₦airaland Forum

virginpulp5:
Why do blacks have a higher mortality rate than whites?

Blacks eat junks. Majority of drug addicts in the states are blacks.

cococandy:
But you think blacks are ugly too. why upset when someone agrees with you?
Because their object of ridicule is not black girls but you a black guy?

Didn’t know racists look at all blacks with the same lenses?

When did we discuss this? Or have you mistaken me for your ex?

KanwuliaExtra:
It is the duty of your woman to protect you against her family and vice versa.

Just don’t prove to them that you a “down-low” black. Make yourself a good example for the black race.

As for walking away? It depends on what is MOST important to you.

Your choice.

Thanks

cococandy:
Oh now you understand what it feels like to experience undeserved hate?
Na the people wey dey advice you I blame.
Team foreign girls. Good luck!

Explain the bolded

Rozz:
leeches everywhere smh

cococandy you mean?

LilMissFavvy:
Ignore the negative people and go for it. As long as her love is genuine you both will always sail through till the haters are filled with jelousy.

Thanks

frozen70:
You have to relax your mind

She is the one to fight for your space in her family

Their fears are about the negative news they hear about blacks

So you have to make a difference and let them know that you are not like the others

Keep loving her family and never give up

You have great chances because she loves you more

Above all, put it to God in prayers both of you

If she really loves you, she will convince her family

It's either they allow her do what will make her happier or jeopardise it

As for you, make sure you love her till death if she succeeds in convincing her family, if you messes her up, they will mock her and it will definitely catch up with you considering the battle she fought for your sake

Not just negative news. They say blacks are ugly.
Thanks bro

Hmmm
Who fed them?

techtechh:
Please let her go. If it was just one family that don’t like you it could be another story. What’s er father’s opinion about it. Racist are very dangerous, especially the ones who are vocal about it even in your present. They are even orchestrate your death to protect their daughter depending on the country laws.

Go to where you feel loved

Her dad is late.Her mum, sister, aunt etc are the ones living. And she's glued to her family.

missimelda01:
If you're going to marry her, she must also be ready to give her family some space. You both can relocate to somewhere far and start a family there.

Thanks

missimelda01:
If it's to pray, then pray
If it's to convince them, then please try your best.

I don't really like the idea of marrying a person without their family's support. But if nothing is working, follow your heart.

It's not even about me. For me, I would care less. Because they are not paying my bills. It's about my kids. How would they feel give grandmom rejects them?
I love the girl and she loves me.

CAPSLOCKED:
YOU WANT TO WALK AWAY BECAUSE CERTAIN PEOPLE DON'T LIKE YOU? MAKES NO SENSE.
IF TWO OF YOU CAN WORK THEN THEY HAVE NO OPTION THAN TO LIKE YOU IN FUTURE EVEN IF IT MEANS TO PRETEND TO.

Thanks. My fear is the future. Anything can happen. She spend most of her free time with family and they might just spoil her mind towards me in future. I don't want to have kids from a broken home.
How would her family welcome my kids? My kids would someday want to go spend time with their grandmom. Would they be welcomed?

ojun50:
If you love her fight for it

You don't understand it. You're been looked down on by your girl's family. When she's on a video call and she's with her younger sister I will tell her I want to say hello to her sister the sister won't want to talk.
At first I do thought that the reason is because she's not fluent in English

Vyzz:
Both of u should discuss this

Oh! Almost all the time. Sometimes she try to make her family see that not all black people are bad. She has tried her best. She doesn't have a problem. She want us to get married. But my concern is her family.

Daroldigits:
Do you know how to pray? Prayer solves a lot of issues more complicated than this.

Hmm! Thanks

Numero9:
Okada wait make I ask OP Queshon!
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Why were you arrested?

I had an issue with a customer in my former place of work.

Numero9:
Better girl!
Them fit dey for Nigeria but where them dey for inside the Nigeria?

OP, you both are in love, marry her!
Having a good, responsible and wifeable woman in this generation is like finding a needle in Sahara desert!

Guy marry her, her family don't like blacks that's thier problem!

MARRY HER(3X)!!!!!!

Make sure you post the invitation card, inviting nairalanders!!!!!

Hmmm! Thanks

Tadeknkeepcalm:
Forgive my gbeborun, but why were you arrested?

I seriously doubt this stories. Even racists can't be so brazingly racist.

I had an issue with a customer in my former place of work.
Oh well. I pray you don't jam them (racists).

Softapplez:
You don't have to walk away from the relationship.
Life has gotten past the stage where we all have to care about what people thinks in our relationship.

For the fact that the both of you love each other very much and she understands you and you understand her is enough.

That bullshiit i hear people saying about how relationships won't work if the family of your spouse don't like you, does not work at all.

That's all nonsense ideology by people that can't make decisions on their own.

You owe her family no apology for loving their daughter.

This is even a motivation to love her the more, don't ever leave her.

You should be thinking of getting her pregnant, putting a ring on her finger.

You should be planning on what names you will give to your first child. Lol

If i ever love a lady to wife her.

To hell with anybody that says otherwise, be it my family or her family.

Act like a man, take challenge and charge of your relationship.

Let her see in you her Champion, let her idolize you and adores you.

BY the order of the Peaky blinders.

Thanks brother. Last year she went with her family to Japan for vacation I wanted joining them but I didn't just like the fact that I won't enjoy my stay there because of her mum and sister.

GoldCircle:
Are you marrying the family or you are marrying the girl? If you were in Africa, it would have been a different story. Please don’t walk away, dive in.

..unless you aren’t telling us the whole story or you don’t love the girl.

The whole story how? She and I have not issue. it's just her family hatred for blacks.

Lonemirage:
You shouldnt even think of walking away if you have even a little bit of affection for her

I have affection for her but not as she has for me. She is the type that hangs out a lot with family members. Go for dinner together. And I feel somehow when I am not in the picture.

Ab025:
Hmmmm

Looks like you have met the ''one"

Think about this.....would you be comfortable being married and never being in good terms with your in-laws?

When you answer that question.....then you should know your next step.

This is where the problem lies

Good day my Nairalander family. I hope you all are fine. Sorry to bother you all. There's something giving me sleepless nights lately.

Firstly, I vowed never to have anything to do with women after the setbacks I had in the past.
Somehow, I fell in the arms of a woman again. This time around a good woman.
She loves me more than I love her. She has being my backbone lately.
She really helped me a lot. She was always there for me when I was arrested. She is the first woman ever to spend money on me since I started dating.
She value everything I give her no matter how little it is. I bought her a wristwatch on her birthday and the wristwatch is less expensive compare to the wristwatch she use. But I was surprised she abandoned her expensive wristwatch and started wearing the one I bought for her.
This girl has done more than enough for me. When the pandemic was severe, I stayed in her apartment all through and she took care of feeding and all.
We plan getting married. But here is my concern.

Her family!
Her family hates blacks and they have no reason to like a black person.
I only visited her family twice and the way they welcomed me wasn't really good.
I once talked with her younger sister and asked her if she would marry a black man. She said never. That even if the black man is richer than Bill Gates she will not marry.
Her sister hardly reply my chats on Line App.
This my girl loves me but my problem is her family.

Friends I am very confused.
Note: The current work I am doing now I got it via this my girl. She is everything a man needs. She bought me a car last year.

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Righteousness89:
@ bolden.. My Guiding principles!

Let me add these

-Don't always follow the Multitude... Majority are not always right..

- Stand for the truth, irrespective of whose OX is gored

- I am Useless without GOD Almighty

- GOD ALMIGHTY is not Committed to where He didn't send you! Operate by Divine Leading/Direction

- be very careful with your Tongue! It could destroy and it could build you!

- Life is not by Struggle! It is a Gift From God! If God does not Give , you will not get! and if you go ahead to get it without Him, it ends in Tears and pains..

- Flee Fornication; Life will be much more Stressless..

- Listen to your wife, don't just bullshit wat she says! In every thing you call Nonsense, there is a sense!

- Strive to Please GOD ALMIGHTY First and your Conscience next! Every other person will fall where they belong

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Metrix147:
A Nigerian man has shockingly discovered a live python rolled around his motorcycle engine after a journey from Nnewi to Aguleri in Anambra State.

He expressed surprise that despite the long-distance journey, the dangerous snake could still survive the heat emissions from the engine.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1_uyG7PcFX8
The civil engineer who could not reveal his name in a viral video alleged that there are plans to kill him mysteriously, adding that there are people who do not want him to complete a construction contract he is carrying out.

Source: https://abntv.ng/2020/06/shocking-man-discovers-mysterious-live-snake-in-motorcycle-engine-in-anambra-photosvideo/

Fake rubber snake

It only reset Africans brains. Esp their politicians.

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Righteousness89:
Outside JESUS Christ! I am empty and dead!

I have no life outside my MASTER

I am sooo happy bro!

So happy!

It's the Joy of Salvation that makes be here for you!

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Missyajoke:
Your relationship with Christ matters forget about religion and focus on Christ. The Bible says'' Look unto God the author and the Finisher of our Faith.

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Righteousness89:
Leave Religion bro but embrace a relationship with JESUS CHRIST! That's what matters!

JESUS CHRIST is all you need in this life and in eternity!

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