Ok, I want to know the opinions about the following:
Just because a couple is married should a woman please her husbands needs whenever he feels like she should also, should it be alright for the husband to force his wife to pleasure him if she refuses...

(I'm not married I'm happily single just want to know the worlds opinions)

Lets get married so i could wisper the ans in ur ear while i strok u softly from behind.

pls, i want to ask. is the tot of sex scaring u away fom marriage[quote
author=mizzkizzes08]Ok, I want to know the opinions about the
following:
Just because a couple is married should a woman please her husbands
needs whenever he feels like she should also, should it be alright for
the husband to force his wife to pleasure him if she refuses...

(I'm not married I'm happily single just want to know the worlds
opinions)[/quote]

Am not married, but one thing i do know is that the top 2 causes of breakdown in marriages are sex and finance.
i don't think a man or woman should deny his/her other half of sex.

Some might argue that what if you don't feel like it? don't forget that we all have different levels of sex drive,
imagine what would happen if a man of high sex drive marries one of low sex drive or vice versa, i just think it is a quick way of driving the other to another arm.

If you are tired or don't feel like it, just allow the other partner do the work or you form ' I am aSLEEP ' ( you could get caught out)

Sex isn't everything and doesn't fix nothing.

peclint: Am not married, but one thing i do know is that the top 2 causes of breakdown in marriages are sex and finance.
i don't think a man or woman should deny his/her other half of sex.

Some might argue that what if you don't feel like it? don't forget that we all have different levels of sex drive,
imagine what would happen if a man of high sex drive marries one of low sex drive or vice versa, i just think it is a quick way of driving the other to another arm.

If you are tired or don't feel like it, just allow the other partner do the work or you form ' I am aSLEEP ' ( you could get caught out)

That is why people with low sex drives should avoid people with high sex drives at all cost.

@op I am a man and I donot think it is ok for a woman to always give in to her man's desires not even in marriage. She should make compromises sometimes though. The woman also should know that it will be very selfish of her to only want to have it at her time. BTW, let's us reverse the question. Should a man deny his wife any time she wants it? Believe it or not, we have women with stronger s...ex drive than some men.

As for the second question, it is absolutely wrong for a man to force his wife to have se...x with him. Such men misrepresent us and give us a bad name.

I'm not good in qouting but am sure this question has a place in the Holy book

clemz85: I'm not good in qouting but am sure this question has a place in the Holy book

you are right, it's in the book of corinthians. There, The bible clearly states that sex is one of the reasons to get married. To me, i feel dat for no reason should my woman deny me sex cos to me dat's d no1reason am getting married, weirdo??

I noticed something in me and I goggled it, doctor health said if it's not STD, then I simply have a very high sexual appetite which is true, noting this, it'll be wickedness on my own part to marry a lady with low libido. Op, if you get married to someone dat understands u and ur body system, this wouldn't be a problem. ALL IT TAKES IS UNDERSTANDING, but just incase ur spouse dont understand, simply give in just to avoid shouting infidelity..

Well,i think it all depends on the peeps in d marriage.i know dat some men feel slighted when denied and i also know that tension may arise due to that.i know of a fact that good sexual relations between a man and a woman strengthens their love.ft

IJI777: pls, i want to ask. is the tot of sex scaring u away fom marriage

lol no.. its just that some married people think so and some don't

carzola: Lets get married so i could wisper the ans in ur ear while i strok u softly from behind.

lmaoo wow

ok everyone is it bad for the woman/man to simply say no not today.. I do know many men do have sex with other women when their partner denies them sex and vice versa... i think both partners should respect each others opinions about not havin sex or havin sex.. if someone doesn't want to that day, they should not be forced to because that then turns to rape.. just because ur married doesn't mean it's ok to just climb on top of someone and force sex on them when they are not willing

Mrs.Chima:
Sex isn't everything and doesn't fix nothing.

Is the statement in red a typo? Because all I can see from that sentence is a contradiction.


@Topic: Force? That one no sound right at all, but I think couples shouldn't allow themselves get to that level na.

Personally I no go allow my wifey and I to degenerate to the level wey we go dey disagree when konji matters arise.
We gatz plan everything na from the start e.g what dayz of the week? How many timez per week? so that confusion no go arise, and of course there will be some flexibility to the arrangement too.

Force = Rape, whether its from the man or the woman( ). daz all

Nigerians just aren't freaky enough when it comes to sexy....

Everything is scandalous to you guys........very boring people

Ekwah, my suga potatoe, how far na?

Mrs.Chima:
Sex isn't everything and doesn't fix nothing.

Ewuuuuuu it fixes a stressful day.

Sex during finals and midterm na the ish.....thank you.

Texas.Cowgirl:
Ekwah, my suga potatoe, how far na?

lol I dey fine o. How ya side jor!!

ekwah:

lol I dey fine o. How ya side jor!!

Classified info. Hope you and shola don tie the knot. My baby girl must marry rich o

Texas.Cowgirl:


Classified info. Hope you and shola don tie the knot. My baby girl must marry rich o

lol, we go cross that bridge when the time comez. Shola na correct pesin sha.

ekwah:

lol, we go cross that bridge when the time comez. Shola na correct pesin sha.

No lose my invitation for post office o.

mizzkizzes08: ok everyone is it bad for the woman/man to simply say no not today.. I do know many men do have sex with other women when their partner denies them sex and vice versa... i think both partners should respect each others opinions about not havin sex or havin sex.. if someone doesn't want to that day, they should not be forced to because that then turns to r-ape.. just because ur married doesn't mean it's ok to just climb on top of someone and force sex on them when they are not willing

And rape is rape, married or not.