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@amaraedec
You are a rookie. Only a rookie will fall "helplessly" in love with a girl and give her everything she asks or requests for. You became desperate
When you give a lady all she requests for without noticing corresponding loyalty from her, her interest in you will naturally wane.

As a guy, you have to learn the art of making a lady yearn for you. Becoming too available by always being there at a beck and call will make her lose interest. You should have maintained a balance. You became a conquered territory. It's only natural for her to lose interest.

Now my advice...
Maintain a distance from her for a while till you regain control of your emotions. It's for your own good. It might be for weeks or even months. Stay away till you take charge of your emotions. I understand you love her. But extremities are not good. You almost killed yourself because you became hopelessly and helplessly attached to her. It's very important as a man to think with both your head and heart in matters of love. For now, you think only with your heart. Your brain is currently in the cooler. Once you regain emotional control, you will think clearly and make the right decisions for your future, whether to stay or not.
Of course, I know what I am asking you to do is hard. You will most likely take the easy way out - flowing with your current emotional attachments to her. But you will only subject yourself to more hurt in the future.

In the meantime, relate with other ladies to spread the emotions. Occupy yourself with other activities you love. Spend time with friends and family too. That will take your mind off the pain gradually.

MrObontami:
M.ixty why are you crying now

I wouldn't have responded to your rants if you didn't go running for help.
Bros, your style is too predictable. A little tension and you quickly run to your Master and mentor akthe.dream to try in vain to bail you out. Must you always quote him all the time? Did I refer to him in any way?
That nigga is fasting. Inspite of that, you still want to co-opt him in your desperate and poor attempt to face me.
Lol... *Cleaning my feet off your mess*

obontami:
Of coz I'm good
But I ve been banned in my favorite section
Can't comment there, I'm so angry right now

Why won't you get banned on your favourite sexuality section when you keep stalking me all around?
I hope you have learnt your lesson the hard way. Next time, you won't dare stalk me around like a wimp. You may be placed on everlasting ban if you do so.
Go get a life and stop stalking me and small girls here.

Don't bother quoting me. I am done with you.

Cheers bro....no beef!

Benikuuse:
Those who are insulting the government for this are very stupid. What will the federal government do when the illiterate unconscious delta boys are bombing pipelines and putting the country's economy to a stop

Rubbish. And who is the chief security officer of the country? Who is responsible to protect lives and properties?
When BH boys were killing people mercilessly, we all heaped the blame on GEJ. Now Niger Delta boys are blowing up oil pipelines non-stop while the govt appears clueless to stop it, you refuse to blame Buhari. Let's stop being hypocritical here. Apply the same judgement for both govts.

sexstoriexpost:
Mr Seun should please make this whole pm ish very easy by creating a straight forward inbox right here on nairaland, instead of going back to our email accounts, which is very cumbersome.

Agreed. Eventhough I hardly use the PM feature, I think it is a great idea to make it fully independent of one's email just like facebook messages.

Seun, start thinking in that line.

Good decision by FG. I have always despised that concept of post UTME. Why have JAMB as a National exam body if institutions will still go ahead and conduct their exams?
The post UTME is just a money making venture for the schools.