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Dear nairalanders,
My mother inlaw just gave up the ghost this morning by 4:20 am @ holy ghost adoration ministry uke.
R. I .P chukwudiebube juliana, ADIUE it shall be well.

Sapphiredamsel:
Choi, you don vex? Just ignore him. @poster, post your account details underneath my comment. I said I couldn't find your details and you still referring me back to it.if u still need it,post it. If not, ignore this comment. Thanks

This is it a/c 6011348842 Fidelity bank.
mba ikemefuna isaiah.

This is it A/c no 6011348842 fidelity bank. Mba ikemefuna isaiah. Thank you

Schwartz:
You are a LAZY man. You got "waist dislocation"for carrying cement.this is a job that women do o, just so their family can eat. Yet you produced 3 children, for who to feed? I have been reading your sob stories from page 1. Even though the pictures you uploaded refused to show.
I would have wired you some money but no, I also do back breaking jobs too. If I marry this kind of man eh?! let me not talk

You can call me names but i know i wount be for ever.

blank:
What is the surname of the patient?

The surname is chukwudiebube.

mysticgal:
You are a very nice person... Trust me and may God bless you.
How can this guy be so foolish to be typing all the time but his kids ate orange.... Truth is, I wanted to help but he just not been sincere, so I'd just let go.
Mtcheww

Its not a must for you to help me.

Sapphiredamsel:
Hehe, interestingly amazing. @op, send your acct details (can't find it). Note that whatever you say here,if not true, may actually come to pass and me sending it isn't because you've seen a "maga" or I'm stupid. Just send the acct no, and let us rest.
Meanwhile, as a full bloodied man, go and look for menial jobs to do.
It's men like you that would still be demanding respect upandan.

@Sapphiredamsel my accoun details is in the front page of this post.
I am not here to scam any body rather am here to seek for help and promise that what ever that is giving to me here as progresses i will update it here for people to see and know.
Thank you

sisisioge:
Notice how he kept hammering on the fact that the breadwinner, his wife, is not around to fend for them? We just have to collectively gift him prayers...he needs it more.

I am proud of my wife, a wife is a helper in the family my wife stood by me during this trying times so i have no regret mentioning her.

InformedLola:
Now this is the point. Whether his story is true or not is secondary. That an able bodied man will watch his children go hungry and the best thing he will think of doing is beg, is just disgusting.

Is better for me to beg and get help start doing something than joining able bodied armed robber, able bodied kidnappers, able bodied thiefs.

Onegai:
OP, it seems a bit weird that you could borrow N100 for a Recharge card but allowed your children eat oranges. Are you in the village, because food is cheaper there and at least you could have asked a neighbour to feed the children and watch them as you work (that is reasonable and just buy one yam or something as "thank-you" for the neighbour afterwards). I mean, I just don't know but you're losing credibility. It looks like parts of your story is true but you're twisting other parts. All the best to you.

No twisting sister but a reality, things are not the way you see it or think.

Last time i went to do concrete work which am not used to.
The measurement is 8 head pans of stone, 10 head pans of sand mixed with one bag of cement for #500 .
Before i finished carrying mixture of one bag of cement i got waist dislocation, then the #500 was used for buying drugs i laid low for 1 week so sister is not easy for me.

freecocoa:
Telling the whole world that you couldn't find food for your kids for a whole day but would rather sit with your phone writing sob stories about it, is not shameful enough? Abeg oga you are disgustingly lazy and I'm not saying that because you hit hard times, anyone can get broke but what you do about it, is key.

You sound very annoying, mschew.

Is not every body can open up the way i did, a lot of people are in difficulties.
I came here to seek for help so i can start something and beg no more, but i can understand were you are coming from you know robbers are not lazy, kidnappers are not lazy, pick pocketers are not lazy too etc. But i chose to beg.

freecocoa:
Like seriously? You are asking if it's believable that you and your kids ate nothing but oranges like that is actually supposed to make one pity you, smh.

What kind of a father are you biko? You couldn't find any food in the whole of awka etiti, what has the men of today become? No shame, no strength to work nothing nothing, tufiakwa!

You have Internet and phone to keep updating this thread but you couldn't figure a way to give your kids even garri, ifere megbuo gi, rubbish, igbo men aren't known for this type of behaviour at all, nonsense.

You can say what ever you like but you will not understand, do you know that its better for me to ask for help here than to involve my self in act that will bring shame to my family.

ifyalways:
Interesting.

You as a father, able bodied could not go out to look for work to do, earn some money and provide food for them because there is Nld right? This is just so annoying, no thanks to folks that enable and encourage you guys.

So at Awka, Enugu ukwu or whatever village you are at now, there's no one that could hire you for a day or few hours to work on his farm, thatch fence or roof or whatever else and pay you with foodstuff if no money? You prefer to starve the children while waiting for nld unlimited.

Continue

One thing you should know is that no codition is permernent, since my wife is not here and i have 3 kids to look after the last one is 1yr plus i can not live him behind because my kids can not take care of their self if i live them at home and you know these i dont want to look for any of my child.
Like i said before i pray that you witness what am going through.
Thank you.

ifyalways:
You don't have to send me the pics, don't waste your money or data on that. I'm just surprised cos as at 3 years ago, you appeared to be single.

With what you just said now i dont think you know me well because as of 2010 even before i got married i have moved down to awka. Yes i have to send it so that every body will and to prove you rong.

blank:
I have a friend in Enugwu Ukwu now. Let me know the name of the hospital so she can confirm for me.

@ blank the name of the hospital is okpala hospital enugwu ukwu by ezi elias as if you are going to nimo.
The name the patience is chukwudiebube juliana, let the person also confirm going to the hospital.
Thank you.

DLondonboiy:
'oga, I feel your pain o..take this 30k do ya biz and from ya gain, sort ya self and ya family..e go better my brother' if he is genuine.. na him sabi...if he is fraudster..na him sabi

or u can say..
' oga go Bleep ya self..for this buhari recession? nobody gat ya time Man..' if he is genuine..na him sabi..if he is a fraudster..na him still sabi..

cos after all these questions...one naira no fall out, e no go funny...

I don't even know if its me that is taking or the weed...
I gat some good weed here bruh

Thanks for corncern.

EfemenaXY:
Nne, they don't give up. And to think I wasted my entire Sunday here with my church mind waiting for him to cook up "proof".

What a time wasting thread. Mtcheeew.

@op: without solid proof, I wish you well.

#Thread unfollowed#

You did well sir even though you may not help me but i appreciate your questions it makes me to explain my self more so that people will understand my condition better.
Before i forget, could you believe that me and my kids did not taste any thing called food this sunday only the orange that is in our compound and this is the second week since school started but they will not be going to school again.
Only god knows if i am scam or not, i am at the mercy of god i hope it shall be well.

EfemenaXY:
@op.

So over 100k paid on behalf of your mother in law's treatment and no single shred of evidence. No prescriptions from the doctors. No receipts of payment to the hospital. Your relatives weren't helping apart from buying drinks. Now they've miraculously cleared the entire bill.

Your kids' school don't issue receipts. So no proof on that angle equally.

Do you have proof of anything at all?

Sir if you go through my explanation you will find out that my wife is in hospital with her mum while am at home with the kids so we are not at the same place.
There is no how i can know what is in the receipt until i get intouch with my wife .
I have promise to post the hospital bill here as a proof as soon as i have them, even my wife did not know that i brought this issue on nairaland.
Thank you.

EfemenaXY:
Yesterday you said:



And today you say:



So which is it? They helped or didn't?

And since you say it's been totally cleared off before you opened up this thread, why mention it if it's a non-issue?

The relations i mean is from my own side not the side of my wife.
My mother inlaw relations contributed money for the payment.
I am confused, i mentioned it so that people will know what we are going through.

ifyalways:
The internet is indeed a small world. And yes I know you, don't recall you being married. For the sake of your family and late brother,I'll take a back seat.

Anyhoos, People change, it is well. May God help and sustain you.

Yes the internet is a small world, i wanted to send my traditional marriage pics for you to confirm but its not bright due to the time but i will do that in the morning.
I know that some people will find it difficult to belive due to the way things are but a pray that you dont witness what am passing through.
Thanks.

EfemenaXY:
If they don't issue receipts, how do they keep track of who's paid and who hasn't?

How do you prove you've paid?

Ok this is how we use to do it, normaly their teachers has a register for collection of school fees.
When i get to their teachers, assuming their fees is 1000k and i have only #500 with me the teacher will register the #500 and write the balance then i will sign my signature.
Every thing will be done in my presents so that way they will know who paid and who did not.
Thank you.

[quote author=EfemenaXY pos
When we got the news about her condition my wife went to nimo were she was staying according to my wife her mum could not talk or walk, she then took her to the hospital at enugwu ukwu where she was admited and the doctor run a test on her and discovered that her supar level is on the highest side.
For a week and some days she was in coma, she was giving drip times without number at a time the doctor requested for blood.
All this info is coming from my wife when ever she calls and last time she visited i saw the hospital bill by then it was about 74k so as the treatment continues the bill increases.
Like i said earlier my wife called me on friday to inform me that they sold her fridg and television to finish the bill before taking her to adoration ministry uke.
She called on saturday to inform me about her urine turning to blood .
I have called her severaly since that saturday but her line is switch off.
This is all i know for now, thank you.

EfemenaXY:
Re: your kids school fees, you say you've relocated to the village, so what sort of schools do they attend there? Private? Or Nursery?

And do all three of your kids attend school including your 1yr 9month old?

And is what is owed for all three of them? I'd also like you to post the receipts on here too, pls.

Thanks.

For my kids they attend public school, the last one is not yet in school.
My dauther just finished nursery 3 last term so she will be moving to primary 1 this term, then my son will be moving to nursery 2 this term.
For their school fees recipt, normaly here they dont issue recipt all the teacher does is write it down on a piece of paper and put it inside their school bag or pin it on their uniform for us to see.
Thanks and ready for more questions.

[quote author=EfemenaXY post=49663800]Okay let's take these one at a time, starting with your mother-in-law. I asked you very specific questions to which I'm still expecting answers to, namely:
Sir am sorry for not respondy early enough it was due to my mb got finished i have to borrow #100 to continue.
For my inlaw medication and the drugs she takes, i dont have the idea because am not with them at the hospital but i know that my wife has all the info including the hospital bill recipt.
Up till now my wifes line is switch off, i pray as soon as get her i will ask her to bring the needed detail over here so i can post it here.
For the hospital bill, i said earlier that they have finished the payment with the help of my wifes uncle who gave 43k and others that contributed.
The payment was done instalmentaly, they sold her refridgerator and television to complete the payment just 3days ago but never the less i will post all the details here as soon as i get intouch with her, kindly bear with me.
Tanx

@Efemenaxy
My wife has been in the hospital with mother since july because she cant walk with her two legs so my wife took her to holy ghost adoration ministry uke o friday but she called me yesterday morning that her mum is urinating blood and deficating blood each time she wants to.
The rev sisters advice her to take her back to hospital but i adviced her to take her to their village so that their people could see her and her condition because my wife can anything again about her sickness.
Up till now i have not heared from her, her line is switch off.
For widow she is teaching in federal girls college but what we did was that we urged her to report the matter to the millitary which she did and the called my dad to confirm it because the full benefit is yet to come we dont know when but hopefuly it will not come through him and i think they have invited him for questioning.
Thank you once again for your concern.

@Efemenaxy thanks for concern.
I have three kkids a girl and two boys, my first dauther is 5yrs and 4 months, my first son is 3yrs while the last is 1yr 9 months.
Their school fees is #2350 each we are owing #3100.
My business plans is that i want to go into bar soap production,how i intend to go about it is if i have a capital of 30 to 80k for example i know the materials and ingridients to buy .
For the profit it depends on the amount i start with, lets say i start with 40k after sells i could be getting 60 to 70plus it depends my effort.
I would need about 60k to start but i dont have a choice so any thing giving to me will be appreciated.
For the rent, when things got worst we moved down to village though its close to the capital, so i dont have rent issues.
My mother in law her hospital bill is more than 100k but they have been paying it instalmentaly, was only day before yesterday my wife called and told me that they sold her refrigerator and television to clear the remaining bill.

VikingsOO7:
thread shut down.

@Vikings007 not as you think brother.

ifyalways:
Ikem of Affar Street Onitsha,are you sure of this your story and that you are not the so-called prodigal son?

When did you marry?

Recognise this number 09090948565 ?

@Ifyalways if am not sure of what am saying i will not bring this to nairaland, secondly i got married since 2010 and the number is mine but i lost it early this year so am yet to wellcome it back.
So if you claim to know me well, you should know that am married and you should also know my family story .
If you need more proof, i will show you more thanks.

Mindfulness:
My deepest condolences.
May your brother receive sense.

I pray so

Mindfulness:
Who did the burial now?

And is it true that a Nigerian soldier's family gets no compensation at all even though the soldier died serving his country?
And they have the audacity to send you bills?
Like seriously?

Our dad did the burial he took a loan for the burial, the burial was done on july 17 2015 while the military called on march 2016 for burial expenses and benevolence fund.

tearoses:
I feel more sorry for the wife
The poor woman who became a widow after 6 only months marriage but not a penny received in death benefit after her husbands death even though he served his country.
Only the baba mentioned the wife; no one else cares.
The poster is even trying to borrow N50k from the same money that his brother has/is squandering
I imagine what would have happened if Daniel left kids. Thats even assuming that the wife is not pregnant now. Everything gone!
It is well
Dont let me say anything about this family.

My brother my situation is very bad that before i ask him for 50k our dad was away including the widow even though we all know that he may not agree.

Ishilove:
Eyah. This is quite sad. I hope someone is touched to assist you.

@Ishilove Thanks for your concern and i pray so.