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jewelgold:
Dear Romancelanders

There is this damsel I started dating of recent, she is just a paragon of beauty,

After one of our love making sessions, she said, she cums easily unlike the previous relationship she had been,

She just can't understand the reason, anyways according to her she feels good
What could be the reason?

Anxiety

ronald4lif:
I'll be back to answer that after consulting Ifa.

bad boi!

funlord:
My guy why u delete your moniker? Abi na becuz dem gbab U?

na anti spam joor

ronald4lif:
When someone lend you money you have to pay back regardless of who the person is to you. Lending involves the temporal use of something which has to be return at a later date.

General talk

btwn: are you married?

Back from Jail!!!

Thanks to ishilove...i for hear am

Blackett:
[color=#150000]It is very imperative that you always post the source of your list, so that glory rightfully goes to the one who "owns" the article.

Stop seeking fame and glory on an anonymous forum by trying to look and sound smart with the sweat of another man.

Plagiarising _idiot. [/color]

www.gbookmag.com/2013/04/7-reasons-why-women-lose-respect-for-men.html?m=1

http://www.234pulse.com/2013/05/7-reasons-women-lose-respect-for-men/

hbpeze:
Shits on thread#

that is why your mother hates you and i hate you too

If a woman loses respect for you as a man, she will also lose attraction and begin to fall out of love with you.

It might’ve taken you a long time to find “the one” that you’re now in love with, but unless you’re careful about avoiding the following mistakes, she’ll soon be thinking about backing out of the relationship for good. Let’s have some clues…


1. Belittling Her in Public

Playful teasing each other in private can be a fun aspect to your relationship, especially if it’s kept light and you both have understand each other’s sense of humor. Too often though, some men will belittle their woman in front of their friends or family in a way that she feels is cruel and sincerely harmful to her confidence and sense of pride and comfort in front of others.

In an effort to “show off” to his friends or because he believes that some “habit” his girl has is silly, some guys will say hurtful things about their girlfriend/wife. Even if it’s done when she’s not there, what the man says about his woman is probably going to get back to her eventually and she will feel betrayed and lose respect for him when it does.

2. Being Too Bossy

Women like to have their man be the head of the relationship, but when he starts getting too bossy and treating her like a slave or a servant, that’s when she will begin to lose respect for him.

Being bossy sets in when it has to do with house chores. If you want your relationship to last, you should let your girl do much of the housework, while you spontaneously help out with the housework, but focus mainly on doing the “manly” jobs around the house, making the big decisions and basically leading the relationship. However, when the man decides that he’s the “boss” and his woman has to do whatever he demands of her as if he “owns” her, she will lose respect for him and want out; especially if their sex life isn’t that fulfilling for her either.

3. Always Letting Her “Win”

On the opposite side of being too bossy, some guys will give in to whatever a woman wants because he is too fearful of losing her if he doesn’t yield to her every whim and desire. While it’s true that a woman will usually “test” you to see how much she can “get away with,” what she really wants is reassurance that you are in-charge of their relationship by seeing that you don’t agree to her every request.

If it gets to the point where her man agrees with her every request or “demand,” especially out of fear of her leaving him, she will walk all over him until she eventually loses all respect for him. She’ll then fall into the arms of another man who will show her who is truly “in charge” of their relationship. Girls may act like they want to be the boss in this new age of independent women who can do whatever they want, but deep down they all want a man who is a man and who can and will continually take the lead in a relationship. Any bros out there fumbling…, c’mon dude you the man, act up!

4. Being Weak or Submissive Around Other Men

This one point you must not toy with. A woman is always watching to see how much of a man a guy really is. One of the best ways a woman can see how strong (mentally and emotionally) a guy is, is to watch him interact with other men. Whether he’s chatting to men at a party or talking to a male shop attendant in a store, the woman is watching to see if he acts submissively and places the other man/men above him in terms of dominance. If he bosses her around at home, but let’s most (if not all) other guys boss him around outside of the home, she will lose respect for him instanta and won’t want to “follow his orders” at home – even akpos no go gree if na you date am!


5. Being Suspicious of Her Every Move

Trust is essential for the health of a relationship. Without it, all sorts of problems begin to emerge. One of the fastest ways to erode and eventually destroy the trust in a relationship is to become suspicious and overly protective of your woman. Regularly accusing her of wanting to cheat or of doing things behind your back will only lead to a breakdown of trust and a halt to the flow of love in the relationship.

Whether she’s legitimately working with a male co-worker on a project, going out with her friends to the movies or to do some shopping or running errands, some guys will find it difficult, if not impossible, to trust their woman unless they are with her. In an effort to control and keep tabs on her, some guys will stay in constant contact with their woman to find out where she is and what she is doing, snoop on her e-mails and phone messages to see if any guys are saying anything that could mean she wants to be more than “just friends” with them and so on. Women find this to be a major turn-off because they aren’t attracted to men who desperately need them for their emotional security and feelings of self-worth. My advice get yourself busy looking for money.

6. Whining Like a Victim

For a variety of reasons, a man might find that his life plans are suddenly in jeopardy (e.g. he loses a job, his shares/stocks/investments plummet and lose tremendous value, he gets caught up in heated disagreements with family or friends, etc.). It’s understandable that when things go wrong like that, a man might want to talk about his problems with his woman, but when he whines and complains like a victim without looking for solutions, a woman’s respect for him will quickly dwindle not every lady though but it good you brace up. Everyone has disappointments and problems that have to be dealt with, but some men will let it destroy them by dwelling on it and acting like a “victim of life.”

When a man is in a relationship, he should sometimes seek his woman’s advice to see how she feels and what she thinks might be a good way of tackling a problem. Even if he doesn’t follow her suggestions, but instead weighs them up as a possible solution against his ideas, a woman will greatly appreciate that her opinion matters to him and that he is actively trying to find a way to resolve his problems instead of moping, whining and complaining, but not actively seeking a solution. Boys complain and whine, while men decide and act.

7. Lying

Being able to rely on you to be truthful and live with integrity is one of the most important things to a woman when in a relationship with you. It doesn’t matter if it’s a “little white lie” to “keep out of trouble with her” or a major fib that, if discovered, will have life-altering ramifications, most women won’t tolerate their man routinely being dishonest. In fact, once your woman has caught you lying, she will never be able to fully rely on you again. She will not be able to see you as her “rock” or her man of stone and her respect for you will diminish.

Watching...

annita19:
Why would you desperately wanna get into it or marry a virgin when you ain't a virgin yourself?

I'm happily married

ClassyAdewumi:
pardon!

'cant find the babe'

Mhizkel:
My dear, don't be lazy
Go back and read it

summary abeg

ni kini?

Mhizkel:
Awww..So touching! That guy is a monster and deserves to be castrated..Even if he apologise, don't accept him back..he will just keep molesting you..He is an animal..You deserve a better man my dear!

summary of the story plz

Show down!

[quote author=MojAyo post=33372481][/quote]i tire!

bottle on the boobs...

Boju ba ri, enu will dake!

so just honey and okra is the solution ba?

Ezedon:
The ladies that easily fall to blind dates are ugly girls that are photogenics, and it doesnt last cus a lot of lies are involved

You got a point. yes!!!

It works out for some people especially those who have very busy lives and are damn desperate!

By definition:

'Blind date' - This is a phrase comprising two words (blind & date) that is used to describe the intention of two separate individuals of different s*x (as it mostly implies), getting hooked or familiar with the individual either via the internet or cell phone before actually meeting physically. It is a date where the two individuals involved have not met each other previously.



Morally, i think, it may pose some threats. I believe its strongly advisable for 2 people to get to know each other well before they start dating.

Whats your opinion?

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Cutehector:
if u go fillin station, dem dey treat ppo wey dey come buy fuel for jerrycan as pensioneers.. They throway keg anyhow.. Say dem no dey sell for jerrycan, only for car.. So we now can go to hell for all we care.

that side still fair na...for my side na bedlam and brawls

coolzeal:
Check she/he might have a di*ck.

badass