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[quote][/quote][quote author=Killertune20 post=99182246]Having dated for about 3 years, early this year, we had an altercation, I believe the distance between us caused it cause I moved to a different state.

Late last year she told me about a young pastor who's asking for her hand in marriage, I asked about her stance and she said she didn't see it happening, but 2 weeks after the altercation, she told me she is considering the pastor.

Ever since then, I have tried to move on but I can't, this babe ticks all the boxes for me, for more than 3 years cause we started dating in school while I was in 300L and she 200L, It's been like no other girl existed in the world for me.

Now the usual gimmick "the lord said you are my wife" has cost me something I value so much.

I love this babe with all my heart, now the things I do around her, like forced chats, unreplied messages gets to me, create a pinch on my ego and in a way emasculates me. It feels like she has moved on but I can't.

Now my question, how do people get over people so easily?

Have you ever met someone and felt like she was the one and it ended?

Has anyone been in my shoes and how did you move on?

The happily ever after I dreamt of has become a night mare.
Try to engage in any activity to gives you joy, with time you will get over her.
I had a similar experience but in my case I paid her fees in the university and fix her in federal govt job because I don't like a full time house wife. We agreed to get marry after 3 years because the job does not permit a woman to marry-until she spent 3 years.
As the third year approaches, she said she is no longer interested in the relationship again and she left to marry a uniform person like her.
I have no choice but to move on. Pls dust yourself and move on for you will meet someone better than her.

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UNDERSTANDING YOUR MAN...
Dr Becky Enenche
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Men are the simplest specie I've ever handled in my life. No man is difficult, ignorance is what makes it difficult. If you want men to fall in love with you and your fiance/husband to treat you like the greatest treasure on earth, you must understand what makes a man a man, the right buttons to click and how to enjoy a sweet, blissful, heaven on earth marriage with him!

1. MEN HAVE FIRST LOVE they are passionate about it and that is his work. A man must succeed. Not making progress in life is like being impotent, he feels castrated! You must understand this and give him space to succeed. This requires time, efforts, focus, sleepless nights. To demand he spend all his waking hours watching romantic movie with you is to turn him to a perpetual failure! Idle ladies who have nothing sensible doing with their lives except disturb their fiance at work per minute, per second to fill their empty life are a big turn off!

2. MEN HAVE EGO: he needs it to be the head of his home and succeed. You must distinguish between ego and pride. A man with a healthy ego will listen to you but firmly and lovingly let you know his final decision. A man with pride won't listen to you at all, snob you and treat you like trash!
A man with a healthy ego is not a dummy! Some women expect their men to take all their advice and follow all their instruction, that's not possible! He can't take everything. He will take the ones that makes sense and put aside the ones that will land you in trouble.
He is the head. You can't force your ideas on him, you can only advise, the final decision lies in his hand, shikennah!

3. MEN ARE MOVED BY SIGHT: it's so amazing so many ladies are ignorant of this. Look, if you don't want that guy to have sex with you, COVER UP whenever you are with him. I don't understand how a sane Christian sister will go to her fiance's house with a mini skirt and your laps thrown apart right in front of him! You also wore a low neckline and each time you bend, your big mammalian glands are staring menacingly at him and you tell him not to...not to do what? I pity men honestly, the temptation they face daily, only the God of heaven Himself understands because women are refusing to understand!
In marriage, you must deliberately make your husband chase you around for sex, just one look at some wives, all the sexual desire the husband has flies right through the window! Stinking mouth, bushy armpit, torn underwear, ragged pant, smelling wrapper, etc, etc. Yet the man is surrounded by sweet smelling, well dressed, tantalizing, head swooning babes at work! You must keep packaging and re-packaging! Get transparent bra that pushes the central focus forward, jaw dropping lingerie, sex triggering perfumes and blow his imagination off as often as you can (this is strictly for the married).

4. MEN WANT PEACE OF MIND: Nagging, criticizing, shouting, yelling, abusing and cursing can destabilize a man, you should minimize it as much as possible in fact, stop it all together.
Some men hate coming home early because the troublesome wife will nag life out of him till late in the night! Once he wakes up, she repeats the cycle till he leaves home! Men like that usually end up with mistresses or second wives! Men run towards women who give them peace not shatter them to pieces!

5. MEN LIKE QUALITY FOOD: unless he didn't give you enough money or he likes it, concoction rice with ground pepper, onions, coconut oil and maggi is an insult to him! Watery stew that drops to his elbow while eating is a big bomb on his head! Egusi soup that looks as if garri is sprinkled over a pot of water is a big slap on his face! His money should reflect what you cook please! Maximize what you have, treat him like a king!

6. MEN LOVE TO BE PRAISED: candidly, I love praising men, praise of man is my natural territory! When I noticed it almost landed me in trouble as men kept giving the chase, I stopped it all together and focus on my husband.
If you are a man-praiser, you will never lack a man's love all your life! You will be pampered, loved and cherished! I've never met a single man who does not respond to praise!
Stingy, selfish, bitterly critical women who see nothing good in their men never have lasting marriages! Praise your husband silly! Appreciate his efforts in your life. Look out for his good qualities and his song in his ears daily!
I love praising my husband, it gives me deep pleasure doing so, he sure deserves it and he enjoys listening to it.

7. RESPECT HIM: Ladies who shout at their fiance, order him around and disgrace him in public because she has a masters degree in international marketing will stay a long long time as single before she finds an old man to marry! You must be humble if you want to be under any man's roof! Respect is the food of every man. Learn to respect your fiance, show honour to your husband. Saying "yes sir" when appropriate won't make you less of a woman! Learn how to talk to a man. Some women just don't know how to talk! Never correct him in public, don't send him on errand in front of his friends, stop making jest of him in front of the children, it's bad!!!

8. SUBMIT TO HIM: God states it clearly, "wives, submit to your husbands." Submit your body and other things when he needs them. If you have any trouble with that, ask God, not me. Why was Abraham madly in love with Sarah? She didn't allow her exceptional beauty make her proud, she was a very submissive, respectful wife who called her husband "Lord."

9. SUPPORT: Men want women who can support whenever they need help. That is why lots of men are having affairs with colleagues at work because the colleague is eager to help when he needs it most while the one at home left him to handle his problems by himself. Why then did he get married? What is her role in his life as a HELPER?

10. MEN GO THROUGH SEASONS: the season of little, the season of managing, the season of abundance! No man wants a gold digger who runs away when he has challenges only to show up when he has made it and has millions flowing in his account!
Men are not difficult at all. These and more are what makes a man tick, thrive and enjoy the woman he has vowed to spend the rest of his life with. Can you find that kind of woman?
Do you have what it takes to make your husband happy and fulfilled? Think about it..

paulolee:
lolz...if u like do all on that list and give her all ur money join, ticket wey wan cut go cut, e go shock you say na stupid reason they mk her cheat with the married man..

So what type of justification do you think will make a girl cheat with married men?

NLSavage:
asin why would i do the above just to make a girl stay one place. Girl wey go stay go stay. Wtf! give her money, don't check her phone etc. Bro seriously i suspect say na girl get this rubbish to write up

I am not a girl, but these pencilled down points are the basic ingredients needed to sustain that relationship with the girl of your choice, if you are ready to build a lasting relationship with her.
On the contrary, if you are out for a fling with her, you have no reason to regurgitate these points.

chatinent:
Mr. Speaker, I totally disagree with you. You cannot keep a hen away from grains. Let me poke your bubble on number four; it's not your constitutional right to spend on any girl. She has a right to work and you are not her father.

If the grain is available for the hen in excess, the hen does not need to go for other available grains.
Such submission reveals why it is wise to spend out of the meagre resources for your girl.
Naturally, girls are wired to "collect" money, gifts, etc. That is why it is advisable to give out only what one can easily part away with.

My young man, you may not realize this, but you are probably the reason why your girl has a sugar Daddy. O you think she is not tempted to keep one? Error. And many more girls are getting more frustrated in relating with single guys.
And you may even conclude that no matter what you do, girls will still follow married men, that's not always true. Most girls won't even date married men, all things being equal.

Here are some tips that can help you get your girl fully back.

1. Cool your temper.
One reason she is dating older men, is because you're too easily provoked. At a slightest provocation, you slap or threaten to beat her up. Older men are mostly as calm as sea, even when provoked.

2. Leave her phone alone.
You don't really have any business with her phone, even if you bought it for her. She may be dating you, but she is also entitled to her privacy. Most older men don't go through girls' phones.

3. Ignore her calls.
Her phone rings, you suddenly become all ears. If she doesn't pick, it's problem. If she picks, it's problem. Older men don't bother to listen to her calls so she is even very free to make several calls in his presence.

4. Give her money.
It may be true, you probably don't have plenty money like her Sugar Daddy, but you can do your best. You are not giving her money but you are constantly suspecting her, begging another babe with money.

5. Be caring and considerate.
Always think of her welfare. Don't just call simply because you want her to visit you. Show genuine concern for her health and welfare.

6. Pet her.
Indeed, her shakara may be too much, but that's what makes her a lady. Remember, she is an African woman. It is your work to pet her, baby her. That's what some married men do to them. All girls like petting.

7. Give her money.
Don't wait until she asks for money. In fact, a girl who is not asking you for money will soon leave you for this same reason. Ladies are always almost broke. Recharge her phones always.

8. Stop behaving like her boss.
You are not yet married to her and yet you boss her around. Even in marriage, be a partner, not a superior and a boss. Be her hero.

9. Stop being too jealous.
What's yours will remain yours. No matter how much you monitor her, she will always have her way. Allow her to socialize with other guys, after all, you may not even marry her.

10. Stop disturbing her about sex.
It makes her feel that all you want from her is sex. Most married men don't bother their girls about sex and yet they still show care.

11. Stop thinking she is loose.
Don't think she is a cheap girl simply because she is excited about you. Don't make her to withdraw into her shell. And stop telling your guys how easy you got her. Don't forget that this girl you got on the first date, several guys have been toasting her for years without success

12. Don't deceive her.
If you have no plan to marry her, maybe she is not good enough as wife material, be honest, and tell her marriage is not on your mind.

Finally, take time to study how responsible men treat their women and imitate.
I wish you a successful relationship.
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May the soul of the dead rest in peace and the living who sustained an injury receive total healing.
This is very tragic, especially this period we are faced with a ravaging pandemic globally.

It can only be described as inserting a square peg in a round hole. How can a journalist who does not understand the rudiments of education be made a federal minister for education?
Let the legislators take a proactive measure to rescind on the decision about the cancellation of WAEC this year.

This is pathetic. May God grant the families the grit to bear this painful and irreplaceable loss. Indeed this world is not our home.

This is painful and sad. Despite the economic downturn ravaging the nation, we are still experiencing inferno of this magnitude.
May God console those who lost their products.
Let the government of the nation compensate them adequately to enable them to bounce back to life again.

May his soul find peace with the Lord. What a painful loss of life. May God grant his family and the entire students of the University of Benin, the fortitude to bear this irreplaceable and irreparable loss.

Closing the eyes during prayers enables one to concentrate and minimize distractions.
Whether you close the eyes or your open the eyes, it is your heartfelt prayers to God that matters.

What a touching scenario and story. A little helping hand can alleviate the pains of life. Societal and human insensitive and negligence has become the prime factor of depression and recession.
It behoves on us to show that care needed, but when charity fails to begin from home and within our environment with extension to those in pain and lack, division, crisis and nefarious thoughts or action becomes inevitable.
Covid-19 as a global pandemic has caused untold and excruciating hardship to the human race.
Three viruses are the product of this pandemic
1. Hunger Virus
2. Robbery Virus
3. Corona Virus.
However, no matter how dark the night is, the day will break one day. This too shall pass and we shall surely overcome and they will be light at the end of the tunnel.
(Pain of a private school teacher)

When my wife and kids told me that they would love to go to my brother’s house to spend the weekend and kill boredom, I did not hesitate to give it the nod because I also needed some quiet time alone in the house. I was working on a proposal that was to be submitted on Monday morning via email. The insistence by the company to send it via email was because of the restriction in the movement of people over the COVID 19 issue.
My wife was a law enforcement agent and would not have any challenge navigating through the hundreds of checkpoints on the roads.
“Make sure you guys return on Monday,” I said as my wife led the kids out of the house. “I don’t want to hear stories.”
She chuckled. “There will be no stories. Please follow us to the junction so you can help me collect my clothes from the laundry man. He called to tell me that he would be waiting.”
I would not have left the house that morning if she hadn’t said that. Outside the gate where Mubarak had a kiosk, I saw three young men smoking cigarettes and engrossed in a hearty conversation.
“Ina kwana,” Mubarak greeted us cordially. “This one that everyone is dressed ceremonially, I don’t think this is a short journey.”
My wife nodded and smiled at him. “We will be back on Monday evening. Please put eyes on the house for us.”
He said he would. My wife hopped onto the driver’s seat and I sat beside her on the passenger’s side. My three kids giggled at one another as they occupied the back seat. Since her own car had had some mechanical fault and was taken away by the mechanic prior to the Corona virus pandemic, we had both been managing my own car. Carefully, she hurled the Toyota Corolla past Mubarak’s kiosk and honked. Mubarak had been a very good neighbour. He would keep an eye on the compound whenever we were not around. In return, the family had also treated him like a brother.
The laundry man was not in the shop when we got there. My wife was furious because her uniforms were the clothes she had given him to wash. I decided to go and check on Tony at home. He was a very good friend whom I had learned a lot from. His own family had travelled as soon as the virus matter began and he had been all alone. He was glad to see me. We ate the food he prepared and watched a movie together. That took a long time. By the time I returned home in the evening, Mubarak had closed because it was about to rain. The sky was thick with a storm.
I opened the main door and closed it carefully. That door needed repairs but I hadn’t bothered to fix it. If you shut it from the inside without sticking a paper in it, it would be difficult to open from the inside. Someone would have to open it from the outside or else you would remain trap inside. Several times, my wife had reminded me about it but I didn’t just care because the house was usually never empty.
Because I was alone, I was careful to put a piece of paper in it before closing it. And because I had no plans of going to bed immediately, I didn’t bother to lock it with a key. Never in my wildest imagination did I think that a burglar would break into the house that night.
I was watching the news on Aljazera when the lights went off. Soon, the rains began to hit the roof like pebbles thrown in hundreds from the sky. The wind too blew heavily like millions of giant birds flapping their wings.
I went into the bedroom and sleep found me there in no time. It was the shrill cry of a baby that woke me up later. The rain had stopped. Darkness still enveloped the sky. It was past one o’ clock in the morning.
I began to wonder what was wrong with the child that was crying. Her voice tore miserably into the silence of the dark and made me feel very uncomfortable. What could be wrong with the child? I thought as I crept out of the bed towards the window.
The cry was coming from the house adjacent mine. It was a small building without a fence. In front of it was a rickety Golf car painted in taxi colours. Since I bought the house over a year and a half before, I hadn’t bothered to know who my neighbours were.
I was still wondering why the baby was crying and disturbing the entire neighbourhood when I began to hear the sound of the front door opening. I wanted to scream but intuitively decided against that. The cry of the child continued to waft into my ears and I suddenly began to tremble. I hadn’t seen a thief in real life before. I had heard and read about how they attack people and maim or killed them just to get what they wanted.
What if this thief had a weapon? I thought miserably as I quietly docked behind my bedroom door. When the intruder began to tiptoe into the kitchen, I put my eye through the tiny opening between the door and its frame.
I heaved a sigh when I saw that he was not armed. His silhouette figure moved in the dark like a walking tortoise. The light from his small phone led him into the kitchen. I wanted to scream now but something held me still; perhaps it was the fear of the unknown. I was paranoid now like never before. What if he had a pistol in his pocket? What if he had a dagger he’d kept by the door?
I was still wondering of what to do next when the burglar came out of the kitchen carrying a black polythene bag. The cry of the child from the house adjacent mine continued to waft into my ears. I felt creepy. Even though the weather was cold, I felt sweat drop from my forehead in rivulets. My palms too were damp with sweat. I hadn’t sweated like that before. This could happen to anybody who was alone with a thief in his house; a thief who could have been in possession of lethal arms.
Suddenly, I heard him begin to hit the door and it struck me that he had just jammed the door without using the piece of paper. Certainly, he was trapped. I could hear him curse under his breath. Just then, the lights came on.
When he walked back into the kitchen and I saw that he was not armed, I came out of my hiding place.
“Who the hell are you and what are you doing in my house?” I thundered feigning courage. The fear in his eyes was palpable.
“I..I..I, please sir!” his knees dropped on the tiled floor. His head was bowed and buried in shame. He could only stutter.
“You had better talk to me before I shoot you dead right now.”
He jammed his palms together and began to cry. “Sir, my name is Theophilus.I am not a thief. I have never stolen anything from anyone all my life. But if you could put your ears down right now, you’d hear the cry of a child. That’s my only daughter. She is a year and two months old. We have not eaten since yesterday morning. My wife bought akara thirty naira for her yesterday morning and that was all she’s eaten since. I haven’t worked since this corona virus thing began because of the restriction in movement. I am a taxi driver. Even if the lockdown ends today, I still won’t be able to work because I have sold my car battery and bought food to feed my family with it last month. I heard from a friend that you people left the house and won’t be back until Monday. I couldn’t stand the cry of the child anymore so I decided to burgle your house to fetch her some food from here. She won’t stop crying until she gets something to eat. My wife too is crying helplessly in the house. I just couldn’t take it. I had to become a thief if only for tonight…”
He was crying as he spoke. I took the black polythene bag from him and my heart dropped when I saw the things he had stolen from the kitchen in it; three packs of noodles, half a loaf of bread, some milk powder in and beverages.
My wallet which had about thirty five thousand naira in it was lying conspicuously on the chair.
Pointing at the wallet, I echoed; “Why didn’t you take the money or did you not see it?”
“I did,” he replied with his head still bowed. “It was the first thing I pointed the light from my phone at but I have no need of it. I came here to get something for my daughter to eat not to steal money.”
A tear fell off my eye. I held his hands and told him to get up. “You are not a thief my brother. You are just a father whose love for his only child is without blemish. From the way you speak, I am certain that you are learned. But for the situation of the country, you would not have become a taxi driver. For your daughter’s sake, I will not do anything to you. Just call your wife to come here with the child so she could open the door for us from outside. That way, she could prepare something for her here to eat.”
Tearfully, he knelt down again and began to cry. He hadn’t airtime on his phone, I gave him mine and he called the wife with it. Before she arrived with the child, I had prepared beverage for the child while I let him cook some noodles for himself and the wife.
It was my turn to cry when the woman was feeding the child who was dragging the bread from her mother as if all her life depended on it. She wolfed down her beverage with the speed of light and as soon as she had had her feel, she crept into the arms of her father and immediately fell asleep.
The parents had time to eat their noodles when the child had begun to eat. By the time they were through, it was past two o’clock.
I gave him all the money in my wallet and told him to buy and stuck his house with food with the money. When my wife returned with the children and I told her what had happened, she cried on end.
“We are just privileged. We are just lucky.” She broke down emotionally. “We cannot be this blessed by God and watch our neighbours suffer. We must help them.”
My wife was right. I bought Theophilus a new battery for his car and gave the wife the sum of two hundred thousand naira to start a crayfish trade. Sometimes, all that we need to completely eradicate crime isn’t to keep buying guns for the police, isn’t to keep pushing people into prison but just to lend a helping hand to our neighbours. If your neighbours are happy, you’d certainly be happy too. I have come to understand not every thief caught in the act is a real thief. I am glad that we were the source of their joy today and pray that many would after reading this do what we did or do even more.
Love will certainly solve all the problems of humanity.
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THE BURGLAR by Japheth Prosper

Second born are always annoying.
It is true, second born are very annoying and don't even care about their siblings. I have a sister who is a second born and highly connected but refuse to assist other members of the family.

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She was no longer interested in the relationship after I have fixed her in a Federal Government Job in Nigeria penultimate to our introduction. I will pencil down the story one day in this forum for people to learn from the sardonic experience.

Responsibility is the key to greatness. It sounds logical for such an apology to emanate from him which is the true essence of responsibility.

Rest in peace, Grandma. I used her book Brighter Grammar far back in the early nineties during my formation days in primary.

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Benue has a confirmed case of Corona Virus , COVID 19, Governor Ortom while addressing newsmen on the development identified the victim as Suzan Okpe who returned from the UK a few days ago .

He said the reason for announcing the name is for people who have come in contact with the said victim to avail themselves for necessary actions .

The Governor disclosed that two blood samples of suspected cases were taken to Abuja but the NCDC confirmed the other one negetive and one positive .