Hmm,
Sorry but no one forced you too.

I rather sit home all day, watch television, eat and drink my self to stupor, then lay cuddling my pillow on my bed than to be insulted unneccessary from some one.

A friend of mine met some guy online and was chatting with him she thought he was cool and all that and decided to meet the guy in person. He was nice enough suggest travelling to her state or to see her but still ended up convincing her to journey to come see him because of his job, " he deserves credit there though, most guys will to chill than taking d risk of journeying to meet a girl"
He took her to a hotel and took her around town and met few friends. Night came, he took her back to the hotel and they bid farewell. They started chatting talking about random stuffs, then the chat became uncomfortable for her, she was trying not get the guy upset for security reasons but he just kept pushing. She couldnt stand him anymore, and had to put him in his place. With anger, she put off her phone and went to bed.
The next morning she packed her bags and was set to leave for her home base, she tried contacting he guy but to no avail, he number was switched off, he was no longer on her facebook or bbm contact. It was all good for her cause he didnt get to sleep with her or anything worse happening to her. She got downstairs to make an exit when the receiptionist drew her attention,asking her if she was checking out and she confirmed yes only for her to be told the bills where not paid for. Since he was nowhere to be found she decided to pay off the bill to avoid embarassement . With fury she left the hotel and went to the nearest bus park to make her trip back to her home. When she got to the counter to pay for her bus ticket she was short of #500, she pleaded with lady to just help her, the lady was to adamant and was busy claiming her boss will fire her. A young teeneger who was boarding the same vehicle gave her #1000 to complete her transport and use the remaining to feed.
She regretted the trip and it took her a while to forget the whole experience. Two months later, she got a call, she was relunctant to pick at first then later she did, lo and behold it was her online friend, he called to apologise and to make up for his act.
Whether he is genuine or not, he doesnt and he didnt get a second chance, i mean c'mon, first impression matters alot in terms of friendship,relationship,business or otherwise, if a human you are just meeting for the first time can go through all this stress and embarassament how much more when they become close, that means she has to be an extremely patient person to be tolerating all sort of things.
Bottom line is, not all strangers are meant to be a friend, some are foes, some unfriendly friends. Be careful of who you meet, give your attention to, no one prays for a bad experience but its good to be cautious.

Lovely

thankyouJesus:
I have no contributions to make here (your moniker says it all- miss pee collection).
Hint: Change the thread tittle to have "some".

Thank you for your kind suggestion.

fijiano202:
cos of power struggle......2 captains cant mount 1 ship.....

You can always tell her she's your co-captain

remsonik:
Because of their overbloated ego. Most guys will claim they want a girl who can hold on her own yet when the girl starts to advance in her career they start getting fidgety.
Most naija guys underneath their ego have a very bad self esteem and they always feel threatened.

True...well said

Please drop your comments

This is just an innocent girl look

Awww
She's adorable

Couples tend to fall out of love because of various reasons,but the most common are Lies, Secret and Ambition.
Lies can't always hide out forever,truth will always surface,it just takes time to unfold,be honest takes nothing from you,it only help you to be a genuine person.
Secrets is the worst of all,the fact is there is no need hiding skeletons in the cupboard,because some one will open that cupboard,what ever wrong/bad or evil you did tell it to you partner, if he/she loves you enough they will stand by you.
Ambition is other key destroyer of relationships,don't get me wrong there is nothing absolutely wrong with being ambitious, but too much of everything is bad,when all you think about is money,career and empowerment,and your partner lacks love and care then that is wrong.
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We all know these saying. "The way you dress is how people will address you"
Honestly it's true,people are often misjudged because of their outfit which is very wrong. The fact is ladies wants to keep up with trend,wearing the latest fashion not minding the occasion or event they are attending. Every clothes have its own occasion,please try and remember that,and your dressing should speak well of you,you don't need the most expensive clothes to look classy,the right combination and style will do you good.

Experience has taught most ladies lessons, if she's refusing to introduce you to her friends do t panic,she will in due time.

All I can say is
If you have the money and the heart to support her then do,nobody should dictate for you how to run your relationship,after all if you can't take care of her in your own little way then some one else will.

vizkiz:


so you had to create a new account to quote me

What ever you think...you don't go saying what you don't know or prove,and don't talk about peoples parent like that

vizkiz:
Pay it na...sheyb her father is dead and she has no relatives...pay her school fess demmit!

My God deliver you from such rubbish