Ohizman73:
Well this issue is very very unfortunate ,am devastated by the antics of your husband.But the question i always ask when this kind of cases come. Did you not date yourselves to note that he is an unrepentant cheat and serial womanizer.Definately some red flags would have come noticed,and i wonder why you still decided to marry him.You claim you love each other am sure you are referring to sexual love. Because if he loves you he would at least respect your newly marital union.For him to stoop so low to be ,befriending a gal in the area,then now going out on a date with his ex then married for that matter haba on new year eve for that matter.Am more confused than you are. the plain truth you are joined with an anything in skirt man. who can stoop so low to sleep with your housemaid when babies start coming or you junior sister. You should be prepared for more worse heartbreaks than what you are seeing. you made the worst choice by marrying him.What has his family got to say ,that matters alot. but if the family are wealthy and also have such erant behaviours then they can be of little help.You have to relate this findings to your own family who have to set some possible on him. your union is still too young for this kind of ugly scenerio,so yourself.You just have redefine your union with him and walk away. Hes risking your life and his ,hmmmm what if his ex husband finds out that your husband is dating his wife,what if he gets her pregnant. And she now puts his child on her husband. and the husband gets to find out.You have to salvage the situation before it is to late,before babies start coming and you are trapped in such union. you made a point that you should reason tactically "Note he will always beg and even cry when caught red handed. But will still do it again". The ball is in your court.

thanks so much for the contribution I am thinking of involving my parents now because they are not in the know. Thanks am so down now

Please this is for married people only.
Just got weded less than a year, hubby and I love each other but the problem now is he is always chatting or calling different ladies, just found out two months ago he is dating a lady in the neighborhood , he ended the relationship when I found out and this new year Eve he went out with his ex who I have asked him to block on chat or call. Note he will always beg and even cry when caught red handed. But will still do it again I have reported to his family before, but this going on a date with a married ex on new year Eve just off me o don't know what to do again. I have tried all what I know please help

xxxtedyxxx:
Foolish question

then answer wisely with reasons

emorse:

Abomination!!!!

why is it an abomination

Straight to the point Is it right for a married man to keep contacting an ex through calls and chat that is also married..