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I NEED TO GIVE IT TO SOMEONE TO BE TAKING ON A DAILY THEN.

THANK YOU. I CLEARED THE AIR WITH HIM LAST NIGHT ALREADY, WE CANT BE FRIENDS OUTSIDE THE OFFICE FOR NOW.

afbstrategies:
No one has really given you credit for resisting this guy but I will. You are doing great and will do much better if you resist him till the end. The best thing to do here is to move on and keep looking because this guy is smarter than you give him credit.Ironically, a lot of those who are lashing out at you would give it up much faster.

IF YOU KNEW I DID NOT NEED IT THEN YOU SHOULDNT HAVE BOTHERED COMMENTING. IF I WASNT THINKING ABOUT HOW THE GIRL WILL FEEL THERE WOULD BE NO NEED FOR THIS POST. I HAVE ALSO LEARNT THAT YOU CAN COMMENT ON A POST WITHOUT BEING INSULTIVE AND SAUCY.

CyberFury:
Idiots everywhere!

Anyone that encourages you to cheat on your partner will one day cheat on you with another person.

They know what they are doing, just watch, soonest they'll start blaming the devil.

Keep away from breaking peoples relationships.

Good milk is white, bad milk is also white, so not every milk you see is good for you. Because you guys have common interests doesn't mean you guy's can go ahead and Bleep each other.

To whom brain is given, sense is expected.

Funny...when people want to do something that will put some other individual in pains, they don't think about how they'd feel if they were the victim.

You're looking for advice? I know you don't need it, you're just here to find reasons to justify something you've already done.

Karma is a bitch, and Nemesis is her mother. You'll be served on the same platter.

THANK YOU

Owutuotuo:
Dear Op,

I'll advise that you keep your relationship with the guy as formal as you can, find every reason to avoid spending time with him, and if possible, avoid discussing personal things. It can be really hard (speaking from experience) bit it's the right thing to do.

THANK YOU VERY MUCH, SUPER GRATEFUL.

Perfectionist11:
You need to be careful. It is not out of order to question his feelings for you. He could be playing games, you probably won't stay around after your service year and he knows this. He could have you before you leave and fall back on his girlfriend later on.

Contrary to many opinions on here, I'd advice you not to blame yourself too much for developing feelings for him as you are not in any relationship. But, you should've applied the handbrake on the friendship after you learnt of his relationship status. He deserves a major portion of the blame as he is in relationship.

Be careful and sceptical of his feelings even if he discards his girlfriend for you as he could easily go back to her after your departure.

CLAP FOR YOURSELF. ONLY AN OLOSHO WILL KNOW ONE

habsydiamond:
u sounded oloshoish to me.....why do u intend to break them up....put ursef in the guy's girlfriend shoes...u won't want anybody to do that to u...

LOL.

pennywys:
ur evil uncles have done this

EVERY ONE AINT LIKE YOU DICK HEAD

FTrebirth:
you just made up this fat lie because you want your thread on front page.

You done? now move along.

Slaye:
I know you are short, chocolate skinned and wear cap wig most of the times and you have slight pimples on your face what I don't understand is why he is attracted to someone like you over his fair slim girl that's more beautiful than you are.

woo me na.

generalbush:
Nice story.

I have nobody to woo, and I am not interested in wooing anybody. Maybe I will use it in future if the need be.

Nice story.

I don't need help from a saint like you.

mediocre:
So you knew it was wrong right from the onset but still, you let it progress to this stage? And now you're claiming remorse.

You're a manipulative liar, how exactly are we supposed to help you huh

Yes i know that. Thank you

Ajsmart:
You already know you shouldn't be trying to get with another woman's property, don't you? Going against your conscience will ultimately lead you on the wrong path!

GUY THERES ACTUALLY NO PERKS ANYBODY ENJOYS FROM BEING A NIGERIAN, EVERYTHING ABOUT THIS COUNTRY AS VIEWED FROM OUTSIDE THE COUNTRY IS NEGATIVE. IF TIWA OR ANY NIGERIAN ARTIST GETS SOMETHING, THEY DESERVED IT. PEOPLE WOULD RATHER,NOT BE ASSOCIATED WITH THIS HELL HOLE. BUT BECAUSE WE ARE MUSICALLY GOOD, THEY AINT GOT NO CHOICE. PLS TIWA DESERVES IT

BIKO NO VEX

QueenBeeHive:
You are even in ibadan.
I will organize gals to come fix you up
if you don't leave that guy alone and go find yours.

THE HIP HOP ARTISTS IN NIGERIA ARE MORE CONCERNED ABOUT DROPPING SONGS THAT WILL PLEASE THE EARS OF THE NIGERIA MARKET, RAPPERS HAVE TURNED SINGERS(MI YOU RAPPERS SHOULD FIX UP YOUR LIFE, JUST CAME TO MIND). NO LYRICS, NOTHING TO GET YOU THINKING, THEY ARE NOT EVEN MEETING A NEED WITH WHATEVER THEY ARE SAYING. IN NIGERIA THE ONLY RAPPER WHOSE SHOW I CAN PAY TO ATTEND IS JESSE JAGZ, BEYOND BEATS NIGERIAN RAPPERS SHOULD GIVE US CONTENT.

Please my cousin is getting married next week, any suggestions on nice, slow and super romantic songs with weighty lyrics they can use for couple first dance.

I HEAR YOU MA.

lovelygurl:
That's why I said " dating "

THANK YOU

MrIjapa:


I like you

NOW RUN ALONG DICK HEAD. [quote author=Soren4 post=63178464][/quote]

VENTURA MALL, SAMONDA.

MrIjapa:
And ibadan?

Anyway, you don't know his girlfriend and he is not married so I don't see any reason why you can't date him. No be today guys don dey dump one woman for another

ABUJA. TRUKADERO PLACE, ADEMOLA ADETOKUMBO, WUSE 2.
IBADAN . THE VENTURA MALL SAMONDA

MrIjapa:
Where can I bowl in abuja and ibadan?

LOL. THANKS ANYWAY

AreaFada2:
Nothing new. Lots of women want a guy that already has a girlfriend/wife. Never mind the sanctimony and hypocrisy everywhere.

They feel they can attract a guy who already has a lady. An Ego boost. Whether deliberately or subconsciously.

Moreover polygamy (guy is not even married yet) is still widely practised in many places. So OP can be his second lady. No biggie.

In all honesty what percentage of people (men & women) remain faithful throughout all their relationships & marriages? VERY few nowadays.

OP you can go on and date the guy if you would not mind another girl dating your guy too and you're ready to face whatever comes your way: being dumped soon after, heartache acid bathe from his girlfriend, etc. After all life is all about risk. If Christopher Columbus didn't risk rickety ships to the New World, he might have lived an ordinary life and forgotten to history.

THANK YOU.

humeeh:
Okay o
You took the wrong path, fine!
It's not too late to back out.. This might just be some sort of crush you got on each other, so?
Spend less time together and make your conversations polite and brief..And carry eyes away from another person man..so we won't have a sequel to this story of you having sex with your friend's guy, she finds out and kill you both... We've had enough bad news this year..all the best o

HELLO, WE ARE NOT DATING .

lovelygurl:
Hehehe, this is such a cool teeny love story .

But op such stories are only exciting in novels or Tv series. You're in love with someone with no self control whatsoever. He started "dating" you while he had a girlfriend? Lmao! Pleeeeeease, if he's a man of quality, he'd break up with his gf and then date you.

What makes you think he won't date a girl while dating you? You're funny but like I said a good love story nonetheless. Keep us up to date please

LOL. I HEAR YOU

phrancys001:
Simply substitute the guy with me,let's talk later for further getting to know each other.

THANK YOU

JONSYN7154:
I know what you should do. Simply get yourself a boyfriend.

JUST INCASE YOU ARE MISSING, THIS IS ROMANCE SECTION. NOT WHERE NIGERIA ECONOMY IS BEING DISCUSSED.[quote author=Soren4 post=63175030][/quote]

I cant remember saying we are having sex yet ooo, my legs are still closed.

Dimples129:
You walked into this with your eyes wide shut and your legs wide open