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sherylng:
hi! u like females?

What are you trying to say?

TJBebo:
sure! how r u?

Good and you?

Wonders shall never end

I'll first plead with him to stop as it's barbaric to even raise a hand against a woman talk-less of hitting her, regardless of whatever she might have done.

Will thereafter report him to our parents.

Physical attractiveness matters in marriage, it must however not be the basis for a man's choice of a spouse, other inner qualities are essential.

A man needs to be proud to be seen with his wife anywhere, anyday and for any occassion. It's a source of pride to such man.

Kampack:
Quite harsh

Not harsh. Let him sought out the accusation. It's possible for man to deceive another man but would certainly not deceive himself 'cos he knew the truth within himself. God help us.

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Aieboocaar:
No mind the op!!!!

and my boss dey sit directly in front of me

you need to see how i dey try package my laff

LOL

1shortblackboy:
when wizkid made Nigeria proud by winning the best international act at thw MOBO awards Rochas plans a surprise for him

Gofwane:
my brother let me advice you. Any lady that has the audacity to tell her boyfriend he is disturbing her with calls is a disrespectful lady.

I am guessing that you've shown her that she possesses the key to your mumu button that is why she has began to fumble.
Leave that girl alone, stop calling or picking her calls. Show her that she's replaceable and never you use your money to set up a business for any lady that is not yet your wife

Actually like the bolded. Guess the OP is into charity and free giving.

nonut:
Me and other guys who agree with me.

....... but sorry I just passed my own comment oh, not intended to discourage anyone.

Pokiyo007:
pls what does she mean?

How old is she? It's not every lady that wants to jump into relationships just like that. Some prioritize events in their life. If she's still a student, I think its expedient you understand with her because not all ladies (even guys) can cope with relationships and studies side by side.

Donald7610:
You prefer Abuja to Lagos

Maybe.

Red alert loading! Try and see her and talk to her one-on-one.
Through discussions you should be able to know where the relationship is heading to then you take the necessary step - either to continue or call it quit.

nonut:
For secret she dey look for Lagos guys, dey discourage others.

Says who?

nonut:
You dey Lagos dey support her abi? Na Oshogbo or kano you go go look for your man.

Rate of finding good ones in those areas are even higher than that of Lagos.

nonut:
Please do. I'm already tired, defending Lagos guys.

Maybe you are one of the bad eggs being referred to

Donald7610:
It was fun (Just to spice up)
Not meant to mislead
No place is better than another
Bad boiz are here and there
If you don't want it Lagos

I will join you there if you don't mind
Am still strong

Dont know what you are talking about.

nonut:
It's the same almost everywhere. The attitude of the ladies also influence the outcome sometimes.

I rest my case!

nonut:
They ain't that bad. Truth is, it's like that because most of the ladies get carried away with the cool stuff and the money guys throw around.
The guy now sees the lady as nothing and he then moves to the next person.
I've also seen many situations where a guy wanted to hit and run, but his womanising ass was tied down by the lady with her character.

@ the bolded takes care of what I already said. There are lots of pretenders there whose aim is to use ladies as means to the their own end. I think I know what I'm talking about sha. Like I said, not all but they are in the majority.

nonut:
Hahahaha! E be like say they don sama you one. Lagos guys na badt guys... Lol

Sama me? Nay, just talking from what I've seen people experienced.

Do you need anyone to tell you that Lagos is a land filled with opportunists?

Besides, I'm not in Lag.

Donald7610:
Relocate to Lagos for better opportunities
Plenty husband materials

It's not true!
Lagos is filled with opportunists and unserious guys. Not totally saying there are no genuine ones but VERY few!

RB007:
They are coming for you OP

pocohantas & crew

I didnt read this post as indicting anyone, its more of a compliment actually in my opinion.

sayoberry:
A friend once told me this you are telling me. My dad was a psychiatrist. He never noticed because I would cover up till I could cover up all coverable. I just prefer typing to actually talking. Unless its something to really talk about, I don't enjoy hellos and hi. Just hit the nail. But I will try and improve on the phone call thing just in case I win a lottery. I missed 8 today Ill call back around 10:30pm when everyone is tired. (That's how one money will land and someone will not pick call) okbye!

You've got to step out of that your comfort zone I tell you. It might not be easy but if you can make a commitment/determination to change, you'll be able to forge ahead and you'll see the benefits of that.

I'm like you too but just making efforts to change. I do most of typing too. I can best express myself typing and chatting than speaking with people, Im getting better now, let me tell you that lonely life isn't it all.

Best of luck.

5 + (10*3) = 35

sayoberry:
It should. But unfortunately it didn't. I still did that same act today. I'm just waiting for the right mood to call back.

Seems you are not working on yourself and you are actually complacent on hurting yourself and others around you baby girl.

One of the good things that happened to introverts is introduction and existence of phones and social media whereby you can avoid eye contacts and still be able to express yourself boldly without fear or intimidation
; if you cant still employ these means, they there is more to your problem than introversion, maybe you need to see a psychologist.

Nobody will be able to help you if you don't start the process now by yourself.

#My50CentsAdviceThough#

What is this one saying...

BiafranBushBoy:
I feel so weak seeing the question.

He should have also asked "Can I tell my boss I am going for an interview?"

As in ehn! I felt embarrassed that a graduate, working class oh, could be asking such question, not even secretly but openly like this.

loluadebayo:
It's very right. so they'd know you're not lying about the experience. You can also go with your nysc pictures and wear jungle boots for the interview

LOL , think you are correct! @OP see better advice, so dumb a person!

BiafranBushBoy:
It is perfect.

You can also borrow your present Boss' official Email and send also.

Sometimes one wonders if its school that passes through some or they just passed through school without it having any impact on them

ATERI:
Sorry for answering you late. I guess you mean apart from the UK and Ireland, right? Amsterdam is my favourite, job permitting.

Hello @Ateri, your write-ups is well inspiring.

Abuja