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he is a very good frnd of mine,its clear we are not dating,he lives his life,he confide in me so do i wen its necesary,he jos like me because he finds me a differnt gal with focus nd highly principled,now he wants to travel out of d country nd say he want me 2 trvle wit him but we hv 2 claim dt we are marid,therefore, he will fake d certificates nd evrytin,i dnt no d implication nd risk abt dis,truly truly i cnt marry him 4 so many reasons,bt he is qualified 2 b my highly respetable frnd,am nt kin abt trvlin wit him bt i wil like 2 xpierence wat trvln out of my country wil b like,bt if its d type dt wil make me unhapy or land me in trouble,i quit. bt plz can any1 plz tel me d implications of fake certs nd d risk involve,his goin 4 an official wok,so he is nt in2 drugs or wateva,his offce is near mine,an oil coy,plz let me hear ur advise nd contribution.thnks[code][/code]

@ jj whateva u call ur self,only if u know my kind of person i am,you sound as if u ar 1 of d 24 elders in his throne,i dont also tink u can handle war am passin tru if u were me,i search for a job 4 4months,i cried n cried cos my bills were piln up day by day,i simply refuse 2 do it d aristos way because i no my God is able nd neva fails,dt was y i made d promise to him,nw wen i got my job,i had notin in my account,my landlady came with her rent of almost 2yrs,she is quite undastndn but i didnt wnt 2 abuse d likeness she has 4me,nd other small small debt dt embrass me,i hv 2 trnspot mysef 2 my ofce,lunch and so on,so i cudnt fulfil my promise 2 my God,bt i pray him dt my promise stil remains valid ,its alwayz in my hat dt i owe him,d issue nw is dt i want 2 pay one afta d oda,i dnt wnt 2 pay installmentaly 2 any,i dnt no who 2 fil my promise 1st,my propaties r at stake if i dnt pay my rent.so gal or boy dont,dont condem me b4 God.

a@ image123---i fil so toched wit dose passage frm d bible,i luv nd respect d word of d lord,its a light 2my path and a lamp 2 my feet.am fillin guilty already,dis y we ar human,God-divine


@a k o-- wel u hav a point,u spoke as som1 who knows hw it is wen 2 pressin issues confuse u,if i fulfil my promise,i may b trown out frm d ouse in as much God is a miriculous God, such may nt happen.but i fil u shaa.tnks,i wil c want i cn do bt am scared of goin 2 beg any1 4 money

when i was lookn 4a job,i promised God that i will give him my 1st salary,again my landlady came with her own,her rent,i was confused,again,i wil b left wit notin if i pay all dis debt nd no 1 will give me becos they no am wokin,my 1st salary came,i didnt giv God nor my landlady,i settled oda debts, nd oda expencis,nw,i promise my lady dt i wil giv her pat of d money dis month,bt am nt happy dt i have nt ful my promise 2 God,nd my salary cnt carry d 2 debt.wat do i do

am in my middle 20ties,based in lagos,frm eastern nigeria,working.what again, hmmmmmmmmm?ok, genda,female,not 2 bad facially,dark,tall(so do pple say)a practising catholic, i tink dtz enof,i need a good frnd,he can b a boy or a gal,dont get me rong,am nt askin 4 a relationship wit a guy(duo am nt in !)nor am i in gal 2 gal tin,No! jost want som1 i can talk 2,confide in,share my joy,and pains wit,u mustnt be in lagos,more of a phone tin,bt i did luv it if u hv a job as wel,if u ar intersted call me on 08035830380.i dnt want uncultured pple,u must sound intelligent nd hv gu sence of humour.i nid a frnd NB: if u r a gal nd base in lag,u must nt b a gossip or jelous,cos most of my galfrnds r jelos of me 4 notin dtz y,i dnt mingle wit dem

i find myself calling him atleast 2times in a day everyday,cins he left 4d uk,i no am not normal but i cant help myself in dis case,is it that i luv him xsivly or what,other guyz irritate me xcept him,i dont fill like hanging out wit any guy,i hv tried so many times 2 muv on but it cims imposible,he is nt luvn me bak but i dont really kia,i jos like it dat way,but i really wanna stop,calln,stop luvn if possible stop everytin,hw do i go wit dt.he use 2b my luva bt he called of d r/shp,i accepted faintly bt dip inside me,i wanted d affair 2 continu cos am alredy commited to him,but i tried to b strong by not showin him d am weigh down by d brk up bt all my acts sayz 'i still luv u'he makes me bliv he stil luvs me 2,bt he haz neva call me 2 say hw am i doin,yes he is a student,wat abt sms,notin like dat,stil i hav neva complain.i stil want 2 stop calln,if u say i shd follo my heart,honestly my heart will continue calln.sm1 help me out

@ olanajim,he is an ibo,anambra state,me imo,his fada noses me i bliv,bt am nt sure weda he noses am datin his son, my parents dnt no him,hv neva dscus him 2 them,its nt rilly bn long we started datin(may 2008),b4 he tod me abt d brk up,i felt it,i saw it in a drim,nd i prayed against it,so wen he let it out,i felt bad inside me bt i made him fil dt am ok wit dt(duo i tod him 2 pray ova d mata,God cn reverse his fadas mind if he rily luvs me,hw eva,it didnt change my luv 4him,am stil around him even duo we ar nt datin,he is stil worthy 2 b my frnd,our seperation is goin 2 2mnths nw,d files am talkn abt r d 1s in his laptop,his projet,datas, jos evrytin,his hard disk crashed,we r nt in d same location,he is in manchesta,he left lst yr sept 4 his matas am in nigeria,lagos precisely,wokn,i wudnt kno weda there is anoda gal or nt bt 4 dsake of d luv nd trust i hv 4 him ,i wil say no,i call him almst evryde am tryn 2 stp calln him bt its has nt bn izi,he is d only1 i fil like wastin my airtyn on,anyway,am redy ida wayz,seperatin pamanetly or temporary,bt i dnt hv d intention 2 stat anoda r/shp .tnks 4 ur cntribution

@ vonny nd topup,thnks vry much,i appreciate ur cntributions,am tryin 2 get all dis off my mind,cos its painful,we truly luv ich oda,i luv him cos he is highly principled,God fearin,he rspets me,listin 2 me,he apreciate me 2,js dt he is a dadys boy,am jos like him as wel,wel bhved nd luvly,i wok wit d leadin insurance coy,in lag,its nt really easy 2 jump in 2 anoda r/shp again,i dnt jos hv d apitite 4 dt nw,so i stil prefa him,js dnt i i cnt beg him 2 luv me,i dnt do dt,i stil hv my dgnity nd pride as a woman,wel i nw c him as a close frnd wit no string attach,i tnk u 1s again 4 ur undastandn nd cntributions,luv u 2

@ vonny nd topup,thnks vry much,i appreciate ur cntributions,am tryin 2 get all dis off my mind,cos its painful,we truly luv ich oda,i luv him cos he is highly principled,God fearin,he rspets me,listin 2 me,he apreciate me 2,js dt he is a dadys boy,am jos like him as wel,wel bhved nd luvly,i wok wit d leadin insurance coy,in lag,its nt really easy 2 jump in 2 anoda r/shp again,i dnt jos hv d apitite 4 dt nw,so i stil prefa him,js dnt i i cnt beg him 2 luv me,i dnt do dt,i stil hv my dgnity nd pride as a woman,wel i nw c him as a close frnd wit no string attach,i tnk u 1s again 4 ur undastandn nd cntributions,luv u 2

vonny,he is sm1 i hv loved,so i dont mind havin d dvil i no bak dn d angel i dnt i dnt no,bt i wont beg him 2 com bk,i jos wnt 2 no weda he wnts he wnts me bk or, ,cos he is jelos abt evrytin i do,infat he tells me he is sory wen its nt necesary,he tels me he luvs me afta we finsh talkn on 4on,bt i dnt fall 4 all dt,it doesnt muv me ida,js dt i cincerely enjoy talkn wit him,it makes me hapy,dtz,i dnt kia if he dnt luv me,bt i dnt hv any intimate tin wit him,i dnt owe him he dnt owe me ida,

@ bron-dog,i acknowledge ur contribution bt am sure u ve neva bn in a genuie r/ship b4 dtz y u sounded like a dog,if it wil interst u 2no,am nt as cnfused like u or any memba of ur fmly,2ndly,i got mylife 2 liv,3rdly,i did prefa hangn around my x dn startn an affair wit d wolves out dere dt called theresef men.my x is nt like u dt wnts 2 taste evrytin unda skirt,he is reserved,principled nd respectful so y shdnt i stil luv him even duo am nt stil datin him,dt 1 is no mor datin doesnt min de r quarelln,my x cn stil b my frnd,no hard fililns or soft fillins,so my dog boy,am nt a waste like u,if u cn gv a gud cntribution or use polite wod 2 xpres ur mind,u beta zip ur magot mouth,all dsame i noticed ur post bt its ddnt make sence. an d zombi dt 2nd dogs motion.u ve only dsplayed d level of ur stupidity wich is at d high side,(sory) or ar notin bt a whinner,copycat.go len hw 2 invent no mata hw stupid it wil b try n fail in somtin dn doin notn,dog tried bt am sure i hv corrected him nd he wil take my correction

he called off d r/ship 2months ago wit d reason dt his fada wnts him 2 mary frm dere villa,i acepted,nd alow it b,bt suprisinly,he showz afection nd remose abt me,infat,weneva i tel him abt a new male frnd i met,he gets angry nd jelos,i wil simply remind him dt we ar nt datin, d recent1 dt happen waz dt he waz vry crazy wit me because i nt say "sory" 2him abt his lost files in his laptop,he calle me insensitive,selfish,nd dt i cnt make a nice patna,i cudnt stop laffn cos i bliv he 4got am nt his gal luva,so i blasted him bak.i stil luv him dearly,bt am nt datin him,(he is in d uk,pursuin his matas,hope 2 com bk ds yr)bt if he comz nd apologz cincerely,i wil take him bk bt as 4 nw,i like it d way it is,i dnt beg a man 2 luv me,my question is,cu it b dt he stil luvs me ?is he cnsinderin me 2b pat of his life 4 life,i dnt js get it,guyz u cn tel me beta,al ur cntributions is welcomed

y do most guyz fall cheaply 4 their parents wen they(parent) say their children shd nt marry outside their home town.probably they hv bn in a long tyme r/ship nd all of a sudden,u will hear " my mama say make i marry frm my hom town"most men ar nt man enof,y

luka1981,com nd mary me,am no risk bt js b d man i wnt ,my dear go 4 d kind of woman u wnt, she cn com frm any cntinet,if d olda gal posses all u nid in a woman,go 4 her,so long as she is nt old enaf 2b ur mumsy

i once shared my fear abt losin by swithat who is in manchesta presently (am in nig) bt d NL-das encouraged me nt 2 fear ,nd jos trust him,i trust dis guy b4 any1 cud say i shd,nd i luv so him passionately as well bt d issue is ,he js called off our r/ship 2 dayz afta i got a gud job, js like dt,his reason waz dt his fada sayz he wont mary outside his village,(his anambra,me,imo),he actualy new abt all dis crab nd went ahed datin me(quite a lng story),bt we cud all draw it down dt he got himsef a chik in manchsta,gud nd fine,dis is nt d issue,d issue is dt, i stil fil am goin out wit him,i stil luv him so dearly,i stil kip him in my hat, i stil tink of him,i stil luv him 2,i call him,he piks my cal,he hadly calz me,i send offline messg,no reply frm him,bliv me am nt bodad abt dt bt i cn disengaged my mind frm him,nd ds haz made me 2 b so had on men,i cnt even stat a r/ship,i find it had,i wnt 2 share my luv,my life wit sm1 bt i cn find mysef startin it or aceptin it xcept 4 ds man i hav luved wit my life,am so so emotional,wat do i do,i wnt 2 luv again

akaa dear tnks 4 ur cntribution,its welcomed,

tnks alot blackmann,my uncles nose bt he is quiet cos d wife cntrols him big tym,shea a lawyer,dtz by d way,am quite new in lag,dnt no pple much or i cn trust,nd i new wish 2 muv in wit a guy,bside hv no guy i can muv in wit.tnks 4 ur cncern nd kia,i wish u wel in ur wok place,i bliv God wil make a way 4me,i cnt b frustrate,God is by my side.tnks 1s again,God bless u

i nid an acomodation around vi nd ikoyi,or if any God fearing family or lady cn acomodate me 4 alitle wile befoe d 1st half o0f nxt yr,i wil b eternaly grateful,i wok wit a leadin insurance company in vi,my no. is 08035830380,cal me,i cn cal bk.am a gal of 26yrs,interestin 2b wit,abv all God fearing,i nid a God fearing frnd as wel.tnk u 4 ur undastndin

hi landers,plz,dis might nt b d rite medium 4 dis bt its also a chanel 2 rich pple,kind pple,undastndin pple nd luvin pple,wel am a gal of 26yrs,i wok wit an insurance company in victoria island,i actualy started wok dis month,i stay wit my uncle nd his wife in ikoyi,bt d woman dont like me 4 anytin,infather hatered increased as i started wokin,nd evry litle oportunity ,she threatens me wit her ouse,nd she wil take me unawares,by sendin me out,i hv no close relation,nor a frnd i cn hook up wit,bt i luk up ,b4 d end of d 1st half of nxt yr,i wil get an accomodation probably in d island,plz,any God fearin lady or family dt can acomodate me,4 ds litle priod,i wil b glad,am a christain,nd a God fearing gal,a gud company 2b with,i wud b glad 2 hear positive response frm any1,am lukn out 4 an accomodation btw ikoyi nd vi,in case there is any available.cal me on 08035830380,tnks in anticipation

hv bn luking 4 a job 4 long now,but i promise God,if he givs me a job,i wil offer him my 1st salary,now he haz given a job,and am xpetn my 1st salary bt my cnfusion is,i owe my landlady her rent nd she haz ask me 2 pay her nd i promise 2 pay her soon bt d money i also hv in mind 2 pay her wit,is dis same salary,who do i fufil my promise 1st.i dont tink my saalary is up2 my rent or mayb its dsame wit my rent.can i pay my rent 1st nd giv God d nex month salary,2 save mysef frm landlady embarasment,or pay God 1st 2 tnk him 4 his wondaful wok in mylife?

I got a an sms frm igi 2com 4a chat on tues 14th in dir ofce at adeola hopwel,i rote d test in 29 aug,went 4d 1st intavw in sept 6,nd nw de ar caln me again.Did any1 rcv d sms?Wt shd i xpt in ds chat?Is it d fnal intvw?Wtz dir anual take like?1.2,3,4,or wt.Any1 wit diz ans shd say.Tnk u.I aplied 4 customa kia nd admin.1 luv

mma gboo,ka udele ji ebe no osisi kporo nku - because of d shield a tree provides 4 d eagle during rainind dayz,makes d eagle com bak to a tree even in dry season,

explaination-a tree as we all no luks healthy during d rainin season,the livs ar more fresher nd broada,as at dt it provides sheild for the birds,they com there 2 take cova frm the hi intesity of d sun nd any oda harsh tin,in dry season,this tree loses its biuty,it widas,dry leaves,nd at dt loss it capability of providing sheild 4d birds,bt becos of the sheild,proctection etc tree provides 4 d birds during raining season,makes d eagle stil perch on it in dry season.


most times in life, our frnds,,buddies,colleagues,boda sistas etc,most hav dont gr8t tins 4 us 1 way or d oda in tymz wen we hav no body 4us and at d same tym,this dear 1s must hav hurt us badly dt it is imposible 2 4gv dem,nd dis mite brid malice,hatered and so on,bt wen u rememba hw such pple hav saved our ass 1 way or d oda,we let bygon 2b bygon nd flow freely wit dm. thnks

which university will b gud 4 ny masters,in management science here in nigeria,s i dnt hv money 2 go 2 abrod,useful info nd sujestion wil b welcomed,1 luv

plz cn any1 in d ouse giv me d web site 4 unilag,nd hw do i go abt my masters in d sch,wil b grateful 4 any useful info

Wen u tel u man ur past,say,d no. Of guyz u dated,wt trnspired in d r/shp,nd som oda nasty tins u did wile in sch.Wil he aprciate u or nt?2ndly hw risky is it?As 4 me,i wil tel hm evrytin necesary abt me,if he stil luvs me gud,if he doesnt,stil gud.What r ur difrnt opinions

i luv dis guy so so much dt am redy 2 kip him ,we ar both in our late 20ties but his 2yrs ahed of me,we ve bn 2geda 4 more dan 4months now,nd i luv him so dearly 4 so many tangible reasons mor dan he does,bt presently he his in d uk pursuin his mastas, wil b tru nex yr endn,honestly,dip inside me,am waitin patiently 4 him,nd i cn really wait 4 him witout cheatin,bt am sm hw scared dt he may 4get me 1 way or d oda,i dnt want 2 double date, nor kip any affair weda crious or uncrious,bt am so cnfuse,because suitors r on my nek bt my hat tinks wants dis guy,wt do i do,plz advise me

is it rong 2 luv ur boyfrnd more than he does,and hw do u no ur boyfrnd really luvs u