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Re: Upside Down Marriage by ifenes(m): 11:38pm On Dec 25, 2015 |
You better run for your life 2 Likes |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by Nobody: 11:39pm On Dec 25, 2015 |
samocholi:I swear to God! I watch this movie and mercy Johnson act as the wife. When I visited someone and this was the movie we are watching! So you take your bloody time to write a movie script and you need advice on this RUBBISH Why not tell us when the person that SACK you later came to beg you and you got your job back and your wife was later scam with drug and she was in prison but you later bail her due to one of your old friend you know and he is a police officer. Stupidity 1 Like |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by Raalsalghul: 11:39pm On Dec 25, 2015 |
Kassidy4luv:I am telling you! 3 Likes |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by veraiyke(m): 11:39pm On Dec 25, 2015 |
End the marriage now and kick damn ass out. She's a slut and a pretender. Wonder why you kept her this long 1 Like |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by Memunat27: 11:39pm On Dec 25, 2015 |
The irony of the whole saga is that if she had not pretended to be a good born again sister or woken up at 04.00am to clean your parents house i bet you would all have condemed her to be unsuitable and not a wife material. In choosing a life partner, which is one of the most crucial decisions we have to make in life, we tend to be go for very superficial qualities and then we are suprised at the consequences that inevitabley follows. You married a total stranger, someone you don't know just because she is a church goer and wakes up to clean at 04.00am. You and your family forgot that the devil himself was the first to quote bible verses to Jesus in the wilderness. Thanks for sharing your story ias it s applicable to everyone of us. Please when you leave that is if, at this rate you dont end up 6 feet under, please make sure you take yourdaughter with you because that child is at risk of serious ham in her care. 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by CharlyNick: 11:40pm On Dec 25, 2015 |
op you made a very Big Mistake not to have courted her before marriage. How could you make such Mistake? In this Modern Age? You get married to a lady based on the recommendation of a friend? That's ridiculous! And to make things worst, you did COURT MARRIAGE? I lack what to say because the lady has gone beyond boundaries in her evil deed and since you've endured all these while, just face it as U've already made a Mistake and you know your position as a christian regarding divorce. Also, the truth is: YOU GOT MARRIED TO ANOTHER MAN'S WIFE AND NOT YOURS. 5yrs relationship is better than 1month Broken Marriage. 4 Likes |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by zinnyprecy(f): 11:40pm On Dec 25, 2015 |
Some people lng to marry, while some wish to walk out. My dear u both 're Nt meant for eachoda leave her for sm tym go to some where pray dat God either change her for good or force her to leave without harming u cos from ur write up of true she is evil. Jesus. |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by Bibby25(m): 11:40pm On Dec 25, 2015 |
it's so sad brother....but the truth has to b told. Christianity or no christianity,what u av is no longer a union n u seems not to value ur own life cos if u do,I believe u would av walked outta that marriage long time ago. If u were d 1 abusing her,am sure she wld av left u since....Bros find ur square root,go n strt a new life.....all d best. 1 Like |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by BuddhaPalm(m): 11:40pm On Dec 25, 2015 |
ahnie: Wetin you wan hear again? Cheating ------------------------------ check (unprotected) Runs -------------------------------- check Physical abuse ---------------------- check Verbal Abuse ------------------------- check Cause of financial misfortune --------- check No peace of mind ------------------- check Diabolical ----------------------------- check 11 Likes |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by BreezyRita(f): 11:40pm On Dec 25, 2015 |
Phewww! "Out of the abundance of the heart, the fingers type." I actually read all that because I was intrigued and now, I find it real hard to believe this really happened. In this age In Nigeria? Owkk. Op, you're married to a husband beater, a runz woman (majority of women who deal on male clothing materials do this a lot BTW), an ex-cultist with bad mouth. What else?? Oh! Diabolic. Has a professional witch- doctor. Elenyi gidi gan First, you were too busy to have time for yourself and felt any woman would do as a wife. Forgetting the home front is equally as important as your job. "If the head is bad, the whole body is". And you refused to take up the responsibility of finding your wife yourself. You don't know what your colleague told her about you. Babes like that once they hear 'banker', their head no dey again. It only makes sense that she became a homely, 100% wife material just to nab 'maga'. And your friend was so wicked! He's responsible for all your misery. If he knew she was all that back in school, why didn't he tell you? I'm not even gonna ask why he introduced you to her in the first place. She was a church girl . Oh how they bring mockery to the body of Christ! I'm tempted to say the church where you got wedded isn't a living church but I won't. Make God alone judge them. But I see no reason why a clergy will encourage you to remain in an abusive marriage especially when there has been countless death threats. I mean, whatever happened to temporal separation? Is it until you die? Besides, the woman is adulterous and in Bible standards, that's what you need for a divorce. Chaii! I just dey pity you sha. The lil girl she brought to the world is in wrong hands cos she'll learn everything she isn't supposed to. Neways, people make mistakes. And it could have happened to anyone. Sorry it was you. Now, no need crying over spilt milk. Get yourself out of her sphere, get a life and get moving! You cannot fight a demon! You're only human and you are not so spiritual from the look of things. So, go to a living church. (Now, that's after you've left that house) One that does a deep study of the Word of God. What am I even saying? Get your relationship with God back on point! Pray for His Spirit for direction. Apparently, your wife has been possessed by roaming spirits. I know its going to be hard going back to square one, probably staying with friend or family. But then, its no better where you are. Pray for her. Even the worst people can be changed by that. Goodluck! . 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by Karence(f): 11:41pm On Dec 25, 2015 |
@ op, your wife is obviously deranged cos no sane woman will publicly run after any human being in her undies,she's obviously mad from her demons of the past.to worsen the situation she's also diabolic and adulterous. its will be for your own interest to leave the now that you are still alive, but then the lives and future of your children is at stake,I'm mother and will never talk to my child the way you said she talks, also do something about your kids as you plan to end the marriage. God help you 3 Likes |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by ace05(m): 11:41pm On Dec 25, 2015 |
Get a divorce and ensure you don't listen to your pastor or parents again!!! 6 Likes |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by firstfuckson: 11:41pm On Dec 25, 2015 |
Pls before u divorce her in would advice you to do a DNA test on your child to determine true paternity first. 7 Likes |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by princeunugwa: 11:42pm On Dec 25, 2015 |
What's really striking is that u r still an inmate of that prison. Guy ur life is going down in a geometric proportion :- |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by ashjay001(m): 11:42pm On Dec 25, 2015 |
Bro, if u're waiting for advice, den I believe u're either retard or a coward. U've allowed sentiments to derail ur life n dat of ur kid. U're going broke n married 2 d wrng lady n I'm sure no assets? Ds are d type of situations good bois find demselves. Evryone tells u 2 cari on, wen dey r not in ur shoes, n dey all b d 1st 2 weep uncontrollably wen u'r gone. Jst wait a little longer, so u'll get 2 watch over ur daughter frm heaven. Had 2 control myself, am seriously pissed at u for allowing urself 2 be so trampled upon!? U remind me of d Jews during d 2nd world war. 8 Likes |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by Zico5(m): 11:42pm On Dec 25, 2015 |
Hmmm |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by djojo(m): 11:43pm On Dec 25, 2015 |
Yoruba people will say obinrin toba yan ale olesekupa oko. Meaning any married woman that is doing infidelity might kill her husband. What u don't kno I that the charm u saw inside I just the bandage ur wife is using to get ur glory for herself. Think of it very well man she want to make u a fool that is why she made u loose ur job. Just divorce her and take the custody of ur daughter things will definitely come back to normal for u. U are living with olosho, fetish woman and u are allow some people to preach gospel for u. What if she had stab u with that knife or rejoice stone hit u, they will come and check u are the hospital. U are a man do what u think wil bring progress into ur life but If u remain with dt lady I bet it with u.she will still control ur life like a TV remote 2 Likes |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by ogastone(m): 11:43pm On Dec 25, 2015 |
I think that your wife is possessed by demons. she may be delivered if you convince her and take her to a church where such demon can be fired. Tell her to escort you to God spring church Arab road at Kubwa or Rhema. Just go to nomal fellowship and .... Or any other better church you know that can handle such matters . I just wanna say that your wife has a spiritual problem and that can be solved. 1 Like |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by samvega: 11:43pm On Dec 25, 2015 |
Bi-polar disorder. She is psychotic .not suitable for marriage..but i will like to hear from her. 2 Likes |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by Osisie(m): 11:44pm On Dec 25, 2015 |
dominique: It's a daughter. Good Evening. |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by tunde1200(m): 11:45pm On Dec 25, 2015 |
i support your advised but that guy too play mumu join his ordeal with that woman incase of another one please learn from this. PresVA: 2 Likes |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by nwaanambra1(m): 11:45pm On Dec 25, 2015 |
samocholi: is ur wife's name Tina? |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by babylove2015: 11:45pm On Dec 25, 2015 |
@Op, marriage is for better for worse but if all I read here is true then you need to separate yourself and your child from that woman and kip trusting God 4 ur nxt line of action. Mind you, those pleading 4 ur wife will conduct your burial shd you die in dis woman's hands. Now dat you can still breathe n you haven't ran mad, relocate urself n ur baby far away frm her and I pray God intervenes in your situation very soon. 2 Likes |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by Maximus85(m): 11:45pm On Dec 25, 2015 |
I cannot say anything to this. I'm sorry. It's beyond me. Just talk to God about it. 3 Likes |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by deshysmalls(m): 11:47pm On Dec 25, 2015 |
You dont need an advice, you need therapy. RUN BROTHER RUN AS FAST AS YOUR LEGS CAN CARRY YOU 1 Like |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by achorladey: 11:47pm On Dec 25, 2015 |
Pls read and read well infact ask mature minds to read alongside you. When you are done do what was recorded in the last scripture cited. But all I can say is your situation is highlighted in all ramifications. The Bible’s View on Divorce and Separation Jehovah expects those who are married to remain faithful to the marriage vow. When uniting the first man and woman in marriage, Jehovah stated: “A man . . . will stick to his wife, and they will become one flesh.” Later, Jesus Christ repeated that statement and added: “Therefore, what God has yoked together, let no man put apart.” (Genesis 2:24; Matthew 19:3-6) Hence, Jehovah and Jesus view marriage as a lifelong bond that ends only when one partner dies. (1 Corinthians 7:39) Since marriage is a sacred arrangement, divorce is not to be taken lightly. In fact, Jehovah hates divorces that have no Scriptural basis.—Malachi 2:15, 16. What forms a Scriptural basis for divorce? Well, Jehovah hates adultery and sexual immorality. (Genesis 39:9; 2 Samuel 11:26, 27; Psalm 51:4) Indeed, he finds sexual immorality so despicable that he allows it as grounds for divorce. (For a discussion of what sexual immorality involves, refer to Chapter 9, paragraph 7, where sexual immorality is explained.) Jehovah grants the innocent mate the right to decide whether to remain with the guilty partner or to seek a divorce. (Matthew 19:9) Hence, if an innocent mate decides to seek a divorce, that one does not take a step that Jehovah hates. At the same time, however, the Christian congregation does not encourage anyone to seek a divorce. In fact, some circumstances may move the innocent mate to remain with the guilty one, especially if that one is genuinely repentant. In the end, though, those who have a Scriptural basis for divorce must make their own decision and accept whatever consequences it may bring.—Galatians 6:5. In certain extreme situations, some Christians have decided to separate from or divorce a marriage mate even though that one has not committed sexual immorality. In such a case, the Bible stipulates that the departing one “remain unmarried or else be reconciled with” the mate. (1 Corinthians 7:11) Such a Christian is not free to pursue a third party with a view to remarriage. (Matthew 5:32) Consider here a few exceptional situations that some have viewed as a basis for separation. Willful nonsupport. A family may become destitute, lacking the basic essentials of life, because the husband fails to provide for them, although being able to do so. The Bible states: “If anyone does not provide for . . . members of his household, he has disowned the faith and is worse than a person without faith.” (1 Timothy 5: If such a man refuses to change his ways, the wife would have to decide whether she needs to protect her welfare and that of her children by obtaining a legal separation. Of course, Christian elders should give careful consideration to an accusation that a Christian refuses to support his family. Refusal to care for one’s family may result in disfellowshipping. Extreme physical abuse. An abusive spouse may act so violently that the abused mate’s health and even life life are in danger. If the abusive spouse is a Christian, congregation elders should investigate the charges. Fits of anger and a practice of violent behavior are grounds for disfellowshipping.—Galatians 5:19-21. Absolute endangerment of spiritual life. A spouse may constantly try to make it impossible for the mate to pursue true worship or may even try to force that mate to break God’s commands in some way. In such a case, the threatened mate would have to decide whether the only way to “obey God as ruler rather than men” is to obtain a legal separation.—Acts 5:29. In all cases involving such extreme situations as those just discussed, no one should put pressure on the innocent mate either to separate or to stay with the other. While spiritually mature friends and elders may offer support and Bible-based counsel, they cannot know all the details of what goes on between a husband and a wife. Only Jehovah can see that. Of course, a Christian wife would not be honoring God or the marriage arrangement if she exaggerated the seriousness of her domestic problems just to live separately from her husband, or vice versa. Jehovah is aware of any scheming behind a separation, no matter how one may try to hide it. Indeed, “all things are naked and openly exposed to the eyes of the one to whom we must give an account.” (Hebrews 4:13) But if an extremely dangerous situation persists, no one should criticize a Christian who, as a last resort, chooses to separate. In the final analysis, “we will all stand before the judgment seat of God.”—Romans 14:10- 12 2 Likes |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by yak(m): 11:49pm On Dec 25, 2015 |
I took d pain to read all n my conclusion is dat u hate ur life. don't claim u are married. THAT GIRL WILL SEND U TO EARLY GRAVE. its either she stabs u or kill u wit STD or something. pastor will never encourage u to divorce her but for Heaven's sake u are not married 1 Like |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by bobkezel(m): 11:49pm On Dec 25, 2015 |
Rooster and bull story. Op i must tell you, if this stupid story is true then u must be a big fool, an idiot, an slowpoke, u are hopeless. Nonsense. Please madam, deal with him dangerously cos he is a fool. You came here for advice, you fool. If i am the wife i will strangle you personally. U live a useless life. You are not worthy to be alive. Nonsense. Well i don't believe this nonsensical sh!t. Thunder fire you there, idiot. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by Tearg1: 11:49pm On Dec 25, 2015 |
There's a way out. The spirit which the lady has is an Evil Spirit. The only way out is to seek deliverance at SCOAN with prophet TB Joshua. This woman has dabbled into alot of evil spiritual things...as funny as it may sound, her actions are evil and she needs the help of God... She herself does not understand what she's doing. That evil beast Satan is in control of her. The solution now is Jesus. In as much as she is connected to you, be aware that the negative forces is what robbed you of your joy. The happy news is that, there is Hope in Jesus... |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by wamenzy(f): 11:49pm On Dec 25, 2015 |
mr man.... marriage is not a do or die affair at all.... I swear ur life is not important to u... . I can't blif ur still with dis woman u described here... ..... from all indications u are married to ursef cuz ur wife does not even want the marriage to work.... and now uve lost ur job it will get worst ohhhh u said u want advice.... my advice is to leave dat wicked woman cuz her plan is to kill u ohhh.......... and she will not rest til she executes her plan just put on ur running shoes and run as fast as u can dunno y good men end up marrying witches as wife one of d tinz dat kills men faster is marrying a bad wife 3 Likes |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by Richy4(m): 11:49pm On Dec 25, 2015 |
I hated the fact that you lost your job because of this lady..... Though your account was one sided, we still know where you omitted some statement to suit you and we also know some truth in some of your statement. Eg you cannot tell me that because you left 45k for her and she said you will not go anywhere. I believe that some harsh words must have been exchanged she started running out like a lunatic after you with bricks.. since you said you do not beat women. I believe that there are words that could be used that is worse than beating..... <Assuming I was in your shoes, I will go and thank my friend for introducing an ex cultist into my life even when he knows whom she was.... <I would have rectified the problem when I discovered that cheating was involved.. knowing that once she cheated, she will cheat again, and again and again and again.. I would not have given her the privileges to tear my cloths because I do not work in textile factory this is because she would have been in her parent home by that time cooling off and learning some manners.... <<Bro you should cherish your life.. No one deserves to make you unhappy without your permission. Gone are those days when you endure till you hit the grave.....I also want you to understand that when fetish stuffs start entering into the house, that is no longer a home..... 2 Likes |
Re: Upside Down Marriage by Barney11: 11:50pm On Dec 25, 2015 |
I am married,am not a saint Buh ur story if itz true,ur in hell bro,take ur kid to ur relation u trust and leave the marriages.simple!dont even allow her to raise ur kid. 3 Likes |
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