Tourching indeed,i nearly cried but because i have been so so so happy because am bring forth a great man soon by the special grace of God,i held my tears.

Bro,i dont really want to empathise with you so you will be stronger.i only want to tell you what i did to come out of this challenge.i will want to ask first? Are you a Winner? i mean do you worship in cannanland ota,ogun state? if you do,then,there is something you must have missed out but if you dont,try it with your wife,if possile do everything you can to tourch The Bishop's garmrnt,shoe,seat anything,and i am confident to tell you that your wife will be looking for her monthly cycle the next time.i put this to 10 women who needs the fruit of the womb,try it and see How God dont dispoint his prophets.I did this,and today am 6months gone and expecting twins,I pray that it works for you and the 10 others who may want to try The God of Shiloh,The God of faith Tabanacle and The God of Bishop Oyedepo.

God bless You.

But no one has answered the question,what will your wife do and you send her packing,

is misunderstanding btw you two enough?

is flirting enough?

diabolisim enough?

just what?

A Friend of mine was narrating her issue with her husband and i was shock of all she said.

she got engage to this guy 2yrs ago,just like every couples having there ups & downs,they have been having there as well,the guy base abroad and comes only in dec time,he came back this dec,and the wife took in by jan,they had a little misunderstanding and all the guy did was to call off the marriage,he call her parents to tell them its over,meanwhile the parents of my friend were waiting for them in the village with the elders,meanwhile she was 7weeks gone.

I ask her what she tell the husband,she said,he was calling her names so she got angry and told him,he is a shame,and a fool.(pregnant woman oo,who can be easily agitated).I THINK THIS IS WICKEDNESS

Guy what will your WIFE do and you send her packing

@ poster from the origination of your topic,it tells how lost you have been since birth,how unintelligent you are,how backward you are and you continue bringing condermnation to yourself and your generation.
my advice to you,pray to God to give you the grace to love him.it is when you have a heart for God,every other thing will take place.

Heavenly Father forgive these souls for they dont know what the are doing,let the rhema of shiloh hit them so the will encounter you and spread the gospel in Jesus name,Amen. God bless you.

Hi gal,my candid advise is, opportunity comes but once.if you are not in any r/ship or a serious relationship,your husby has shown up with no stress from your side,but if it slips away,you may not find the best.make hays while the sun shine.Women don't just shrink with age. They shrink EVERY DAY.

thank all,this is just the only problem i have with my husband to be,we can stay 6months without misunderstanding but anything that falls out beyound my control,he pick on it,1 annoying thing is if i bare my mind the way it is,he get angry the more,sometime i hord my anger with fears yet am boiling inside,i cant remember a day i waz angry with him and ddnt talk to him the whole of that day.its painful to me when he doesnt talk 2 me or send sms as he usually does,am so so so hurt,now am going for shiloh,i dont want to cry before god because of him.is it because am soft hearted?or because he knows i will alwayz beg or seek his face?am begging to think he enjoys the way i pet him wen i beg. my question is,should a man be so hard to his wife?

I HAVE KNOWN THIS GUY (A MAN I HAVE ACCEPTED TO MARRY) CLOSE TO A YR NOW,HE IS VERY WONDERFUL AND AN EPITOME OF A MAN BUT ANYTIME WE HAVE MISUNDERSTANDING,THE WAY HE HANDLES EVRY BIT OF IT BREAKS MY HEART,MOST TYMES,HE THREATENS ME WITH THE R/SHIP AND I BEG AND ASK FORGIVINES ANYWERE I HAVE GONE WRONG,AM NOT BEGGING JUST BECAUSE I WANT HIM DESPIRATELY BT AM AWARE THAT THE SUCESS OF ANY R/SHIP LIES IN THE HANDS OF THE WOMAN MOST.

PLZ,I WILL APPRECIATE IF ANYONE CAN TELL ME WERE I WENT WRONG,HE CALLED ME AT NITE AT AROUND 10PM,I WAS ALREADY FAST ASLEEP BECAUSE I HAD A ROUGH DAY IN D OFFICE,WHEN I PICKED THE CALLED,I BEGGED HIM LETS TALK TOMOROW THAT MY EYES WERE HEAVY WITH SLEEP,BUT HE INSIST THAT I MUST TALK,I TOLD HIM PLEASE I AM NOT STRONG TO TALK HE STILL INSIST SO I PUT MY FONE AWAY FROM MY EAR. THE NEXT MORNING,I CALLED TO APOLOGISE FOR NOT BEING ABLE TO TALK WITH HIM,HE PICK OFFENCE,I NARATED EVERYTIN THAT HAPPEND THE PREVIOUS NITE BUT HE REFUSE TO SAY ANYTIN N WAZ QUIET ON FONE (INT'NAL CALL)

I CALLED LATER IN THE DAY TO CALM HIM DOWN BUT HE WAZ STILL ACTING UP,I SEND SMS,ALL HE WIL REPLY IS OK,OK,OK. I DONT NO WHAT TO DO AGAIN,I TOLD HIM TO CALL ME LAST NITE ALL HE COULD TELL ME IS 'WELCOM AND GUDNITE'.THIS MORNIN,I CALLED HIS TWO LINES 2ICE,HE REFUSE TO PICK,I CALLED THIS EVENIN TWICE AGAIN,SAME ATTITUDE,HE SENT A TEXT WHICH READS,'HOPE ALL IS FINE TAKE CARE',I CALLED BACK AND HE PICKED,AND I ASKED WHATZ THE MATTER HE SAID NOTIN SO I TOLD HIM NOT TO GIV ME THAT,HE CANT SAY 'NOTHING'YET HE IS NOT DOIN HIS THING THE WAY I NO HIM,I RAN OUT OF AIRTIME AND AM PISSED AND HURT,I LUV HIM SO SO SO MUCH BUT HE IS SO HARD ON ME EVEN WHEN ITS NT NECESARRY,.WHAT DO I DO AGAIN?

i waz very close to my boss in the office (female boss),i took her as my mother,she was good and nice,until i annouced am gettn married,i intoduced my husby 2her,and he luvs her because i have alwayz told him good things about her,we later had what i wil call irreconciliable diference,she said so many ill things abt me in the office,the chief of all she said was that i wont give birth in my marriage,both my husby n i felt bad about this statement.(the woman am talkn abt has no husbnd nor child,her sista of 44 somtin yrs,is nt married either)anyway i started avoiding her,greeting her when i see her waz not easy,anyway,she told face to face she will frustrate me in this company.i no i cnt fall in her traps and she knows but know she is using mr ike whom i work directly with to hit him,
the issue now is that she is affecting my annual leave,she set some unnecesary rules to afect my leave becose she know i need it to spend tyme with my family,bt other of my colleage leave has been aproved for decemba,while i want 2 go fo my leave in january.she want me 2 resigned frm my job,what do i do?

i met my husband online,on facebook,but i neva had the intention of meetn my soulmate online same with him,i think God is involve,were eva ur man or woman is,you shall surely meet solong as you have God in ur life.
thnks

there is a saying that says 'when you think everybody is wrong,then you are the wrong person' fine i agree with this but not in all cases.for instance,in my wokin place,my closest pal,betrayed me,all the gist i told her in confidence,she splitted it out 2 everybody whom i have talked abt,my greatest annoyance is nt dat she said all these tins to this people bt she said what i ddnt say besides shw waz the 1 dt said more hurting n negative tings abt dem,now every1 is against me includin my superiors,and i just cnt say a word,nt even 2 defend mysef,am still in shork,i have refuse 2 c mysef as d wrong person as every1 tinks am wrong n against me,well,to be scincere,i dont feel guilty abt all the say, say, say,i say,u say,she say i say, etc my conscience is light and at peace,some who undastnd dt my sister (i took her as my sista) is only getn back at me becos of d issues we had months bak,came apologising,sayn that they were used to get at me.still i said notin in all dese false accusation,i liv everytin 2 God.

i applied for uk visa in june and waz denied because my account was inflated according to them,well,i forgot it bt my friend whom i want to visit in the uk has agreed with the consent of her husby to sponsor me,that is,i will present their papers,statement of account,passpot data page etc,just everytin necesary ,then my own statement of account and other tins necessarysomtym in noverba,as it will be nearly 6mnths i went to d embassy last,bt i dont know what i will tell d embassy who am i to this people as i feel they might not accept am visiting as a friend.plz give me an idea,i want 2 spend my xmas in the uk dis year.thnk you for ur kind words

i min funsoo and xchanger,padon me if my spellins ar wrong

thanks guys,in as much am not job hunting,i appreciate your good woks.i did like to have ur emails for xchnge of ideas,i will apreciate if u cn mail me on janefrances07@yahoo.com.more grease to ya elbow

Let be sincere here,i strongly believe wen a guy truly luv a girl wether he is still wooin her or he his dating her,i just know he goes some extra miles becos its from his heart,even if the is havin some challenges,he will be able to tell his gal all witout fear.and wen this guy doesnt nt luv u,he is full of excuses and neva forth coming,so gentle men,i want to know from you,if u truely luv a gal or your gal what do you and what do u not do?how do u make her hapy? i also want you guyz to say generally wat guyz do wen they ar truly in luv and wen they dont luv .thnks

My Ex boyfriend is the tru definition of LOVE

am happy nw,real men n women (mature pple) hav com in,million tnks @ chidipupay,lady gaga n sweetdoct247,i luv u all 4 ya comments,really deres is more to our story,gud n fine he is marrid,bt its nt my fault he is nt hapy with d marriage datz y he has been lukin 4me all ova d country,d day he caught me was in lagos in d chuch,he tailed me 2my ofce,nd dtz it,i cnt embaraz him either,so i took him away to tantaliza near my ofce,dere he said alot,i encourage hiim 2 embrace his mariage,wit a cincere heart bt he kips tellin me am his hapines,even wen he is in his with wife,he callz me duo he hides,send sms,so many tins,rememba we dated criously,so i cud easily fall 4 his luv again,he jos no d right tin to tel me at d right time,d wife has neva been my frnd b4 they got marrid,she haz atacked me in the past but i say a word 2 her insted her husbnd beats her 4 harrasin me because he knows i waz even avoidin him nd fightin for her cos,bt shez js uncivilsed,so as d husbnd is fallin 4me wit me witout me pushin or willing,am seein it as her own piece of all her insults to me,so God knowz that am nt puttn asunda,dat we didnt marry was byond our fight,if i had marry him,he wil stil b seein his wife n she cnt hndle him d way am handlin nw cos she luvs him more dan he does,sure am d only 1 that cn stop him,bt i hav a vry soft heart that wen he comz cryn i fil pity,i hav not slept wit him cins '07 we broke up,dat wat am realy avoidin because if it hapens,am sure d story line wil chnge.,again,is dat hav been scared to fall in luv again afta him,so dt fact dat no man is in my life yet ,makes it mor difucult,bliv me,he luvs me, n i do 2 but he has 2go,am nt enjoyin dis realy,bt am nt in a haste 2 sort it out,d wife my b hurt bt she shd make her husby hapy n nt fightin me,d mor she fights me ,d more her husby comz 2me,hw is it my fault?

Thnks kids,i actualy forgot dat kids vsit dis thread on wenesdayz,sory 4 getin u guyz angry,realy,its beyond children undastndn,u kids wil grow to hv one xpernce dt wil make u abnomal ,i pray u wil b able 2 hndle it.i stil luv my x bt let he be.we ar stil bst of frnds, kids did u hear me, yes aunty,ok,b a gud child,nd alwayz rmemba,dad n mum luvs u, tssskk

@tosyne007 tnks 4 the advice,my problem hw do i start leavin him alredy i enjoy everybit of his luv,he truly luvs me am in the best position 2 say dat,stil i want to liv him b4 we may find ourselves sleepn again,i no it wont b easy,bt i can try anytin i hav nt tried b4,minwile,we ar not in dsame state,i hav not consented 4him to vsit me,he can do anytin 4me trust me.its byond me honestly,he is d only guy dat know how my heart wok,am very stuborn,he just no hw bst to tame me,he worships me n i worship him to,am alredy findin it alitle difcult 2luv som1 else,if a, i dnt just no, crying

Well,in as much i asked for suggestion,i needed it from mature fellows and not people whom am sure are not better than i am,for the growin child callin me husband snatcher,am sure if u were in my shoes you would hav messed up,well,we didnt marry cos some issues came up when we did our introduction,it happened that his dad dated my mum waybak in the 70ties,mayb,mum broke his heart,but it waz his mum that kicked it more becos she's was afraid dat they (my mum n her husband)may continue again,infact,they poison my guys mind,stil he didnt care,he fightin the issue,wen i left because i have cin that i wont be happy,so he got married to his wife,we lost contact 4 2yrs,he kept callin me,beggin me to talk 2him bt i refused becos i no talkin 2him will distract him, wel its quite a long story,d fact is,i want 2 stop but he is makin it hard,he makes me dat his hapiness n life ar in my hands,am realy tired

All through my life,i have only have 3 dates,i have millions of admirers but i only dated 3 guys seriously,i may say 2 guys cos the 3rd 1 traveled out 4months afta we me,i dated him frm a distance b4 we dissolve 2weeks ago,my 1st date waz wen i was stil a student,in my 2nd yr,it lasted 4 4yrs and crashed,it took me a yr and 8mnths to recover and i picked up again,i met my 2nd bf,we started afta 8mnths of wooin,we lasted like a yr nd we tot it was ova,nw he his married but it seems to be the only that truly luv me,and i luv him too bt i dnt dream to be his 2nd wife nor to com inbtw them,bt i luv him so dearly,he luvs me more dan i do,stil i wish i could liv him but he wont take it,i cnt stop him,his mother cnt,his parents cnt,his frnds cnt,his pastor cnt,not even d wife can,who then can?yes,we are both strngly nd deeply atracted to each other but i realy want 2 take a walk because am foreseeing wahala in d future both in my side nd his side. Sujestions are welcomed

thanks alot ibkaye,justwise,mitcheli and daduke2k for all your contributions,honestly i have a big problem wen am in love and its,i find it difficult 2 pull out even wen am gettin d bitter side of it,because it wil cause me so much pain dat will weigh me down,phycally,mentaly and psychologicaly,i dnt really hav much problem if he is seein one else bt i just dont want 2 no that am not in his mind,anyway,i wil try and put mysef 2geda but its neva easy. the only bad thing i did is 2 luv him diply dtz y am hurt,all d same thanks once again,luv u all

please Nlanders,tell me were i went wrong, when my boyfrnd was leavin 4 the Uk 4 his masters,i said i shd wait for him and that i shoudnt hide anytin frm him as the case may b,i concord cos i luv him so so much,i neva stop calln wen he traveled,until less dan 2months he was there,here told me it isnt goin 2 work out btw us again for no tangable reason,i ignored dt because i truly luv him frm my heart,i did the callin everyday everyminute just to kip in toch,bt he still didnt show any concern abt me nd things i do,i handed everytin 2 God,i noticed and learnt that the chick keeping him company left Uk nd i guess she neva called him 4 a day,and my guy began to feel lonely,that was wen he started calln me,tellin me hw much i meant 2him,even beggin me 2 b calln him because i took a break dat period,wen it seems he was showin interst abt me,i resumed calln him again,then his chick came back 2 Uk, he stoped again,i also stoped too,afta 3 to 4 dayz i called him nd asked y he hasnt call me,he said he has nt gone out 2 credit his 4on 2 call nd he has bin busy with his project,for me dat is CRAB,i said ok,i didnt boda 2 calln him 4eva, cins he is busy.he called me last nite afta anoda 5dayz 2 querry me y hvnt i call,i simply said i hav bn busy wit offce wok nd hv nt bn able 2 rchaj my 4on,he got angry nd chelenge my xcuse and less concernly hung d 4on on me,bt i cnt b bodad. plz guyz and ladies hav i done any bad.truly i hav so many admirers but my heart stil long for him. wat do i do, dont advice me 2 quit plz unless wit stong reasons. thnks 4ur contribution

not only i nid an apartment,say 2bedroom flat,or a 1bedroom flat, around ikoyi-V I,i wil also need a good,godfearing,working class,young,dt has a reserve life like me,mature,sisterly love,ibo girl as a flat mate.well,i have sent some agent 2 look out for me,they ar at work,but if you are interseted 2 be my flatmate,mail me 2 show your interest,i will look 4d house but be ready to bring part of the money if i get one,i doubt if half of the pay will be up to 200k but stillhave up to that amount, email me mezdim@yahoo.com or call 08055818343. so if you have an accomodation 2 offer,selfcontain,1rm,2bedrm,plz contact me aswel,if you need a flat mate,hmmmmmmmmm,am interested,am nice 2 be with,very luvin.tnk you. plz am not a lesbian ooooooooooo

since my boyfrnd said we cant continue again wit the r/shp,i hav been finding it very very difficult 2 start another relationship,i hv tried nd tried hard 2 start one but its not just woking,my heart still wants him,i was able 2 minimize the way i call him 2 the lowest but wen eva i call him,he sounds he miss me 2,most times he argue why i didnt tell him i was sick nd all dat,(wel,it doesnt trip me)i just dnt know what to do.this is the 8month since he trvled,i only fill like doin anything lovers could do with him,no 1 else,have bcom so stiff that i dont have feelings 4 anyman be u who xcept 4 dis guy.i want 2 luv again,i want 2 luv som1 dat wil luv me just same way.but am findin it vry difficult what do i do?

people, what do you think?do our parents com to NL nd in d romance forum 2 hear uo deliberate on issues?well i use to tink that mayb the osus dont make gud wives,reproduce nd other vice,well only Jah will save us

what is the crime wit an outcast, 'osu", well, am not 1 but an enemy jos told a prospective suitor that am an out cast,and d guy turn his back at me,Gud n fine, i am not an outcast,wat does it entails,watz the crime,well i dont know alot dat,so it didnt boda me,i hva 2 sisters,they are married,their husby came 2 ask afta them secretly in d villa,wateva they heard,didnt change their intention for their luv,cud it b that these men were also told that we are outcast nd they went ahead marryin  d gals,now they are all livin happily.well i want 2 no the crime of an outcast in in d society,me i fil d wold has change 4 good,


to the guyz:a woman u dated for 2,3 yrs nd onwads and u ar redy 2 marry her nw,nd all of a sunden u were told shes an outcast,wat wil u do.

all u girls are simply jelos of dis lucky sista,my dear,you are very lucky,its rare to c a guy who have the spirit of giving,swithat,be ur best in ur affair with him,even if he is goin astray,call him to track,above all put everytin in prayers,only prayers will preserve him for you,you are favoured,dont mind all this jelous girls,they just wish they are in ur palace,hold it tight

well as they say, the voice of the people is the voice of God,i appreciate all ya contributions,but am jost ahead od any game pla he is afta,even if his wife is no more,cnt b a 2nd wife 2 him,all d same i enjoy d callz cos,am not talkn,i listen,its not my airtym that is burning,even if he rechajs for me,i dont say thnks by calln or sms,mayb its because am lonely datz y i still pik his call,if it were oda wise,it wud b different,but ,

i appreciate all ya contributions,but the truth is that, i cant change my no. jos because of 1 mad man,what we really share was very strong, infact he make remenince about them wen ever we talk,but all those crab doesnt move me,even duo am not in a relationship i cant take him back,he should learn to luv his wife,what am still askin,what is his problem,cos its abnormal as far as am concern,again,there are so many reasons y he luvs me,if he should list 5,bliv me "sex" is neva 1 of them,he is simply happy wen eva he is with me,i dont even know how i won his heart so diply,but i no am capable of makin a man happy alwayz,we neva quarrelled wile we were dating,anyway,its quite a long story,but i tot by now he shd hv got ova me like i have done,his callz nd lov he profess 2 me have no effect on me nw

cvibe,i cant change my no. cos of him,besides he is not torturing me psychologicaly,it only make me wonder,i hav move on

@ charminme,did u say tired?he is vry stuborn,am telling u that since i said i dont want d r/ship nd marriage stuff,he haz neva let me be,i hv insulted him so may times but believe me my insult is d only he can tolorate,insted he kip beggin me 2 forgv him,he is alwayz happy anytime i stay 4mins on fone wit him cos i dont pick his call nor spik wit him,he is doin fine now,hw works with an oil servicing company,y is he not happpy wit all his money,well i pity him ooooooo but i cnt help.he said he will neva stop,the highest he can do is to take a break for 4dayz and start again,he said i hv not forgivn him datz y i dont talk 2 him and i dont want to see him,so now,i talk to him, and he sound so happy,he tells me am his soul mate,am his queen, and dat he luvs me strongly,wat is really happenin 2 him

its 3years now we seperated, he got married last year june,but ever since i said its ova, he has neva allow me be,2weeks afta his trad-wedding,he was asking me out,i mean,we should travel some where,4days afted his white weddn,he was still calln me asking me out,from my side,eva since i said its ova,i stop picking his callz,i neva flashed nor call him,even when he hides his no.2 call,once i hear his voice,i hang up,it all started dis last valantine,he callz me like mad,afta insulting him,he said no matta hw i insult him,he stil respects me nd he is beggin dat i should 4giv him 4 all he did to me,he said he wants us 2 be frnds, but i no dat is not possible cos am sure he stil have strong feelns for but me,i dont really have dat feelings bt i no my feeln can possibly grow for him with time if i allow him 2 b my frnd.now my question is,what does this guy still wants from me?i was d 1 dt dont want 2 marry him for my own reasons,his present wife,is his 2nd choice afta me,so marriage isnt wants seperated us,but he betrayed me reall bad,he said so many false tins abt me 2 b pple dat care 2 hear.plz can u guyz tell me wants his problem? cud it be he is not happy wit his marriage?as for me am ahead of him,cnt go bak or have anytin 2 do with him