ledafaze:

You need a cleaner mind... Ask for His blood to wash your thots... Its not a sin to have this kinda in.cest thot thingy but whenever it comes to ya mind, push it out forcefully...

i am a Christian.. its just a random post not a big deal

Princess zoe: WHAT I DON'T UNDERSTAND IS THE WRAPPING OF ARMS AND COILING OF HANDS AROUND BODIES WHILE SLEEPING ON THE SAME BED. HOW CAN YOU WRAP YOUR SISTER WHILE SLEEPING ON THE SAME BED? PLEASE ANY FAMILY WERE THE MALE WRAPS ARM WITH THE SISTER ON TOP OF BED THE PARENTS SHOULD BE MORE CAREFUL. IS LIKE SEEING YOUR FIANCÉE WRAPPED INTO THE ARM OF HER BROTHER WHILE SLEEPING TOGETHER ON THE BED. HMMM MAY DEVIL NOT SEE OUR CHILDREN AND MAY WE BE SMARTER THAN THE DEVIL.

Yes, that was my point. I would never feel comfortable for my brother to wrap his arms around me or coil his arms around my body, I don't even feel comfortable for my brothers to hug me or kiss my cheek I usually push them away, maybe i'm stubborn but for me that's just normal lol

RedBenson: What are u talking about? What abt most families in naija that family of 7 (boys and girls) sleep in one room or share two rooms? Dont they sleep together. If i travel to my sis. place, we normally sleep on one bed and
nothing whatever u may think comes to our mind. The world has indeed turned to sumtin else. Is it now a taboo for one brother to lie down in the same room or bed with his sister? Where are our senses of morality?

I just wanted to know opinions about it because some parts of the world it may be and some it may be normal, I wasn't pointing out to Nigerians in particular, was just asking. You take things too seriously. Like part of my family, they do not allow boys and girls to sleep in the same bed together, and my mothers family feels that it is fine as long as it is family. But never in my life would I feel comfortable for my brother to coil his arms around me as we sleep together it would feel awkward

I just want to know is it normal for a Nigerian man to sleep in the same room as his sister,not only sleep in the same room but to coil his hands around her body while they sleep....
I ask because in AA families girls and boys are usually forbidden to sleep in the same room together.. and wrapping ur arms around each other is even more odd.. i couldn't picture sleeping wity my brother and his arms wrapped around me.. maybe that's just me

ok everyone is it bad for the woman/man to simply say no not today.. I do know many men do have sex with other women when their partner denies them sex and vice versa... i think both partners should respect each others opinions about not havin sex or havin sex.. if someone doesn't want to that day, they should not be forced to because that then turns to rape.. just because ur married doesn't mean it's ok to just climb on top of someone and force sex on them when they are not willing

carzola: Lets get married so i could wisper the ans in ur ear while i strok u softly from behind.

lmaoo wow

IJI777: pls, i want to ask. is the tot of sex scaring u away fom marriage

lol no.. its just that some married people think so and some don't

Ok, I want to know the opinions about the following:
Just because a couple is married should a woman please her husbands needs whenever he feels like she should also, should it be alright for the husband to force his wife to pleasure him if she refuses...

(I'm not married I'm happily single just want to know the worlds opinions)

raydatluvs: .I tink u are insecure and have a not so gud self-esteem

I do have my insecurities yes...

lumideezle: Choi!! See fine gal o, Y are u finding it so hard 2 accept that a man has fallen head over heels in love with u?? U are beautiful dear seriously and fresh!! And No u are not fat, some people with your figure are celebrities here eg Tools( google her)
Moving forward I'll advice u accept his love, if u feel the same.
Abeg if u have a sis hook me up lol and NO I do not need your money(I have a very very good paying job) or green card
Thanks.

hahahah.. omg do u think all Americans are rich lol im not rich... and no i feel we are just friends honestly i don't know his true feelings how do u love someone u know nothing about plus never met..lmaooo i do have a sis but she's young lol

adconline:

U got what u wanted!

hahah rude!!!!

Afro connect:
WTF,you should be happy a fine young man finds you attractive-can you Bleep your money?
whats so special about America anyways,where serial killers and pedophiles thrive.

I, myself dont like how people in America are but i live in the south... ever heard of southern hospitality..? I do have a friend from Ghana who schools here and he says the people in Africa are more caring then America... there are people who kill their children kill other people.. umm dont they have that everywhere..?? in my state and town, there is not much violence u can sleep with ur door unlocked walk at night if u wish even children can play at night and be safe really it just depends where in America u go

tony ayo:
U are P.H.A.T baby. Pretty.Hot.And.Thick.

thanks much

adconline:

Yes, they are all mean and scammers because MEN Killed JESUS. Next Please!

umm honestly u didn't have to comment just to sayy next

Davidoff2000: You are thick and sexy...we love women like u. we like big things. Personally, I will fall in love too

lol thanks

hensben: in nigeria people like you are called fat girl but I think the guy love d way u are that's y he use the word on you cos nigerian guys luv bogus babe like you mostly as wife to be we really appreciate your type more than slim girls

hmmm really so there it's a compliment. ? i appreciate that guys there love my type but i don't know it hurts for me to be called that.. long story

kreami diva: Mizz,i think u're good just the way u are.i think u've got swag too.pls don't let any man make u feel less than u are. U'l hopefully find someone who would love u just the way u are.u certainly are big,bold and beautiful.

thx

tony ayo:
Better

Fat Much huh,,? lol

tony ayo:
Size 16? Use a popular figure for e.g?

I'll put a picture of myself cause on my profile it's just my face

@Tony.. is being called fat a compliment there or what. cause here its not at all

SAFO: I think u already know the answer to the question you're asking. No man with good intentions will profess their love sight unseen like in your circumstance. The dude your dealing with sounds shady than a mofo.

yea i think i got it now.. just wondering though I'm not from Africa so don't really know how the guys are lol

tony ayo:
Calling u 'fat', is it not part of the compliments/flattering, how come u are seing it as being 'mean'?

because just because a guy is in a bad mood with someone else doesn't mean he has to tell me oh by the way ur fat if u sat on me u would break my legs literally... that is rude.. i don't see a size 16 as fat (American size) i don't know if it's the same as there

Hunnydropps: @mizz how do you feel about what's going on? Have you told him your thoughts about assuming bf/gf status, etc? Communication in any r'ship is key. Ask him, tell him how you feel and gauge his reactions/responses. The truth of a person always shines thru if your keen to see it and once some1 shows you who they really are...BELIEVE IT try to avoid only seeing what you want or hope to see.

i do tell him heyy we're just friends and his response is always no one day u will be my wife ect ect. yess he's extremely attractive but i know from experience that looks only go so far and thanks for that

kemismartty: when a guy starts telling you about marriage before ever setting eyes on you, you need to watch it! its a scammers technique...they have a way of making you feel good about yourself and gradually building your trust so as to get you to either send some money down or whatever....

they are the lazy type that just want the easy way out...and there are many of them right now! please be very careful...if he needs african american lady let him travel to obodo oyinbo and get one. there are many ladies here to match his taste but since they know our ladies knows their tricks they tend to use it on you over there

Thanks.. we are not together just friends because i have my own insecurities about someone instantly falling in love with me.. I'm not crazy to send money to any man he works so he should have money lol.. and i don't know if he's a scammer or what i know he wants to become a soldier in 9ja n marry me and for me to live there and really i can go on and on.. which to me is weird because we're just friends never met him never even been to Africa not once

Enegod: he told you the truth..he is an honest man..not mean

hahah but i am not fat!!!

tony ayo: @poster. Then what abrupt his rudely behaviour that makes him to start calling u 'FAT'?

First he started saying oh u have nice curves and i love a thick woman... which i do have a somewhat slim waist, hips, thighs, whatever else.... it went from that to ur fat lol

lovelydoll: nigerian men tend to be a little too aggressive.

Aggressive like how?

Godson201333: You met the wrong guy..

hmmm maybe so, he told me that people there see it as nothing when one is called fat... but in the US it's seen as being rude lol is that true.? and once again he's not my guy lol

kreami diva: Mean as in mean? Well in every rule there are exceptions.its not a general fact.its relative.i've met some really mean men here in 9ja and some really really nyc ones too.then don't forget that we often times bring out the devil or angel in people.so check out your man and know whatnstuff he's made of.time will tell....

He is not my man lol... he claims he is which he claimed that himself but we are just friends or network friends whatever u may call it.. I have also met nice Africans, it's interesting to know about Africa which they seem to have a lot to talk about

tony ayo:
No, nigerians are not always mean or scammers, it is like saying that all french are po.rn stars. Maybe u met the wrong guy. In my country nigeria, u know some guys joined social network for business and to meet people while some joined to scam or take advantages of people they met, maybe the guy u met might notice that u are not positively responding to his tricks, that might be the reason why he suddenly became mean, the answer to ur question is: u met the wrong guy. I'm Tony from Nigeria, i so love African-American and u are welcome to nairaland.

hmmmm its just the thought because I seen these quotes on here that Nigerian men marry women in the US to become citizens here and whatever else... Me and the guy are not even together and yess he talks about marriage and having children (almost all of the majority of the African men that do find me on facebook ask me these questions and to me it is somewhat weird, like why not be friends first) and he even told me that if we ever have children that I'll fly back to the states and give birth to them there so they can be citizens..... but since I am from the states no matter where I give birth my children will automatically be US citizens... once again I never came up with these things he asked out of no where.. just wondering

thx every time I get these compliments, I always think about the scams and what not because to myself I am not that beautiful lol.. I do not get compliments from African American guys at all so it shocks me that African guys seem to be interested hahaha

Usually I attract Africans on Facebook and they all seem so sweet. I met this Nigerian guy and omggg he is extremely attractive + sweet extremely sweet. But i notice a change in him and he started to call me fat and being an African American yess it gets to me... Also i wanted to know if they are all scammers and do they really love us African American women as they claim?