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May you remain blessed for remembering his family.
We all fall short as human beings, no one is perfect.

I detect the sarcasm there, after all in our society, that is usually the advice given to women when men cheat. Basically, asking men to also join the “stay and endure emotional / psychological torture gang”.

Comment reserved until Sir Wike speaks, until he speaks PDP has not spoken.

Fratermathy,

Cant you tell from some the responses critising your post that majority of Nigerians suffer from the stockholm effect syndrome. Over identfying with one's persecutor even in the face of damning evidence.
Why bother to respond? Truth be told, with the level of corruption in Nigeria during the last administration, had GEJ returned, in a matter of 2 to 5 years, Nigeria would have been comparable to modern day Zimbabwe, somalia, Ethopia.

For crying out loud, salaries not being paid for months on end, billions in naira and foreign currencies being diverted to personal accounts, poor education system, Nigerian travelling to ghana to study, politicians sending their own children abroad to study, the rich travlling abroad for treatment, poor infracstructures, bad roads, transport, no health care facilities, people dying in their thousands from minor ailments, non-existent judiciary, insecurity, Gboko haram, corrupt armed forces including police, extra judicial assasinations, high rate of unemployment, armed robbers, scarcity of fuel, Nigerians being offered refugee status in neighbouring African countries.... the list goes on.

People fail to understand that we are only just begining to face the consequences of past failed administrations. lastly, it is worth mentioning that left to Buhari most of our politicians regardless of what party they belong to such as serving and ex ministers, governors, senators, heads of armed forces would have been in jail by now but he had no choice but to dine with the devi as it were.

I really pray that he succeeds.

Agree, I really wonder??

InvertedHammer:
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There is no need blaming the OP.

After all, he who the gods want to kill, they first make mad.

May be the OP has finished his purpose on this earth...and it is a matter of time before the wife sends him yonder.

It could be his destiny. And the prophecy comes to pass.

Why the hell do people still get married?
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The irony of the whole saga is that if she had not pretended to be a good born again sister or woken up at 04.00am to clean your parents house i bet you would all have condemed her to be unsuitable and not a wife material. In choosing a life partner, which is one of the most crucial decisions we have to make in life, we tend to be go for very superficial qualities and then we are suprised at the consequences that inevitabley follows. You married a total stranger, someone you don't know just because she is a church goer and wakes up to clean at 04.00am. You and your family forgot that the devil himself was the first to quote bible verses to Jesus in the wilderness. Thanks for sharing your story ias it s applicable to everyone of us. Please when you leave that is if, at this rate you dont end up 6 feet under, please make sure you take yourdaughter with you because that child is at risk of serious ham in her care.