnt have to be a lot, but please spend some money on your wife, even though she has her own money, no matter how little you give her. Let her feel that she is special to you. It is things like this that will speak for you on the day you mess up.

I really get what you mean ma'am&I am of the opinion that a good husband would place his wife at d center of his world.I for 1 am not married yet bt M plannin 2 very soon.I plan to take my wifey on expensive trips&buy her gifts too but what M against is that there should be a stipulated amount religiously being paid to her at the end of each mth(despite the fact that she works o). Yes I so agree wit you on the fact that 1 way or the other, ur money as finds its way bak 2 the family. A female colleague of mine started this argument yesterday and dat's Y M asking.

Hello NLers.

As a married man,If you had a wife who wrks and earns say 150k&u earn say 300k.Would you still give her a stipulated monthly allowee for her personal upkeep asides that of the family upkeep o

So What77 my sister pls leave diz pple alone, even if u talk from nw til 2mr,we will alwz b criticized destructively, save ur strenght 4 righthrtd ones!!!

Ogo u again?, wat av d witnesses done 2 u?, al I see in this thread are persons who r just all out 2 taint d name of the witnesses, Plz leave us alone. If we claim to be the only true religion,hw on earth is it ur issues?, We do our best to follow wat the bible teaches so if it doesnt suits u,leave us!!!, D truth is no mata hw bad u guys speak of us,hundreds of honest hearted ones r flockin happily in2 d organisation everyday around the globe and ur negative comments about us will only help spur us on, We r recognized internationally as peace loving pple(una dey here 4 NL dey wen nobody evn knw una, rubbish), Aftarall we r nt beggin 4 converts. D msg we carry bears 2 purposes, 1. Comfort honest hearted ones who r tired of dis system of tins& 2. Serve as witness to wicked persns dat imminient destructn is at hand, Plz u guys shuld get a life!!!

Any of Jehovah's servant on NL, Holla @ me!!!

Dear NLers

Dis has been difficult 4 me makin up my mind on, I seem 2 lyk dis Chic but my best frend has dated her b4, Dnt knw hw my oda frends will c it&wat it'll do my frendshp wit my best frend!!!, Plz I nid all ur ideas on dis!!!

Ogo eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeehhhh u no go kil me wit laff!!!, nice post!!!

@udenna
lmao!!! , Hw bout Klint d drunkhahahahahahaha

Hey NLers!!!, Wz jst tinkin wild&i feel I shuld bring dis 2 d house.Which Nigerian celeb wuld u luv 2b president of Naija

[quote author=Mr~Cork link=topic=555006.msg7206553#msg7206553 date=1290592049]Brother, she is Sacarastick to u simply coz she aint feeeling you. As a friend, I recomend u double check dis check list:

1, your Body odour

2, Mouth odour,

3, pimples on your face,

4, are u broke?

5, do u have a car?

6, are u skinny?

7, are u presentable

8, change your name, maybe your name sounds local/bush etc.

HOPE THIS HELPS, cheeers! [/quote]i've alwz seen hw ur foolishness abounds on NL!!!bt nw i can actually taste it cos ur mumu thick!!!

[quote author=~duchess~ link=topic=555006.msg7206512#msg7206512 date=1290591579]Depends on if you have actually asked her out If you havent, then she probably likes you and has also probably showed it in some ways which

you are ignorant of, and is kinda pissed that you havent noticed or reciprocated her feelings for you( probably why she gets jealous when she sees

you with another girl).

OR

She just cant stand the sight of you! [/quote]Duchess u r d wisest persn on NL, Tanx 4d suggestn!!!

[quote author=Mr.Bones link=topic=555006.msg7202168#msg7202168 date=1290527449]I take it u don't know the meaning of watcha saying dude [/quote]wat exactly r u sayin

Look i knw u guyz wuld peharps tink m crazy bt i knw y m askin dis questn here. she alwz acts jealous weneva she sees me wit anoda chic bt then weneva we r 2geda, she alwz seem 2 attack evri word i say!!!, M confused cos i seem 2 lyk her very mch!!!

D-sense wat do u mean, plz M lukin 4 ans here!!!

Why is she alwz sarcastic to meDoes it mean she likes me?

pls house,i've tried askin dis chic out.we av been gud 4 a while bt i recently asked her out&she said she lyks me&stuffs bt she isnt sure if she's ready!!!, she keeps on acting nice & i dnt knw wat to do!!!

Dis guy don make hair-relaxer price go up 4 market!!!lmao, i guess he's a NWA NAM!!!lol

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