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ipobarethieves:
.Dat one go dey follow u up/down looking for trouble. His monika dey prison sha.

Hahaha. I show him wenh. You know say I be woman. He got tired and backed down. I recently found out he has several monikers though.

Can these thieving fuckerrs get their biafra already. They need a different identity from us, really. It's time they represented themselves.

ngadaAwo will not see this one.

bLacKGoLd3:
Thanks for providing some level of clarity.
I'd presume you were quite young when the relationship kicked off so throwing away 8 years of your life in a false relationship wasn't a big concern.

Oh, well, it's all in the past now. Wishing you all the best in your future relationships.
I hope you find the strength to speak and stand by the truth, even if it hurts.

Thank you. I was well over 25 when we broke. Though he was domineering, I should have asserted myself better than I did in the breaking up regard.

What's pretty about this hair cut now? Women should look feminine. She looks like an area boy.

victorian:
Awwwww

Your ex is such a cool guy.

Smiles we've not met before , I will remember if we have. I don't forget faces or events .

Yeah we haven't. Actually meant you were apt. Thanks sis.

KevinDein:
Your ex has all these positive qualities but he was a turn off to you .

I swear to god you ladies are genuinely confused. Woe to men who take you guys serious.

Don't insult me. I don't take insults lightly. My ex wasn't a turn off. That's disrespectful to say. Mind your mouth.

victorian:
He was like he's so heartbroken, he can't even continue work today anymore and he started talking like he was crying. Then he cut the call.

I say na WA o.. See me see trouble! We never start and he's crying or pretending to cry, God abeg o! Thank God I didn't date him o or even collected a pin from him.

Can u see how manipulative some guys can be? How much more yours?

This one is a needy psycho. Nobody should be with anyone like that. Not even for a second.

victorian:
Amen my Sis.
Don't mind him, he's the blackmailing type.

It's not like he spent a dime on u. But he simply used emotional blackmail on you. Thinking with such attitude u will go back to him. Smhhh
I'm glad u didn't allow him push u into changing your decision

Have we met before, fine lady? cos you are so so right!. I can't forget the statement he made that made me decide I was done. It was an utter, wicked one meant to blackmail me. That aside, my ex was almost perfect.

- If you want a problem solver, he's all of that. I mean, what most would see as a challenge, he would squash.

- If you want a hard worker, a responsible man, he's all of that. He's the type that would put family first. Ex was a hustler in real time. There was nothing he couldn't do. Why he's very successful till this day.

- If you want a honest man, he's all of that. Integrity is very important to him.

- If you want a generous man. My ex was too generous and altruistic.

- If you want a man who keeps his word, he was all of that. There was nothing he said he would do that he didn't. For 8 years, we talked everyday when we weren't together.

bLacKGoLd3:
One question - why did you string him along for 8 years? Were you financially dependent on him?

Good question. My ex was obsessed with me. He literally never wanted me out of his sight and did everything to keep me around. A few times I tried breaking up but he begged me each time. I wasn't even working when we broke up so money was never the issue.

His undoing was his positivity. Ex was sadly too positive for his own good. He believed I loved him and I often wondered in my head, "what kind of man is this". Ex would tell me he knows I love him so much. He still believes this. Never have I come across a man like him. You see all these things @Op posted, you'll never find my ex doing such or giving it a thought despite the fact that the handwriting is on the wall. That's who he is. Too positive. Too confident.

ChiefVolt007:
but it's definitely worth a shot.

I agree, it's worth it. I can only write from my experience.

victorian:
Eeyah but u just had to call it off, orelse both of you will be miserable in the marriage.
You did the right thing.

Don't marry out of pressure. In due time, yours will come and u will be thanking ago every day for giving u the courage to wait and be with the best ,meant for you.

Marriage should not be endured but enjoyed. It's a life time commitment.

I'm at peace and content with where I am. Hopefully one day, I will feel excited with the right man for me and he will feel same

Life is all about choices.

Thanks for sharing

God bless your wisdom. As for me, I only started to feel free when he got married. I mean, I began to live only after he got married for he always blamed me for the misfortune of breaking up. The first few years weren't easy but I can now say to a great extent we've all moved forward.

Acidosis:
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You have used attention, incessant gifts, and obsession and nothing has changed. Have you tried withdrawing, making yourself unavailable and giving her the impression her love is unimportant? Women are wired in a different way bro. You need to withdraw the expression of some feelings and act of loving to get her attention. If you made her picture your wallpaper, delete. Remove her picture on your dp and don't upload any for birthdays, anniversaries, etc. That's how you get her attention and put her emotions to work.

Reverse psychology. It will not work. It never works. Have you been in a relationship where you weren't in love?

uckennety:
Congratulations

Add that to your CV

Thanks to the bitches that dealt with me I can't love again

Look there's nothing to be proud of or show off with what was posted. These things happen. Mind you, my ex was a good man and he found someone like I.

Xaos:
Clone her phone. If you can't, then clone all her SM accounts. If she's hiding something you will know.

But before you do, I want you to know

— you wouldn't find anything.
— your wife isn't ashamed of you or something like that.

It's just that she really, really, really hates attention.
I myself I am programmed that way.
Your wife is a mirror image of myself.

But please do clone her SM for your satisfaction.

This is not true. Men and women act/think differently in love. His wife doesn't love him. Fact.

victorian:
Oga, you are not tall dark and handsome. Talk true make devil shame.



In my own case, I stopped myself on-time from marrying the guy who proposed to me, after opening my heart to my Pastor. My Pastor said do I want to be lifeless in the marriage, I said no with tears almost running down my cheeks. He said good, then don't marry him, cos u will regret it. Tell him kindly u simply don't love him, which is the truth. There and then I felt so free and alive, I even felt like hugging the pastor with so much joy! Lol
I told the guy, I'm sorry dear, I can't go thru with it. And I don't regret it. I feel free and alive! . I don't care about my age. I just want to feel at peace wit my soul and being.

Jeez, you just told my story! However, in my case, no pastor helped me think things over. I had to find the courage to do things my way. We were together for 8 solid years and when marriage started to look like it was drawing nearer, I could see myself developing cold feet and crying on my wedding day so I summoned the courage and broke up with him. What op described is exactly how I felt about my ex. If ex would describe me, he would say things like I wasn't demanding and all of that. I never did ask him for anything materially plus I was ever so faithful to him. When I called it quits, he did everything to get me back. Literally asked my family to beg on his behalf but I stood my ground. Ex is married now but calls me his wife. The break up shook him so terribly that he resigned from his job and left the country.

Kfed4ril:
Irrelevant mud city? But we want to secede and una no gree the irreverent mud city comot, this is the height of hypocrisy.

Says who? I'm pro biafra. No other tribe likes seeing you around.

Kfed4ril:
If I catch you ehh, the kind beating wey I go beat you ehh, you will regret the day you join Nairaland.

You will beat up your father, rape your mother and area boys in your hood will stone you to death.

They said she's not pretty. But she is

melzabull:
sensless fool, yiu arent even creative a bit. Regurgitating same boring, tasteless, monotnous line. You are dull as fvck, brainless, foolish, pained, hateful, tribalistic and witless

Disgusting, foolish and unintelligent yorooba degenerate

Take you foolidhness elsewhere, retards and irredeemable nitwits like you bore me

Didn't I say this tard will come down with apoplexy? Didn't I say this daftarian doesn't have the brain of a peahen? Should I give you a piece of furniture to bang in place of your father? You can deceive everyone but yourself. Your type never gets tired of being topped by their father. Oya go and get your fuckkk. Ashawo omo eebo.

melzabull:
foolish degenerate, ozu nwuru anwu

You and your fraudulent gtbank must pay wether or noyt you like it... If e pain you wella go and drink otapiapia like your mebtor awole-awo

Dirty tribalistic Igbo hater...nkita rachaa gi anya... i get your time today

Despicable nincomooop go and die..yorupig afonjanatu

Berebe banza

Wailer o oo wailer. Better relax lest you have a stroke. If you suffer a stroke, don't blame it on me but on your sick father that had been raping you since infant. No wonder you can't explain why your pussyy is soo wide. Lol. No wonder prostitution is food to you. Girl, you need to lock yourself up in a room for 40days and nights for your exorcism. The psychological injury caused by your father has taken its toll on you dear. It's insanity before stroke. I can't imagine how the rest of your miserable life would be.

melzabull:
agadi frustrated yolowba slut, not everyone is like your ashawo abobaku sisters that go and suck arab preek in dubai and saudi arabi in the guise of doing jewelry business and going for pilgrimage in mecca...but we all know they go their for prostitution

I know this idiat and her wretched family are yet ti oay their annual house rent to their igbo landlord

Frustrated yorupig, thunder fire tou there... Afonjanatu bitch

Bla bla black sheep. If you're not careful, I'd order my dog to fuckkk what's left of your black, smelly, wide cunt. Stupid ashawo eebo girl. Shameless girl that made her mother run mad. If it's not a generational curse why on earth would you seduce your father to bang you. Na so you like condo reach? What kind of man fuckks his daughter anyways, or could it be that you're a bastard? Yes, you're a bastard. That must be it!!!!

melzabull:
pained and miserable hag

I see your tears and feel your pains thousand km away

Dirty, stinking yolowba dunce. Wasnt your mother a retired ashawo before she died of HIV?, tribalsitic goat

One Igbo guy don guck your dirty pussy e no grew pay money abi... I understand your frustration...anuofia somboddy

Tatata you learnt the trade from your mother who's spending the rest of her miserable life in a lunatic home. You're displaying the signs already, like mother like daughter.

Abeg show me one eebo girl that doesn't sell her cunt for six pence and I'd bow to her in reverence. Everybody's talking, this ashawo gutter girl suffering from dementia like her lunatic mother too feels she has an opinion. You that your mother ran mad when she found out your father had been banging you to high heavens on her matrimonial bed. See this gutter girl from a cursed generation. Tell you what when you're finally admitted, the biggest asylum in onitsha will reject you!!!!!

melzabull:
says the oshowgbo slum dweller

Every afonja riff raff now claims lagos because its being developed by others with minute contribution from real lagosian (aworis) who dont even even make noise.

All the stupid and foolish noise we hear everyday are from immigrants from ibadown, oshiogbow and ogbomowshor miscreants who are increasingly denying their real states of origin

Berebe banza like you

Yenyenen oloriburuku asiwere. Keep projecting o. Innoson is giving you and your Igbo people the sense of belonging you can only dream of having in your entire impoverished life. Seeing you scamper on every Innoson thread like hungry rabbits is honestly delightful. But last last you go still open pussyy for 50 customers tonight. Ashawo eebo girl.

melzabull:
Another ediotic clown

Lol... All these yoroobas are a bunch of hateful, intellectually deficient nitwits

Berebe banza

Dirty gutter eebo bitch. Tell me you're not a prostitute, do you want to deny it. Ashawo girl. Starving girls like you leave their village in the yeast for a better life in lagos. You see them littering the streets of lagos at night, during the day they sleep in bunches in a hotel room that they can barely afford. Then they'll call their papa, I dey live for lagos. Gutter dimwit. Ashawo girl.

melzabull:
hateful scumbag

This numbskull sitting in one dilapidated shantie in ogbomowshor opening her stuppid mouth ranting nonsense. Hateful, frustrated and tribalistic hag

Gtb must pay and nothing your smelly ewedu hating, shitty self can do about it

Bunch of emotional and tribalistic loser

Bastard omo ashawo eebo girl. Are your customers not paying you well again? Abeg get out and go have your daily dose of fuckkk. See this one that her pauper father cannot afford a single share in the said innoson coy. Kikiki keep defending what your pauper father can never afford in his entire, miserable life.

SpaceTour:
You may even be typing from mud house somewhere in Ibadan

I'm in Lagos, an indigene of Lagos, a state where you and your Igbo brothers dream to live and die. Even if you have the privilege of living in my state, when you die, your corpse go still travel go yeast to be buried.

Kfed4ril:
This is the problem with you people, you always bring tribalism to everything, now lemme ask you apart from Lagos, which other city in the west is as commercial as onitsha?

You're a deranged hypocrite. Why not quote one of your Igbo brothers and tell them their anus reeks of tribalism. I'll say this again: Whatever happens in potopoto Republic remains there. Irrelevant mud city.

Kfed4ril:
Do you think it’s only one branch he will lock up?
You area bigger dunce for not knowing that closing down a branch will affect the whole GTBank.

How many shares does your father own in Innoson if I may ask? Bastard boy .

SpaceTour:
What's this one yapping? You can only lie to someone who have not been to yoruba townships. Only Lagos- the former FCT is worth mentioning in the SW, others are just hamlets filled with mud houses and rustic brown roofs.

Your description is touché! I bet you learnt a lot from growing up in mud houses.