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RomanceRe: Relationship Tips: Reasons Why Marrying For Money Isn't A Bad Idea by McEwen(op): 2:17pm On May 22, 2015
agarawu23:
girls are not same and that's the fact.

you sound like you will adapt to a poor nigga. will you be my boo ? undecided
grin grin
RomanceRe: Get Me Employed And Marry Me by McEwen(m): 12:06am On May 22, 2015
HELP HIM IF YOU CAN!!!
RomanceRe: Share Your Thoughts by McEwen(m): 11:51pm On May 21, 2015
caara:
No I am a boy, mtcheeeew.

So girls don't watch porn again abi?
shocked shocked
PoliticsRe: Oshiomhole Begs Edo Workers To Shelve Planned Strike by McEwen(op): 11:47pm On May 21, 2015
evanscheck:
He has oda pressing issues now like attending to the needs of his new wife... he is buying time for himself and heap the problem on the new govt
shocked grin
RomanceRe: pop by McEwen(m): 11:42pm On May 21, 2015
who knows...
RomanceRe: Relationship Tips: Reasons Why Marrying For Money Isn't A Bad Idea by McEwen(op): 11:36pm On May 21, 2015
DanceVille:
Nice write-up dude!
Wait lemme read again
grin
PoliticsOshiomhole Begs Edo Workers To Shelve Planned Strike by McEwen(op): 11:35pm On May 21, 2015
BENIN—Following the planned three-day warning strike by workers in the Edo State Civil Service over alleged deduction of eight percent from their May 2015 salaries as pension contributions with effect from Monday next week, Governor Adams Oshiomhole has appealed to them to stay action on the proposed strike.

He also promised to meet with them in the shortest possible time.

Oshiomhole, in a letter through the Commissioner for Establishment and Special Duties, Didi Adodo, to the Chairman, State Public Service Negotiating Council, said his inaction on the union’s letter was as a result of his busy schedule.

It will be recalled that the Edo State Government, through the Head of Service, Mr. Jerry Obazele, had denied the claim by the state branch of the Nigeria Labour Congress, NLC, that it had appointed Pension Funds Administrators, explaining that it was yet to appoint PFAs for the state workforce.

It also maintained that the law setting up the Pension Contributory Scheme allows the individual worker the right to choose his or her Pension Fund Administrator.

Source:http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/05/oshiomhole-begs-edo-workers-to-shelve-planned-strike-2/

RomanceRe: Relationship Tips: Reasons Why Marrying For Money Isn't A Bad Idea by McEwen(op): 11:24pm On May 21, 2015
tosyne2much:
Nice one
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FashionRe: So So Funny!!! Checkout A Nigerian Boutique Called Kim Kadarshian [PHOTO] by McEwen(op): 11:23pm On May 21, 2015
siegfried99:
Indeed grin
no be small thin grin
RomanceRelationship Tips: Reasons Why Marrying For Money Isn't A Bad Idea by McEwen(op): 11:22pm On May 21, 2015
This article may be giving kudos to gold diggers, but how many people marry for love nowadays. undecided

It's okay if the man you love has a tonne of money or is comfortable enough to take care of you but the truth remains that money is an important factor in any relationship or marriage.

This means your man's pocket should not be overlooked and this includes how he handles his finances because you don't just marry a man, you marry his finances and debts (if he has any).

Here are the five tips on how to handle money issues with your man.


1. Talk about money openly: It's crucial that you chat about money with your significant other, even though it can be a sensitive, hot-button topic or you think it doesn't matter to you. "You may not care about money, but you still need to discuss it," says Gabrielsen. "It may not be the easiest subject to broach. But you always have to discuss money, ideally before you get married." Those conversations should continue after you tie the knot, too. Many couples hold regular "money meetings" to discuss the state of their finances.

2. Make money a factor when choosing a spouse: If the man who's won your heart is a major spender or has a mountain of debt, that could be a red flag. "If you marry someone with a significant amount of debt, that debt becomes yours as well," says Gabrielsen. So figure out where you both stand and be honest about whether it's a good match. "Part of being compatible with someone is having a financial path and agreeing on how to achieve it," he says. "I don't think it's the number one thing you should look at, but being compatible from a goals and financial standpoint is important."

3. Understand where your money is and what to do if something unexpected happens: Too often, says Gabrielsen, he sees one spouse running the show when it comes to household finances and the other having no clue about where the money is going. Big mistake. "Even if you don't want to be in charge of the money, you need to know where the assets are and whether you have an estate plan," he says. "You need to know what to do if something happens to your spouse."


4. Compromise: It's highly unlikely that the man you marry will be identical to you in his approach to money. That's OK. Couples need to meet in the middle when it comes to financial decisions they don't completely agree on. "It comes down to black and white numbers if you want to save a certain amount for retirement," says Gabrielsen. "But when you're deciding things like what kind of house to buy and how many vacations a year to take, it should be a compromise."


5. Be a team with a plan: Don't just wing it when it comes to tackling your finances. Instead, be strategic about it and work together. "You need to have a game plan," Gabrielsen advises. "Understand where you want to go and how you want to get there. That should be done jointly as a team. Both members of the team should agree to the plan. When you do that, it leads to a lot less fighting." Marriage is a meeting of the minds. And your finances should be, too. So yes, money matters in love — quite a lot, as it turns out. "Having a good financial strategy is part of a good relationship," Gabrielsen says. "It's important to be on the same page, especially when it comes to marriage."

Source:http://pulse.ng/relationships/relationship-tips-reasons-why-marrying-for-money-isnt-a-bad-idea-id3783745.html

FashionSo So Funny!!! Checkout A Nigerian Boutique Called Kim Kadarshian [PHOTO] by McEwen(op): 10:56pm On May 21, 2015
grin undecided

CelebritiesRe: Thumbs Up For D’banj! by McEwen(op): 10:54pm On May 21, 2015
Houseofglam7:
He's done well for himself.











Hope him don pay all the people wey him dey owehuh
Since now angry
CelebritiesRe: Thumbs Up For D’banj! by McEwen(op): 10:46pm On May 21, 2015
emerged01:
for this stale news. you go wait tire. thread wey don make frontpage pass
seen....waka pass grin
RomanceRe: Sex In The Bathroom. What Do You Think? by McEwen(m): 10:43pm On May 21, 2015
tosyne2much:
Nice one OP cool


I still prefer my bedroom to bathroom cheesy
put on the shower and start knackin from back..... wink
CelebritiesRe: Thumbs Up For D’banj! by McEwen(op): 10:30pm On May 21, 2015
Lalasticlala put me on angry
RomanceRe: What Is Your Take On This Year Miss Nairaland by McEwen(m): 10:19pm On May 21, 2015
tohpahz:
My ass.. lipsrsealed

Hmmmm lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
na you go win biko wink
CelebritiesRe: Thumbs Up For D’banj! by McEwen(op): 10:14pm On May 21, 2015
Eja'nla still on top cool
CelebritiesThumbs Up For D’banj! by McEwen(op): 10:14pm On May 21, 2015
D’banj’s profile is steadily on the rise at the international scene.President of World Bank, Mr Jim Kim earlier in the week commended the music star for dedicating his latest song, “Extraordinary” to Women empowerment and raising awareness about poverty and other related issues. The song was dropped a week ago.

Jim Kim wrote about D’banj on his Linkedin page: ‘I recently met one of Nigeria’s most dynamic performers, the singer-songwriter, D’Banj. Last year, D’Banj spearheaded a campaign urging African governments to increase their investments in agriculture. This year, he devoting his attention to the African Union’s Year of Women Empowerment. I am honoured, D’banj is the first artiste to participate in our new series, “Music4Dev”, encouraging global artistes to raise awareness about poverty and related issues.”

It would be recalled that D’banj was one of the world stars who performed at the World Bank’s Earth Day event in Washington a few weeks back. He premiered the new song shortly after the event as the first artist to participate in the World Bank’s new series, ‘#Music4Dev.’

Source: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/05/thumbs-up-for-dbanj/

RomanceRe: Who's Fault Is It ? Mature minds please - (let's leave sentiments) by McEwen(m): 10:00pm On May 21, 2015
in davido's voice...all of u...all u grin
RomanceRe: What Is Your Take On This Year Miss Nairaland by McEwen(m): 9:58pm On May 21, 2015
tohpahz:
lipsrsealed
Id be back..
I'm voting your ass grin grin
RomanceRe: Ladies, 10 Tips On How To Seem More Approachable To Guys by McEwen(m): 7:10pm On May 17, 2015
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RomanceRe: She Broke All His Breakables And Parted Away With 50 Liters Of Fuel (pics) by McEwen(op): 12:20am On May 17, 2015
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RomanceRe: She Broke All His Breakables And Parted Away With 50 Liters Of Fuel (pics) by McEwen(op): 12:05am On May 17, 2015
But why didn't she leave the fuel nau. In this fuel scarcity period, that must have been her last punishment to him cry
RomanceShe Broke All His Breakables And Parted Away With 50 Liters Of Fuel (pics) by McEwen(op): 12:05am On May 17, 2015
For Cheating On Her She Broke All His Breakables And Parted Away With 50 Liters Of Fuel

saw this story on OAP Toolz’ Instagram page. Read and answer the guy please.

RomanceRe: Can You Date Someone Whose English Is Very Poor?? by McEwen(m): 4:40pm On May 16, 2015
RomanceRe: My Love Letter To Ginawest by McEwen(m): 5:34pm On May 10, 2015
grin cheesy
RomanceRe: Who Are Those Interested In The Position Of Miss Nairaland? by McEwen(m): 12:55pm On May 09, 2015
naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Check the Link on my siggy. undecided

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How much una go pay me to join tongue

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