₦airaland Forum

Ugosample:
Better leave that one

You obviouskt have no clue about what is happening..

Do You know how many married men are bullied to have sex with their female bosses against their will?

You people are probably teenagers talking here, go to the workplace,and see the harassment men AND women too go through, then you will not be talking like this

why is it only married men that get all the fun

Aimosagie:
Smh.. let's do a small test to the effect that a man cannot genuinely be raped..you guys are just basking under sexual harassment ish and blaming hormones for responding and entirely enjoying this harassment. Before nko? Is it not hormones that control every human person? So what's your excuse for not being able to keep it in check? Lol
Abeg for all those guys looking to be sexually assaulted, quote this comment and let's hook up.. forget the pretence of your fellow sons of man

I don quote with Tiri comma sef. mowu hook o

jhudit:
Men are more sexually harassed?
Talk another story
They are harassed, but it can never be more than that of women.

Now people are claiming female bosses harass them, the same female bosses that are unnecessarily rude?

more than you think
Nov more than women
that's how you fail exam
jumping to conclusions like cane rat

Aimosagie:
My guy.. gbagbe oshi jare.. which psychological trauma to a man is it that you are talking about?? Even on this nairaland, you see the guys commenting and begging to be sexually harassed so biko what are you saying? A man cannot be raped except he truly wants it.. whatever regret he feels later on (if there's any) is just his conscience eating at him. Sex is something a man sees as a trophy he just acquired.. another puna he has conquered and will brag about it to other guys who care to listen and who will still be weirdly envious of the dude's conquest. So I say again..my guy, gbagbe oshi.

if na you de harass no problem beht e get some mama wen no make sense
altho this your bad mouth fit no allow man prik stand sef
as in
if the woman looks like multicolored bleached stretchmarks, varicose veins bulgy eyedno ass no hips no legs slippers boobs o. that's a Fredrick Kruger moment raght thar'

missyadorable:
How can a man be complaining of sexual harrassment?
Men always want sex...Something they chase,spend money on,tell lies to get being offered on a platter of gold irrespective of the person or location is a plus

having sex with his boss/colleague at work is a mega achievement.Something to discuss with the guys at a bar over chilled beer and be applauded and envied by peers.

Unless a child under 18years,there is nothing like male sexual harrassment.
An invitation for sex is every man's dream.

Nov if the woman looks like multicolored bleached stretchmarks, varicose veins bulgy eyed no ass no hips no legs slippers boobs o. that's a Fredrick Kruger moment raght thar'

you are the unrefined bullcrap person.
more than you think
Nov more than women
2 out of 1000 is greater than 1 out of 1000
read
comprehend
think before you reply

Aimosagie:
Lol..because it is absolutely impossible to rape a man except his body truly wants it. He needs to be hard for a woman to even attempt the rape in the first place, and he needs to be sexually turned on by whatever he sees or feel. This isn't the same for the woman and we all know this. So even if there is something like sexually assaulting a man, it's hard to believe a man can be raped if we're honest with ourselves.

clearly you've never been rimmed before

Abduljohn:
I think the best way to eradicate this is to establish a law and government institution to deal with it. If their is no law where the victim isn't protected it ll continue but when law protects victim and institution prosecute it ll reduce but its difficult to eradicate unless the difference between the poor and the rich is reduced to a minimal.

I was a victim while working in an office. This was from 3 different ladies

1. Your lips is sexy I feel like kissing you the kind marathon fear ran in him pass Bolt ow.

2. She just hold my thing inside office and said I feel like feeling the strenght of this thing

3. This one cornered me. I went visiting but innocently ate and left all of me to leave her place a text I got was a kind of not being man enough to have visited a lady without giving her a dose of ur stuff.



Anyway its an experience that taught me lesson on pple around working place and its being years now

so no law against stray bullet, or police brutality, or robbery or kidnapping or corruption abi?

columbus007:
Op, are you suppose to come here and be seeking advice from naralanders or you are suppose to get all the details about it from the internet?i dont understand some people nowadays.

so if police put 'police is your friend ' or immigration put 'online passport ' on internet you go believe just like that.? no wonder Nigeria hi the way it is

smartty68:
Without saying much and even though our policies are epileptic...

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Abi the guys below don't agree on the same thing?

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una gree enter farm?

Boscojugunu:
see the rubiish Jonathan did. That guy is a curse to Nigeria

you de mine them and yet they voted 98% for the buffoon

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why the owerri con empty like dat na. why dia ppl run come south west

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who told you it's a lawless country. even Somalia gas laws. just that they are unwritten. find the laws find the redress.

M2dX:
When i still small , i saw things, nobody know till now.

gist us

CareerHubAfrica:
Google ‘Sexual Harassment in the Workplace’ and you will discover that 90 percent of the image results you see depicts a woman being harassed by a man.

Women are 9 times more vulnerable to sexual harassment at work than men. This may be true, but have you ever stopped to think how often men are subjected to such things?

Sexual harassment is an unwanted sexual advance or request for sexual favor usually done physically or verbally. It can be from boss to subordinate, supervisor to subordinate or even co-worker to co-worker. Sexual harassment is a silent epidemic that has eaten deep into the Nigerian workplace. Actually, it has become so common that people are beginning to see it as a norm. Statements like these have become the order of the day – “As long as there is a boss and a subordinate somewhere, irrespective of gender, there will always be sexual harassment”. “It is normal”. “Don’t make a big deal out of it”. To make it worse, the economic situation of the country makes many succumb to harassment, even when they find it disturbing. They refuse to speak up for fear of losing their jobs.

Undoubtedly, men are responsible for a good number of sexual harassment in the workplace. But men are also targets and victims of this same menace, and we often forget that. Maybe it seems like it doesn’t exist because most men actually deal with the harassment head on and then shrug it off. Let me give you a typical scenario.

Jane, a female staff of a small food processing company, harassed a new intern assigned to work with her department. She constantly made snide comments and asked him offensive questions like “How large is your pen***”.

At some point, she started taking it as far as groping him whenever they were alone in the office. This intern tried many times to tell her off nicely but she wouldn’t oblige. He dealt with it silently and never reported her to the authorities because he had seen her couple of times going in and out of the CEO’s office at odd times including after work hours. He thinks she is actually sleeping with the boss and if he reports this, he would be out the door before you say jack!

This is just one of many scenarios, cases like this go on in our workplaces on a daily basis. Harassment is the same, be it to a male or female and should be treated the same. The disturbing experience of harassment leaves the victim often frustrated, depressed and angry. As it is considered normal office culture, many people who go through this don’t feel confident that the problem is big enough for them to speak up.

What can we do to eradicate this bug eating itself through our workplaces?

Nigeria does not have very stringent rules with regards sexual harassment. Some people think reporting harassment cases is completely useless. Because even those you are reporting to are somewhat guilty of the same offence and you might end up with nothing or even lose the job.

So what can we do to stop this?

What do you suggest? Leave your comments below.

Article on our blog - https:///IO1xzw

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CareerHubAfrica:
Google ‘Sexual Harassment in the Workplace’ and you will discover that 90 percent of the image results you see depicts a woman being harassed by a man.

Women are 9 times more vulnerable to sexual harassment at work than men. This may be true, but have you ever stopped to think how often men are subjected to such things?

Sexual harassment is an unwanted sexual advance or request for sexual favor usually done physically or verbally. It can be from boss to subordinate, supervisor to subordinate or even co-worker to co-worker. Sexual harassment is a silent epidemic that has eaten deep into the Nigerian workplace. Actually, it has become so common that people are beginning to see it as a norm. Statements like these have become the order of the day – “As long as there is a boss and a subordinate somewhere, irrespective of gender, there will always be sexual harassment”. “It is normal”. “Don’t make a big deal out of it”. To make it worse, the economic situation of the country makes many succumb to harassment, even when they find it disturbing. They refuse to speak up for fear of losing their jobs.

Undoubtedly, men are responsible for a good number of sexual harassment in the workplace. But men are also targets and victims of this same menace, and we often forget that. Maybe it seems like it doesn’t exist because most men actually deal with the harassment head on and then shrug it off. Let me give you a typical scenario.

Jane, a female staff of a small food processing company, harassed a new intern assigned to work with her department. She constantly made snide comments and asked him offensive questions like “How large is your pen***”.

At some point, she started taking it as far as groping him whenever they were alone in the office. This intern tried many times to tell her off nicely but she wouldn’t oblige. He dealt with it silently and never reported her to the authorities because he had seen her couple of times going in and out of the CEO’s office at odd times including after work hours. He thinks she is actually sleeping with the boss and if he reports this, he would be out the door before you say jack!

This is just one of many scenarios, cases like this go on in our workplaces on a daily basis. Harassment is the same, be it to a male or female and should be treated the same. The disturbing experience of harassment leaves the victim often frustrated, depressed and angry. As it is considered normal office culture, many people who go through this don’t feel confident that the problem is big enough for them to speak up.

What can we do to eradicate this bug eating itself through our workplaces?

Nigeria does not have very stringent rules with regards sexual harassment. Some people think reporting harassment cases is completely useless. Because even those you are reporting to are somewhat guilty of the same offence and you might end up with nothing or even lose the job.

So what can we do to stop this?

What do you suggest? Leave your comments below.

Article on our blog - https:///IO1xzw

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luscioustrish:
Having sex on the first date or not doesn't guarantee anything.

Only matured men won't see anything wrong with that.. And again




Sex is overrated.

no it's not. not with those luscious legs anyway

sticknatt:
I think Nigerian government should stop issuing guns to these men until its necessary and also have a strict disciplinary department for these kinda issues.. Cuz without the guns they wouldn't dare assault an innocent citizen

hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
funny guy
you actually think the police is for you.
no my naive friend they are there for the rich and powerful to cheat you the masses

KenModi:
I wld prefer that organisation goes after the policeman and seek justice for the victim rather than just give him money and we all go home happy.

Tomorrow, it could be me or you that would be assaulted.

Ehnnn when e reach us we will find solution, till then.shebi we're waiting for it to reach us?

hollawaley2:
naija police and human right abuse..........am tired of all this.


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what are you doing to change it

smackimorn:
Oga thinker, what's the GDP of North Korea compared to Nigeria?

what percentage of Korea GDP do they spend on military, how much do we spend? will you be happy if we're wasting money on needless hardware when farmers need tractors? think wella before replying

meezynetwork:
Mtshew, this na wetin weilder fit do with carbide

wetin you think say dem de take weld for Yankee? gold abi.

hero2000:
For GDP we pass North Korea well well.

OK I fuckup.
meanwhile nk spend ⅓ of their 25 billion dollar GDP (8 billion) =3.2 trillion naira
how much do we spend on ours.?

Bede2u:
Actually Lagos state of just over 20 million people have a larger gdp than north korea of over 50 million. NK is really a poor but powerful country

poor, powerful in the same sentence?

AngelicBeing:
Not again, where is my acidic cane to flog these vampire and satanic agent, looter, vultures, wicked politician infested with the virus of stealing and embezzlement

you that ordinary 1 million you go begin de praise dem

Ebenstyles:
[b]SOURCE: http://www.thekalabaris.com/2017/04/22/nigerias-breakup-is-inevitable-senator-okurounmu/

because him no see fertiliser moni tif again. bastard Yoruba man

Igboesika:
Sometimes I laugh when some people think that this country would last for ages. If we are divided like this just after 57 years of independence, then what would happen in the next 100 years when people must have been highly exposed and enlightened.
?

The earlier we go our separate ways now and avoid more killings, hatred, unpatriotism and marginalisation, the better.
Nigeria is just postponing the inevitable.
As for Nigeria to last for centuries.. IT'S VERY IMPOSSIBLE. I repeat .. IT'S IMPOSSIBLE !!.

I pity some poor people on this forum shouting " one Nigeria ", your own case would be worst because , you are creating more problems for your children and generation to come. You and your children have no place to run to when things gets out of hand, unlike the rich ones that can easily fly out of this contraption when things are becoming unbearable for them which has started happening already.

Imagine some people getting furious when you address them as Nigerians...
What is left if not disintegration ?.
Let's stop deceiving ourselves and call a spade a spade. We are not united and can never be.

they should disintegrate na. shebi it's by mouth they will leave. till oyel finish bo

ramdris:
Bring it on!

Frankly speaking ehn, I don't really mind breaking up Nigeria so far it will be done without firing a single bullet...

which magic. unless oil become irrelevant

BrightAhiah:
He's dead, so I've forgiven u

well I haven't

hero2000:
For GDP we pass North Korea well well.

per capita income nko
Nov to mention misplaced priorities

Smart41:
Mtcheeeew.... na this kind thing their mate dey display?.. .. Dis one sef no fit kill matured bush rat sef... lol.

This one na knockout compared to north Korea own

you be North Korea mate in GDP? think before you talk

kinah:
itumo?
bros borrow ur self brain o

me abi you wan de find ready made go lease d laka?