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bankyblue:
I don't like betrayals

Connected1:
A Coursemate Friend gave me the number of a certain girl about 3 years ago saying that she needed a friend to talk with, so I started getting along with her based on my easy going personality, so at a point she needed finance and myself not giving money anyhow I gave her my goods to sell and take the profit whilst she bring back my capital, she failed at it and I went to take back my goods, after that I bought goods for her to sell based on a business she said her friend told her about, the business failed and I barely got my capital I gave her.


I was doing the best I can for her but then she brought talks about having feelings for me and how she knows I do too but I kept hiding mine, so I shunned her about it, we quarreled and I deleted her phone number & blocked her everywhere, after a very short while, she began using her friends to call me and beg me, I completely ignored everything because i don't have any feelings for her nor am I even interested in sleeping with her when she offered me sex despite saying she was sacred about all that.

Alas I unblocked her when she lost her mum and she wrote me, I felt I needed to assist in consoling her by unblocking and chatting her up, then I offered some financial help too because both her parents are now gone and I told her not to bother me about dating her and focus on offers she receives which she agreed on, she's 29 and I understand time is telling on her.

Then some months got past and everything was going well, then she came again with the love jargon again and began saying how she prayed on the day I gave her money around when she lost her mum, she said she told God that whichever man she knows that sent her money is the one going to marry her and I was the only one who sent money and a huge one at that bla bla bla, I was infuriated and told her I unblocked her because she lost her mum, she kept explaining and I wasn't having any of it, then she agreed and swore not to disturb me about dating or marrying her I recommended she blocked me so that it will help her to forget about me but she never agreed.

We got talking again and living our lives until this week when she brought up issues about dating and marrying her again, how she saw me in her dreams that I was the one, how 2 other guys were asking her out and she prayed to God to know the right one and i suddenly appeared in her dreams, at this point I think I am sick of it and might go mad anytime soon if I continue like this, the reason I haven't blocked her everywhere this time around is because she gave me a job connect which one of her elder brothers was involved in as an exco member and I paid some money like others did only that it was cheaper so I have been hesitant, since it seems the job is about to taking shape and they may start paying this month or next, around 150k -200k for 2 weeks and I intend using it as a side hustle along side my business and normal job.

Please I need your advice, because whilst I have no intentions to date her or have sex out of pity, I can't just let this job opportunity go like that because I feel she may tell her brother to jeopardise the whole thing for me now if I chase her away angrily.

I will appreciate your inputs, regardless of how I feel about it.

surgical:
Academic exercise, he has his own agenda
Any suggestions is a waste of time

yyba:
RUFAI osine go and do animals documentary and stop talking to humans please

adamkkk:
He will keep asking questions about the product for straight two years. After that, he will come again and continue the questions



Share your experience with such a person

Chilipepper:
Apart from Hello, how else do you pick your calls? — Lady sparks hilarious phone etiquette debate

James4358:
Chia... World don spoil. My first ever kiss was in the university in 2011.

Flowertabs:
I'm tired. I want to end it all. This suffering is too much for me. My baby has not eaten since morning. I don't have money to buy her nutribom. What more do I have to live for? I can't do this anymore. Please help me if you can. 814 94 768 31 Palmpay. my name is Mary Bassey

zero8zero:
The first wife left, the second left, the third left and another one carry head enter, women and money sha..
Thequestion is, IF this fourth wife left too, is he allowed to marry a fifth wife since Islam only allows four wives?.

Bmaster:
they wants to cajole him,if i am to be fubara,i will take and drink every oath you presents to me,swear with my life at every dark alter you take me to but still backstab you on the day you will need me most.that votes you are hoping on wont get to you,let heavens and earths fall apart

You are just making mouth if you're in Fubara shoes you will be submissive to C-n-C more than the way he does,no saints people in politics everybody na hustler anywhere belle way face.

Melezenawii:
Davido pays a visit to Nigeria's First Lady, Oluremi Tinubu, today in Lagos.

tunjijones:
Either r you live for 150 years or you live for 10 years, no one is leaving this world alive...

JikSneh:
True to head slammers and ewedu munchers only though

Apart from adding more excitement and fulfillment to love making, what else does big yansh bring to the table............you have already answered your question, so why asking again?

Canobi:
I'm tired. I want to end it all. This suffering is too much for me. My baby has not eaten since morning. I don't have money to buy her cereal. What more do I have to live for? I can't do this anymore. Please help me if you can. 81 49 476 831 palmpay Mary Bassey