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tracy, u know wot, some facts u listed are just fiction. u made them up to get ppls opinion. u claim to be 25 and av dated lots of assholes. uv broken some hearts. ur standards are high. babe chill and calmdown. I will like to know d secondary school and university u went to. dis cld av moulded ur character. wot standards if I may ask. physical, spiritual, tribal, Financial etc. wot exactly. in a nut-shell, here are some tips that may help u.

1. to get d best out of any relationshp, uv got to be ready to adjust: no human is perfect, u're not just d flexible type. u sound so rigid. if u intend to get married(like ur frnds) and av kids, u av to bring down your ego and change ur attitude

2. u dont fall in love, instead u grow in luv and luv takes time. Its like planting a seed and nurturing it to maturity till it bears fruits: Relationships are crucial to succeed in life. we all cant do without it. Life could be frustratin without it(as u admiited in ur topic).

3. men are logical and women are emotional in dia response to issues: u need to learn to trust ur man. dat doesnt mean u play d fool but being strategic and reasonable.its better u date olders guys and some one dat has been in multiple relationships. they tend to be focused and purpose driven.

4. wot is required for any relationship(even marraige) to succeed is endurance and tolerance. however relationships are not to be endured but to be enjoyed. in real endurance, u're hoping to stay together to work things out. however tolerance may lead to trauma if ur partner doesnt change. so uv got to strike a balance

5. try and adjust and lower your standards. take someone like me, a workin graduate dating someone in 100level who I intend to marry next year. had to lower my standards and adjust despite all d visible differences. age, status, background, mentality, maturity etc.

av got a lot to say but av to devote time to other things.send me a mail and tell me more about yourself. phloxzone@yahoo.com. will recommend a particular book that will help u discover your self and attract the man of your dreams. av fun and think positive

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Its so unfortunate that we’re already thinkin of riggin even b4 d election. Ribadu is a good candidate with pedigree, integrity and vision. He has a chance to sweep a bulk of d votes if he runs with a notable name from d southwest. Its high time we do away with religion, tribe & status in our politics. Though not in support of AC but as a fan of OBJ, I will cast my vote for Ribadu. To topple pdp, other parties shld merge & come up with a Northerner & South west ticket. Obj allowed multiple parties as a way of overcomin d opposition. Its so sad that they didn’t realize his plan

Ribadu was key to d emergence of yaradua as d pdp flag-bearer in 2007. obj ordered him to scrutinize all pdp governors & yaradua came 1st as d most transparent & scandal-free. Then Donald duke and peter odili were already campaignin. Obj told them to step down. Duke obeyed & didn’t decamp. Odili went to aso-rock to persuade obj but later listened & still remained a loyal party member.

Obj also told babangida, maruwa, gusau & ahigbe(all military men) to step down so as not to be disgraced. IBB as a smart man obeyed. Ahigbe, maruwa, gusau, jerry gana, sarah jubril all had meager votes. I watched it live. Yaradua had over 3000 votes with Rochas Okorocha comin 2nd with about 370votes.

Wot am I sayin. To win election in Nigeria, u av to be very strategic with choices. Obj is a genious. He knew only a yaradua and south south ticket was best to win buhari(ANPP) and atiku(AC). Atiku would av been president if not for his feud with obj. right now pdp is confused because they all agreed in 2007 dat d north must rule for 8-years.

Other parties shld capitalize on this. Don’t be surprised if jonathan refuses to run because this man is not really a politician & he is very loyal to d pdp board of trusteed headed by obj. I think d best option for pdp is BUKOLA SARAKI. He is a Northerner, Yoruba, Fulani, muslim, Christian all at d same time. He is young(under 50) and connected to d private sector. d Dangotes, Otedolas, Adenugas, most bank ceos are all his friends. He is d chairman governors forum. He’s dad is influential in d north. He was d closest governor to yaradua(with katsina state governor). Dis is d best option for pdp. If he partners with ROCHAS OKOROCHA or DONAL DUKE, pdp will sweep over 70% of d votes without rigging. Okorocha and duke also av good track records, they are highly connected too and will attract large votes from the south-south & south east.

I wish ribadu luck but he cant win. Atiku and babangida cant even win pdp primaries. They shld go to other parties. Buhari can never win. We need young men of vision. To conclude, irrespective of party, religion, tribe, a DONALD DUKE and TUNDE FASHOLA is d best ticket for NIGERIA. May God help us

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hi sam. will buzz u up soon. think we can work 2geda but need to know d mode of payment. is it weekly, monthly or quarterly. had my nysc in Nig. Brew lagos & cld get a link dia & hopefully, d trucks cld be added to dia fleet . as u know they run one of d largest haulage system. cld also raise abt N2m to get a truck. d firm u work with, do they allow mini trucks. hope ure serious abt dis. we may need tomeet one on one. hope u're based in lagos. I reside in surulere. av fun & think positive

blackwood, I dont bliv ur story cos its twisted. u said u jst got a job last week, uv bn savin for accomodatn & got a N180k ring which u threw away out of annoyance. its so funny. how cld dat be true. be a man & stop postin lies on nairaland. tell me wot has the girl done wrong. she probably wanted to surprise u jst as u wantd to surprise her too by goin to Ibdn.

u said she has bn supportive which shows she loves u. u told her not to come to lag & stay with u cos u're squatin wit a friend. she didnt want to bother u.b4 now av u had any grudge based on infidelity. does she disrespect u cos of ur financial status. has she ever cheated. dis are issues u av to analyse.

u need to see her & sort things out. and u av to work on ur attitude cos u're getn pompous cos of a new job that u havn even gotn ur 1st pay-cheque

babe, let me give it to u straigh with no strings attached. u're 28 & u desire to settle down so why date two guys @ d same time. u're definately a playa. how wld u feel if u found out d rich guy is commited to another girl.probably dats why u're not getn enuf attention from him.I was once player & can read the guys attitude. do a research on dis, try & find out from his close pals or relatives. we guyshave d tendency to love more than one chic.lavishn GIFTS on u could be a sign he's discovered its one your love languages. another love lanuguage u respond to is QUALITY TIME. babe sit and think. u know in your mind dat u love one more than the other.u cant marry both of them so decide now. am going offline now; av to do sme laundry & get ready for work. still av a lot to say. will post another reply soon. av fun and think positive

am been in your shoes once. I guess its just natural. they get entangled in a love cage. take my case for instance.
I hookd up with my ex-girl recently & we had sex while she claims to be in a relationship. its crazy & so weird. since we've been tryin to get back. girl av complicated issue. atimes I pity them. they're emotional beings. its so unfortunate

[b]Hi, nairalanders.pls I need your candid opinion & advice on this issue. I'm a player turned lover boy. 30yr old working class planning to get married next year. I just reconciled with my ex-girlfriend through her mum's influence. av been on this issue since october last year & achieved it April 24th 2010. I broke her heart in February 2009 and I regret it although I had good reasons for my actions.

shes a 21year old student. it took the intervention of her mum b4 I got her back. she was in a 7-months relationship which her mum didnt approve of. according to her mum, the guy is not in school,arrogant & takes her daughter for granted. her mum is quite young(early 40's) so it was easy for me to relate with her.

this girl happens to be the youngest av ever dated. she hardworkin, humble, has a good sense of humour & dresses well. she's beatiful, intelligent & God fearing. she's also a good cook. u may wonder why I left her despite all this attributes.I met her when she was 19 and she wasnt serious about gettin university admission. I left her for a banker who is ibo(am yoruba). couldnt marry her due to her parents refusal because of our tribal differences.

In nutshell, av reconciled with my ex-girlfriend. she claims she has forgivin me and now loves me like b4 but finds it hard to trust me. she proved her love & devotion to me by having sex with me twice since we made up. she told me she will break up with d guy she dated after me as he's not serious & too young for her(24yrs).

I wasnt worried about this since I had her mum's backing. it has been a sweet experience all the way until ystday when I called her and she sounded hostile on phone tellin me she was with the guy dat I shld call back. It was shockin & painful.

RIGHT NOW AM SO CONFUSED AND I DONT KNOW WHAT TO THINK AS SHE HAS SWITCHED OFF HER PHONE. CALLED HER MUM AND SHE SAID SHE WASNT AT HOME. PLEASE WHAT SHLD I DO. MY FRIENDS SAID I SHLD LET GO & GET A GIRL MY OWN CLASS. PLS ADVICE ME because I REALLY LOVE THIS GIRL


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hi. nairaland members. cool guys and cute chics. please I need multiple tips to analyse and apply immediately. I've tried different means all to no avail.
even approached her mum. I broke her heart and am so sorry and regret it. she claims she still likes me but want to punish me. what can I do to make her leave her present relationship which is just two months. am desperately in need of answers. pls help me out