yarimo:
No shame from them

Did the both of you even read the post?

MrColdsweat:
Whether you raise your standards or not, na ashawo all of una go marry.

💯

TheRealestGuy:


The sarcastic tone in your comment is obvious to me.

Leaving aside all the yapping, It may shock you but there are many working class women who remain feminine, submissive and cooperative with their husband.

Only modern black women think in extremes just like you've done here. Do not make it seem like those two are the only options because there are indeed women raised to understand and play the role of a wife to a man.

We saw our grandmothers and mothers do it, and also saw how our grandfathers and fathers loved and adored them and the whole family, living a life of sacrifice for the good of everyone.

Now, it is up to you to vet and date and marry worthy men. If you choose a bum you can't blame it on anyone else.

Obviously this only applies to those who want to be married.

You may continue to argue it online (which I will ignore) but the facts are clear.

All the best to you.

A WOMAN WILL EVER TREAT OR GIVE ‘EXAGGERATED’ RESPECT TO A MAN SHE SHARES RESPONSIBILITY WITH, YOU ARE DECEIVING YOURSELF

SHE WILL NEVER SEE YOU THE SAME WAY SHE WILL SEE WHO WILL FULLY TAKE CARE OF HER, YOU ARE DECEIVING YOURSELF


Our grandmothers hustled to provide in what continent, did you just escape from a mental institution? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Living a life of sacrifice for everyone while you the MAN does whatever you like is what you want women to aspire for, that is what makes a good woman to you? A slave? 🤣🤣🤣🤣

One thing I would leave you with, I CANNOT HOPE to know the mind of man the way you do

Trust me, you CANNOT EVEN BEGIN to know the mind of women like I A WOMAN does

Hustling, submissive and feminine? Because you live with them 24hrs? Keep deceiving yourself, your EYES will be open very soon 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

He who pays the piper, dictates the tune

What some of you want to do is share the responsibility of payment to the piper but not the dictation of the tune

This makes you AS DELUSIONAL as women that want men to take care of them but claim big woman outside


You want to share responsibility with a woman but get the same privileges AND respect men who take charge of their homes get, you are DELUSIONAL

Even those men will never consider you a man

Goodman247:
We need people that will invent and create things, we want a better Nigeria not all these mediocre things,

Lead the way


Be the change you want to see

Allisgud:
This man go just dey chop concoction from their babalawo steady,the one wey go use urine cook vegetable for him,the one wey go use menstruation blood cook stew,the one wey go soak her dirty pant daybreak inside water cook for am all because she want to be the most liked

If na woman type this one now, dem go call am bitter feminist

2RightHands1Coc:
I believe her based on one or two. Eyes done see a lot for lagos. Last last dem go say na drugs she dey on. That has always been the alibi

If you know. You know.

Who no go no know

1000Capacity:
This is Colos. She smoked Colos
That drug should be banned.

It gives the effect of heightened danger. It makes you feel like you have escaped a big harm that could end your life.

Omo stay away from that drug. Don't smoke it abeg. Na me know wetin my eye see

Definitely colos

Negroid001:


Of course I'm the man of the house.
And my wife is going to be the caretaker of affairs.

Lol. Okay sir 😁

Negroid001:


Speak for your brothers and family not me.
I'm not leading anyone. Marriage is teamwork.
Not looking for a slave. I only do women who have a mind of their own, not some fake ass submissive pretender.

Thats what you will say now but look at the comments of your fellow men above who are looking for a ‘slave’

Well, congratulations, you have chosen the best path

They can’t even take my assertions without getting in their feelings simply because my moniker shows (f)

TheRealestGuy:


Being feminine, beautiful, inspirational and family oriented is what you speak of in derogatory terms like this

You say men want to lead but this is the classic lack of accountability most women exhibit. It has been proven since beginning of time that women love a man to be in charge; and so men step up to this to cater to what women want.

Even you making noise here wants a man who is in charge but you can pretend all you like. And if you say you're not then you're a 0.1% minority of women who all mostly want this.

You have resulted to guilt tripping and shaming tactics simply because a man set his standards.

Shioor.

At least the "bimbo" will take good care of the kids and inspire the man to take his family to the greatest possible height.

While the "hustler" slaves away at a job or career, ends up alone and bitter, freezes her eggs at 35 and goes on the hunt for a weak idiot to have a baby and do life all alone.

BTW again, it has been proven that an overwhelming majority of women prefer to be a "bimbo" and raising a family is one of the most important jobs in the world, certainly more important than a career in "marketing" or "linguistic studies".

Again, shioor

I am agreeing with him and telling him that if he chooses such a woman, he is destined to share his manhood with her and you still have a problem? What exactly is men’s issue with women on this site? Like even the op described the woman I described ‘a fake ass slave’

Why don’t you go tackle him?

I didn’t read much of what you wrote but if I came across as one disparaging the life of a homemaker, then I apologize…

No need to get rude or use terms like I’m ‘making noise’ when your fellow men describe women who have decided to be homemakers in these same terms everyday

Don’t get in your feelings because you feel it’s a woman typing

All I’m saying is the man above to choose one, it’s either you provide without complaints like the ‘man’ you claim to be or you get the a hustler that thinks like you and hold your peace forever

It is that simple

It is your fellow men that use these terms to abuse the women they know they are destined to take care off, your problem should be with them and not me

I won’t lie, I am heavily disappointed at some of the opinions of my fellow women concerning this DNA saga

With how hard it is to raise kids, this is too sensitive to drop anyhow opinions

Ezyp:


Have you heard of the word hypergamy? It runs deep in women.

Ladies in your class are looking for men above your class. So stop fooling yourself with the mentality that na your class you go marry. Grow up bro

Lol. Except he’s read to drop the title ‘Man’ ‘head of house’. He is just deceiving himself

Negroid001:
Me and my younger sister were having our usual afternoon gossips and gists and something came up.
I asked after a close friend of hers whom i know to be very affluent and she erupted that i should stop asking after her that she doesn't support me dating any of her close friends. I asked her why, she said i have nothing to offer her friend. I mean, imagine, I'm some years away from 30, working with several firms of which 1 is among the top 10 highest grossing in the country and this big head has the audacity to tell me i can't hook her rich friend.

I take us down memory lane to the reason why she ditched her immediate ex, she told me the dude was struggling and she didn't see much prospect in him, her childhood crush oo. I asked her what's the difference between me and her? She couldn't come up with a valid response. She kept on hollering that I'm supposed to be a provider. Provider my ass.

As a man, I've set the standard of not getting involved with women below my economic class or earnings and i see nothing wrong with it. If women see marrying above one's class as normal, we men shouldn't accept anyone below par also.

Woman wey no get shingbai for account go dey give man wey dey earn conditions, what absurdity!

Let's stop fooling ourselves with love shi. Marriages and relationships are transactional.
It's an arrangement and one has to make the best of choices. What are you bringing to the table?

I blame low self esteemed men for putting a false sense of value on our women. The thing dey mess with their brain. The only thing most of them have to offer is sex, nothing more.

Men, raise your standards!

Men will never raise their standards because of their own egos

Most men can’t handle the mindset of women on their economic class for too long because they are too serious like you are about life

They have no time neither the desire to act stupid or airheaded just to appease your ego (which is what men term girliness) so most men will often end up desiring that false sense of manliness the bimbos below their level provide


The air headed characteristics of women below their class who pretend to be ‘soft and feminine’ just to get a man to dump all their responsibilities on will still appeal to them later on

Men want to lead all the time, you cannot lead a hustler so most of you will still marry bimbos with nothing to offer

TheLoanGuy:
Lmao assumptions and insults as always. I never called myself a dog breeder, I'm a dog lover just like you. My mix breed dog (finer obviously) looks just like the dog you were trying to pass off as a purebred GSD which caused me to comment in the first place.

Unlike you I don't lie and when I didn't know his breed, I came here to ask, people told me, I didn't insult them and say "I am a rude boy, I will insult all of you and brag about my profession while doing it, if that's not good enough, I'll also refer to your parents in this conversation."

You came here to ask because you are genuinely interested or you came here to make let people know I’m deceiving them?

Which is it?

And what if I’m being deceived and prodded on by the breeder who sold me the dog? Did you consider that before dropping your assertions? Or were you not taught on how to communicate like an adult in what schools you were enrolled?

You started with the assumptions and insults when you wrongly deduced I was referring to myself as a dog breeder, who asked you if your dog was finer or if you even had a dog? See that I’m not the only one divulging useless information?

If you are not a dog breeder then you must be very low in society’s hierarchy to consider the profession one to brag about, you shot yourself in the foot with that one. This not assumption, IT IS JUST WHAT IT IS

Don’t act nice now and never start what you cannot finish Mr Loan Shark

bassdow:


How Sure Are we it's A SHE ?

Also, with the way [S]HE abi sHIM verbally literally attacked me, makes me wonder if the quality of said puppies were known before hand.

As in, I don't jump to conclusions easily as not everyOne knows about dogs that much BUT say make we yarn you the TRUTH in a respectful manner, make you come turn am to quarrel. hmmm

Accidental pregnancy no be new thing to people who keep dogs of different breeds and of opposite gender.

We no even say make you dash am out sef and you rush us like that.

wetin surprise me na the price tag of 70,000 naira for such grade of mutt.

Me no just wan insult anyBody because wetin I go talk write I no dey find am.

Also wetin bring talk of "Network Security Engineer" ? 
Abi you think say na everyBody wey dem Nairaland dey find dry left over garri to drink ? 
hmmm People wey get multiple ACTIVE professional responsibilities, no dey too quick identify Ooo.

See the DOLT talking about ‘respect’

They come, drop rude comments, when you retaliate, they act innocent


He wrongly profiled my profession, so it was necessary to clear his doubt since you are too blind to read

I go soon delete this thread because it seems like most of you on this site are bored and looking for excitement


Not on my watch, go masturbate with your partner in crime somewhere else

As for your last comment, CYBERSECURITY ENGINEERS are a thriving community on Instagram, LinkedIn and every other social site

We are loud and proud and some of us even use our knowledge to create content so you are deceiving yourself and your dog breeder friend

TheLoanGuy:
😂😂😂 If I needed help with my CV, it won't be from a confirmed liar. Unlike you, I no dey brag to seek social acceptance.

Also, shey dem use insults "do you?" How you dey take communicate with your colleagues?

Just take care of your dogs, they're great companions, you obviously love them but lying about their breed, not so good.

You no dey brag to seek social acceptance but you dey tell people it’s an insult to call themselves this or that and you don’t want them to clear your mumu doubt?

You can feel funky with your dog breeding profession but I can’t with mine? 😏

People like you just want to disparage and not help, if you came respectfully you would have been answered respectfully

When you’re done crying on my thread, see yourself out


Thanks

TheLoanGuy:
Awwww isn't it wonderful that such a winner is parading mutt as a purebred GSD.

Any word you say here I would take it as a pinch of salt, because right from the start you have shown that you would rather lie, for things as little as the breed of your dog and instead of accepting your fault, you would also rather result to insults.
You need to learn how to keep your emotions in check, work on your communication and social skills.

"Network Security Engineer", I doubt any system you use you deploy for security has any integrity.

Liar liar pants on fire. Network Security Engineer wey dey lie because she wan sell dogs.

Awwww

Send your CV, let me help you reverse the massive disappointment you are causing to your parents

TheLoanGuy:
Pele o "Run things Rude Girl."
"Oh she's so rude, I'm so scared."

Please, it's an insult to call yourself a "Breeder." It's not a word people throw around, a better qualification for yourself would be a "Pet lover". "Breeder?" Laugh wan finish me.

Yes. I am a ‘Pet lover’ that buys dogs for fun.

It would be an insult to my parents to call myself a ‘dog breeder’ Mr Man

What is exactly is prestigious about being a breeder that one would need to pose as one? How many months of school do I have to complete that it would be an insult to call myself a ‘dog breeder’?

Is that what your parents sent you to school to learn or are you solving a core problem in society? Are breeders really proud of their profession or think themselves professionals?

If people stopped caring about dogs to keep as ‘pets’, how will you feed?

I am a Network Security Engineer, not a breeder, since simple English confuses you


You’re akin to a housefly, I have told you to leave my thread yet you are still here… buzzing in my ears

You might as well make yourself comfortable since you have nothing better to do with your life


Instead of you tackle the problems most dear to you this morning as a man, you are on Nairaland having stupid laughs


You even went to fish out a picture to help you with your non money making point. What a loser 😕

TheLoanGuy:
Anyone who buys your puppies for 70k, I have a bridge to sell to them because it's obvious that they're gullible.

It's not buy speaking plenty English and saying "Nigga", you're behaving exactly like "society's irritants" you qualified him as. Or how else would you qualify someone who wants to prey on people's ignorance and dupe them? Do better.

"If it didn't dey, it didn't dey"

And you think people are fools to part with their money, without inspecting what they want to buy?

I don’t want to insult you but you are a very foolish person

I promise you online warrior (You would dare not say any of these things to a breeder in real life because YOU KNOW ITS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS)

There are much better, worthier causes for you to expend your clearly very expendable time on

I am very aware that you do not care much about what people get deceived on, you just want to prove a needless point to let us know you have knowledge on dogs

My dogs and who they are sold to are not Top 50 on the list of problems in your life or society in general

Make a list of your problems and look for a way to solve them every day you wake up and leave other people’s business to them

Next time, I will be extremely rude

TheLoanGuy:
Nope, your assertion that your dog is a purebred GSD is wrong and then now you're doubling down with your silly response, you're at the very top percentile of the "very very somehow people" on Nairaland.
You should be honest with your dealings from the onset, I thought you were not aware of the true breed of your dog, but it seems you do and you just wanted to pass it off as a GSD. Do better!

Okay Voltron

Why not take this case to court? Since my dogs and who they are sold to is now on the top 10 list of problems you need to solve in society?

Holawoyin:

Didn’t get any messages
Kindly resend ASAP

Hello. You number is not showing on WhatsApp since yesterday sir

Please message me if you can 08036440311

bassdow:

You get Mind Oooo. 70,000 naira cha

I wish I could block people, I would’ve blocked you ASAP


It’s obvious you are one of society’s irritants. How can a grown man sit a thread like a witch to monitor what he’s not interested in?

Nigga, I beg you, find something else to do

TheLoanGuy:
That German shepherd is not purebred. It's most likely a German shepherd and local dog mix.

If you’re not a buyer, why comment? Why not let the headache be on the buyer who will inspect before he buys?

This site is filled with very very somehow people

bassdow:


Also, I only asked a question. Issue of inspection should only come up when one requests for such and for mutts, doubt it's even worth it except the person resides nearBy

No offense but you talk too much

Why ask the question in the first place? Whats your business with my answer if you’re not living close or if you’re not interested? Do you want to befriend the dogs?


You’ve left three unnecessary comments on this topic alone and you’re not even an interested buyer, is that not Witchcraft?

No one forced or asked you to come inspect, sir

Please kindly leave the thread

bassdow:
Parents look well taken care of, but they ain't PURE especially that GSD

Alright

verminnel:
That gsd is nothing close to a pure breed op..if u see 30k each for the pups better collect fast.

I have sold three already for that price.

Next time if you’re not interested in something, kindly jump and pass instead of being rude because if you get a rude reply now, you’ll act innocent

Holawoyin:
Bro 08125155152
Either chat or call
ASAP

Sis

Just messaged you

leyoung:
Price and location pls

70k, Lekki

bassdow:


How PURE are the Parents to begin with ?

Purebred Rottweiler, Purebred German Shepherd


Both mother and father live with me and are available for your inspection

komzy589:

Listen to this trick;
You don’t find, you earn a husband that will genuinely buy you an iPhone 15.
So try get small shame.

Very disgusting comment

Starzo:

You get wife for house yet you dey call one small girl for nairaland MUMMY, you be big ode!


Mumu man

Puss360:

... Omo, these days, handsome and rich man, "Wifey must ready to share o"....
Na only she wan dey enjoy🤣🤣🤣



Good morning....

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