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Family / Re: A Cry For Help. by MissRike(f): 7:09am On Apr 16, 2019
weak45:
good evening everyone,i tried registering in one of the crowd funding site. i await positive outcome even though it seems a little far fetched as my hope is already faltering since i got the list of drugs for the chemo.

i seriously need a helping hand as i cant do this all alone.


Hello bro, the Lord is your strength. It will soon become a story, just keep hope alive. May God replenish all that has been lost.

Please, get the total cost of the drugs prescribed in that sheet and let's know how to start something from there. It is well.
Family / Re: Spouse Insensitivity by MissRike(f): 2:48pm On Apr 09, 2019
SteveOfu:
I saw you viewing a thread, hence my question.

Oh ok........ I've been a member of the old thread a long time ago.

To your question, I'm not married yet.
Family / Re: Spouse Insensitivity by MissRike(f): 2:33pm On Apr 09, 2019
SteveOfu:
are you married?

If I may ask, why?
Politics / Re: Niger State To Renovate Government House With N3.2bn by MissRike(f): 9:41am On Mar 23, 2019
Edzy=76896704:

can you imagine! when the last administration has spent millions to give the govt a face lift.
when majority of those living in the state capital can not burst of portable drinking water. wetin dey worry this people now? .it's painful I swear!

......boast of potable water.....

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Romance / Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by MissRike(f): 9:17am On Mar 12, 2019
Toks2008:



I think this thread is already derailed by guys who don't understand the foreign lifestyle.

There is no biggy in doing house chores cos they are kinda stress-less. The hover,washing machine,regular power supply that keeps your food fresh and so on.

I can make a month's food in 4hours and all i do is microwave anyone i want to eat without stressing my wife to prepare any food..in fact i love cooking to the extent that she begs me to cook.

the washing machine does the laundry and with a hover you can keep your floors clean and toilets can be washed by either of you whenever necessary.

This wife slavery mindset no dey abroad and any guy who wants a good marriage must start by getting active in domestic affairs and especially in taking care of the kids. Nothing stops you from waking up early to bathe the kids and take them to school if your wife is on night duty and both of you can plan your itinerary so that your kids are well taken care of.

Lastly, the only way you can have a better chance of good marriage is to bring in a lady you have known before you ever left naija otherwise you are almost certain to bring a bad lady pretending to love you.

That's very true, foreign lifestyle is very different from what actually plays out here in Nigeria, though if one is very much blessed and wants to live an easier life, you can do that (even without being a millionaire)....... freezer, vacuum cleaner, washing machine, dishwasher et al. However, there are still many men out there who can afford those things, but would still insist on their wives stressing themselves and not trying to be of help at all; if the woman is blessed enough to afford it, she can go ahead, since it'll make the work easier for her.

I like the fact that you said that with the presence of all these machines that make work easier, a man can still help in bathing and taking care of the kids if he's less busy and I'm truly in support of that, but the big question is that: Do most men out there know that?

@ Your last point about bringing in someone you've known in Nigeria, you're very right, but let's not forget the fact that changes take place in a lot of people to the extent that someone you've known very well for a decade before you left might have changed so much by the time you meet him or her again.

All in all, it's just the grace of God and wisdom that usually help when it comes to marriage.

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Romance / Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by MissRike(f): 7:53am On Mar 12, 2019
As people here in Nigeria are complaining, those abroad are also complaining about Nigerian women which I feel is not too right.

One thing I know quite well is that marriage is all about compromise and many people out there, I must say, are not ready for that. The man only wants a woman that would be keeping the house and warming his bed alone without him helping her at all on some occasions while the woman also needs a man that would be spoiling her and tolerating all her excesses (without trying to change) and not considering her man. That's where compromise and individuality play their roles.

How would a man say he just needs a wife that will be doing everything at home, like the household chores and cooking alone without helping her at all, just crossing his feet, demanding for everything from her even without resting after coming back from work . I think what he needs is actually a housemaid.

The truth is that couples were created by God to be help mates and not slaves, that's what strengthens the relationship more. Treat a woman like a queen and watch her treat you like a king. It's only a mad or crazy woman that will not reciprocate when treated well by her man and that's where personality comes in.


So OP and the other men on this thread, don't generalize. The kind of company you keep determines the kind of people you meet. Put God first, have a good mindset (that you need a help mate and not a housemaid) & move with the right people and watch how marriage turns out well for you. Peace!!!

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Politics / Re: 9-Year-Old Girl Caught With Two PVCs At Polling Unit In Nasarawa by MissRike(f): 9:10pm On Feb 23, 2019
Wonders shall never end.
Politics / Re: Zamfara APC Becomes Beneficiary Of Postponed Elections - Thisday Newspaper by MissRike(f): 8:00am On Feb 22, 2019
That was the major reason behind the postponement of the elections, take it or leave it.

Mission accomplished......... nonsense people!

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Politics / Re: Nigerians To Know Their President Latest Wednesday - INEC by MissRike(f): 7:09am On Feb 22, 2019
I hope so........ That's if INEC doesn't tell us another story on Wednesday morning. Dey sabi disappoint pass Amaka. cheesy

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Politics / Re: Beautiful Lady Crying Because She Didn't See PMB During Kano Visit (pics) by MissRike(f): 6:43pm On Feb 10, 2019
Las las, APC go dey alright by this time next week when PDP wins.

Be your brother's/sister's keeper oh, don't let those zombies drink sniper abeg.

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Celebrities / Re: Damola Olatunji Celebrates His Birthday, Shares Adorable Photos by MissRike(f): 4:43pm On Feb 02, 2019
Cute family......... Beautiful wife and lovely children. Happy birthday to Damola.

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Car Talk / Re: What To Check Before And After Driving Your Car by MissRike(f): 8:43pm On Jan 05, 2019
Hahahahaha grin grin......... On top say person dey comot, make person dey check all these things cry. Na wa ooo
Family / Re: Asia Mekole, Lady Born With Facial Deformity Welcomes Baby by MissRike(f): 12:50pm On Jan 03, 2019
What an adorable baby! Irrespective of the mother's deformity, the baby is still looking very beautiful. That's what we Yorubas call "ninu ikoko dudu ni eko funfun ti n jade". I love children a lot, especially newborns.


God is indeed very faithful. May the child grow in wisdom and in stature.

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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Liverpool Vs Arsenal (5 - 1) On 29th December 2018 by MissRike(f): 8:11pm On Dec 29, 2018
Arsenal shocked, beht why . The best thing is just to go and sleep.


Well, gunners for life!

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Politics / Re: Toyin Saraki Poses With Her 3 Sons by MissRike(f): 10:41am On Dec 29, 2018
All these bloggers! They'll never read well before posting shit on their blogs........ She stated clearly that she's a proud aunt, to those guys obviously. Moreover, I know she has a set of twins which are ladies and another one (female), who is likely older than the twins, got married last year. You can correct me if I'm wrong though.

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Celebrities / Re: Tobi Bakre Celebrates His Mother's Birthday (Photos) by MissRike(f): 8:20pm On Dec 19, 2018
Rumicarter:


Abegggi! Can't you see his mom holding a handset?

Don't mind that young chap...... Even the drinks they put on the table na "Lulu" and that company reigned in early 2000s until they folded up.

No be only 34 years, na 43 years......... Mtcheeewwww

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