₦airaland Forum

kolaish:
Pa Ihedi, come back o, Livestock is now trading at 90k and Oando TS has been lifted
#Bringbackihedi

owoblow77:
I think GOAT translates to Greatest Of All Time Guess I'm still a learner

I like this! Innovative!!

......but like one oga said, let's refrain from using the acronym.

Oga why are you not content with what you have?
You are married. What do you need a chat-mate for? Just wondering

Virus777:
No.
Just face your nyarinyas up North.

Cant stop laughing at this.
Nairalanders and bad mouthing are like 5 & 6

I think it's done to fulfill a deacon position requirement in church but its wrong for the mama to wear white gown.
It could be off-white or pink.

RabbiDoracle:
He has taken off. Chai.

Chai!
Peterichy's meme on the way he sneaked out of the house says it all

Smartii:
Happy new week, hope you ready for the week

Yeah! Wish you the same. Do have a fruitful one.

Money does not guarantee true love but will rather attract lots of sycophants to you.
Stop flaunting your money. Keep yourself low and be humble 'cos arrogance is another definition of guys like you.
Redefine your list of what your woman should be. Go after substance (good xter, etc) not shadow (beauty, sexiness, etc).
Dont think you can change someone's character easily because you have money, people hardly change.
Yes. I believe true love still exist.
Also pray for God's guidance in your choice if you believe in prayer.

Smartii:
At bolded, you would always have answers to all questions
The love should be showed more at first for the guy, but in the long run, the lady should show love more..it is always safer when the lady shows love more and u know it except u want play with the truth. More deaths had resulted for guys from girls reason been that the girl never loved the guy. Needless do I need say U and I are even paying for sins committed by a woman. ...The world would be safer if lady's love more.

LOL @ your first statement.
We are paying for the disobedience and weakness of man as well.
Okay. I agree. You are right................but it should be both ways.

Smartii:
So that she can call him a fool, disgrace him and for the extremely wicked in thoughts, hurt him... No way! they should both love themselves and tag along. It's normal for lady not to approach a Guy even when she loves him, it's the norm, but that she should go for who loves her more is dicey, it's a two way thing and no rule applies, they should both love themselves and watch each other's back... Looking at many unserious ladies out there after money, it's illogical to even conclude that way, people like me have no time to waste, I show u love and you show me disgrace and hatred... I move ahead, guess we're not meant to be. So she should be waiting for who would love her more, she should just conclude she's waiting for rich boy and not hide under love. She's only trying to play safe.

Oh, so he too can call her cheap and assume that's how she's been going about doing same to other men?
Anyway, I didnt say who loved her more but who showed her love instead of the one she loved. A serious man's love should be more at first, so I believe.
Of course, I earlier mentioned that the love needs be mutual.
Please know that its not all you love that will love you back sha...... but if the other party reciprocate, you two are good to go.

Smartii:
Reverse should be the case....

No. I dont think so.
Men have ego, loves to be in charge and tends to be un-serious if it's the woman that first have much love for them.
More reason why sometimes a lady shows green lights but refrain from approaching the guy, believing that the guy will decode, come to her if he wants to reciprocate the love.
In my opinion, a lady should go for a man that loves her.

For a man: choose the one you love.

For a lady: Choose the one who love you.

However, the love should turn mutual between the duo in the shortest of time, if not, dont wait for anyone to tell you what to do.

My opinion though.

Smartii:
Hahahah
Just as men know thyself
Women know THEMSELVES too
The woman could end up been more disrespectful if table tuns round that the guy couldn't even meet up with his responsibilities anymore.
I had a lecturer then in the University who once said in class that he prays daily to God to never allow his wife to be more successful than him, we just castigated, hissed and abused him, though in our mind and behind his back though but I doubt it won't be bad if any of the two is richer.

Yeah! No thanks to men anyway.

Men are full of ego, they want respect but this can better be earned in a home he can confidently called his own. It's part of a man's way of having a say over his woman and in his home. The woman on the other hand will have peace of mind from unnecessary nagging.

While a woman may choose to be submissive, loyal to a man and not mind sharing her house with him, majority of them will still find a way to look sideways no matter how they pledged commitment, guess its in their DNA.

Now imagine a situation where the woman got wind of such secret affair, or maybe he even impregnated another lady, will you blame the woman for using the house to insult, ridicule and make mockery of him? Or even in some cases ordered him to move out of the house?

Okay. Your guess/answer is as good as mine.

HenryDion:
5. You, when they start singing “you are welcome in the name of the Lord…”

6. How all the old church aunties stand up to come and welcome you:

14. When you’re leaving and they ask “will we be seeing you again?” If the spirit leads, my brother.

lwanga1993:
miss smartii. there is nothing wrong in a man moving into a womans house.. it depends on their terms and understanding.
PS: as for me oo.. i wont wish even my worst enemy to move in with his woman not to talk of me....IMPOSSIBLE.

See contradiction!
A man with self worth will/may choose not to move into a woman's house.
Some women are somehow, they will use it to abuse the man at the slightest opportunity should misunderstanding or disagreement occurs.

Smartii:
So what happens to her house? Imagine a lady was bequeathed a house, so she should go and stay in her hubby's house and be more of a liability and not help solve issues as regards financial capabilities. Remember whatever affects the man affects the wife as they're one. Don't forget if the man is determined, staying In that house won't limit him from building different houses everywhere throughout the world, it could just be a stepping stone, are there no culture that we have broken as Nigerians and Africans and do we hold on to all cultures even if it limits our potentials of rediscovering ourselves?

How does the bolded applicable here?

If a woman has her own house the better for the couple. She rents out her own and continue living in her husby's house, simple!
Revenue generated from her house will be channeled towards other projects that will benefit the husband and the children.
If she's a kind hearted woman and the husband's head stays in one place, then its a win-win for both of them; she'll be an invaluable asset to her husby, shikena!

pweshboi:
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Fire extinguishers are used to put out small fire and knowing how to use it could save life or property in an emergency situation.

PETERiCHY:
Wonders of NSE
Pa ihedi has deleted ALL his money hunting posts now active in 9jabet thread.
3yrs ago out of my church mind i person advised him to go into restaurant business but he refused and resort to NSE gambling field
Ihedi rightnow

That meme is funny

Not advisable going by African culture.
Not a bad thing if the wife has a house of her own but the most dignifying thing is to move in with her husby after marriage.

Nice writeup.

For the person asking about those in pre-wedding pics, I believed the writeup is talking about statistics here.

emmanuelewumi:
I am privileged to bestow you with the title " Grand Alarmist of the Thread."
Keep on with the good work, it will definitely bring some level of sanity to this thread.
Oye a Mori ooo, Amin

Wonderful! First time I'll see Pa Emma cracked joke!
Always very serious. Glad to see your humorous side.
Long live the Afobaje!
Long live the newly crowned chief!!
Long live NSE!!!

#speedonmylegs#

PasD:
thank you for visiting...
my name is James I'm 31yrs n ready to settle this year

I really feel sorry for this op.
Dont mind those name callings. It's not everyone in a relationship that's in a serious one. What if it's bf/gf thing with no string attached or what of a situation where either of the party aren't compatible and are already seeing a dead end in the relationship?
That aside, I think you started dating her for a wrong reason.
I want to believe that you are in haste to marry too, cos its evident in your post but remember you cant afford to make a wrong choice that will ruin your ministry.
While she claimed she was helplessly in love with you, she kept going back to the first man for sx. This is infidelity and it's a red flag.
Let her go when all signs are clearly written on the wall now before you put yourself in a strait corner.
She wouldnt run mad, she would be okay with time, dont let emotions get the best part of you and pushed you into what you will later regret.
Keep trusting in God for your very own, which will give you peace of mind and bring you happiness.

internationalman:
What if the man has all these things you listed and but has a pencil d**k

Lol.
He cant have it now.
Think that's a defect that's not common among majority of men.

Tunenez:
This one wants a guy who's excellent in bed

Nay! Not a fan!

internationalman:
Big d**k

Wrooooong!!!!

My option is a man with vision, prospect and good sense of humour.

So you can see it's not among the options.

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RabbiDoracle:
Why I go vex?
Was reading it on Bloomberg and thought to share and comment.

Oh, thanks.
Keep doing your good works.
The news is not new and Unity shares has been witnessing its after effect even before the holiday.

internationalman:
There's only one option left that isn't here. And you know it or should I spell it out for you?

Pray tell

pweshboi:
Lol I can't stop laughing, the guy is not even smart. Ritarose ko, Peter cech ni.

Haaaaaa, exposed!
What does he intend to achieve from this anyway? Na wa o

internationalman:
After asking audience and calling a friend we are left with two options which are:
Cute guy and rich guy.
Now let's use 50 50
girl :- I choose rich guy
Frank Edoho :- How sure are you
girl :- 100% sure
Frank Edoho :- is that your final answer?
girl :- yes
Frank Edoho :- if you had gone for funny guy you would've been... wrong, if you had gone for romantic guy you would've been wrong.. you choose rich guy and you are... you are.... you are..i hate to break it to you but you are RIGHT..

Funny!

My option is not there but let me phone a friend