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Romance › Re: What’s The Best Approach When You Are The Most Hated Person At Your Job by McDonaldfished(op): 1:12pm On Dec 17, 2025

Kobojunkie:
. Self-assessment and self-reflection. Locate the supposed bad character they claim is in you and consider seriously whether they are right or wrong in their assessment.

Some of the best soft skills you can develop to help you develop self-love are emotional and social intelligence. When you have these, you cease to seek external validation from others.

Well maybe because of the fact that I take th job too seriously and most times I am rigid on following the policies…

Romance › What’s The Best Approach When You Are The Most Hated Person At Your Job by McDonaldfished(op): 10:27am On Dec 16, 2025

So…
Everybody hate me at work…
They say I have bad character

Romance › Re: I Just Ended This Short Term Relationship by McDonaldfished: 12:07pm On Jun 22, 2025

Ki11YurSev:
Coooloooo!! Wetin be your problem sev?

You get financial problem as you talk ham.. still dey do relationship join

Guy! You dey make mistake oo

Lol na big mistake him make.

Thats a red banner from the lady.

Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by McDonaldfished: 12:28pm On Nov 21, 2022

McDonaldfished:
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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by McDonaldfished: 10:37am On Nov 21, 2022*

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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by McDonaldfished: 4:14am On Nov 21, 2022

Good morning all.

Can any good samaritan kindly assist with any amount?
I AM REALLY BROKE RN.

FCMB 5842438012

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Romance › Re: What Does She Want!!! by McDonaldfished(op): 7:58am On Oct 14, 2022

satandeterrible:
shame on you.
I hope you die
Simp
Dirty simp
A manipulated man.

Lol

Romance › Re: What Does She Want!!! by McDonaldfished(op): 7:10am On Oct 14, 2022

emaopel:
In addition, try to show more closeness to another lady in the working place than her and try to intentionally ignoring her... If you really need her, she will come begging

Okay

Romance › Re: What Does She Want!!! by McDonaldfished(op): 10:37pm On Oct 13, 2022*

Nazgul:
Girls who deliberately seek friendship from guys they know have feelings for them but choose to turn them down are perfect examples of self centred or selfish people.

They love the fact that you're dying to have them, and think of themselves as a great personality...and would manipulate you into solving their financial problems whilst giving you the cold treatment.

My take....I'll advice you to distance yourself from that girl because you won't get anything other than bad mental health by staying “friends" with her. If she isn't reciprocating your feelings and is very clear about it then respect yourself and move on because unrequited things never work.

I already decided this.

In fact i told her that I feel she's manipulating me and the need to keep her distance from me

She apologized and still ask the we see . Asin which cain person she be sef.
I wonder what she want to see me for. I don't understand

Romance › Re: What Does She Want!!! by McDonaldfished(op): 8:23pm On Oct 13, 2022

Romance › Re: What Does She Want!!! by McDonaldfished(op): 7:44am On Oct 11, 2022

Affiliateseun05:
brosef she dey use you,delete/avoid/eliminate her,if possible tell her one on one you are not interested,have been in that situation.

Okay

Romance › Re: What Does She Want!!! by McDonaldfished(op): 2:56pm On Oct 10, 2022

jeromestarks:
It doesn't work that way. She won't want to leave you alone like that to avoid awkward moments.

Play along. I repeat, play along. After awhile, start posting one of your casual female friend pix on Whatsapp and Facebook. Make sure she sees it. You can even send some pics to her and tag it "my love".

Soon, she will get the message and carry her ugly, fuggly wide and deeply irritating pvssy somewhere else.

If you dull, she will use you and hurt you.

Lol

Romance › Re: What Does She Want!!! by McDonaldfished(op): 10:18am On Oct 10, 2022

jeromestarks:
Don't ask her for dates again. Just start making romantic advances.
Invite her to you house and fvck her.

She has someone she's hoping to marry but he's not so interested in her that's why she's looking for where to spend time pending when the guy will reason her.

Like I said,just fvck her and let her carry herself to the guy she has at heart. Hopefully he will stupid enough to marry her.

She should just leave me alone sef.

I don tire.

She's just wicked and she pretends as a good girl

Romance › What Does She Want!!! by McDonaldfished(op): 9:39am On Oct 10, 2022*

I really don't understand some ladies most especially this lady I have asked out 2 times and she keep saying NO. She can't date.

Meanwhile she has not let me be.

Last year I didn't make contact with her for a long period of time most especially after learning she wasnt interested in me. I let her be.

But to my surprise she texted and and said she misses me. I said I missed her too.
She did things that will make me more interested in her.
I dropped something here about her last year. So, late last year I asked her out again she said no she can't date.

I have already given up on her. Now she's now working in same workplace as I am. She manipulated me to bringing her in.

Now she calls for assistance. She could herself. Etc.

She knows I really love her. I wonder why she can't just let me be!!!

Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by McDonaldfished: 6:11am On Jan 08, 2022

McDonaldfished:
Good morning boss,
I actually lost job in a bank last year 2020, with a huge loan to repay. I have been embrassed etc. By the bank.
They know I have gat no means of repayment been trying to get another job and/business to do...
Kindly assist me boss with any amount or can you show me the way to you business bro. I really fed up about life currently.

@Trp1 kindly assist me

5.842.438.012
FCMB

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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by McDonaldfished: 9:05am On Dec 26, 2021

Hedgefunds:
What did you do with the facility you took from the bank?
Loans should not be for Consuming .
Don't you have current asset/investment that can offset the loan?
Then what have you been doing with ur salary years of working ?

I'd only worked for a year. And I took the loan for my dad. He didn't refund the money I sent him. Because what he intended the money for didn't work out

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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by McDonaldfished: 7:34am On Dec 26, 2021

TRP1:
People saying another thread should be created for business and stuffs is good like that but I’ll like to point out some things

What’s the assurance that after we start making it from these ventures we aren’t gonna SIMP back because we now have money which is one of the reason we put on the fake redpill life earlier
Most guys can’t even read from page 1 down to this page to grasp every content in this thread and you think they won’t put down the redpill attitude once cash start flowing in
Another thing is that when this money start coming in that’s when you see guys flexing and enjoying their life to the fullest (dem many for my sch wella lols ) and they’ve all forgotten how they were suffering
Maybe it’s because I’m from a poor background sha that’s while I’m thinking like this (though we never beg in life but I’ve done most menial job in life up to the extent of helping my mum to wash church toilet just to gather money )
I’ve moved from GRASS to GRACE and back to GRASS (even though i never spend recklessly oo lols ) so i know how those stages feel like.
The thing is how’s it that people aren’t gonna go back to SIMPle attitude when life starts to change for better for them
There are many things attributed to SIMPing and not just to the female gender alone.

I’ve taken pill to the extent that I hardly find females attractive (no matter how beautiful they are ) once I realize that all what this lady is gonna do is just to come and enjoy wealth I suffer for
mehn that thinking works like magic for me unlike before i would have fantasize any beautiful skirt that I come across but that shit no dey happen to me again at all.
Most people take pill but loose focus easily in life

Good morning boss,
I actually lost job in a bank last year 2020, with a huge loan to repay. I have been embrassed etc. By the bank.
They know I have gat no means of repayment been trying to get another job and/business to do...
Kindly assist me boss with any amount or can you show me the way to you business bro. I really fed up about life currently.

5.842.438.012
FCMB

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Romance › Re: How Do I Build Confidence Around A Lady by McDonaldfished(op): 6:09am On Sep 21, 2021

Favfables:
First off, I'm not a Reverend father...
I've spoken to lots and lots of girls...
And of course, I DONT WANT YOU TO EVER BE LIKE ME....

The point I'm tryna make is that, you should focus your attention more on building capacity and developing yourself to the Pinnacle and not to be bothered about something as trivial as "building confidence for a woman"...

And please don't misunderstand me, I love girls, but I think there's time for everything...

The primary focus of every young man should be to build capacity and becoming richer and smarter and better....

He should focus on daily growth in all
areas of his life and self development for fulfilling purpose...

Also, so you think I am not trying to get richer I just want a woman?

Na wa for people oo. When you smoke too much of the wrong things you cum online with a bad philosophy and try to force it on people.

There will always be need to get richer.
Obviously, there are people that feel women are distraction to their goals. I observe most of this men are mostly 'players' they are always engaged in non commital relationship.
Why some others done feel the need to even have an encounter with women because they have been heart broken by women in the past so they feel women doesn't worth their attention.

Romance › Re: How Do I Build Confidence Around A Lady by McDonaldfished(op): 5:35am On Sep 21, 2021

Favfables:
First off, I'm not a Reverend father...
I've spoken to lots and lots of girls...
And of course, I DONT WANT YOU TO EVER BE LIKE ME....

The point I'm tryna make is that, you should focus your attention more on building capacity and developing yourself to the Pinnacle and not to be bothered about something as trivial as "building confidence for a woman"...

And please don't misunderstand me, I love girls, but I think there's time for everything...

The primary focus of every young man should be to build capacity and becoming richer and smarter and better....

He should focus on daily growth in all
areas of his life and self development for fulfilling purpose...

Lol and this makes sense to you?
Is this how your father (I don't mean to be rude) waited till he get to the top before he had an encounter with your mum?
Even majority of the great men you know had a good woman in their life which even enhanced their greatness.

This philosophy from people like you (a wrong advice) and you trying to force it on people with a different philosophy seems egoistic and futile IMO.

Romance › Re: How Do I Build Confidence Around A Lady by McDonaldfished(op): 8:59pm On Sep 20, 2021

Favfables:
With all the problems in the world, the only thing you can think of is how to build confidence, not for a business presentation or a pitch, but for a woman....tis well with you o

I don't understand you oo. So you mean you personally have never spoken to a woman or you are a reverand father? So you want me to be like you?

Romance › Re: How Do I Build Confidence Around A Lady by McDonaldfished(op): 3:47pm On Sep 20, 2021

Nebulax:
Probably some financial challenges are diverting your attention..

Yea partly true

Romance › Re: How Do I Build Confidence Around A Lady by McDonaldfished(op): 5:59am On Sep 20, 2021

Dabronze:
Are you a student or working

I am not a student

Romance › How Do I Build Confidence Around A Lady by McDonaldfished(op): 10:05pm On Sep 19, 2021

I have been missing out on great relations all because of my lack of confidence and low communication skills(with a lady I like).
I have been in one relationship where after I moved from the location the lady was the relationship just died.

Same thing is happening now. I am in a relation with another girl. The relationship is about to die. Thiugh i know the girl is really interested, a lot has happened to me in the past year which I am just recovering from.

The lady always try to initiate contact with me but I just lack the confidence to even replicate same.

When we chat she always seem to be the one to ask the questions and all sort which I feel will definitely be boring to her.
Even though I like this current girt but I just don't know how to spice up the relationship.

This current relationship might probably die too. How do I ensure a solid conversational confident relationship in my next relationship

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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by McDonaldfished: 10:23am On Jul 15, 2021

Jaybrown19:
Seems NECO is recruiting

Can a non education graduate push for it?
And what's the salary scale

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by McDonaldfished: 9:55am On Jul 15, 2021

Good morning my people.

Will it be advisable for me to inform my FCC commissioner that I have applied for FRSC recruitment.
Knowing that he has already promised to get me a job and the fact that I have been waiting too long at home

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Romance › Re: Why Would A Girl Always Want To Keep One In Suspense by McDonaldfished(op): 2:51pm On Jul 13, 2021

DEMZEE:
Why are you now complaining online

I just want to know the reason she behaves that way

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by McDonaldfished: 2:00pm On Jul 12, 2021

is it a good idea to inform my FCC commissioner that I applied for NDLEA BUT I WASNT SHORTLISTED FOR THE SCREENING THAT IF HE CAN ASSIST ME TO GET THE JOB

Romance › Re: Why Would A Girl Always Want To Keep One In Suspense by McDonaldfished(op): 10:17am On Jul 12, 2021

DEMZEE:
Fvck ur focus

U can't approach a lady and tell her how u feel and u are claiming focus

In this damning economy, been unemployed, you expect me to be talking to a girl that's always act confused?

Romance › Re: Why Would A Girl Always Want To Keep One In Suspense by McDonaldfished(op): 8:12pm On Jul 11, 2021

DEMZEE:
Fvck ur focus

U can't approach a lady and tell her how u feel and u are claiming focus

I don't want to

Romance › Re: Why Would A Girl Always Want To Keep One In Suspense by McDonaldfished(op): 6:28pm On Jul 11, 2021

DEMZEE:
Then you are a pussy nigga

Why? is it a crime to focus on one self?

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by McDonaldfished: 11:47am On Jul 10, 2021

Good day guys hppy weekend. Pls when wil fed gov open the window for recruitment/replacement. I think theqe is nthing going on. No vndergroud emplyment sef?

Romance › Re: Why Would A Girl Always Want To Keep One In Suspense by McDonaldfished(op): 8:16am On Jul 10, 2021

DEMZEE:
And u call ursef a man

Shoot ur shot and take Watever comes with it

i am currently not in a position to do that

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