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|Romance / 11 Costly Mistakes Most Women Make That Makes It Impossibe To Find A Good Man by medTechworld(f): 8:19am On Jun 26, 2020|
Good men are out there, but you might be wrecking your chances of meeting them.
“Why can't I find a good man?” is a question that has been asked by women around the world.
It’s true: decent human beings of the male gender are rarer than ever in the dating scene. If you’ve gone on dating sites like OkCupid or Tinder, it’s very easy to just start believing that good men just don’t exist anymore.
The truth is that there are decent men out there — at least, statistically so. Dating is a numbers game, and the numbers are saying that there’s a high probability that there will be men out there who would love to date and marry you.
However, that means you need to find them.
If you’re looking for a man who will be good to you, a large part of your ability to succeed deals with you maximizing your chance to find one. Whether they try to do it or not, many women end up self-sabotaging when it comes to finding a nice guy to date.
If you’re making any of these mistakes, you are hurting your own chances of finding Mr. Right.
Here's why you can't find a good man.
1. Having a “type” and refuse to deviate from it
A lot of people tend to assume that they can only date a certain “type” of person but that often leads to them ignoring good people who might actually be better for them.
While there’s nothing wrong with standards, refusing to date people based on things like their height or the music they listen to might be a sign you’re being too picky.
2. Aggressively pursuing any man that comes your way
Desperation is not sexy, sweetie. I totally understand wanting a man with all your heart and feeling rejected. However, actually getting aggressive in your pursuit of one never works, except when it comes to attracting users and abusers.
Good men don’t want women who will take anyone, and if you were honest with yourself, you probably wouldn’t want a guy who would take anyone, either. Tone it down a notch!
3. Expecting to date way out of your league, or holding out for someone who’s literally flawless
As much as it pains me to say this, there is such a thing as dating out of your league, and trying to do this could mean that you’re missing out on decent men who would date you. If you want someone who’s incredible, you need to have something to offer them that’s equally sexy.
Moreover, there’s a certain limit to how great someone can be. Nobody, not even Beyonce, is perfect and if you’re waiting for Mr. Perfect, you’re going to be single for a very long time. I’m not telling you to settle, per se, but I am asking you to be realistic.
4. Refusing to go out
This one always bugs me. How are you going to meet new people if you don’t go out? Most of the time, online dating doesn’t yield good results. In fact, a third of all men on those sites are already in relationships.
Your best bet is to meet someone in person, so go out and have fun.
5. Acting like a diva
Expecting your date to treat you with respect is a given and it’s totally reasonable. What isn’t reasonable is expecting a man to shower you with presents every single date, pay for everything, and also put up with temper tantrums.
If you act like a diva, don’t be shocked if men eventually get sick of it and bail because that's definitely why you can't find a good man.
6. Hanging out with a crowd that isn’t good
Part of meeting good men is hanging out with a crowd that has decent people in it.
If everyone in your clique has domestic violence issues, cheating, and commitment issues, you’re not going to find a good man via that clique’s connections. Birds of a feather tend to flock together, so you might need to change your scene if you want to get a decent partner.
7. Trying to date while hating men
If you’ve ever gone on a date with a woman-hater, you already know how uncomfortable that makes you. Believe it or not, men can pick up on bad vibes, too, and it makes them just as uncomfortable as it makes you.
If this sounds like you, you might need to take a break from dating.
8. Bribing guys for dates
I’ve been here, and yes, I understand what a bad place you have to be in for this to become a habit. The thing is that men who are worth your time will never want to accept a bribe for a date. Doing this only attracts the worst men and scares good men away.
9. Refusing to make the first move
Guys get nervous! A lot of men are intimidated by women to the point that they won’t approach them. Ask them out and you might be surprised at how many of the shy ones will be great guys to date.
10. Not having self-awareness or social skills, and not doing anything to change that
A huge portion of dating involves having enough social skills to get along with people, present the right image, and also just talk to people effectively. A lot of the mistakes and issues that keep good women single all boil down to self-awareness and social skills.
Thankfully, there are ways to improve these things and that can help you meet the man of your dreams.
11. Not improving yourself
Everyone has something they can improve. I have my flabby stomach and caustic attitude towards men, but others might have smaller issues. The better you look, act, and feel, the more attractive you are. The more attractive you are, the more likely it is that decent men will want you.
A little improvement can go a long, long way, so give it a try if things just aren’t working. You never know what might happen.
DO YOU AGREE?
Source >>>> http://quickinfos.com/11-costly-mistakes-most-women-make-that-totally-destroys-their-chances-of-finding-a-good-man/
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|Jobs/Vacancies / White Soul Motors Limited Job Vacancy – Apply Now! by medTechworld(f): 9:21am On Jun 25, 2020|
White Soul Motors Limited, incorporated in 1996 is a leading importer, distributor and marketer of various brands of brand new and very clean foreign used vehicles. We are recruiting to fill the position below:
Job Title: HR Assistant
Job Type: Full Time
White Soul Motors, a highly reputable transport company is looking to engage the services of a Human Resources Assistant to provide a wide range of support activities within the HR department, from coordinating meetings to maintaining our employee database and posting job ads.
A key part of this role would involve acting as a liaison between HR and employees, ensuring smooth communication and prompt resolution of requests and questions
The successful candidate would also assist in creating policies, processes and documents.
Key Functions of the Role
Assist with day to day operations of the HR functions and duties
Provide clerical and administrative support to Human Resources executives
Compile and update employee records (hard and soft copies)
Process documentation and prepare reports relating to personnel activities (staffing, recruitment, training, grievances, performance evaluations etc)
Coordinate HR projects (meetings, training, surveys etc) and take minutes
Deal with employee requests regarding human resources issues, rules, and regulations
Assist in payroll preparation by providing relevant data (absences, bonus, leaves, etc)
Communicate with public services when necessary
Properly handle complaints and grievance procedures
Coordinate communication with candidates and schedule interviews
Conduct initial orientation to newly hired employees
Manage social media accounts and update the companyТs website
Assist our recruiters to source candidates and update our database
Stay up to date with the latest HR trends and best practices
Any other duties as may be assigned.
Minimum of a B.Sc Degree in relevant field
Minimum of 2 years of experience working as a HR intern or assistant or similar role
Experience in the IT, transport/logistics industry is an added advantage
Fast computer typing skills (MS Office, in particular)
Familiarity with ATS software and resume databases
Basic knowledge of labor laws
Excellent organizational skills
Strong communications skills
Sense of ownership and pride in your performance and its impact on companyТs success
Critical thinker and problem-solving skills
Excellent leadership skills
Good time-management skills
Great interpersonal and communication skills
Digital marketing skills.
CLICK HERE TO APPLY
Application Deadline: 1st July, 2020.
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|Health / Re: 675 New COVID-19 Cases, 230 Discharged And 7 Deaths On June 22 - (1809 Tested) by medTechworld(f): 11:32pm On Jun 22, 2020|
Here are 4 reasons why the spread of covid-19 is rapidly increasing ( my opinion though)
1. Medical supply shortages
2. Testing Delays
3. Failure to adhere to social distancing.
4. Poor personal hygiene
If this four areas can be tackled, then the spread will reduce.
May God help us. God bless Nigeria.
|Health / Re: 661 New COVID-19 Cases Reported, 137 Discharged, 19 Deaths ,June 20 -2523 Tested by medTechworld(f): 11:50pm On Jun 20, 2020|
Hmm.... Lagos 230 today? Wahala dey o...
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Lol! Fabricated statistics. May God help us in this country...
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