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Most career women remain in abusive relationships because they are told their success is incomplete without a husband. "Your husband is your crown" is a popular saying in our society.

If she reports her abusive husband to her family, she is warned never to bring shame to the family by leaving her husband's house.

If she reports to a spiritual head, she is told to control her mouth, don't talk when your husband is talking, don't let the devil destroy your marriage, watch war room and pray for him, the holy spirit will change him. So she stay's and continues to suffer till she dies or gets beaten to death.

It takes a very courageous woman to leave an abusive marriage in a society like ours, where women are shamed for being unmarried seperated or divorced.

'Okey' does not mean 'rat born on a market day' it is the short form of 'Okechukwuyerem' which means 'God's share to me'

OP, do you really believe yourself?

Joavid:
Dey there and be doing billings method.

Your mates in Catholic church are on reliable birth control methods from the clinic.

Abi Catholic church will come and take care of your growing family when your billings method fail.

She will send them the billings of her growing family

TueMack:
Hi guys, I was banned by the anti-spam box yesterday after pasting the message I got from Zemandi. The highpoint of it all is that you should continue writing as there is no problem with the website. And for those asking for eval assignments, proof-read your sentences very well before sending the mails, and make sure you send your emails ONLY during their business hours. If you observe these rules, you will definitely get your eval assignment.


Sammyscholar and Greatbeard, I hope you guys have got your eval assignments. I included your Zemandi usernames in my email to Support yesterday, so you must have gotten now.

Thanks, I have finally gotten my eval assignment, though it's a bit technical but I intend to give it my best shot.

TueMack:
9am was 4am EST which wasn't part of their business hours. And 1pm was exactly 8am EST when they ought to be resuming. They actually should have responded to you. Would you be able to send it now or at night? You may follow the United States working hours (especially California), if you are not familiar with EST. Just know that bombarding them with emails for an eval assignment is never a problem. They understand that you are not familiar with their business hours and you really need the eval assignment before you can start anything.

I can't thank you enough, I will resend the mail again at night once again thank you.

TueMack:
If it was sent during their business hours, it should not take more than two to three hours. Their business hours are EST 8am to 8pm. At what time did you send it today?

I sent the first email by 9am and the reminder by 1pm. Thanks for taking your time to reply.

TueMack:
Go to your profile and click "edit" at the top where your earnings are recorded.

Thanks, I have fixed the email address issue. I requested for an eval assignment but I'm yet to get a response from them, I have even sent them a reminder, still no response.


How long does it take them to send the eval assignment?

Is it possible to change my email address on the website?

delishpot:
Do you know OP s financial setting? Do you know her life at home? Do you know if she has help and support? She clearly stated her mom is not in position to help, so she cant count on any one. If you have had a child you will know how important it is to have someone help at the home frobt be it a family member or paid help. She can not get any of those, she is prolly managing her own corner. Have you raised a child before? Its not as easy as you put it. Okay for a start, even you can volunteer to care for the baby. Since it is easy and God would also not want you to turn your back on this child and let it be taken to and orphanage.

Don't mind most people with their holier than thou attitude, They think taking care of a child is easy without physical and financial help.

Don't test God you will have yourself to blame. Mind you, love alone is not enough reason to get married.

Don't come to nairaland lamenting about your husband's nonchalant attitude towards you and your child(ren) after marriage. At the end of the day it will be your problem not his.

Use your head.

It is not your sister's responsibility to take care of you, even if she is a director in shell. Fend for yourself and forget about your siblings and their money, they owe you nothing.

If she doesn't give your parents anything for their upkeep leave her to her conscience.

He has suddenly disappeared like they all do