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tchidi066:
Sorry op, i guess you are yet to heal from your mom's demise and you are finding it tough to let her go. When you finally do, i suggest you improve on your social interaction with people. I see you as someone who isolate and keep to himself often, it's not helping you mentally, you need to interact more, make new friends, get a partner, attend outings if invited... according to ur post, u were once bright, why not get a side hustle or skill to support your salary, there are so many out there, plumbering, learning to place tiles, or even web and graphic designing. You can't remain a security guard forever, apply for other jobs too. Finally believe in God for upliftment, believe your situation will surely turn out good someday. Wish you all the best

Yes, I always isolate myself and i feels im not good enough to have a partner now coz of the nature of my job

santakris:
Please see a psychologist. God will perfect everything concerning you. Amen.

Thanks

bremo:
You seem not to appreciate the fact that God has been so gracious to you. Where you are right now coupled with what you are doing right now, some people want to have but they couldn't. Don't be hard on yourself as you are doing right now. Yes, you may not be where you want to be right now but there is still hope for you. Stop counting yourself hopeless!!! Its just a matter of you getting yourself together and keep moving with your new plans. Anything out of this will get you wounded the more or totally destroyed.
Wish you all of your best.

Thank you Sir

I don't know how to start writing this and I'm even confused on what to write but i know deep down within me that something is wrong with my mental

I'm 27, and i am not focused about life, I tried to be focus but i keep blaming myself for how i have failed myself.
I don't really know what i want, I'm neither here nor there.

I remember when i was in Secondary School, i was one of the bright kid in my class, all through my primary education, my grades were very good. I had said to myself that i will be a graduate before I become 25, but my dreams were shattered what happened to me still remain a misery .

In 2014, I lost mum. I was heartbroken coz she seems to be the only one that knows what was really wrong with me, when she was alive she never let me off her sight.

After her death, I was really broken coz know one to run to for any assistant. So i started working as a security guard in a company, 20k as salary.
I was trying to save some money so i can learn a skill but something happened, but i really don't know what happened

In 2016, a cousin of mine called and told me to quit the job, that he have a better plan for me. I didn't think twice, so i quite and move to the State where he was, the action i later regret.

When i got there it was not what i had expected, I was used, as a slave I don't know

I stayed there for close 3yrs, with nothing to show for it, each night i weep and i later realize that I'm not okay coz sometimes the kind of thought i had seems not to be my own.

About 7months ago, i moved back here to the State i was before, when i got here, I went back to the company i was working as a security guard, they accepted me back because they said i had a clean record when i was working with them.

Now in October, they transferred me to a private resident, to be working as a guard/gateman

I shouldn't have been here, my life is a failure. I'm trying so hard to control the state of mind coz it seems that im about to run mad.

Please how can i get back my mental power?

The way my thoughts are hunting me, i might not cross over to 2020

I'm stuck

Help me Oh Lord

How wish i know how to play

wiconse:
What happened to them

Nothing

Liverpool,

Tolu121:
qsk your dad

Please help me ask your dad

Hello Everyone, I'm new to Betting.

Have been hearing the name Alabi, who's he

Is he a Nigerian?

Please i need answers before i join the betting business. Thanks

Oh lawd

You're right wizzy... Presido wey like flexing

It's obvious that your Landlord is a crook

jeesprecy:
Mine soon come..
I will marry the love of my life and he'll love me back much more.. Amen..
All my pains right now will vanish and I will rejoice ever more.. Amen

Your true love shall locate you before the quarter of next year..

So shall it be.

2baba the Legend..

longsnake:
Nairaland dry today. Abi all of una go election?

Dem go Dubai too

Better food na..................... you know the rest

The youths here don't have this kind of minds, all they know is to be trolling online

The ability to trust my partner

Been in Love is a beautiful thing..

It's hard to believe that true love exist, it's like when you don't believe that Ghost exist coz you haven't come across them.

Blackface is depressed, hope he won't commit suicide someday

Omo see free tapping of current

Getsaved:
I had to log in to nl because of you today - for seeking to know how to do things in truth. Let me help if I were in your shoes.
I will Seek for permission from my company for an engagement that I need to attend. When they ask for details. plead with them that it is more of a private and personal issue. You can also meet someone in your company that you tell this same thing so that he/she would be able to influence the person in charge (management) to permit you. Do not not tell them the direct thing that wants to engage you. There are many indirect way of saying something without telling a lie. Please note, if you are the type that has always been taking permission before for things that are not too serious, this may not work for you. But if you rarely take permission from work, then they will see reason with you. Do it wisely, politely, prayerfully and honourable. You will see they will grant you your request. Shallom!

Exactly.. Op i think you should go with this advice

Big Scam!

Hbd baby girl, more life

Quick recovery bro, it's not easy.