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gidjah:
hmmmhmmmm.. well said sir, once an Individual has trouble with sociable relational and communication skills, stuttering will always come up.it has nothing to really do with been an introvert o!, by the grace of God, I am very good at interpersonal relationship n communication, so flowing in rhymes and lines has never been any trouble, (though a very introverted individual),I have been able to grow up with the idea and vision that I am created to make impact were ever I am, so personal development has been the order of the years with me.Most of the people I have served with don't forget me very easily, I put all my energy into my any giving assignment. Let all introverts learn to relate to a certain level,it builds some confidence in any one

MissIndependent:
Thank you Jesus my wedding has come and gone April 14 and 15th was the date it was not easy I and my hubby passed through a lot but we thank god for everything.

DonOms:
Welcome aboard flight INTRO2017 flying from Room to Couch. Don't expect unlimited options for in-house entertainment on this flight as introverts are not so big on that. You'll be glad there'll be little or no bashing but you can count on getting real-life experiences of introverts once in a while. Also, there's a wide range of encouraged activities to help passengers become better versions of themselves although that won't come up too often as introverts cherish their ME-time and recharge moments which can take forever sometimes. All things being equal, this flight promises to live up to its expectations and extroverts never board because they can't stand the in-flight activities. Sit back and relax. If you have any questions, do feel free to ask as all passengers are always ready to help. Your Pilot's name is @Olarewajub. Enjoy the flight!

Wane2:
I just saw this thread never knew there was a place for introverts hope am welcomed

dearpiriye:
Literally stumbled into this thread.......will go from start to finish when I have time. Good afternoon everyone.

sisisioge:
No probs babes...stay cool

sisisioge:
Wachatalkingabout? The jollof? I absconded already and the people have eaten lunch and dinner sef.

sisisioge:
I actually don't wanna play with them uniforms jare...I just love to look. They are a sight, don't you think?

sisisioge:
Melsan baby, you no see fine bobos as them full ground? I only answered to my calling o

sisisioge:
Oh my! They are all so lovely!

sisisioge:
I used to get weak in the knees for doctors and guys in uniform(Military) but now I'm all for the number jugglers. I love engineers, statisticians, analysts, stock broker...all the works. So long as you are a number guru that knows mathematics, you've got my attention

DonOms:
Yes, a number of people have tried to explain introversion as best as they can on this thread. But as you know, some people have stereotyped and misguided understandings of things so it takes time and courage to accept what is factual and true. So these explanations may have to be repeated often, I'm afraid.

Either way, the truth is, one of the purposes of this thread (and loads of other blogs, posts, books and even the World Introvert Day) is to sensitise and enlighten people who are somewhat less informed about introversion to get rightly informed about introverts and why they do things the way they do.

sisisioge:
cool...God is on it with us

sisisioge:
Babes, I never try reach? Abi you wan enter bele of people go chop the wan wey them don eat By the way, how far with the 2017 wedding parole? Found a bobo yet?

sisisioge:
Don't worry then...I will make another soon and share a pic

sisisioge:
you follow ba? The thing don finish o. Maybe we should crash this folk's wedding, surely pepper soup will be on the menu.

sisisioge:
Groovy! I hope one of them is super cool though.

Olarewajub:
It won't serve any purpose and besides many of us do not use Whatsapp.

toluxa1:
My wedding is coming up August 11 and 12.

DonOms:
It will. This time? I always reply my mails.

DonOms:
It will. This time? I always reply my mails.

DonOms:
A PM maybe... Except you feel it's alright here.

DonOms:
I know, right? But at least Harvey can just show face first in case I need to bluff my way out of the case while Mike remains in the background digging up something Harvey will use to make a deal

DonOms:
Case? Do I need to get my lawyer present as I answer my case? *Harvey Specter (Suits) to the rescue* Oya, open my case file...

DonOms:
That's quite normal for an introverted young person. My guess is you're still very young (perhaps below 22) and trying to figure out how you (as a young adult) fit into a matured society.

Don't see your quietness and difficulty starting conversations as a problem. It isn't. It's just something you'll have to grow out of. It's easier for extroverts but it takes introverts a while to blend. Practice makes perfect. As I advice people, just start by developing conversations with people who are inclined to answer (waitresses, security personnel, attendants e.t.c.). Then in a matter of time, you'll feel more comfortable making conversations with just anyone.

As an introvert, you most likely will not become the life of a party or some garrulous type that will chat with every thing that has ears, or not. Introverts prefer solitude and get tired of small chats so brace yourself for this kind of life if you're predominantly introverted.